| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/24/2007 8:32:48 PM | | You need to ask your husband your question. He might not know you want to get him off. Communication is the key. Your profile pics are quite stunning. I would think that your not married by some of the shots. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/24/2007 10:03:21 PM | | Optical noise, you have been with the wrong women, probably very young. That was a really unrealistic statement for you to made. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:50:54 PM | I agree naeco;
One reason a man would choose to masturbate rather than having sex with his wife is if he has simply lost interest in her sexually. Men react sexually to visual stimulation. For example; this could happen if the once sexy wife has let herself go and gained 50, 100 or more pounds. However; this is obviously not the case here. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 3:37:10 AM | Well spotted NativeWarrior! I've just been wondering the self-same thing as I've read throught he pages and pages of responses and was amazed that no-one else had noticed. Perhaps she's luring him away from the online porn with promises of viewing some girl on girl action 
On the original subject matter - what's the big deal? I'd find it kinda horny to walk in on my guy masturbating while viewing porn, heck I sometimes do whilst reading (and writing) erotic stories 
HNL | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 4:15:25 AM | Well masturbation is fun for male and female.
Men are very visual creatures, and they only can think with one "Head" at a time....and the smaller one usually wins...
My advice is.........It;s nothing against you, Don't take it so personal. If you it bothered you so badly that he was seeking pleasure without you at that time , then why not walk up to him while he was masturbating and ask to assist him in anyway.. ..? Might have been fun and showed him something new that he didn't know about you. Never be insulted when guys do stuff like this. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 4:43:24 AM | All these spelling mistakes --- people must be typing with one hand....
So why ask "married" this of married men -- is the ritual of the marriage ceremony suppose to alter the genetic structure of males and cause them to stop enjoying self-stimulation...? That would seem somewhat unlikely.
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 12:04:49 PM | Masterbating is bad very bad, bad bad bad monkey!
Spank the monkey BAD MONKEY! Get the old hand lotion and squeeze the bad monkey! Turn on the computer and use left hand shuffle. Bad BAD monkeY.
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Monkey.
Don't worry, most men I know it is all make believe. Guess what they think about after the bad monkey spanking? Football and you.
You can try and stop nature, good luck.
Why make him pretend? He wants to spank to the large jugs on the screen, it is not a crime and just because you caught him does not mean you can scold him. What do you do behind closed doors? WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT?
lol
Human nature. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 12:10:43 PM | Bet you didn't help him either,. AND YOU WERE RIGHT THERE!   
You SHOULD have clicked the mouse for him with one hand, and "wrestled the iguana" with the the other.. and if that shocks & disgusts you,.. NOW, you at least know WHY he was out there alone! | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 1:43:00 PM | Why do married men masturbate?
EASY
Because his wife has turned into a fat slob with a p*ssy so sloppy you could drive a Mac truck up it THATS WHY !!  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 1:52:39 PM | ^^yeah but the OP - DarkKitten is NOT...a fat slob - not by ANY means ;)
If SHE were MY wife - and sexual as (she) seems & mentions - being 'right there',
I know *** well (she) wouldnt have to wait long to be carried to bed...and I surely wouldn't need to masturbate :) never HAVE while I was with a hot woman. Yum | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 1:59:37 PM |
^^yeah but the OP - DarkKitten is NOT...a fat slob - not by ANY means ;)
If SHE were MY wife - and sexual as (she) seems & mentions - being 'right there',
I know *** well (she) wouldnt have to wait long to be carried to bed...and I surely wouldn't need to masturbate :) never HAVE while I was with a hot woman. Yum
Not in any way is she... however I assume the circumstances have changed seeing as she as listed and seeking a female long-term relationship.
As for the OP though, it depends I guess. How often did you want sex? Did you turn him down often? Were you prude? Were you, dare I say, boring?
I personally am probably the strangest guy out there because that's something I've not done and I'm 21 years old. My ex and I were together for 9 months and within the second week we were labeled "Rabbits" by our friends... She attacked me daily, I never even had the urge.
Now I've been single for 2 months and guess what? Still no urge. I dunno, if you were NONE of the above, your husband is/was a moron or a serious sexaholic.
Anyhow, continue on~ | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:04:37 PM | | I find it more than a little strange that you are registered on a Singles Dating Site. I believe there must be more to your "problems with your husband" than you care to mention. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:12:16 PM | | Married men masturbate because like all of us after being married for a while we need to fantasise. I am a woman replying to this question; and ask what you are doing to fulfil your husbands fantasies. Have you just set about love making in the usual way - for however long you have been married? Haven't you had fantasies about someone or something- or are you so sexually cold that you don't you have them? | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:28:37 PM | Looking at your profile headline...could it be that you "really want a girlfriend"?
I just had to ask.
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:28:47 PM | this a relitively simple one..either the guys are randy with a high drive and need it...or they dont want to jump on their partners every 5 minutes and piss them off...also a clever guy needs to be in control....
girls thnk most blokes need their rocks off at every whim but the clever man knows how to control....i remember a story of marlyn monroe who was married to a writer arthur miller...they had a row after she stormed out she came back home to him having a hand shandy...he said i dont need control...i can please myself...decent clever men dont need girls pissing them about, so they know how to handle themselves i got the same from my wife..she could never understand why i wanked so much...but i liked masterbation because in my mind i could f...k girls i knew i never could get off with or could be bothered to try....
dont take it too seriously let the guy enjoy himself the harm it can do unfortunately is bruise ego's///tony | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:52:12 PM | :) yes {msg #368), I noticed (that) too - but right away can see how (the op) IS looking for a woman instead now lol I still say a man who masturbates WHILE MARRIED to someone looking like the op has a 'problem' in one way shape or form. I had outright sex 3 or 4 times a day weekends while I was married - and at LEAST every weeknight (most times twice per weeknight) when I was in my early 30's
That's about 12 times per week - about 50 times a month lol
And yes, (they) lasted over an hour a piece :) Point is, I had no REASON to masterbate - and was sexually satisfied :) | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/28/2007 5:56:22 PM | Wow never thought an experience would come in handy, but my wife and I are divorced. When we were dating we looked up porn together because it was exciting, and added an extra element to our relationship that was great.
So one night she came in and caught me at the computer while I was looking at porn. Had a fit, and I had to face her family over it, because she was too scared to come to me. She later told me it was because she felt that I didn't have any interest in her. Which I thought after we were married since we watched porn, that looking it up would have the same effect we could have a quickie, and it'd be cool.
You do need to talk to him regarding this if it bothers you, or better yet intice him into the act while he is masturbating to porn. If you make it like whatever fantasy is playing out in his head chances are he'll take you like you'd expect. He likes the way it feels, and sometimes experiencing that fantasy for yourself is what you need. Make yourself his fantasy. The next time you wake up and he is in there going at it join him in it, and take a role in it to have some kinky sex. Chances are he didn't want to wake you, and thought he'd enjoy a little me time.
My two cents, and good luck   | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/29/2007 10:31:03 AM | I am in the process of deciding what to do about my marriage because of this very same thing. I have read a lot of the posts and see that a lot of the people here wonder why "married" people are on here. When I googled "Why do married men masturbate", this is the first link that popped up. I am here to meet people, make friends and get advice. I love reading all the responses and am currently in this same boat. I have known for awhile that he masturbates,but apparently it has gotten to the point whether he would rather masturbate than be with me. I am attractive, keep myself well-groomed and clean at ALL times. I am open to trying just about anything and he knows this. This year, we may have had sex 3 or 4 times a month. Then on vacation at the beach, and with a hot young thing with us and all the bikini clad ladies, he suddenly wants to have sex 3 times. We later went on a week long trip where we were not able to have sex. The first night after being back, he masturbates and then later when I tried to get frisky with him, he couldnt keep it up. I ask him why? He doesnt know. What were you thinking? He doesnt know. You couldnt wait an hour for me to get home? He doesnt know why. He eventually told me that he wished he had "done it" in the commode like he normally does, so I wouldnt have known about it. Anyway, this has really been bothering me, especially with a lot of the things he has told me. He masturbated a lot to a magazine with women clad only in bikinis. When I asked him how he could get a hardon with a woman not naked, he doesnt know. He doesnt know why he masturbates and he doesnt know what he is thinking about when he does it. So.... that is my story....
So.... why would a married man who has a goodlooking, sexy wife who is willing to try just about anything sexually rather masturbate? | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/29/2007 10:46:13 AM | | Your question saddened me. Not because it is unusual for men, married or otherwise to masturbate, but because your question says so much about the state of your relationship.. Why doesn't your husband give you the attention you deserve and so obviously crave? That is what your missive screams at me... I hope you sort out your relationship and don't think about the smaller issues that are troubling you... Talk to each other and see what happens. Good luck.. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/30/2007 9:04:21 AM | | ...that's the question I had as well 'talesr' - with a 'hot' wife / girlfriend, there should not BE any reason to masturbate. Also, 3 or 4 times a month is INfrequent compaired to my past r-ships - if I wasn't 'looking for it' 3 or 4 times a WEEK, there was something wrong :) surely not boasting - just making a point. And I had a 2 yr. r-ship with a good looking woman just around 3 yrs ago & (we) did it at least nightly - at least 6 or 7 times a week - I was in my early 40's so there is no tale of the 'age' thing. I keep myself in good condition and it surely helps :) | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/8/2008 3:19:55 PM | | Wow...I just read your profile and it looks like you'd rather be with a woman so it is not at all surprising that your hubby is not "into you" like you'd like. | |
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