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Posted: 10/17/2009 10:26:24 AM | Hi Rosa,
The answer depends a LOT on the two guys and how they each feel about the other and how they feel about you.
A lot of guys will put on a show of jealousy, when really they don't care, they just want to be spiteful and hurt you.
Personally, I don't care, if a gal is no longer interested in me, then I could give a rats what she does. I try to be nice about ending things, but sometimes the gal is the one who seems inclined to be jealous, angry and spiteful. In that case I really don't want her around at all, even if she's thinking about being with a friend, or brother. If she was a ****, then I don't want her around at all. If things ended casually, then like I said, I don't care.
Most guys are not as liberal here in MT, they wanna be ***holes, because that's how they were brought up, and they had peer pressure.
For instance, one guy was saying that if he caught some guy with his wife, he would beat him up. Most guys would agree that is the correct response, BUT, if you really look at it, the strange dude is NOT the problem.
For all you know, the other guy had NO idea the gal was married, so why should HE get beat up??
On the other hand your WIFE certainly KNEW she was married and cheated on you. But beating up your wife is not a good idea, (ending up in jail is bad). If this is how she is behaving, and it bothers you, then you should dump her ass. Get a divorce and move on.
Again, personally, I feel that if you can't share someone you love, then it's not really love, but some kinda ownership thing. That's just me.
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