| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:11:02 AM | joejoe007,,.....Dang,dude,men and women alike can be overweight if their height and weight isn't according to medical standards...I bet you are overweight according to medical standards....
Why do you wish to bash women that have a few extra pounds,but have a hell of alot more brains than someone who enjoys bashing women because their weight don't suit you....
If the truth was known,you probably have been rejected by a lady that was a few pounds over so you just have to bash the hell out of good women......Dang,bubba,turn your head if you don't like looking at women with few extra pounds....They ain't leaving Houston or no other Texas city or Town cuz you don't like em......
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 11/30/2006 12:27:11 PM | Okay guys.....there are alot of you here in Houston with bellies hanging over your belts or do you wear belts? Maybe if you could keep things going on in the bedroom, we women would get the exercise we need and wouldn't be heavy either!
Oh and the guy talking about Dallas women.....go back to Dallas. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2006 1:59:50 PM | You know the men who are complaining about overweight women need to look in the mirror, we can lose weight but ugly goes straight to the bone. What is worse is those with an ugly hearts who have to judge other for something as foolish as weight. Maybe if they started looking inward the world on the outside would be beautiful no matter what the size. And no size doesn't matter. But people do... | |
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Posted: 11/30/2006 3:57:56 PM | Wow.......Nine whole pages of bashing.....Only In America!!!!! You Know it all breaks down to this. To each his own....If you like a big woman go for it If a smaller woman is your cup of tea then go for her. It really is sad that people are defined on how much of an inch they can pinch. I do think that his comments were totally out of line and If he feels like that, He should keep them to himself, But women is it necssary for us to step down to his level and say things that are equally as rude....Sometimes the eye for an eye thing is over rated.He sank his own battleship! I think we are all beautiful in our own way Big,Small,Short or tall. Peace!!!! | |
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Posted: 11/30/2006 6:28:55 PM | Dear OP,
I am surrounded by short men in Houston! At least an overweight woman can lose weight, I would like to see you gain height!
Appoligise to all the men in Houston, tall or not, this comment is directed at only one and we all know which that is! | |
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 12/8/2006 6:00:14 PM | Empty bragging. Women are the same in Dallas as they are in Houston. I know. I am frequently in both cities.
PS The men are not all in good shape either. | |
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 12/9/2006 11:27:08 AM | All women are beautiful. Some men are just too pig headed to see it. Personally, I dont mind if they act that way. Gives me a better chance!
If you don't like larger women, don't date them. There are plenty of dehidrated women in Houston. I live here too. I can give you recomendations on where to go to meet them. Of course, with your attitude, unless you are hung like Mr. Ed, you have no chance.
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 12/9/2006 2:23:36 PM |
Empty bragging. Women are the same in Dallas as they are in Houston. I know. I am frequently in both cities.
PS The men are not all in good shape either.
You must not be traveling in the right circles in Dallas. I see more fit women the places that I go to than I do heavy. One of the most commonly ordered sizes at Neiman Marcus is a size 0 followed by sizes 2 and 4. Now the men, it still baffles me that a fat sloppy guy with a big old beer belly thinks he can get or much less even keep up with a woman who takes care of her body. When someone gets winded climbing a few museum steps it's time to start walking and go on a diet. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2006 3:18:19 PM | I agree with you Wanda1fish - - and I am a short, fat granny aged lady (you know -- fat, fifty(ish) and frisky). Kim sounds like an idiot. I am sorry that some women feel so threatened by anyone else's looks. Rude people are rude people -- doesn't seem to matter their size. We all have our strengths and weaknesses and need to just try to not step all over each other.
There was also some guy who called fat people "lazy". What a buttosky! If a guy isn't attracted to fat ladies, believe me, we will get over it. However, anyone assuming just because someone is fat they are lazy makes a ass out of himself.
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Posted: 12/9/2006 4:52:40 PM | | It would make sense that overweight women would become defensive on a thread like this. So we men are narrow minded and don't see the good in a women that's overweight? Not true. I have no problems with being the best of friends with a woman that's overweight, but will state up front that is what I would be pursuing, not a physical relationship. If you, as a women, are so sensitive about being rejected due to your weight, then loose the damn weight or settle for a guy who doesn't care. I exercise regularly, have no beer gut, no hair growing out of my nose or ears and put effort in retaining my youthfulness physically. I am attracted to a woman that puts at least some pride and concern in her physical appearance, which I would consider a counterpart. Is this not fair? Face it, neither gender generally find’s obesity attractive. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2006 5:50:29 PM | Really it all comes down to an individuals personal opinion. God made all of us in differents shapes and colors. I think if we were all alike it would be boring. Personally, I don't want to be a thin woman. I love my curves and have never had a complaint. However I am not obese. I do try to be as healthy as I can in my situation though. It is my life and that's my choice. It is a matter of prefrence. To Joe, not all women in Houston are overweight. You need to get out and open your eyes and you will see plenty if thin women. People need to look at their own flaws before they go trying to point out others flaws. Don't forget! No one is perfect! You can workout all you want, get as much plastic surgery as you can afford, and eat like a rabbit...there is always going to be something to improve if you go around trying to be perfect and looking for that perfect someone. All I can say is, be true to yourself and love yourself for who you are. If you do that then how can you not be happy. I love myself, my body, and who I am as a person. The man I end up with, I promise you, will love me as a whole and I bet you that my curves won't stop him for coming back for more!!!!!!! God Bless.
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:17:11 PM | Well, might as well jump in again.
Every generation of hospital stretchers we buy is larger, every generation of lifting devices for patients is sturdier, we're fat, face it. And I'm including me.
Here's a BMI calculator for those of you that aren't in denial.
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/ | |
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Posted: 12/9/2006 6:25:37 PM | Having recently lost 100 lbs, I gotta throw my two cents in here. Before I lost the weight, I got hit on A LOT. I could've gotten laid every night of the week, if I was that kinda girl. I didn't lose the weight to get a man, I lost it for the man I already have, my two y/o son.
That being said... I was sexy 100 lbs bigger, and I'm sexy now and I'll be sexy when I drop the last few lbs I have to go. Sexy, to me, isn't about a dress size, it's about confidence. A girl who's schlumpy and doesn't take care of herself is unattractive, regardless of the scale. Same for the gentlemen... show me a guy with a stable career (garbageman or CEO - just be proud of what you do, and do it well) good grooming, and a kind heart, and I'll show you a sexy man. The antonio banderas look-a-like who needs to borrow $50 to pay his rent and points out how hot my neighbor is... he's not gonna do it for me.
That's just my two cents - coming with experience from both sides of the fence. | |
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| Surrounded by over weight women in Houston
Posted: 12/9/2006 9:15:17 PM | doctexas01:
It would make sense that overweight women would become defensive on a thread like this. So we men are narrow minded and don't see the good in a women that's overweight? Not true. Of course it would make sense, when this is what is being written:
four out of five middle aged women are over weight bitter and well just plain gross Would YOU appreciate being labeled as gross? I'm thinking not.
Personally, I couldn't give a shit if a guy doesn't want to be with me because I'm fat, that's his choice. I don't expect men to fall in love with me and defy their desires. BUT...I don't deserve to be called names, just like you don't. I am one of the large women who doesn't think a man is being shallow for not wanting a fat woman. I appreciate honesty, but I don't appreciate insults and generalizations.
Telling a fat person to lose weight is not a new concept, there's a lot more to it. It is an emotional ordeal for some of us. But your advice is duly noted and filed along with all the other's tidbits. | |
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Posted: 2/20/2007 7:44:24 AM | | Well I do not live in Houston and I am glad I don't. I am not fat by no means nor am I skinny. What I will say is I fell very good about me at 50 and do not give a hoot what the next person thinks . I am me and will not change for anyone, like me as I am or not at all.I think its how you feel about yourself and I feel damn good to be 50 and have the energy I have .Its sad he is so shallow,his loss to lots of good women! | |
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Posted: 2/20/2007 8:26:17 AM | | joejoe007, who the hell do you think you are to judge somebody be their weight before you ever get to know who they are??? That could be your soulmate you're passing up just because you are too stupid to get beyond television and movies???...LMAO | |
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Posted: 2/20/2007 8:29:56 AM | | And on another note. When you b*tch about fat people why dont you take a step back and ask yourself if you really have any room to talk. Especially if you dont know what the hell got them there or what they are doing about it. I might be fat but I go and bust my ass in the gym almost every morning. Do you do that? And as far as I can tell you are far from a perfect 10. Work on your own crap before you act on someone elses. | |
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Posted: 2/20/2007 8:40:28 AM | You got made at me for making comments about how sexy you where and you say things like you could have gotten laid everynight what the heck is that about? | |
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Posted: 2/20/2007 8:59:58 AM | well....I am 6'2" and 215 lbs....so I guess I'm 10-20 lbs overweight........but, I have to say, that, living in the Dallas area...DFW metroplex....we have more of the most beautiful women in the world...all right here!....some of them are gorgeous and skinny, and some are gorgeous and not skinny, but the point is...we have a LOT of women, skinny and not skiiny that are gorgeous on the inside.....where it counts!
...and in regards to the guy in houston complaining about overweight women........do you really think that you will always be perfect weight? When you hit middle age, you will start gaining.....then you can be on the receiving end of your weight bias, and see how you like it.
Besides....it's been my experience that almost all women think they are 'overweight' even if they aren't.......and most of these, stick-thin women you see, do NOT look healthy. Most women I date, when I do....are slightly overweight, just as I am. There's nothing wrong with it...it's a part of life. If you are shallow enough to only want 'perfect' looking women, then you better be 'perfect' looking yourself........and how many of us men are perfect? | |
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