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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 1:25:32 PM | You know, the men on this site are ALOT more picky then you make yourselves out to be.
It's not only , as the OP has stated that women on this site are kidding themselves.
That is a definate two way street.
I don't want or expect "perfection" in anybody, what I do expect is someone that is good for me.
Yes, some people's expectations are waayy to high, and they will never see the good thing that may be placed in front of them, but that is their loss.
Just be patient, we will all have our time. (Hopefully) :)
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:06:17 PM | Jeeeeeezzz JOHN!! Im just look for a damned date!! Im not looking to profit off of it!! lol
WAIT.. on second thought.... are we tawkin white sand blue water and those cute lil drinks with the umbrellas??????
AND... does this require a bikini.. ( lord tell me it doesnt mean the bikini!!!)
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:26:24 PM | Why is it wrong to be picky? Personally I think its a good thing. There are things I want and everyone doesn't fit into them, just the way I'm not what some people are looking for. It doesn't make either of us too picky. I wouldn't want a woman to date me if I'm not really the kind of guy she is interested in. Isn't that just playing a game and misleading someone? Its what so many people complain about!!!!!
In order for someone to be good for you and for things to work you would have to be good for them too, right? It doesn't mean you need to be perfect but it does mean you possess most of qualities they are looking for. Just because they might be what you are looking for it doesn't mean you are what they are looking for. If you settle for less than what would make you happy then it wouldn't be fair to yourself or the other person. It would be a loss for both people and hurtful as well.
If finding the right person to be with was easy this site wouldn't have half the people who are here. I imagine a majority of the people here are divorced or have been in a LTR. Maybe we need to be more picky!!!!! | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:34:20 PM | "does this require a bikini.. ( lord tell me it doesnt mean the bikini!!!)"
Naw JJ, you don't have to wear a bikini, its a nude beach 
You might not be attracted to me but I think we sure would have a hell of a good time, 2 smartass people laying on a beach, drinking, being stupid on purpose and everyone passing by thinking we were insane | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:52:35 PM | | If you have lived to the age of 40, you either have some baggage or you've been living in a cave all your life. If you expect someone to not have any baggage/problems, you're kidding yourself! | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:04:38 PM | | The moment you start setting limitations for yourself and what you seek out of life is the moment you settle for less then true happiness. I like to beleive that many women out there know that it is better to stay single and keep looking then to settle for a guy that won't treat them as ideally as they deserve and will not love them as deeply and passoinately as they deserve. I support any woman who prefers a continued search then settling for a man who does not deserve her and more importantly, will not appreciate her for who she is and what she brings into his life. Sadly, too many women give up on true love and settle for less, and that is why so many people talk about love with bitterness and scorn. All it takes is one true romantic to give hope to others to hold onto what they truly want out of life, one person who has not given up on their own ideal future. All it took was one man to stand up proudly and say, "I have a dream..." His actions became reality. I beleive it is time for the rest of us to stand up and proclaim our dreams and push forward to make those dreams a reality as he did. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:44:51 PM |  Actually The Women of POF are being 100% TRUE UNTO THEMSELVES!!!
 THEY ONLY LIE TO EVERY MAN THEY MEET,REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR REAL INTENTIONS ARE... | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 6:42:42 PM | really,
i'm only speaking for me.BUT I THINK YOUR FULL OF **** . LET ME TELL YOU A LITTLE SOMETHING. I;VE BEEN HERE A VERY SHORT TIME. BUT I HAVE MEET,MOSTLY NICE REAL MEN.SORRY SOME NOT.BUT 90 PER CENT REAL SO I'M SORRY BUT I LIKE WHAT I SEE HERE.NOT ALL BUT MOST.
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 6:51:49 PM |
If you have lived to the age of 40, you either have some baggage or you've been living in a cave all your life.
Yes but it is a nice cave. I just had the carpets done also. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 7:03:15 PM | I try to be friends with every one I meet. Mr. RIGHT might be the one I did not care for at all at first. Mr. Wrong may be the one with a fake profile. I try to give every man a chance. I have also tried to fix all my baggage. No problems, that will hold me back when I find one I like. Or likes me...
But what do I know I could be wrong..........Dennis Miller | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 10:11:20 PM |
Why is it wrong to be picky? Personally I think its a good thing.
Absolutely nothing, John. In my opinion there is a difference between being picky as in wanting certain traits, characteristics or personality and those that have their sites just a little too unearthly.
The shiny armored knight on a white steed bringing flowers, spouting poetry while slaying a dragon with his big sword and climbing the tower to declare his undying love was intriguing , when I was 8!
At this point in my life, a good guy in a black truck wearing shorts with a clean shirt and holding my hand while we walk into the local Denny’s on a Sat. morning for breakfast is pretty darn awesome in my fairy tale. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 10:43:14 PM | why worry about that? they aren't going to find that on a dating site over internet anyway.
i mean the odds are not real good at least. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 10:58:26 PM | Yea,why settle, just keep up in the number of partners in bed thats all!Thats why you women get played because you are easy in every way!The question is what man will want to be with a women that has been screwed and chewed all up?Thats why a lot of men are going to other countries for women that actually have morals! But until then, I to have plenty of choices to pick from for my needs,obviously it is so easy!There is no use to get into a relationship with an American woman,and if you marry one best get a prenup she may just run off with your money and your best friend!All they have to do is watch desperate house wives and its all over,the next thing you hear is honey,you know that friend of yours?I am gonna go out with him,after all your friend is my friend to!Then the guy catches her cheating,with his best friend..That scenario in in divorce courts more then 75% among similar happenings.Then when the woman is actually ready to settle down, SHE whines,pisses and moans that there are no good men left!Well gee wonder why?Its a chain reaction,you play dude,then your friend plays dude,then dude says screw this,then dude plays like 50 women!Then they all cry running back to each other!Saying see,see we are right all men are the same!If that is not enough then chew on this!
Random DNA checks prove that 20% of men who think they are father are not.
This statistic is truly shocking.
There's a whole evolutionary game theory worked out to explain this.
Simply put, a woman wants to bind a man into a monogamous relationship so he provides food and resources for her and her children, while she maximizes the genetic diversity of her children by having them with several different men.
DNA test at childbirth should be required to determine the actual paternity. I see most women below the age of 40+ as having unrealistic expectations, bitter, angry, extreme emotional and mental problems, unpredictable behaviour, difficult to be around and just have a plain old good time with, difficult to please, moods that vacillate constantly......taking exorbant amounts of medication, not able to keep a goal in mind and complete it, complain and nag, highly negative and far too masculine in my humble opinion......eat too much, enjoy fast food far too much, expect for the guy to pay everything, base most of their joys on going out clubbing, purchasing clothes, and finally: status
Most of them invest a lot of effort into making themselves appear pretty, special, and different than other females, but it is completely transparent.
The modern American female is an empty shell of a human being, and apparently there are few exceptions.
Immaturity, undeveloped self-esteem, constant contradictions, emotional response and/or overreaction to the SIMPLEST misstatement or problem, an inability to handle adversity, constant self-absorbment, a total failure of inductive reasoning, deductive reasoning or simple pattern recognition, short attention span, superficiality, an extreme need for dependence while loudly declaring independence, etc...
American men have options. American women do not. So the American women huff and puff, and scowl at the incoming foreign brides who don't demand the feminazi equality bullshit. You WISH American men didn't have choices. You're like a labor union that's pissed off because the company is hiring non-union employees.American men have two options: 1. Sport**** free American ****dolls forever. 2. Settle down with a foreign girl who has no expectations.
American women also have several options: 1. Be a free ****doll. (That's not a bad option by the way. More and more women embrace it. I say produce more "Sex and the City"-like shows and accelerate the trend. It certainly beats the other options.) 2. Live alone with 10 cats. 3. Single mother in permanent poverty.
What American women think about it is not relevant. It's just supply and demand. American women are still desperately trying to sell their shit sandwich, but the gig is up. American women have so many privileges, demands and rights that smart men can no longer afford to marry them. You fat American women who think you should be treated like princesses by rich handsome men have priced yourself out of the market.
And it's American women who are upset that American men aren't marrying them. American men are perfectly content to use American women for easy sport ****ing. It's a product of American women's own feminist sexual revolution. Look at the #1 and #2 reason why American men are now avoiding marriage:
1. They can get sex without marriage more easily than in times past.
2. They can enjoy the benefits of having a wife by cohabiting rather than marrying.
Additionally, American guys have millions of foreign women who are dying to marry them. Lower divorce rate and no feminazi attitude.
So quite honestly, it doesn't matter if they're fat/skinny/ugly. It's not about what's fair. It's about what you can get. American men get what they want: easy casual sex from American women. Foreign brides with low divorce rates and no feminazi attitude. And American women get cats.
Deal with it. It's not a question of what's "OK" or not ok. Nobody gives a shit if it's fair or not.
The point is, women in their 30's, who are career oriented, are extremely UN-desirable to most men, as wives. Those women are getting more and more undesirable as the years pass...in fact by about 35 they are more or less out of the running completely.
Men, on the other hand, are at their peak of desirability, as potential husbands, at 35, and they remain at that peak for many years. A 40 year old guy who is a decent success can ALWAYS find a 30 yr old woman who would jump at the chance to grab him. 99.9% of the single women in this country are not even marriageable.
Take away the women beyond the marriageable age (over 30).
Take away the fat women.
Take away the ugly women.
Take away the psycho Zoloft / Prozac women.
Take away the raped women.
Take away the women with STDs / HIV.
Take away the women who can't cook.
Take away the women who already have kids.
And you've eliminated 99.9% of the single women in this country. Women are, for the most part, not well suited to accept reality or to think logically. they will approach a situation with their mind already made up, then they will twist and manipulate the information to validate what they're already thinking.
So their views on reality are usually messed up. and their process for arguing/interacting is not based on reality, instead it's based on whatever irrational tools will help them prove their point (screaming, personal attacks, red herrings, etc).
They aren't insane. They are infinitely selfish and manipulative, and incredibly clever about disguising their manipulation. They think that men are just tools to use and discard as needed.
It just SEEMS like insanity to you, when you see the wild ****ing weird shit that they pull on you. In reality they are busily manipulating you, doing crazy shit to throw you off balance and confuse you, so you won't see through their bullshit. Feminists believe that all men are evil abusers.
When a man abuses them, deep down they feel a creamy sense of satisfaction. Their belief has been validated.
Therefore they carefully craft a life, and surround themselves with people who will create more of this abuse.
Thus further confirming their belief structure.
This type of mentality has been studied and explored by countless psychologists, and is well-understood by all people with common sense.
Also, there is a more dangerous issue, here.
Men are very "susceptible" to women's opinions of us. Let's face it guys, when we get married, we are very likely to start changing in response to our woman's needs. We can't help it...her emotions are so strong, and our sense of responsibility to her is so deep, that we can't help but slowly become the man she envisions us to be.
That can be good, or bad. A man who is married to an angry feminist will often become more abusive, fulfilling her expectations of him. She accuses him of shit he didn't do...finally he thinks "well, if she's going to treat me like a scumbag, then by golly I should just go ahead and be a scumbag."
On the other hand, a man who marries a loving woman (who trusts men) will usually become more worthy of trust, thus fulfilling her expectations of him.
The old cliche of "behind every great man is great woman" is so true.
Men, choose your wife carefully. Her mental image of men will probably become your destiny. Avoid women who think badly of men (which as you know, includes the vast majority of American women). American women have been born and raised in the corrosive negative world of feminism. They can't help but think like a feminist and view the world like a feminist.
So they have learned to always emphasize the negative things about men, never the positive. In any given opportunity...
instead of saying "he's protective" they'll say "he's oppressive"
instead of saying "he's smart" they'll complain "he demeans my intelligence"
instead of saying "he's hard-working" they'll say "he's obsessed with work"
instead of saying "he's confident" they'll say "he's an ego-monster"
The bottom line...every one of your qualities will be spun as a NEGATIVE, not a positive.
Of course, they don't do this when you are dating. All women put up a good face early on. Later, after a few years of marriage, suddenly the real woman will emerge, and you will subjected to negative diatribes about you, day in, day out, like a constant weight on your shoulders.
So when you marry a feminist, you will slowly change to become the bad man that she sees. All the negative aspects of you (which you've probably learned to suppress and minimize) will suddenly start to crop up again. Eventually you'll say "well, **** it, if she's going to attack me for a bad habit anyway, I might as well indulge in it."
She will bring out the worst in you.
And of course, she'll be happy, because then she can scamper off to her feminist-***hole friends and say "SEE! We're right! Men really ARE as bad as we've said!"You need to learn to genially not give a **** about ****. It's a hard thing to do because most American men have been conditioned and pussified to do exactly the opposite. All the "get laid fast" tricks will be useless until you learn how not to give a ****. And once you do, you will not really need any tricks.
It is never worth it to jump through hoops and to put a lot of effort into getting or keeping **** if all you want is sex. **** is NEVER worth a lot of effort. Just do what you want to do with your time. If **** wants to come along, great. If not, just tell her to get lost. If you can get **** with very little effort, then great. But if not, pass on her and wait for another woman to come along. Sex is just a commodity. Spend your time and energy on making money, starting a business, or travel. All I can simply say is this is what this country has become,and the sad thing is?You women have ruined it for the real women that are left in this country to ever find the good guy with out proving themselves to the fullest!
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:11:00 PM | | Ah yes, the "I know all there is to know about every American woman from the few Jerry Springer episodes I have watched in my native country" mentality. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:19:40 PM | | Sorry I don't watch crap like that ...All this info is based on your psychologists and people who have worked hard to find the truth!I am my own person and I am not brain washed by media,so to answer that NO I do not watch Jerry springer...And I am American but a only one out of many that are waking up to many things!Goodnight sweet heat don't let the bed bugs bite.. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:21:16 PM | To bigboyzback,
Let's see! What a mistake I made on my profile. I forgot to add PERFECT MAN!
Thanks for your input. Ladies, lets rewrite all our profiles and say only PERFECT MEN NEED APPLY! That's what we're doing wrong. I'll get { BACK } to you { BIG BOYZ }.  | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:28:43 PM | i put my profile on here ages ago , im a single dad 53 =yrs old , have 2 children ,, the first question i have always been asked by women on here is ,What work do you do , I do a lot of vollunteer work , and ive spent the last 14 yrs raising my kids ,, as well as coaching , , and manage-ing a football team , countless hours save-ing peoples lives and tirning them around , So my work doe`snt involve me getting paid , yet ive helped others get money , , so the results were this , iether not interested , or dont want anybody with kids , ( come-ing from a women i found that to be strange ) when most whant a guy to look after theirs , wow. and i have my shit together to all you loosers trying to suck up . So i done a survey ,and i change my job discription on my profile , And Guess What < the same women who just weeks prior , started to wnat to meet with me and go for a coffee , and they popped up everywhere , on my I M , but after a fer chats , i told them what i realy done , and well , you dont have to be smart to figure uot the rest , i thought ive heard all the excuses , ha . The moral is that most of the women on here are greedy gold diggers , ,so ladies and wankers , be honest with yourselves and look for a guy for who he is , and not what he owns , , Oh i can hear you all screeming now , , say ur sad stories , , i ran serveces for divorced couples for 5 years , , stop kidding yourselves , then you might fing a decent guy . and guys stop looking for models or younger women , and maybe you mmight be surprised as well . happy fishing , , im just a dad . .  | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:44:13 PM | ^^^Sheesh. I'd like to see a single mom pull off a post like THAT without getting flamed!  Too much!
Why is it wrong to be picky? Personally I think its a good thing.
It's terrible. Horrid. Women should really just learn to give themselves over to the first bloke who propositions them--no questions asked. What is wrong with them anyway?!? | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 10/30/2007 11:53:16 PM | | I agree with you lexy53,but I can say this they all want perfect!Even know they say they do not!But some will actually admit it!Well should we not have it to?believe it is not hard to get,whether it is here in America for a night,or getting to know a nice woman over seas that is forever! | |
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