| women proposing Posted: 4/30/2006 9:07:43 PM | | If you can talk about anything toghter then whats so hard about saying I want to get married. He should tell you what he thinks good are bad. | |
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| women proposing Posted: 4/30/2006 10:10:05 PM | | One of the earlier responses said that women are really goot at dropping hints. I think I missed that class in chick school. Lets say you wanted to take a next step in your relationship, whether it be becoming exclusive, moving in together, marriage, kids.... whatever... how exactly would a woman drop hints for that? I'm really horrible at it. I just come out and say stuff. But I don't really want to say, hey, lets take that next step. I just want to put out there that I wouldnt' be against it if he asked, or for him to think about it and maybe we could discuss it. Any suggestions? | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/2/2006 12:05:54 PM | I would have no problem with it other than they initial 'shock' (or call it what you will).
Too, let her buy the ring while she is at it.... .
What is it now??? Three months salary - yes?
Seriously, if it were right it would not matter to me.
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| women proposing Posted: 5/2/2006 12:11:33 PM | | I would never propose. Sorry that is his job if you ask me. | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 5:23:29 AM | | Not that it matters, but if a man was mortified by me proposing to him I would be mortified to be with him, I'm sure. | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 7:06:20 AM | My opinion...it could be the most touching moment of my life or possibly the worst nightmare...I guess it would depend on how into this person I was and was I ready for that next ginormous step.
I guess I never thought about it but I now understand how women feel about being asked.
I have to admit, if it was right, it be the most perfect moment in my life besides my children being born....ooops I forgot about the Jays winning the World Series in '93
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 7:21:19 AM | Wow,,,,great topic! Pretty interesting to see the responses. Hmmm,,,,i think it's ok for other women to do it but i really dont think i could or would. Im not totally old fashioned but i kinda think its really the mans thing to propose.
If you do decide to go for it,,id love to hear how it turned out! Besta luck to ya!  | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 7:43:16 AM | To be frank about this,
It is the norm of society that men propose but in the end, it is the women that make the final decision anyway. So I don't see any point of embarresment on the part of the women if she wants to propose. Like I said, men don't make the final decision regardless of who proposes.
It doesn't really matter!!!
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 9:44:06 AM | | my wife asked me to marry her and it was the greatest feeling in the world knowing someone wanted to be with me that much ......nuff said | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 11:36:22 AM |
justmeinnc05: When I looked at your profile to see your age, I though for sure I was gonna see 19.
Why? Just curious. | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 10:58:52 PM | It is the norm of society that men propose but in the end, it is the women that make the final decision anyway. So I don't see any point of embarresment on the part of the women if she wants to propose. Like I said, men don't make the final decision regardless of who proposes.
It doesn't really matter!!! ya, that's what I was thinking, I mean it wasn't going to be like I'm buying some ring and getting on my knee, It would be me suggesting we get married, and like I said before me professing my undying love always
I mean I know now he is the one! the one I have perpetualy looked for in everyone else! Do I really need to wait?
But then again I understand that it might set a bad start in our relationship as in "who wears the pants" hmmmm..... still thinking I guess, I really do appreicate all the opinions though from the men and women thank you | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 11:18:04 PM | | If I haven't gotten my stuff together and proposed by the time I should, by all means, I wouldn't mind if the woman proposed. Hopefully it would be obvious that we were moving in that direction that I would pop the question before her, but who knows? Sometimes guys are dense. | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/3/2006 11:23:11 PM | | I think if a woman got down on her knee in a restaurant and asked me to marry her.....................................I would probably freak and I would also think she was bi, if ya know what I mean. That is way too much for me. Now, if a woman really wanted to do it, I would suggest that she drop hints in a big way. An example might be: Hey, if we were married, it would only cost half as much to live or we wouldn't need both the houses or we could rent out the other house and yada yada. For me..............money talks LOL | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/4/2006 8:33:57 AM | "I think if a woman got down on her knee in a restaurant and asked me to marry her.....................................I would probably freak and I would also think she was bi, if ya know what I mean. "
...no I don't know what you mean and I'll bet most people don't either ...care to explain | |
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| women proposing Posted: 5/8/2006 2:40:52 AM | Sure, two plus two equals four Black is the opposite of White......... Water and oil don't mix Cats and dogs are usually enemies, unless they are raised together. If your hands get dirty, wash them etc etc etc...........
Women proposing? Wrong | |
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