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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/8/2006 3:36:55 PM | Maybe some of the younger people have started paying attention in biology class. When a woman's hormones change, I've got to admit, it's fun to be part of. I don't mean the monthly hormonal armaggedon but the one that takes place in a woman's mid to late 30's. I know quite a few women in this position that have no problem with an arrangement with a much younger guy. That's my theory and I'm stickin' to it.
Anyway, I figure the younger guys have caught onto this and basically sitting back to reel in the easy prey. As long as it's mutual then there's no foul. If you don't like the messages you get, delete them.
I'm not for a second suggesting that all women in their mid-thirties are uncontrollable nymphomaniacs just like women aren't suggesting that all guys are the same......right? | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/8/2006 6:23:07 PM | | I want to know why young guys want to hit on older women.What is this that we know what they want? Don't get me wrong it is flattering to be hit on by a young guy but they only want one thing from an older woman and it isn't dating and having a good time.I doubt very seriously if a young guy would take an older woman on a date and feel comfortable about it. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:07:34 PM | Age is so subjective - it doesn't always correspond to the actual numbers of years lived.
Some people seem older than their years, some younger. The best is when a person has vitality  and youthful appearance and wisdom  as well.
I have no problem being approached by younger guys, as long as they're not too silly about it.... .............(y'hear?)
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/11/2006 8:53:19 AM | I agree with hockey; I also prefer a man who is working towards their PhD in interpersonal relationships (experience required) rather than one in 'first year'. Although I have to admit some do miss a few grades even if they are older lol.
But if a younger guy/older woman relationship works out for some then 'giddy up!' enjoy the lessons/ride | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/11/2006 2:31:43 PM | | I get that alot, too...the early 20 ones are usually a little too "yo baby" for me, but those 27, 28, 29 year olds (I'm 37) are a welcome lot. I don't think they think we're desperate, actually I've found many of them are not connecting with the younger women and want to connect with someone a more intellectual level, and women start really getting into sex mid-to-late 30's....so there's that. I could do the Ashton-Demi thing in a heartbeat with a fun, smart, together 29 yr old and I think a lot of women would say the same. Men have been doing it for years...our turn. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 11/11/2006 2:34:13 PM | | I get that alot, too...the early 20 ones are usually a little too "yo baby" for me, but those 27, 28, 29 year olds (I'm 37) are a welcome lot. I don't think they think we're desperate, actually I've found many of them are not connecting with the younger women and want to connect with someone a more intellectual level, and women start really getting into sex mid-to-late 30's....so there's that. I could do the Ashton-Demi thing in a heartbeat with a fun, smart, together 29 yr old and I think a lot of women would say the same. Men have been doing it for years...our turn. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 12/1/2006 10:30:51 PM | | Wow..you are a true prince....it's so so hard to believe you can't get women your own age. The way you talk about women, your sincerity and your obvious respect for woman, it's hard to believe they're not tearing down your door to get to your small, inadequate package!!!!! | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 12/1/2006 10:46:44 PM | | My last note was directed at the amazing Banannaman! You go boyfriend...and the younger woman who knock your socks off .....all the best to them. But some older women are amazing and want a little more than a booty call! They want a man who knows the value of an older woman. And that guy could be 25 or 35 or 45. The possibilities are limitless!!! | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 12/16/2006 8:13:06 AM | Bananaman.........why do you think a woman who enjoys sex is a slut?
I think at a mature age a woman should know what she likes and shouldn't be afraid to ask for and go get what she wants. It's no different at our age for a man as it is for a woman. Sex is a consideration and part of the relationship package. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 12/19/2006 3:17:55 PM | | i think young guys are looking to older women because the younger generation women have poorer values/morals and they're looking for a lady not a britney spears/paris hilton wannabe | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 12/22/2006 10:12:29 AM | | I don't know why age is an issue at all. I am now 37 and I have dated 18 all the way to 52 and I don't discriminate against them based on their age and expect the same in return. Life should be fun and limitless, why crowd it with complexities? | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 1/13/2007 9:01:26 AM | | I have age restrictions on my profile and I still get these; it is as if the young studs (they think) can't read. Seeing a picture of a bare chest does nothing for me. I go for what is inside not outside. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 1/13/2007 9:36:48 AM | I think it's the same principle as young female adults who get upset when a 60 year old man hits on them in a club or bar. 'All' adults are open game when it comes to establishments like bars and clubs, and internet dating sites. Unless you specify age, there's not much you can say. And even if you're specification was 'no one older than 21', the proof that this would be 'okay' would be the fact that your profile would not be deleted. It wouldn't be a violation of any rules, and obviously no laws.
Young men are not going to look at your profile and say to themselves "it just wouldn't be right for me to contact her". If they like the way you look, and you're 'legal', nuff said! | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:08:25 AM | Lets face it plain and simple older woman are like fine wine
in young guys lingo they all want a MILF because they are more
comfortable with themselves and have no hangups about their
sexuality and basing this on geographical locations large cities
and mainly beach cities that makes that case more relevant
and it makes it tough for us 40 somethings we do know what women want
they want the same thing as we do an honest trusting loving pleasing
relationship if they didnt they would be on sites such as craigslist and adult friend finders! | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:15:00 AM | younger guys hit on older women because its more exciting then hittin on boring younger girls the older women are more apealing to the younger guys and more fun and its something different I know as a younger guy I would hit on an older women not because I think they are desperate or something as you put it but because they are more fun,intersting,its like a fantasy of every younger guy to be with an attractive older women at least once,,their more experienced,more of a challenege,and for theres just something about them that makes them more apealing... I havent looked at your profile but I think that means you must still look really good for being older so its actually a compliment that younger guys are hitting on you because young guys like me dont hit on ugly older women just the attractive one...but if its not for you just change your age settings and it wont happen any more.... | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 3/20/2007 3:52:52 PM | TWEETIE
MAVERICK HERE
i work with guys twentyfive yrs my jr.
they think that thats the way to easy street
get the old lady to get hooked on thier youth and virility, get them to set them up in an
apartment wth a car and an cash account card !
then they can party all day while you are at work, then take a shower and show up at
your place in time to take you to dinner on your tab!!!!!!!!
its the gigilo complex and it is alive and well/not fair/ for the regular guys we take the brunt of the disdain brought about by this activity and it makes us look like a pack of wild dogs on a hamberger truck!
some have the balls to ask you to adopt them as your child they can be a beneficiary
or have you send them to college and get them a visa and relocate them to the USA
just what i ahve heard in the eight yrs i've noticed the conversations
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 3/20/2007 4:00:33 PM | I really love getting attention from the younger set. A big ego boost to be sure. But then I ask myself where the h*ll were y'all 20 years ago????????????????????? Sheesh!!!!
I find it both amusing and flattering. However, to me it would be like playing with my food.
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