| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 2/29/2008 11:57:45 PM | | LOL... chicks ask about size and crude stuff from time to time... i think its great.... cos their just clearing up the question of them being a complete scrubber hence allowing me to know not to waste anymore time on them... which is what females confronted with males asking stupid questions should do..... too easy really | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 3/1/2008 12:59:55 AM |
As a female, I have found alot of the emails I get are pretty rude and fairly offensive. Guys wanting to know tit size, fav positions, grooming down there, and wanting to hook up for a one nighter. Talking to other women, I know I'm not alone. I'm just wondering what would happen if the shoe was on the other foot, and we asked about size and the rest of it. I'm just wondering how would you react?
Ever have one of those annoying people ring you up and say its just a quick survey?
One answer. None of your business. Click!
Do you get junk mail in your letter box? You cant stop it even if you have a pit bull tied to the gate post. I dont know about you but I have a track from my mailbox to my wheelie bin. Lift lid. Drop. I wouldnt even have a clue whats in there.
Treat idiots and pervs on dating sites the same. Use the ignore button. Dont even bother to answer the email. They're just looking for suckers. They'll look until they find one. Whether its you or someone else doesnt matter.
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 3/2/2008 3:32:07 AM | | I met a lady who told me of some awful messages she got from Men. She ended up leaving the site altogether. It makes me sad to think that I was one of the only men who contacted her for the right reasons. She said "all they are looking for is a one night stand". I just got an email from another contact saying she is leaving POF for good. What is wrong with these people! These sleazy guys are scaring away all the nice ladies. Please wake up to yourself guys, and show a little respect for the ladies. Otherwise they will all be gone :( | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 3/2/2008 3:44:04 AM |
Please wake up to yourself guys, and show a little respect for the ladies. Otherwise they will all be gone :(
The guys you address this to won't wake up or change their behaviour and they won't care that those ladies will be gone. They'll move on and find another avenue for their crude and offensive behaviour.
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 3/2/2008 3:53:05 AM | I think a lot of them don't even know they're being crude and offensive. They're trying to be charming and sexy, and just lack communication skills. Honestly.
A sample from today's crop...none really offensive, just ... not good.
hey hun,i luved ur profile and im really interested in getting to know u and i think a guy my age can do exactly the fings uve wished 4
Now, at 22, I really don't fink he noes the fings ive wished 4
hello there cutie
hello there and good morning :)
So how are you this morning u sexy woman ? feel up4 a little chat?
:love
Excuse me, you're 26 and it's 3 am. No thank you... don't call me cutie, sexy, or send me ":love" when you don't know me please. "love" - that word means something :)
Hi gorgeous I wonder maybe we can chat and who knows maybe we could meet, I liked ur profile so drop me a line and see where it goes babe ......
Married man looking for intimate encounter who uses a pic of Antonio Banderas as his profile pic. Told him if he was really Antonio Banderas to get back to me, otherwise no thanks. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/18/2008 11:27:15 AM | | When they are rude give it back. I just got an IM from a guy asking if I would go for a ride tomorrow on his bike. Never spoke to him before so I said sorry I can't. He came back w/so I guess your not interested....I said I'm sorry. He then writes back you c _ _ _ ! Just by that alone tells me the mantality of the ***hole. If the shoe was on the other foot we'd still get called every name in the book. I hear ya girl! | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/18/2008 3:23:30 PM | I was talking to a guy on another site and he seemed nice enough so we swapped phone numbers within 30 seconds he rang and I tell ya what.... I told him I was going to start charging him $3.95 a minute to talk to me. He said he was just having fun so I accepted that..... next phone call was the same so I asked the question? "Would you come up and start to talk to me at a coffee shop or a pub like that"? he said I have a problem with him having fun I told him I have a problem been treated like a $2 whore he got the sh*ts and didn't contact me again..... low and behold after a couple of months he has started messaging me again and opening line was he wanted to know if I was getting any.... maybe it's my turn to put the shoe on the other foot. Hell have no fury as they say and about time these disrespectful S.O.B's get what they deserve. Why do they go into sites where people are looking for relationships... there are plenty of other sites where woman are into one nighters and multipals.  Wish they had testimonials on the other site he would never get another reply from a female again. Lets hope he doesn't find POF. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/18/2008 3:55:30 PM | Hey tika send me a message with his profile in case the SOB contacts me. Tried to send you a e-mail but came up unaccepting e-mails or messages from my gender LOL maybe he took active partner as easy they tend to not read between the line sometimes, then again guys like that think only with the head that has no brains then to carry on like that neither head has brains. Sorry guys... on a soap box cause this infuriates me there are some really nice guys out there & on here and these jerks ruin it for you.    over it now got off the soap box. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/23/2008 10:23:04 PM | i do ask about size.. i mean it is the tool for the job :)
but yeah if i get an email that is offensive, then geez.. block delete and brush it off as just another moron in the world.. i mean the surprise in that is what? | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/23/2008 11:46:16 PM | How would I react?
Well first I would track them down then use a machette and crack their heads open like coconuts, then pull out their entrails and eat them, then shoot them with the flame thrower, then bury them and dance on their graves. Sure this can be quite funny but I think it would be funnier to just iggy them!!
Anyone who is a late show fan should recognise that!! | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:35:35 AM | haha eternaloptimism! I understand exactly ! e.g. 1 guy email me saying " I am King Horny, wanna me to put a smile on yr face" ...... How generous! Had to laugh post reading his title name though ?? But i then deleted!
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:45:08 PM | I myself am sick of it...but what is the WORST is when I matter-of-factly tell them I don't want to be talked to that way, they actually feel entitled to ARGUE with me!! Or defend it as "playfulness".
I'm telling ya, it puts my jaw on the floor every time. I've never met these people; I've barely exchanged emails, yet they feel it's OK to comment on how my boss is probably checking my erect nipples in my cold office cuz I "have nice ones" (which aren't even in my picture); and how sexy lower back tattoos are during certain activities "wink wink"...Good Lord.
One guy on here, a real class act, actually told me that "I'll NEVER get a man with that kind of attitude!!" after I objected to his crude talk on IM.
I don't understand why they think it's OK to talk that way to a woman they don't know. Are there really women out there that react with "teehee! oh baby yeahhhh!!!" to that crap? | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 6/13/2008 5:55:52 PM | I either tell the person that I am not one who will tolerate these kind of questions or interrogations as it makes me feel uneasy, especially when you don't know who the hell they are! I didn't subscribe to POF as a desperado, nor to meet wankers. I am genuinely here to meet people who respect me for me without the crude and offensive emails.  | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 6/13/2008 6:42:08 PM |
I don't understand why they think it's OK to talk that way to a woman they don't know. Are there really women out there that react with "teehee! oh baby yeahhhh!!!" to that crap?
Oh, I seriously have tears in my eyes...
Yes there are. I have a friend (who is a complete riot!) and I was at her place one day when a guy started that up...
She went along with him for a wee bit.... "Oh baby, you must be sooooo BIG.. I just feel all over cum.." etc etc...
Then she turkey slapped him so eloquently, it still makes me laugh today! | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 6/15/2008 2:55:21 AM | | My reaction would be, block and delete. I would imagine that if we were to ask the same questions, they would possibly get a big head, considering men like this seem to have their brains in that department. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 4/21/2009 8:30:19 PM |
Are you just trying to be funny??
Don't you have a life or a job or anything?
You sound so boring.........even your friends look, sound and email boring..........off you go, jump off something and end it....please
Todays offering in the email box.
Im a bit gutted really as I actually thought my friends were quite amusing...time to get new ones then..............
Funny thing is the silly twat had a profile saying if he has made the effort to contact me I should be polite enough to reply back! | |
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