| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:02:17 AM | | based on the number of girls that think a real man is a guy with a job, I think most women would prefer a guy with a job even if he's more white trash, than a nice guy with values and a soul who happens to be underemployed. I think women are flaky sometimes, choosing the hunky guy, or the guy with a job & his own pad, or 'the car' even if he's not as cultured, or adventurous, creative, or even a little bit of a cheater or racist. Nice guys are often overlooked because they haven't sold out. I'll have a job next year, but this year I'm in school and travelling, I'm still making savings, I just think it's sad how some women have written : if you don't have a job, don't contact me, I think it's demonstrative of how amoralistic, and decultured society has become. | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:31:55 AM | I would take the sweet guy over the other any time. As long as he makes enough money that hes not with me hoping i can support him or pay for everything lol Even if that means he works at McDonalds  | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/13/2008 10:41:03 AM | A guy who would trie to be abusive towards me
would have precisely ONE chance for such behavior
and after that he would be OUT of my life.
Money or no money.
Totally beside the point.
Abuse is not acceptable.
Not to me, that is.
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DonQ
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:31:57 PM | So I'm guessing your low income but want women to like you because you're nice?
and income has no correlation on whether a person is nice or not, more often then not extremely low income individuals come from broken families and lack values that lead to abusive relationships. | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:36:28 PM | Sweet guy, low income, any day of the week! I've had enough of abusive guys, physical OR emotional. Homey ain't playin' none of that. I'll treat him like a king, but ONLY if he treats me like the queen I am. A guy who is abusive has low self-esteem himself, thinking he has to lord it over somebody to feel like a 'man'. I've always said, if anybody has to walk over someone to make their self feel big, they're mighty small. We are to compliment each other's lives, not rule over them. Puleeze!  | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:37:28 PM |
kitsguy4u Joined: 11/19/2005 Msg: 13 view profile History Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income Posted: 5/1/2006 8  41 PM If only that was the thing that kept women with abusers. Sadly these guys get their hol don a woman and it has nothing to do with money. Seems that once women are "broken" by the abuser they stay with them and has nothing to do with money. I have seen guys that are penniless treat their girlfriends like crap. Its really sick, its like the women have been brainwashed or are under a spell. Women are often made to feel like it is their fault and that the guy doesnt mean to be an abuser they just push him too far. Its really scarry when you hear a friend tell you that. Its meant to be one of those things that happens to people far way and not in your life. Warning to all women, if a guy ever raises his hand to you then get out and NEVER return. If he does it once he will do it again and again and again until either he leaves you or he kills you. Yeah that sounds extreme but it happens far too often and it has nothing to do with social status or education.
you are so right. it is unfortunate, but true, that too many women stay in an abusive relationship. far too many that get out, either go back or latch onto another piece of shyt just like that one.
i have done over three hundred restraining orders, and over half of the women were back with the punk within three months. i had two that were actually back by the time i got the tro filed.
it is an absolute fact that you can NOT love someone who hits you, or you are a masochist. education is not a factor either, as i've dealt with several college educated women who did the same thing.
the first time should always be the last time. there is no reason whatsoever for even listening to a piece of shyt saying he's sorry, much less believing it | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 4/22/2008 7:41:13 PM | JESUS DEAR GOD WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO JUST BEING YOURSELF???
This thread makes me cringe. Its the female equivalent of men demanding all women have the charm of Natalie Portman, the breasts of Pamela Anderson and the IQ of Marie Curie.
God dang..no wonder so many of you are single...you are looking for a cartoon, not a person.
This thread makes me gag! | |
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| Sweet guy, low income OR abusive guy, high income
Posted: 4/23/2008 9:35:25 AM | Hell count me in for that second camp, that's a sure-fire way to get laid like a ****ing railroad, all over the country.
[Edit: message above me (86?) has a valid point EXCEPT that women SAY this is what they want, but really if you come to them and say, hey, sweetheart, this is how it is - they usually accept it and go with it. So who cares what they say they want?] | |
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