| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:54:30 PM |
It's better than formal sex, the gown gets in the way and the tiara falls off.
The gown and tiara never bothered the Vikings too much. I suppose Viking sex would be the opposite of casual sex, like, really rough and ready and stuff.
And isn't the term "casual" a little strange? It's like "sensible", like something a grandma would do. You know, have her Casual Sex while wearing her Sensible Shoes... Or is is like when someone is casual in a smelly old jogging suit. Now that would be a sight. Smelly Jogging Suit Sex, especially if it hasn't been washed in a while and had big pit stains on it. That would require either true love or a serious crazy fetish.
Besides, if the sex is good, truely good, there is no cooking breakfast the next morning, more like mid day brunch by the time the festivities are over! And truely excellent sex, well, the next meal would be in the hospital after the defillibrator... | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:17:44 PM | | for those who can go that route and not have a problem with it - that's great for them...It's not for everyone. It's not for me. I'm not wired that way. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 5:22:33 AM | | Why is it that casual sex is looked down upon? I've had one night stands before (not by choice), I've had friends with benifits, and I've had a f**k friend turn into a really great relationship. To me sex is not end all be all, but when the physical attraction is there why not try it. I have found that having sex with someone actually relieves the pressure and that it is easier to get to know a person afterwards cause once the sex is out of the way you can consentrate on getting to know the person. But casual sex with no expectations of a relationship to me has to at least have a friendship that is intended to last, otherwise to me it is not worth the effort. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 10:25:40 AM | I am not a huge fan of it... BUT
Mainly for cleanlyness reasons, I dont trust what others may have... eww
So, that being said. If it was someone i KNEW was clean i COULD see it POSSIBLE...
Now, let me clarify,sure not what i am looking for, i want a relationship.
But, it has been a long while since i have been with anyone, so With the right person i could see it POSSIBLE.
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Joined: 9/9/2006
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 11:05:48 AM | My take on casual sex is.. its casual... nothing more.. nothing wrong... its just CASUAL SEX with two consenting adults when the mood hits you... If you expect more from it - you'll be disappointed. It is what it is... until it is more.
And when a girl's gots needs... a girls gots needs... ... watch out!! I just prefer when it is spontaneous and not pre-planned... much better that way... especially for casual sex... just don't be stupid.. be smart and be safe... But I'm all for the animalistic, carnal encounter... safely. 'Cus there ain't no call like a booty call... (for those who will know this old skool tune)
Its casual until you find someone special... which at the end of the day.. is much more fulfilling ... and ulitmately, is what I truly want from this place... til then... | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 10/14/2006 11:30:23 AM | | If your having 'casual' sex, you're doing it wrong. Casual sex is little more than masturbation with someone else's body parts. If it's not intense, hot, monkey lovin' that you want to go on for hours (even when you have to cut it short because you have to go to work or something) with someone you're really into, it's really not worth it. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:03:44 PM | first time i've read these posts. i first read the 'one night stand' thread where all the guys said they weren't into one night stands. now, phrased a little differently, the tone changes slightly. i think guys answers here are affected by their desire to get laid - at the end of the day this is a dating site and they are publicly stating what they think to their desired constituency !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
casual sex is never casual. not for women anyway, no matter what lies we want to tell ourselves. but if most men csn get away with it without having to pay the piper one way or another they will. that's a fact. seriously. go read those posts in the 'one night stand' section, it is too hilarious what men say in public and what they do in private.
looking forward to hearing the responses to this post. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/11/2009 6:49:06 PM |
casual sex is never casual
Given your post and your experience at lava intimate (the other thread), I think your judgement is a little bias. You were at lava "INTIMATE".... what were you expecting? Stop blaming guys for your poor decisions.
In the other thread you posted:
lavalife sucks the big one. after breaking up w. my bf i figured i would 'just get laid'. the guys on lava intimate are complete jerks and i was lyin to myslf. ladies - don't pull wool over your own eyes. at lava intimate you are like a whore not gettin paid :( think twice or three times b4 u go there
After reading your posts several times, I've come to the conclusion you are an extremely mixed up woman. Get over your anger before you............ummm..............well............ aw, fvck it! It's too late. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/11/2009 8:02:46 PM | | Speak for yourself kitkitkat - some women can handle it and some women prefer it - some women don't carry baggage and some women aren't bitter. Casual sex fits the bill for women who are ready for it and are stable emotionally. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:10:00 PM | I would much, much, MUCH prefer being in a long-term, monagamous relationship if I'm going to sleep with someone. For me, there's more to sex than just getting your rocks off.
That said, I've considered the idea of casual sex and I wouldn't be entirely against it. As long as we both are aware that we wouldn't work as a couple and we were both single. The moment that I were to start dating someone, I wouldn't have casual sex with said friend anymore because that's just dishonest. It woudl just complicate things further with the person that I begin dating, especially if it turned into something more than just dating.
Just an addendum to edit in: I would not, have not, and would never consider a one night stand or casual sex with a total stranger. I may be crazy, but I'm not stupid. *grin!* | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/13/2009 6:22:45 PM | Msg 1,
I'm all for casual sex, but only if I'm sure she'll respect herself at 3am in the morning, when I make my way home. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/13/2009 8:10:42 PM | Nice to see a woman`s honest opinion thank you Leeanne
Casual or not whats the big deal if its only sex
Now if your in a commited relationship and your partner
doesnt consent thats a different thread but if your partner does consent
that would be the kinky thread | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/16/2009 1:36:12 AM | In my own opinion... casual sex altogether feels hardly as great compared to intimate sex... and there should at least be a great deal of respect altogether that makes it rather acceptable.
However... both men and women have been reluctant to underestimate themselves into wanting a whole lot more than they have agreed to, which can become a serious problem or even cause there to be spectacular relationship as a result.
I suspect most people don't seem to realize that there is a multitude of women who don't mind having casual sex... and some of them actually prefer it... but are mostly afraid of getting a bad reputation.
I was just about to tell another story, but it's way too indepth, so I will say that some people might simply agree to having casual sex in hopes that their chosen partner would soon fall in love with them which I believe such a hidden agenda can certainly lead to a major letdown. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:33:08 PM | | As long as both parties know its just going to be casual, fun, non committal sex. then sure why not. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/10/2009 8:33:27 PM | | Sex is a need...Not something you wish for...Casual,formal,who the hell cares? Live it up people and be safe!! | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/10/2009 8:37:09 PM | | Have fun but play safe is always the best rule. Whatever you do don't NOT have sex, we must learn from the Catholic priests on how NOT to live your social life, LOL. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/12/2009 10:54:34 PM | My take is to never regret anything that makes you smile. As long as both parties are honest with each other, and respect each other, why not. I didn't always feel that way, but times change. I'm not talking one night stands, someone you pick up in a bar, or such types of places, but someone you know who is on the same wave length, why not.  | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/13/2009 4:59:56 AM | never knew it existed until I joined POF
Seriously tho with the changing times if both agree on it hey why not, right??????
but is picking up someone at a singles bar casual sex or just simply sex???
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/18/2009 5:48:09 PM | I love being single and as a single mom of 3 pre teens Im just not ready to date but hot damn, Im also a sexually mature woman in the prime of her life. When I have sex with my "intended" believe me, it ain't casual honey. I do have certain people I get together with but I've known them for awhile, no strangers and the more we know each other the better and more intimate the sex. Unless the right person comes along to really melt my knees and heart I still have needs and desires. Why get rusty, get out the lube and oil the gears.  | |
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Joined: 8/22/2009
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 8/27/2009 7:03:27 PM | I envy those who can do it...gawd do I ever (aside from the increased potential for exposure to stds). No thank you!
I can't do "casual". My heart has to be involved..and that's not "casual". That's just me tho. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 9/3/2009 12:44:01 PM | | Well, I don't really see anything wrong with it. I find it less desirable than devoted sex but casual sex is still better than no sex at all. My only personal issue with casual sex is that I know I would have a tendency to get attached from the act and may find myself with feelings which wouldn't necessarily be reciprocated but, in all things considered, it's really not the end of the world. Anyway, it's between adults and most people know how to play safe so, really, it's a good thing. The more people have sex the happier society seems to be. | |
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