| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/8/2008 4:35:45 PM | I just find it kind of funny that you're worried about his masturbating, while you're looking for a female to have a "relationship" with. LOL
Hrmmmmmm......
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/8/2008 10:31:32 PM |
It's that he's wasting his attention on those sluts in the porn. Why not ask me to make him some porn or video tape us having sex? I don't understand this because I'm open minded and eager to please.
If this is the case, why are you complaining? You wake up, you man is obviously horny....instead of griping, why not take over and finish the job?
"Hey, man, THIS here needs some of THAT!!!" Goodness, the most opportune moment to get sex, and instead you get mad? Makes no sense!
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/8/2008 10:57:23 PM | Have any of you BRIGHT WATTS noticed the OP has not posted to this thread in almost TWO YEARS?
She has now turned gay OR has given into her lesbian tendencies.
This must have happened after she was on here asking why her husband was jerking off to porn rather than talking to him directly?
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/9/2008 5:16:03 AM | Wish I could lick my...
...wait, what was the question? Haha.
It's probably been said in the past two years. I hope so. I just haven't had time to read this whole thread yet and see the good, the bad, and the ugly. But just in case...
Masturbation is a healthy activity for both males and females whether married or not. It's the ones who don't masturbate and especially those that are against it that I am leery of because they are much more likely to have unrealistic expectations in a relationship. I guess it could go the other way too though. But if I find a potential partner does not, is not interested in learning, exploring or is dead set against masturbation I see major red flags waving vigorously. That's one of those times I start running like Forrest. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/9/2008 5:40:10 AM | | Masturbating and sex are different. There is a time and a place for both. He just happen to have chose to masturbate on that particular night. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/9/2008 5:59:50 AM | you are responsible for your ACTIONS, not your thougths.
using the definition, the woman that has a dream with "sex with a stranger" is also a "mental cheater"!
when you are getting married, you promise to be FAITHFUL in all your actions. you do not promise not tho have "bad thoughts or desires", or you don't even promise blindness to every other women.
there is no such thing as mentally cheating 
there is no "mental bank robberry"
either you comitted a bank robbery - than you are guilty, if you didn't- you are 100% innocent!
if you ever played a computer game and you shot people virtually - you would be considered as a "mental seriel killer" using your logic.
re. msg 78.
<div class="quote"> the man is mentally cheating on his partner. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/21/2008 2:11:47 PM | | I THINK ITS JUST NORMAL . I CAN HAVE SEX YESTERDAY BUT I WLL STILL FIND TIME TO , WELL YOU KNOW.. : ) | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/25/2008 1:01:05 AM | well，if we ask you to eat the same dinner everyday, then you will understand why your husband did this..it is nothing, men just like somthing different, it is not about you or him, it is about, about ...ok, ok, actually I am not able to speak this clearly | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/25/2008 1:21:36 AM | the whole wake up sex is great granted....but even I sometimes,who adored my hubby and was attracted to him and wanted him always, sometimes just wanted to get off nice and easy, so if that involved porn online or on vhs or a dildo/vibrator so be it! sometimes you just wanna get off and go on with your day/evening. It had nothing to do with your love or attraction for your partner but with a primal urge to get off!! sheesh I dont get why its such a big deal for both men and women alike. Yes if it happend more then you actually have sex then yes its a problem, but if it just happens cuz they/we are horny and want to get off thenwhats the big deal? IMHO its a natural thing and the more you can embrace it with them and make them and yourself comfortable with it then the better!!!
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/25/2008 1:47:57 AM | maybe he does not want to disturb you. maybe you have said no to many times then there is always the excitement of a new body to gawk at. who knows self stimulation sometimes just feels better. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/25/2008 2:18:36 AM | | Maybe you're boring in bed and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.I think you're living in a cave if you think theres something unusual about a man reading pornography.Has it occured to you that the problem isnt him?You guys should examine your sex life........TOGETHER.Do you know what turns one another on?You should change your name to naive kitten | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/25/2008 2:50:41 PM | | I have to be perfectly honest - if I were with you, I don't think I would ever waste time masturbating! | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/6/2008 3:10:12 PM | Why do married men masterbate???
Two reasons.....if the wife is a bit tardy with the lovin'....it is then considered daily maintainance
if the wife is right on time with her lovin'....then he is "primin' the pump" | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/6/2008 3:18:08 PM | | Squirrley said.."what's weird is someone worrying about what is a natural human habit".....I TOTALLY AGREE. GEEZ, people. Women who worry about that are women that have a terrible problem with their self esteem and are WAY too uptight. Talk about ISSUES ! I would have gotten up and watched the porn and masturbated with him! | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/6/2008 8:42:42 PM | | I GUESS THE SAME REASON A DOG LICKS IT'S BALLS?. THAT AND IT'S NOT U? COME ON!!! HE IS BEING FAITHFUL! but watch out that can become a prob.. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/6/2008 8:51:13 PM | Maybe he wanted to pop one off so he could last longer with you.
There's just something about Mary.
Have a dancing pickle.
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/9/2008 1:10:45 AM | | DarkKitten, after looking at your profile it seems that your husband should be worried and not you. He's just looking at porn but you seem to be looking for flings with other men. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:11:19 PM | Why not? Be glad he's keeping it at home! Sit down, watch him, purrr to him, Kitten. Look at what he's stroking and what's on the screen. What "type" turns him on like that? Guys like fantasy: lacey shy girl, pigtail schoolgirl, power exec in glasses, wild dirty girl, dominatrix... Never underestimate the effects of roleplay and outfits! Try a wig different from your hairstyle. Buy sexy things. French Maid's always a safe starter. Don't play at it, BE the actress. Dload the vid Lady Marmalade with Christina Aguilera, Pink, etc. Nice outfits, learn the moves too. Also, if you "catch" him again, don't say a word. Just unzip your pants and get yourself off. Hope this helps, and remember: he's safe at home. Spice it up a bit so he doesn't take the next step...
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:48:49 PM | It doesn't mean something is missing...
There's nothing wrong with masturbation or porn. It's your body, feel free to use it how you wish and don't get upset when your sig. other does the same. If you want more and he's not giving you more, then talk. If you don't want more, enjoy the break and as it was said above there... be glad he's keeping it at home. Men have more of a need for it than (most) women seem to in long relationships and so many women blame themselves for it. It's not your shortcomings that drive him to it, it's his drive that drives him to it :)
I'm not saying I understand the opposite sex completely, but the sex part is a given.
Watch him. Try to take part in it with him, but from across the room.. only if you want to be a part of it of course. See what he thinks of that! :)
Take care and stop worrying so much.  | |
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