| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:09:37 PM | | Casual sex happens when 2 people are attracted to eachother at that specific time.It is natural to have those desires fulfilled.I personally would rather date someone casually over having a one night stand.If it was a playboy model I would do it.Safer sex yes.Be honest with your partners what you want.If you want multiple partners or threesomes say so.I believe it is normal to casually date different people until you meet that special soulmate.Be responsible,be honest,wear protection,and have fun. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:13:35 PM | | I'm not interested in it... I'd rather date, fall in love & then make love.. Doesn't bother me if it take months or years to find Mr. Right, but I wont settle for anything less. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 1:25:02 AM | WOW..Sherbear!! are you a doctor or somefin. cuz after me reading yuor post im not stickn anything anywhere. but you know you absolutely right. every boy has a dream to grow up and be a fireman. and most of them do get a chance to grow up but not ending up to be a fire man. well boys heres your chance go find a girl and just nail it!! in the morning about 5-8 hours later after you had you heartpumping sexathon with that notso meaniful girl curled up under your arm .. you wake up go to the bathroom .. you unzip to go to the bathroom and fire shoots forth like a flamethrower setting the bathroom on fire.. and like smokie always sed" only you cant prevent forrest fires" thanks sher you have tuaght me 2 things (1) i really dont like fire shoot out of me like a flame thrower.... (2) i shoulda stayed in school and became a real firemen.
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 11:33:33 AM | | 2mstone - not a doctor, no..LOL...I am just highly educated, because this is a very serious, and rampant situation. I just think that casual sex should be a thing of the past. When so many people around you keep getting stuff like herpes, you would rethink it too! I think of the fact of how it impacts your life, and it is a huge impact. I think people think it won't happen to them..or that the person they are sleeping with has only been with one person..etc....but that doesn't matter. Not one bit. It's just not worth a quick roll in the hay..we all have hands if we need to have some 'release'..Plus, hey, it's worth the wait when you finally do meet someone really special. It will be 100 times better than the casual sex you had...but glad I made you rethink things. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 11:53:49 AM | There has got to be a connection for me anyways.
And if you are really really needing some gratification-a need to get rid of some tension...buy some toys!!! It is just about as much emotional attachment as having casual sex and definately a whole lot safer.
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 1:02:31 PM | | This is just my opinion, based on nothing I really know about. I'm 57, and the only woman I've been intimate with since I was 22 was my wife (she left 4 months ago). Sex without love is just mechanical, shallow and one step removed from masturbation - nothing wrong with it, but miles from the wonder of intimacy with someone you actually care about. You don't have to be married, or even forever, but you should really feel 'love' for that person. If I find that experience again, it will be based on a commitment to be with that person the next day too, and the day after that, and there would not be room for anyone else. JMO, like I said, what do I know? | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 3:00:32 PM | What's casual sex? Sex without a necktie?
Sorry, never without a necktie. If you dig it, do it....if you really dig it, do it twice! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 3:12:45 PM | | Its all good just as long as both parties agree. Personally I don't do casual sex as its not what I'm looking for. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 4:17:39 PM | | As long as both people agree that this is all it is, then fine. I've had a time in my life where that was fine for me, but I'm just not there anymore. If two people are fine (truly okay) with nothing more than a physical thing going on, then who am I to say that it's not right. Personally, I don't want to be just a "bedroom toy". I'd much rather make love than just f**k! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2006 8:02:17 PM | So what exactly is the definition of casual sex? One night stand? Friends with Benefits? Sex while Dating but without a real committment? Any sex out of wedlock. Depends on your point of view doesn't it. Someone highly religious might think of any sex outside of marriage as casual. Someone very liberal might think friends with benefits was not casual at all.
I'm not sure what I would consider casual - I am pretty sure that for me there would need to be some kind of connection - something in my heart. But then again I may be completely wrong ... | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 7:14:53 AM | | well to each there own. my take on this loaded question(loaded because if you say yes im all for it and your a guy how said it you are a player and if you say no way then your a prued) my opinion is this, if you find someone that finds you atractive but not into long term yet themn whynot enjoy intamesy.. but it is a personal choice that you should not feel preshered into any thing that you do not to hat is my 2 cents | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:16:10 AM | | I think it's fine to find someone you can have some fun with, as long as you play safe. For some people, maybe they are turned off of commitment due to previous family situations and just want that person they can hold and have fun with, hopefully filling each others needs for an ongoing period of time. It all depends on the situation. For some people, relationships make sense, others, it's doesn't, but friendship can always be had. If you can have a no strings attached friendship or as someone else put a F*#K buddy, I think that's great. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:23:53 AM |
I think it's fine to find someone you can have some fun with, as long as you play safe.
Agreed ... just not for me.
Been there, done that, it doesn't work for me. I have a hard time fooling around and not becoming emotionally attached, and I feel that making love is much more enjoyable when shared with someone you share feelings with.
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 9:34:46 AM | | Personally, it's not something that I would do. I don't think that there is anything wrong with it if it involves two consenting adults. Everyone has their own moral beliefs and they should do what makes them happy. I agree with IvoryLace that making love with someone you share feelings with is much more rewarding. JMHO | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 9:37:47 AM | Casual sex is great, fun, a real stress relief as long as you and the other party remember the key word.. CASUAL.
Have fun, be lovers AND friends but always keep the lines of communication open so that if one of you is starting to have feelings, they can be discussed respectfully and decisions can be made with dignity and affection.
THAT to me is casual sex and I love it. As long as its done like that. The other stuff? the wham bam thank you mam-no I don't want your number.. is called F***ing.
Not into it.. its too demeaning. Might as well get paid for that kind of sex. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:03:38 AM | | i think it's fine just as i think int-encounters are alright as long as your other knows (or dos'nt) and for most it makes them usually appreciate what they have originally.Face it we all have the urges just some of us wish to react to it diferently | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:19:46 AM | | Personally, I've never been interested in casual sex, but I don't see anything wrong with it as long as everyone involved is upfront, honest and respectful (in practice, from what I've heard, this is rarely the case though). | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:29:24 AM | Casual sex is an easy way of saying “I don’t like you enough to have a relationship with you, but I’m horny or drunk enough to f&^k you”
Not my thing, I would rather there be heart felt feelings involved. Just my opinion! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 11:26:33 AM | willing to experiment ... for the benefit of the fishies here who are wondering.
Just drop me a line.
Experimental notes and conclusions will be submitted here for peer review :-) | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 11:34:30 AM | I don't DO casual sex...never have never will
I like there to be an attraction, a relationship before I get intimate.
there's too may cocnsequences with casual sex like what happens if ya get pregnant. I know of someone who's done so and gotten pregnant, aborted the baby without telling the guy.
It's not for me. | |
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