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 Mominatrix

Joined: 7/5/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2009 10:31:05 PM
Oh no, I was just suggesting an alternate strategy...

I know you are a good guy taco... I won't tell, would hate to ruin your reputation!

I am just not sure I see a big difference between a man that would use a woman for sex, and a woman who would use a man for money.
 CordlessTaco

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 102
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Posted: 2/20/2009 10:33:47 PM

I am just not sure I see a big difference between a man that would use a woman for sex, and a woman who would use a man for money.


Ok, we agree then. I was getting worried there for a second.
 IB1drew4u

Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 2/22/2009 2:42:38 AM
I'm sorry to say but you pretty much supplied her with the shovel.
You enjoyed her magnetic personality and I'm sure she enjoyed your company as well. I don't even think you were technically used. She must have felt something for you because I can't see going on vacation with someone that you are not attracted to or do not care for.

I'm thinking there must have been some medical condition that kept her from a physical relationship or perhaps she was a "he".
 IB1drew4u

Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 2/22/2009 2:50:10 AM
By the way, in my profile ,I refer to myself as a "gold-digger". Please check it out.
 serenityCW

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 105
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Posted: 2/22/2009 9:09:33 AM
actually met a man gold digger the other day. what makes him or her (the one you speak about) a gold digger? i'd say a narcissistic personality and a good dose of reinforcement from the arm candy crowd... and, of course, the man i met touted to be a famous "artist". he knew the market well enough, to put some "bonding" ingredient into his formula...a lot of charisma and creativity. sorry fella, not sold on e-bay this round. i neither dig, nor expect to be dug.

i am taking a week or two off from this dating scene. it's getting weary. OP, emailing for thousands of times, is not what i'd call an intimate relationship or a friendship. next time, if i were you, i'd go on a singles cruise. not clear what "circle" you say this woman kept you in, the rich and famous? or the rich, famous and lonely? had a number of those on my board of directors back east. money just doesn't appear to solve that problem either.
 Mominatrix

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Posted: 2/22/2009 8:53:23 PM

I'm thinking there must have been some medical condition that kept her from a physical relationship or perhaps she was a "he".
Oh, I am so jealous that I did not think of this... that would be really hilarious if it were to occur!
 IB1drew4u

Joined: 7/24/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2009 12:55:29 AM
It could very well be the case huh, Mominatrix? I wonder if he even checked for an adam's apple!!!
 Mominatrix

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Posted: 2/23/2009 3:01:51 AM
Well, you can hide that... the other? Not so much!
 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 109
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Posted: 2/24/2009 6:21:25 PM

well i guess most people look at them self a top shelf u hav to spend to get and if u dont get then u took a chance


if the man has to spend to get something it means he is a retard. If any woman thinks men should spend something to get something from her, it means she is a whore. Whores not necessarily need to act directly such as "you pay $200" for an hour. They can act indirectly " I will not date or marry you if you won't this and that". Most of the time the second scenario is is combined with manipulation, deceive and playing hard games. So, the real whore who says "pay me this much to get this much" is much more ethical, honest than the second types of whore who are like 80% of women.
 matchlight

Joined: 1/31/2009
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Posted: 2/24/2009 11:37:40 PM

the real whore who says "pay me this much to get this much" is much more ethical, honest than the second types of whore who are like 80% of women.


My, my. 80%, is it? Being a little hard on the ladies, aren't you? I think I've met some of the worst (only briefly, thank God) but unlike you, I'm certain they're a small minority.

I can't imagine wanting to be with a woman who values you mostly for your money, but some men do. Maybe it lets them feel needed when nothing else will. And women like that must have some emotional want that's satisfied when men buy them things.

It's much more fun to have a normal lady who likes you, thinks of you, and can't keep her hands off you--especially if you feel the same about her. There are lots of very nice unattached ladies around, but I have a hunch they avoid guys who think the odds are 4 to 1 any given one of them's a dishonest whore.
 Ender330

Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/25/2009 12:58:36 AM
HELP HERE!!!

OK sorry everyone! I am not from Cali...I am an OHIO boy! Now keep in mind that I have not met anyone on this site who has been interested in me because of money.

But offline is another story. I am for from broke but just because I have it...women expect for me to give it up to them. And when I say NO...it's always the same thing...I don't care about them or I am stingy and they get mad and ever want to speak with me again.

One month I had enough so called female friends ask me for enough money combined to wipe out my whole pay check for the month! That's when I put and end to helping them out...now keep in mind that I had never had sex with any of these women, at one point I may have dated them but figured it was time to move on.

When does it become ok to ask for money? I started telling them that they need to go find a man and I'm not interested in helping anyone that I am not planning to make my lady. I told another that she would be offended if I asker her for sex and I am offended because you asked me for money...I'm not the guy you should be asking for money...you should go see the person you have been active with(but not in those words)
 matchlight

Joined: 1/31/2009
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Posted: 2/25/2009 1:57:21 AM
Is there something in the water back there that makes these women so greedy for other people's money? Please tell me you're kidding about giving them a month's pay. You do realize you can get your man card suspended for that, don't you? Your "friends" sound like they could stand to consult Miss Manners. I'd take it as an answer to my prayers if they got mad and never wanted to speak with me again.
 Ender330

Joined: 4/23/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2009 6:47:11 AM
Nooooo wayyyy....none of them got a dime from me. I had had enough at that point
 SterlingHeart

Joined: 11/19/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2009 7:20:49 AM
the second types of whore who are like 80% of women


I, for one, am darn glad this opinion is now highlighted for all to see on his profile.
It speaks volumes about his hatred of women.

 allthingscnsdrd

Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 7:38:35 AM
^^^

Not to mention how his kind of thinking applies to the women in his life. His mother, sister or girlfriend/wife. What does that make them?
 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:07:06 AM

the second types of whore who are like 80% of women


I, for one, am darn glad this opinion is now highlighted for all to see on his profile.
It speaks volumes about his hatred of women.


I don't have hatred for these women, but am sorry for them. Read my previous posts about my ex girlfriends, my ex wife. They first show how classy they are bla bla bla, and if the "spending", expensive trips get less and less after not one but three months honeymoon, then complains and nagging is coming. They confuse normal civilized man of nowadays with the GEICO cage man, when he was supposed to go hunt for the and she was supposed to do nothing and just get fed and satisfy his needs. If the woman is only for being taken care of to satisfy man's needs then nothing wrong with real whore. At least they are more strightforward. Why other woman who have this thinking more or less, including money hungry beaches, gold-diggers, those who want to catch a man who is well-off in life, etc etc get offended if I call them worse than regular whores? BY the way, I don't care about anyone thinking anything positive or negaitive about me when I say what I think in real life and especially in this website. And my advice to other men will be the same, do not babysit women especially from this website. If anyone want's to have an honor just to see me from here, the cup of coffee in Starucks, not even frappuchino, but regular Venti for $1.98 is the max I will offer for the first date.
 allthingscnsdrd

Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:11:00 AM
*hands sorot a shovel*
 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:12:50 AM
Yes by the way those women who were telling me that they have this have that, will come up with lots of cash or investment, would buy a house for me etc when I was dating them have been kicked out the same way as the ones who were selling them.

If there is any women here who will come and say that she never dated a man more or less bcs of money, and I will read her profile and beleive in her, then I can praise her here since she will be in the 20% bracket.
 SterlingHeart

Joined: 11/19/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:45:41 AM
If there is any women here who will come and say that she never dated a man more or less bcs of money


There are many, many of us who have never done that. Apparently you travel in other circles.

Your cynicism is astounding.

And I don't think a shovel would do much good in this case.

 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2009 9:03:47 AM

And I don't think a shovel would do much good in this case.

A lobotomy perhaps?

 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 9:31:12 AM

If there is any women here who will come and say that she never dated a man more or less bcs of money


There are many, many of us who have never done that. Apparently you travel in other circles.

Your cynicism is astounding.

And I don't think a shovel would do much good in this case.


If you consider yourself not like that, why are you getting offended then? And what you credit score has to do with dating? Like the other woman trying to hook up that nice man here, the first thing she was telling that she has no debt, owns her home, etc etc.
 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 12:18:28 PM

We would have sex, of course! I am of the belief that I owe you big time for that cup of coffee at Starbuck's because you are so deserving of a return on your investment. Anything less than that is "gold digging"


Excerpts from a profile .

This lady is NOT a gold digger, she is in the 20% bracket.
 naughtymariette

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 12:56:00 PM
Wow!

I love it when people commit public social suicide on the forums.

Just imagine what all the women will think when they read his posting history!

Sex for a cup of coffee? Good luck with that. How's it working out for you?


 sorot

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2009 1:05:16 PM
I know someone who has a PhD, is handsome but very poor. Will you date him?

ps, trust me I have no shortage of women being interested in me, my problem is the opposite, it's you who got used to womanizers, weak and pathetic men who can't know the difference between quality women and trashes who sell themselves.
 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2009 1:52:48 PM
Sex for a cup of coffee? Good luck with that. How's it working out for you?

Actually NM, he was quoting from my profile. After reading all of the threads about gold digging, what to do on a 1st meet, how soon to have sex, debates on who pays for coffee, guys who expect a woman to put out after taking them out, and the fact that I'm not currently looking to date on here... this is my tongue in cheek answer to all of this.


I know someone who has a PhD, is handsome but very poor.

I work with several Ph.D.'s and they are far from poor. It must be the discipline.
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