| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 7/8/2007 4:54:48 PM | | Really, every woman in LA is a golddigger? Several million of them are illegal and take jobs you and I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. They work in illegal facories, clean houses, ride the bus for hours. But then, they're kind of dumpy and the wrong color and can't be seen on YOUR arm in Westwood, can they? You get what you pay for. You like the looks of that mess, but whine about what it costs. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 7/8/2007 9:01:08 PM | Dude, if you spent big $$ on a woman for two years and didn't catch on then its nobody's fault but your own.
Honestly though, I think your post is BS.
As for beign a gold digger....any woman that EXPECTS me to pay for everything. Not that I have an issue with paying for a date, but in this day and age I don't think it should be expected that a man always pays for everything. Likewise, I would consider a woman a gold digger if she EXPECTED me to buy her fancy nick nacks and jewlery etc. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 4:14:24 PM | | A man should be able to tell if a woman is a gold digger on the first or second date. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 4:21:58 PM | I don't know if anyone else has suggested this but, if this girl wouldn't let him sleep in the same bed while they were on a cruise or in Hawaii then she isn't just a gold digger but she is also hiding her junk. She's gold digging dude.
Love can't be that blind. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 4:47:55 PM |
Move to Montana to find some women that truly care.
Yes, they are located right next door to the Unabomber.  | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 6:22:22 PM | Hiding her junk? What the hell does that mean?
I am hiding some of my junk in the attic, some in the garage. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 6:28:35 PM | ^^ I think it's means baggage. The only thing else it would refer to is her "private parts" which of course "could" fit here.
I can say that in a matter of an hour here I received 8 emails after I posted my pic. There IS some truth to that increasing a better return for your buck, and dam*n good since it's free!!!  | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 11/27/2007 6:51:21 PM |
Hiding her junk? What the hell does that mean?
Girls have goodies and guys have "junk". It's just a slang term. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/15/2008 10:46:44 PM | | Funny, the last time I checked , men can be true g-diggers as well, in this 2 paycheck world...I have run across my share of men hoping for a woman to " be his other half". increase his level of success , be his muse with benefits...runs both ways, does it not? | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/16/2008 8:38:34 AM |
Funny, the last time I checked , men can be true g-diggers as well, in this 2 paycheck world...I have run across my share of men hoping for a woman to " be his other half". increase his level of success , be his muse with benefits...runs both ways, does it not?
There is a HUGE diffenrence between wanting an equal partner and being a gold digger. In today's economy, if a lady is looking for a man to support her, she's a gold digger. Period. If she's willing in controbuting to the partnership, then she's not. It's really that simple.
Now contributing to the partnership doesn't have to mean money. For example: if there is a marriage and one (EITHER the man or women) wants to be a home maker and the other agrees that that is a reasonable contribution to the partnership, then that's fine. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/16/2008 9:48:49 PM | The funny thing is that most men who worry about gold diggers have no money to dig.
First if the lady expects you to pay for the date, she is not a gold digger, it is your duty if you are a gentleman.
I've given up on men and got me a sugardaddy. I gotta have that shopping money and I don't want to work hard for it.
Also some men don't know the meaning of the term "sugardaddy" If you buy a woman drinks or lunch , that's not a sugar daddy thing, that's a date. You gotta put out some cash and gifts to be a sugar daddy. I don't want to be spoiled with kisses or affection, I want to be spoiled with money and nice dinners. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:14:31 PM | ang65,
There's another more fitting word for women (or men) who do what you're describing. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:27:03 PM | sweeeeeet,
I have no idea why hoping for the things you list makes someone a "true golddigger." I always thought people in love each wanted the best for the other and wanted to contribute to each other's success. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:30:14 PM | Matchlessm--- Good answer to sweeeeet
a golddigger is only in the relationship for themselves. It is all about THEM (what's in it for ME?). A healthy relationship is about US and each helping the other to be the best that they can be. | |
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| Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 6/17/2008 11:15:35 AM | People PLEASE... the nonsense posted here is overwhelming!
Original Poster: Let me guess, you were raised by females, probably feminists, who told you repeatedly that if you are a "good man" and "just be yourself", women will want to be with you and stay with you, right? Clue: That's the worst advice a woman could ever give to a man/son/friend.
Let's talk about sex first. Women decide within the first few minutes whether they will ever sleep with you, and it will happen within the first 5 to 10 hours of contact time or will likely never happen at all (no matter HOW much you pay her!). That's what actual psychologist who study this say - it's NOT my opinion. By the end of the 4th date (which is probably about your 10 hours) 80% of couples have had sex. After that, you're 'just a friend' or 'just a sucker'. Move on.
Money: Never BUY a woman's time... not with a drink, not with dinner, not with a vacation UNLESS she is rewarding you (with sex, affection, taking turns with buying, etc). The most successful men in dating always split the bill, because then you have partnership relationship, not a hooker/john relationship.
'Old Fashioned". Walk away from any woman who says you should pay because she is "old fashioned". She is simply telling you she's a hooker; that she's ENTITLED to your money simply because she's female. They will ALWAYS end badly for the man. If you want to play along, say, "Ok, what year are we talking about when you say OLD"? They usually say 1950's or 1960's. You reply, "OH, ok, back when domestic violence was acceptable, child abuse was readily accepted, women were not allowed to work in any office jobs, and if they worked at all were the lowest paid and got the worst jobs in the company. Is that what you're pining for?" If they are, say you'll go along with that, but she is to quit her job TOMORROW, vow to stay home all day (remember, no TV and no cellphone, it's the 50s!) and clean. If dinner's not on the table and she's not dressed and in full makeup, she gets a punch in the mouth, 50s style. The concept of men paying for dates was from a time when women were excluded from the workplace. That stopped 30 years ago. There is no excuse for women not paying their fair share in 2008. Unless they're hookers.
Rewarding women for bad behaviour creates MORE bad behaviour for the rest of us. STOP. Grow some balls. Treat women as equals, as human beings (not hookers) and the crap decribed in this thread will quickly stop.
10 hours of contact time, guys, that's where you escalate or walk away. After that you're just getting set up to be a victim. | |
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