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 Del Monty !

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 476
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Posted: 9/3/2008 11:46:13 AM
Here in the South...it's called by many memorable names... "Choking the Chicken"...."Skinning the Mule"......"Playing a song on the Tom-Tom"....."Beat your m**t on a toilet seat, doo-dah,doo-dah".... .but I cannot imagine a man wanting to do it to porn instead of the real thing right in front of him. Maybe it's time you took matters into your own hands. Good Luck !!!!
 CollinS10

Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 477
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Posted: 9/3/2008 11:59:32 AM
Firstly just a question !?
You say you woke to find your husband masturbating, why does it say on your profile that you are single ??

Secondly my opinion, perhaps he gets aroused by the fantasy of having these women from off the computer, the fact he will never get them is a huge turn-on for him.
Where as he knows you are there available to him and this reality could seem boring compared to his fantasy.

I would say however having seen your pictures on your profile, this guy obviously doesn't know what a good thing he has : )

Take care
 Pers14

Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 478
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Posted: 9/3/2008 12:13:48 PM
Why are all these old threads from 2006 being resurrected?

She MAY well be single by now. Sheesh. Read for meaning before you post.
 The_garbageguy

Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 479
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Posted: 9/3/2008 12:32:40 PM
She hasn't posted in over a year either. I wonder what happened.

These old threads get resurrected because they don't like people putting up redundant posts. They like people to add to posts that are already up on the same subject.
 TrinB

Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 480
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Posted: 9/3/2008 12:46:02 PM
i'm not even gonna touch this..one!!
 texasgal08

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 481
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 9/3/2008 1:16:25 PM
I wouldn't worry about it either. Everyone masterbates..married or not. Even when a couple has a good sexual relationship, the urge to play comes up. It's natural. Just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel about it.
 69Chevvy

Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 482
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Posted: 9/3/2008 4:19:01 PM
its his fantasy to be with a women like that
 Beta Bear

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 483
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:30:48 PM
Did anyone read this girls profile.
Miss thing here has hot photos of her self and she is looking for sexy boiiiiz.
It takes two to screw up most relationship and you seem to be doing your part.
 Beta Bear

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 484
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:33:45 PM
I didn’t see the dates. I’ll go ahead and apologize and assume that she is single now.

pehaps the threads would be better if they expired at some point.
 smart_and_sexy

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 485
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:41:36 PM
Interesting that you were married and on a dating site.
 girlee_girl13

Joined: 9/5/2006
Msg: 486
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:43:59 PM
Why are you on a dating site if you are married? You profile says "single"....yet you post a question about your "husband"....
 rutryin2bfunny

Joined: 12/24/2006
Msg: 487
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:55:42 PM
Haha maybe he wants to have one on his own terms and be lazy and have complete control once in a while.
Does that make you insecure?
It shouldn't.
As long as you aren't being too demanding....
 sortin it out

Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 488
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Posted: 9/8/2008 5:24:55 AM
I think everyone needs to understand that this site is for more than just dating! If it
were not, it would not have given us the looking for friends option, which I myself
have chosen. I know I will get some remarks for that one but I think the truth of the matter speaks for itself. If anyone is looking to pick at me for saying this pick away and waist your time. I know I will win any argument simply because I will not argue back!
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 9/8/2008 5:44:47 AM
I told my partner ,"don't worry I won't let it go to waste", I will roll over and cum on your titties!!!!
 helinda

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 490
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Posted: 9/8/2008 6:17:18 AM
To get an orgasm,the same way most married women do too.
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 491
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Posted: 9/8/2008 6:29:39 AM

Not sure I've ever had a date before but I'm ready to try, so don't be shy boys get at me!


Married or not? that is the question. Either way if you did have a husband I can't see why him masturbating over porn would worry you. You're obviously not shy yourself by the way you're posing in your pictures. I can't figure out how this thread managed to escape deletion for attention seeking.
 sortin it out

Joined: 8/5/2008
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Posted: 9/9/2008 2:53:29 AM
First; someone tell me how to do the whole quote thing! Yes, I really do not know how to do it, but I do not think there is a stupid question.

Secound; if I knew how to do it I would be agreeing with you pamperpoochOOO! A few pages back, I just saw her question and immediately (without thinking or checking her profile) started to give her feedback. I have been through a simular situation, so I did not think first, and expressed sympathy for her. I am not anyone's judge but still come on. For all we know, she made it up to get attention, and we are all sittin here like idiots giving it to her.

Third; I am sticking to my guns about the friendship option I mentioned earlier on this page. It may not apply in her case but it does in mine.

Fourth and Finally; I have not even seen her, stick her nose back into her own business on here, in I don't know how long. Mostly (like I did myself until I paid more attention) has anyone else noticed that this **** is like over two years old. I think we should retire the damn thing! It slipped through the cracks of attention seeking so lets just shut it down ourselves!

P.S. I am not kidding, someone tell me, how to put some one's words in the quote box! I am not kidding but I can laugh about it. For real though, with this whole thing, is getting on my last nerve.
 Rek2007

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 493
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Posted: 9/9/2008 2:56:39 AM
Do you know what he was masturbating TO ? Maybe it was something that you don't do for him in bed. Talk to him. Find out.
 cassandrat2001

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 494
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:49:08 AM
who cares? i mean, if he just masturbates all the time & never does anything w/u i would worry but maybe he just wants to get it over w/, maybe he doesn't want to bother u, maybe he thnks u arent in the mood, maybe he is tired & doesn't want 2 have 2 worry about pleasing u...who knows? unless it is interfering w/ur relationship does it really matter?
 ~Music

Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 495
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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:53:32 AM
Just curious...Is it the pleasing himself that bothers you or the fact that he uses a porn site? Maybe he is showing a preference to the porn over you? Not sure. I wouldn't worry about a healthy manner of pleasing himself without you. Better yet, ask if you can watch. Never know what may happen. If nothing happens, then get worried. :)
 made_n_brazil

Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 496
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Posted: 9/12/2008 9:58:03 AM
Because it feels good
and perhaps..because you're spending too much time on the internet playing around on POF so he decided to see what the internet is all about?!
 honeybear55

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 497
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Posted: 9/12/2008 10:15:50 AM
i agree with you doing it together is fun and exciting but to do it in front of a comp is alittle dream of wish they could have instead of you . young sexy thing , and then there is the no word , men seem to want sex when they want it , What happened to when women want it !me i would of loved to be woken up and played with , his fantasy of what he was thinking used on me , hell wake me up anytime , like the other lady said , I AM HERE , AND I AM REAL no fantasy
 SlingDad

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 498
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Posted: 9/12/2008 2:16:48 PM
Um, we masturbate *because* we're married, lol.

I guess the OP wasn't married for very long.

Actually I just wanted to be post # 500.
 The Devils Son-in-Law

Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 499
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Posted: 9/12/2008 7:53:56 PM
All men love to beat their meat !! Its almost like a hobby for us . No -one knows how to treat the old sausage like yourself so sometimes we enjoy indulging ...
 opnmydm

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 500
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Posted: 9/13/2008 6:06:19 PM
you were dleeping, he was probably trying to be nice and not bother you, so he got on the computer. just sounds like he wanted to "me" time while you were sleeping..not a big deal unless he does this alot and leaves you out of the picture, then you have a problem..next time just go right over and help him in what he is doing, a little oil and both your hands will go a long way
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