| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 3/20/2007 4:09:46 PM | I find it flattering when a young man tells me I'm hot and he likes me. Is it that they're younger or that they are upfront about sex.
Remember all men want sex some just don't come out and say it.
Besides that some of the young guys want more than just sex too. Yes I agree with the one who wrote what's not to like - young, energetic, better looking, and great conversationalist from my experience.
If you find it offensive you can change who can contact you.
Don't spoil it for the rest of us who happen to enjoy younger men. They are people too with wants and needs and I for one appreciate them. | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:19:44 AM | | For me, I decided it could be the "solution" because I have a low social IQ, in my 20's I've been told because I have ASD (ASperger's Syndrome). I'm very proud to be Aspie, and it causes me to be hyper intelligent and creative, and yet at the cost of my social ability. so I'm more naive like a 20 year old! when I started dating them, I felt the social connection for the first time in my life and it's wonderful, but what is depressing me is, they only want sex. And they still want to marry the younger girls! But I'm 39 I look about 30 and I still have the dreams tht the young girls have. I feel sorta lost and confused in a muddle of a women in her prime sexually, with the energy and almost social mentality of the younger guys, but I can never have what I need all because these guys label us as sex objects ONLY. and then the ones the REALLY like older women, actually like the maturity! So, I'm stuck. It would all be perfect if I didn't look older than I am. So in order to fix up my situation, I guess I'm going to have to get a lot of surgury to make me look younger and then lie about my age, and THEN I might get a proper relationship. maybe...but who knows. I feel doomed. | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 7/21/2009 11:18:36 AM | | I have always had a thing about men being 20yrs younger than me, I would never contemplate having sex with anyone near my age, I imagine they would bore me and not come up to scratch in bed, maybe Im wrong about this! Younger men have a high testosterone level and make you feel good about yourself but sadly the relationship does not last very long and you end up feeling used which is usually the case! I hate typing this out but Im 76yrs old and my libido is stronger than its ever been! | |
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| What's up with young guys coming on to older women?
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:58:08 PM | | OP - send 'em my way. Of course its impossible to generalize, but the ones that contact me are usually established in their work, and tell me they're looking for someone who is responsible and has stability in their life. And I dont think WE'RE desperate, but the way some of them act it can make one wonder if THEY are. | |
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