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Pray tell how one's moral fiber starts to unravel by self gratification?

Would you rather a guy go to a whore house or cheat on his frigid, use sex as a tool to manipulate her husband wife?

"There are those who will say that the suppression of sexuality in Moslem countries such as Afghanistan, Egypt, Libya and Saudi Arabia has resulted in the oppression of women and created tremendous pent-up frustration, but these same individuals will neglect to mention that masturbation and even bi-sexuality in these countries is also endemic and may itself contribute to the suppression of women. Any man who looks upon a woman as his **** or thinks his genitals have parking rights with the loins of all women is not far from the paternalistic oppression noted in these Islamic countries, which has been rightfully criticized by the women’s liberation movement. Has it ever occurred, however, to social critics that the ability to re-locate and root the sexual appetites in marriage (no matter what religion is professed) might serve the higher good of appetitive restraint and impulse management in general? “Oh no,” we are told, “sex is good” and the more of it you can get without babies the better. Masturbation is always to be encouraged under the Rosseau “nature is good” system because whatever nature wants is good. What happens when nature wants something bad? What happens when you want a little bit of violence or murder with your sex, and what happens when the products of casual sex become inconvenient? I am reminded of the cartoon that shows a snake in the Garden of Eden tempting Eve: “Take it, it’s organic.” As a red-blooded American, I can’t think of anything more agreeable from the perspective of raw desire than raping, pillaging and destroying but does that mean I should engage such impulses? What will prevent me from engaging such desires, unless I have a moral code that puts a leash on appetites knowing full well that many impulses born of nature are nowhere near what we might term “good”?"

"By this I don’t mean to suggest that masturbation or other forms of sexual relief might not be thought of as limited “goods” within the highly subjective sphere of individual sexuality, but it is important to relocate our sexual energy, so to speak, into a context where it might be more productive, and tend more towards the moral and even spiritual perfection of our humanity, rather than being simply a sexual relief valve. Marriage tends to integrate sexuality in a way that is biologically healthy and it certainly can provide some serious protection against disease. Additionally, marriage can function as a tremendous school for impulse management. A friend in California once told me that if you could perfect any relationship that enlightenment would soon follow. Perfecting the relationship with a spouse is a life-long task and that, along with the rearing of children, tends to integrate and domesticate sexuality. Men who are busy working, and raising and spending time with their families, generally speaking, have little time for mischief."

Wow that's just weird and a total "DEAL BREAKER!"

If the answer is still no, he may have to relieve himself in another room.

The man who masturbates is more likely to do these things because of what I just stated

So, heres the problem.
I went to bed one evening and woke up to find my husband masturbating to porn on the computer. Now this really disturbs me and I'm not really sure why. All I know is I wish he would give me more attention cause I'm real...and I'm RIGHT HERE