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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/1/2006 10:31:08 PM | | All I have to say is Bill Gates was considered a nerd, and look where he is today. Nerds end up in better places then "bad boys". Lets here it for nerds! Yeaaaa!!! | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/1/2006 10:39:51 PM |
All I have to say is Bill Gates was considered a nerd, and look where he is today. Nerds end up in better places then "bad boys". Lets here it for nerds! Yeaaaa!!!
Right!!!
I wish I was one!!!! | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/1/2006 10:44:26 PM | mmmm Nerds... and i dont mean the candy! (mindyou now i really want some)
I especially love nerds with Glasses... they are so hot. My mom thinks im kinda weird, but i can't help it, I always fall for the nerdy guys. Probably cos they are the nicest guys and really sweet and cos I am kinda geeky and well nerds and geeks sooo need to stick together...
One day I will find my Nerdy/geeky guy and we will live happily ever after and have tons of little nerdy/geeky childern... | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/6/2006 7:42:46 AM | My sister and I had a spat on her trying to help me get a date. She said all the girls at her
work had boyfriends. I said this aloud: "Why does every girl in Bay County have a boyfriend?" My sister got mad at me when I spoke that question. She said: "I hate talking to you about girls! I hate it! I hate it! I said "Maybe if these girls left their punk-looking boyfriends and go out with us more intellectual men,we'd never complain. Not complain at all. I'm sorry, Holly, but I'm 24 years old and never had my first date. It's just so confusing. She walked out the door and went to work." I feel so frustrated. Btw, my cousin
Frances still hasn't talked to her friend's sister about the blind date. I know I shouldn't say
this, but I feel like a real loser
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/6/2006 8:08:15 AM | The perfect nerd does have glasses, not lasik. Oh they need to be really thick too. Helps if his hair is greasy as that is really sexy. Don't forget the pocket protector.....(no less then 5 pens in it)... | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/6/2006 10:17:53 PM | | I'm a nerd. Maybe more of a geek. Dork? Perhaps. I get paid to be a fool, it's my profession. So far I get zero. Zip. Nada. No dates, no emails except from people who are too far away even if they were really interested. Do nerds actually have girlfriends? Maybe some do, but for me it seems there ain't none to be had. | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends? Alfred Nobel DID NOT :-(
Posted: 5/7/2006 12:47:53 PM | Hello,
Even Alfred Nobel and the GREAT G.H. Hardy (my favorite mathematician) were shy to approach women :-(
How much smarter the British royalty would have been if Queen Victoria of had married one of these guys instead of marrying her cousin? Of course we wouldn't have the great estate that funds the Nobel prizes.
Cheers,
Raul :-)
(SwimNKayak)
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------“Build a better mousetrap and the world will beat a path to your door.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Build a better mousetrap, that not only traps, but marinates and barbecues as well!
(my philosophy)
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/7/2006 12:57:51 PM | | don't give up on asking them out. average is 1 in 10 really. Main thing is not to worry about rejection. There are always more fish in the sea. You just need to cast your pole. The best for me is to go to a bar and ask about 5 girls for their #. Dance or talk with them first though. | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/7/2006 8:12:41 PM | Nerds don't really have girlfriends, I'm living proof of that. :-P
Becareful when you're fishing though, I stabbed myself in the finger with a fishing lure once, it really hurt. I even bled a little bit. I'm not a really good fisherman. :-(
-- art ^_^ | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/7/2006 9:04:26 PM | It seems all the people who claim they are nerds, lack maturity? Am I right?
Like a big baby still waiting to grow up at the age of 24-30?
I kinda was the same way. Military training changed my perspective on life. May be you guys should try that sometime??
It toughens you right up for the road ahead :-)
-Solak | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 1:22:02 PM | | dude dont worry just look at bill gates. also try to date female nerds I always say nice guys finish last but they finish | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 1:42:52 PM | 140 IQ
No No No No. No self respecting nerd gives out that number. Especially when it is that low. Kind of like a woman bragging that she has a D tit. Both those numbers are minimal, barely in the club. 140 is only a nerd if he keeps it to himself | |
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Posted: 5/10/2006 1:59:49 PM | hahaha....well here's the typical scenerio as i see it:
a very high percentage of women (myself included) say we find nerds and geeks very attractive.
all the nerdy, geeky guys say "why don't the ladies like nerds and geeks"?
but you see, all you nerdy geeky guys are forever walking around with your teenage angst, junior/high school rejection hangovers, (when most self-respecting female's wouldn't date a geek), and you have yet to realize that alot of us nasty junior/ high school girls have grown up....and so have our tastes....you guys just need to catch up (again) 
one of the most attractive men that i have met recently terms himself a "doofus".....i think that means geeky nerd where he is from | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:06:05 PM | damn, i usually don't like postin on the forums, but this topic was advertised when i was checkin my mail, and i just had to indulge......
i myself, always swung with the "cool" crowd, or whatever you can call it, or at least tried to.....
i always here from girls"yer such a dork" cuz, like you, i do qoute family guy stuff, or make my own humor that is sorta related to the humor of family guy
damn, i feel i have so much to say on this subject but kinda at a loss for words
i still watch saved by the bell when it's on tbs, or recently aduulte swim.....and ya know what??
screech is mad pimpin.......in real life, lisa would be one of his disco sextrash ho's
also for you all who watch the pretender.....you gotta love broots. and besides, jarod would be considered a nerd too, yet he got mad ****, all due to looks, i suppose
but this whole topic kinda confuses me, cuz in real life, there is like a double edged sword or kind of yin yang factor on how nerds and stereotypes are portrayed on tv, and how things really are....because in a sense all media is somwehat like real life, spawned form a thought or situation someone experienced or so, but yet it's really not the same "exact" situations, only a hint of them.
all i can offer is the simplest common sense, you are what you eat.....don't be the end result of the food, i.e. the shit.....
and, yes, nice guys finish last, but it doesn't have to be that way.....be confidant, you don't have to lose all the things about you, like qouting family guy, or working that type of humor in a certain situation, cu making a girl or anyoe laugh may seem ordinary or whatever, but really it's a silent sort of explosion that lets down the defenses....after that, just be a nerd......be cool......there's really no words that can describe it, you just get it one day how to work with women,
sort of like i am sure you can't describe totally with words how great becoming a level 30 whatever is, or how fustrated you get at times with seeing "big0titted mary jane" with some loser guy, just telling you, "oh yer so nice i just love you as a friend" yet knowing she'd never be there if something goes wrong....women really do like men to treat em like shit, in a subconcious sorta way. same thing like every woman has a bit lof lesbian in them
if you feel you can't break free of the mold which keeps you in a state, when you see that the world outside of you must be so ****ing perfect but not for you, you are skipping the fact that nothing outside nor inside is perfect, and you just have to backtrack, sort of rewire your thinking. then once you do that, you figure out that everything is perfect, because it isn't....the whole yin yang would be complete, and therefore like what i said about nerds and the stereotypes, it's true, but it's not....you are what you eat...but don't be the end factor of the food.....
anyway now people will prolly respond like....uhh...yeah whatever prestonnash, back to the MAIN topic lol
i myself tried to like geeky and dorky nerdy chicks, but honestly, they seemed a lot more egotistic than what they say the "cool kids" out to be.....and quite frankly, annoying as shit, yet for some reason they are always stacked lol......but wear baggy clothes......
anyway i don't think i've been much help, besides describing how things are with nerds, and well, life in general, but if anyone got anything out of this, then great.......i love d&d, roleplaying games, discovering the universe, science, all that good shit, and i manage to get by with women...i dunno i guess it's all how you present it to them. | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:13:34 PM | i dunno....just be cool, any negativ thought talking to a girl...kill it
gotta have the confidence
like young mc said"don't just stand there bust a move" that song holds true , that "nerdydorky" advice i just said is totally true
girls will always say in the company of guys things likie" oh i don't see why all these guys stare at my boobs, or it's not my fault i get hit on, i don't do anything"
bullshit...they know exactly why, and because they play it in a way that doesn't seem so, that's why they get the action.....that's all you need to do, just be cool, have the anticipation in them going, wanting to know more, but act like you don't have any clue what they are tlaking about.
once you get that, then you just casually date and fuk, then when you dfind the right one, you let them in on your secrets that they had a scent of | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:15:39 PM | I would have to say yes. I had my first girlfriend at the age of 16, and then I went from age 18-25 being single. Then I'm like, wtf!? am I doing? I instantly fixed that little problem, and I got myself a beautiful girlfriend couple years ago. We almost got married, but she moved to Vancouver to go to school, and my feet were tied down here with owning my own business, and the distance finally did us in.
Yes, it's possible, just pick yourself up and have more confidence in who you are. I have found in the past little while, that women of all kinds love that confidence in a man, no matter what he looks like or does. I was really down on myself, and dealt with rejection hard when I was younger, but like they say. Love yourself first, then all the women in the world will be banging down your door. I would have to agree.  | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:16:33 PM | | and lastly, some REALgood advice may be to not even worry or think about it at all.....life sucks cuz everything comes when you least expect it, don't always strive for the gold right away....just live your life, withdrawal from always wanting the snatch, and then the karma would do the rest.....at least i think i read that on a fortune cookie or some bullshit | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:19:59 PM | | and then when a girl does come by, you will be so busy working on your own shit, she will admire how great you are doing in your life, and you will have that confidence...then the girls will be at your mercy instead of where you are now..i dunno maybe that's what bill gates did | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:27:18 PM | one guy wrote
Take 2 hits of acid and call me in the morning
haha.....most excellent
/me gives you a bill air guitar salute, even tho i haven't tried acid yet[IMG]http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y116/dr_eyepatch/billair.gif[/IMG]
lastly....the game is, treat a girl how she wants to be treated, if she wants to be treated like a whore, and lotsa girls do, treat her like a whore, don't be the one saying, i see a lot of potential in you, why do you do this to herself.....
nonono....let her pay a shrink for that
the more you involve yourself with girls, the better the instincts become | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:44:20 PM | Matt, the more you are obsessed with dating someone the less change you are going to have of success.
Your problem isn't women, your problem is you. Focus on improving your confidence. Go speak to a Counselor.
Also, your profile pic -- not good. You need to get yourself spiffed up, cleaned up and looking your best. If you want to attract a woman start within yourself and work outward. How you dress and look is important but none of that will matter if you aren't confident and happy in your own skin.
A lot of people bust on David DeAngleo but I think you would benefit from reading his material. He isn't all about one liners. He'll teach you how to be the kind of man that attracts women and he's right -- it starts with your head.
Good luck. | |
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| Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 5/10/2006 2:44:49 PM |
I would have to say yes. I had my first girlfriend at the age of 16, and then I went from age 18-25 being single. Then I'm like, wtf!? am I doing? I instantly fixed that little problem, and I got myself a beautiful girlfriend couple years ago. We almost got married, but she moved to Vancouver to go to school, and my feet were tied down here with owning my own business, and the distance finally did us in.
Yes, it's possible, just pick yourself up and have more confidence in who you are. I have found in the past little while, that women of all kinds love that confidence in a man, no matter what he looks like or does. I was really down on myself, and dealt with rejection hard when I was younger, but like they say. Love yourself first, then all the women in the world will be banging down your door. I would have to agree.
D'oh! I wanted to add to that, and my edit button disapeared.  Anyways, here's the rest.
I know its hard, because I have been there, but get rid of the "Poor Me" attitude as soon as possible! Turn that attitude into "Yes, I have tons to offer!, I love me!" Trust me, it works.  | |
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