GUMMLE
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Joined: 10/15/2005
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 11:25:27 PM |
Is it wrong for 2 consenting adults to have casual sex
That's between the 2 people...
sometimes there is nothing better then some good sex, with someone that is not expecting you to make breakfast for them in the morning.
I'll take your word on that...
This has nothing to do with not respecting yourself...
So it has everything to do with respecting yourself??
I guess moral fiber went out when dietary fiber came in...
Not something I would ever do... | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 11:44:31 PM | In my opinion,
For those divorced, the experience and enjoyment of letting your body feel free during orgasm is a wonderful feeling. Wanting to rediscover that feeling is not a crime.
I for one know that I will not hold back if the sexual desire and tension exists between the two of us... the key word being "between".
I don't use women therefore any encounter I experience is mutual. Unfortunately, casual sex can also include "player". Being used is not, in my opinion, casual sex; that's manipulative sex. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 11:44:37 PM | In my opinion,
For those divorced, the experience and enjoyment of letting your body feel free during orgasm is a wonderful feeling. Wanting to rediscover that feeling is not a crime.
I for one know that I will not hold back if the sexual desire and tension exists between the two of us... the key word being "between".
I don't use women therefore any encounter I experience is mutual. Unfortunately, casual sex can also include "player". Being used is not, in my opinion, casual sex; that's manipulative sex. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 12:26:21 AM | dude, you are gonna get banned posting three times out of four. blame it on the comp ;) but we know its always the operators fault.
as for the topic, to me sex is a sport. just another reason to get sweaty, get the dopemines flowing. the best areobics workout I never have to pay for. Add some pushups, and some thrusting and who needs a gym?
western culture and religion has wrecked our whole view of sexuality. the idea that sexuality makes you impure and whorish, unless with the one, is outdated and a way to control the population.
Love is a mentality, and sex is a physicality. There's a reason the porn industry outsells Hollywood.
and to merge with another thread, I dont' always look for somewhere to poke my penis, I always start with where can I put my tongue. Although I will admit I am picky and dont always feel like dining out, so I do pass.
whores get paid for it.
sluts enjoy it.
I enjoy my sluttiness.
embrace yours.
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:16:23 AM | Just because culture dictates how we rationalize how we feel doesn't make it wrong. Some people don't equate sex and inner feelings in the same light. Others do. Personal choice.
It's also a way to differentiate though on what we look for and what we don't. It's nice to be able to look through these types of threads and have a better view of who we would be interested in by what morals the other has.
And that's enough with the deep thoughts. | |
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Qt30
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Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 32 | |
| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:29:22 AM | | Fish message 13 wasn't worded correctly...bottom line being someone's side dish does nothing for the self esteem | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:58:24 AM |
Body and heart or soul are one. Any attempt to dissociate them is both doomed and dangerous, and that is how casual sex injures even free and willing participants. It severs vital connections within the self, thereby silencing or at least muting one of the most powerful and literally vital foundations of our richest and most creative relationships with other people. Casual sex easily devastates the capacity for serious sex.
Just a quote I found interesting...and nope, can't do it  | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 5:07:20 AM | | There is nothing "casual" about sex. You may choose to be callous, reckless, or selfish as you will. That's a persons personal choice to make. Personally I choose sufficient self respect to wait until it isn't "casual" | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 5:28:31 AM | | Since when is the only thing that determines weather or not you have self respect for yourself be weather or not you have casual sex. Not to mention the selfish comment. Whats selffish about it. I dont have less respect for someone just because they choose to have casual sex or one night stands, the two have nothing to do with eachother. To each is own. Eveyone looks at sex in a different light, and just because some people dont look at it like it's some connection and some kind of loving act, does nto make them not respect themself, nor does itmake them selfish or callous. I myself think that the most imtimate thing people can do is kiss, thats my personal believe. I am at a point in my life where I am enjoying being alone, just with my kids, but I am starting to miss the no sex part in my life. Whats the alternative, I am sure there are many, just seeing what everyone else thinks. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 5:29:19 AM | Ason, I agree somewhat. Sex can be used as a manipulative tool when emotions are present unfortunately. However, our bodies require physical release to maintain good health. Just as we need to laugh, cry and brush our teeth. What's love got to do with it? It "completes" us.
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 5:34:38 AM | | Well...I think that "casual sex" as in a one nighter is not a good thing! Been there done that, many moons ago....leaves you empty. On the other hand, I do believe that two mature, consenting adults can have a relationship based on both the physical and the emotional without being tied down and exclusive? Does that make sense? I think also that age may play a part in what happens in a relationship...the older one is, the more they have done in life, and perhaps do not put such an emphasis on "attachment"? They can relax, have fun, without having to have that infinate commitment? Do not misunderstand me please...I mean if two people meet, date a bit, and find there is an attraction..why not? But all must beware, if there is to be no committment and that is stated up front, then that must be understood from the start! There is nothing wrong with recognizing that one has needs...the physical, I believe, is as important as food is to someone....think about it...And people that profess that they cannot have sex with someone unless they are "in love" so to speak, put one hell of an onus on both themselves and the other person...but if it works for them, good! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/28/2006 6:32:01 AM | | I don't see anything wrong with it. However, I have never done it and don't think I could do it. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/9/2006 4:23:54 AM | I have never had casual sex nor a one nighter...don't think i could ever as well. Too much is based on sex now and alot of pressure is put on one another too. Many guys will think "Am I going to be good enough" and many women think "Is he going to please me or be selfish"
In the end sometimes I guess it can be good but other times not. Emotions is where it will fall apart then. basing a relationship on sex can be fun and exciting in the beginning BUT then one person's emotions are bound to surface. You can't stop feelings for someone. That is when all the complications start. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/9/2006 7:46:46 AM | Relationships are relationships sex is sex,being in a band atmosphere for a long time growing up it happened all the time,just wear a raincoat if your goin out in the rain and no problem.
I dont believe in all the talk about having to have a great relationship first or knowing the person a week,still feels good,and all this talk about the electronic age ,you dont have to get to know "it " first but still feels good right ladies??its just fun and whats wrong with that? | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/9/2006 7:55:32 AM | | ^^hey to each their own, sex is becoming the basis of too much these days and becoming over rated at the same time. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/9/2006 12:02:19 PM | | It all depends on the people you have to communicate and have understanding that it's just sex! But it never seems to workout that way.I enjoy it but I don't do it anymore cause it seems someone always gets hurt out of it! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/12/2006 6:44:59 PM | I myself think that Casual sex is good as long as it is what both involved is looking for.
I would also be the 1 to make breakfast for her in the morning that also wouldnt be a problem.can always use a bite to eat after a fantastic night.
Ive been separated for over 4 years,and well if that was something on the table for me
I know that I could do it as long as the attraction was there.
and as for bringing up the Topic of CASUAL SEX well I say way to go that is an awsome TOPIC. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/12/2006 6:55:26 PM | it is not wrong at all. Welcome to nature. In nature all animals have a primal urge to reproduce. BUT, humans are smart, we protect from that kind of stuff.
It has been found that sex not only relaxes you but helsp your mental health out. I have a very good casual sex story if anyone is willing to belive it.
I was living across the hall from a good friend who had some major medical issues. We had compleate TRUST (Big Word of the day) in each other. On some days her condition gave her quite a bit of pain. even her pain killers would not help. When you participate in sex you release endorfins into your bloodstreme, this is what calms you down, this also acts as a VERY effective pain killer. We both got something out of this. I being male got my little fun that i wanted, ans she got her little fun that she LOVED and that helped with her pain. I know this sounds made up or fake, but this is true and to be honest, she was good :P | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:10:36 PM | I don't know about any of you................In my life, there' s no such thing a "CASUAL SEX"....
..........I'm pretty involved .............. in many ways, before the shorts hit the floor......
I do, through the fogs of time. remember the 60's & early 70's, but those days & people & the innocence......are, unfortunately...........gone.
To be honest, in many,many ways....I prefer now.............
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Msg: 50 | |
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