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 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 526
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:39:27 PM
Dam it! Why do people post in these old threads, thus putting it at the top of the list for commenting on! Obviously, someone did a search and resurrected the thread, so now we see it at the top! Ack!
 punkinette

Joined: 9/7/2007
Msg: 527
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:50:36 PM
Well how would u feel if she satisfied herself and u were right there?
 KissesandHugs44

Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 528
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Posted: 9/15/2008 5:16:49 PM
Everyone should do it! It makes you more in tune to your sexuality!
If you don't...you are missing out!
Some men are bothered by it as well, thinking they cannot compete with
BOB or MOB or whatever the heck you want to use.
The sensations are all different...human moods and needs are different from
moment to moment. The best is "Masterbate Together"! Everything is better when
done together! SMILES....and GREAT TIMES!
 julie_do

Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 529
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Posted: 9/15/2008 6:42:05 PM
^^^Yup...I like that.
the usual expression is: May I help you with that?
 heartnsoul51

Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 530
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Posted: 9/15/2008 7:11:09 PM
Old thread but worth the last few drops of ink here lol.

Married men masturbate for the same reasons as single men do, and for the same reasons married and single women do - it feels good! It's erotic to watch. It gets one in touch with their inner self and sensuality. It's pleasurable. It's a means to the beginnings of a night of passion between two people. Now if one's partner prefers to masterbate only, then there is an obvious problem which needs to be dealt with ASAP.

If my partner's going to masterbate, my response would be a simple - need an extra hand there fella??
 notshellfish

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 531
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Posted: 9/16/2008 11:20:25 AM
maybe because for some, even with a spousal unit, it's still the best they'll get
 FriendlyTeddyBear

Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 532
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Posted: 9/18/2008 5:21:12 PM
OP, Because he can! Have you giving up masturbating? Not that it really matters. Men will continue to masturbate as long as they can get a hard on.
 princej3822

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 533
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Posted: 9/18/2008 5:30:51 PM
I'm just curious why you talk about your marriage in present tense and your profile says you are single?
 pandamoose

Joined: 9/12/2008
Msg: 534
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Posted: 9/18/2008 7:38:34 PM
Too many pages to read, so I'll just respond to the OP:

That's a very good question. Will someone tell me too? My concept of men was that they're horny a lot, but I never thought they masturbated also...maybe I'm just weird.
 Opposites

Joined: 9/6/2006
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Posted: 9/19/2008 2:49:51 AM
I must answer fire cracker not to escape the subject at hand. You never have the desire for a quicky wife busy or girl friend is unavailable. Like she woke up and found him doing it. Meaning he was probably thinking about her need some rest. Or just wanted an extra boost for the day. Would prefer he go to another women. Comments like such are what push men over the edge.
 spiceemomme

Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 536
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Posted: 9/21/2008 2:48:10 PM
.......I didnt read all the other posts,so forgive me if this is redundant.but.........maybe he was just being selfish .....if he wakes you up, that means he has to give something too????????????
 Rocketblonde

Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 537
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Posted: 9/21/2008 2:54:09 PM
Because they can !!! Now to porn?// ummmm, ,you might need to talk to him about that one, alot of people additcted to porn... He could be getting to that point.....Some serious talking needs to be addressed....
 ponytailoftx

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Posted: 9/21/2008 2:58:39 PM
Because they feel like it and they can!
 D48763

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 539
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Posted: 9/21/2008 4:04:40 PM
The same as women,,,they are not being sensuality and sexually forfilled,,,and the lack of good deep open honest communication exists that one or the other and sooner or later one will start looking elsewhere,,,yes,,,you may have been avaible,,,but there is every reason to believe he or in some cases she just did not feel comfortable to express all the needs,desires,wants, fanatices you or the other needed,,craved toexplore,,I think the beauty of creativity is also missing,,, when one turns to books or movies,,,that is a great warning sign of not enough good deep honest communication,,,when one has that beautiful communication NOTHING is beyond reach ( no pun intended,,,lol,) Relationships of quaility need always being improved,worked on,,,if one does not committ to working 110% from both sides,,,that relationship has a great chance in complete failure,and the other will seek someone else,,,thus heartbreaks,,, in enjoying the great beauty of sensuality,,,mutaly,,,communicctae,,,if you can on that deep warm level,,,you can so much easier on all relationship levels,,,if you cannot or the other will will not,,thats a train wreck,,,
Me,,I would never even date a woman who cannot communicate on that deep level,,,even before the first date we would have communicated about all the beautiful aspects we need,desre,want,offer,experiences,,,people date not to get a free dinner but to learn and sort out if they are emotionaly secure in there sensuality,sexuality,,,looks alone are just a pretty plant,,,me,,I rather know that the flower has the same goals,,to grow ,blosom,,,less chance of train wreck,,,
 D48763

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 540
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Posted: 9/21/2008 4:09:59 PM
May be an old thread,,,yet so many rather jump on the train because it looked so inviting,,,and did not learn from a fourm 2 years old,,or communicate deeply ,,,it is not just one side,,,both sides need to encourage mutal reaspect and communicate,,one may wrongly be giving the wrong impression or just not respect the others expressions or creativity,,,before pointing a finger at who is wrong,,,look at your attempts to communicate,,,are you encouraging it on the right level,,,sure beats talking about how it went at work or the weather,,,,wc,,you both will benfit greatly and warmly ,,just keep rewarding each other with more beautiful creativity,,,its great,,,,
 Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007
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Posted: 9/21/2008 4:17:05 PM
Masturbating....hee hee.....
 MandiLouWho

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 542
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Posted: 9/21/2008 4:22:07 PM
well...I have a dishwasher in my kitchen, but sometimes I just like 2 do a load by hand...

 Slennut

Joined: 8/17/2007
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:47:27 PM
Wierd.
You say in this post that you are married, and concerned about your husband's sexual behavior, and being unable to understand it.

Strange thing is, that your VERY PROVACATIVE profile says "Single".

Hmmm...
Which is the truth?
Or is it all truth or all lies.
Go figure.
 ponytailoftx

Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 544
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:12:11 PM


LOVE'n Mandilouwho's post ... tooooo funny!
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 545
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:35:12 PM
Because it's hard to beat your fish.
 chesher 38

Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 546
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:43:15 PM
In the case of The OP, it just could be that her hubby feels better abot The Hands ON aproach to SEX then the Hands Free Method, he is also terrifide of becoming a Father...
 tango-shoes

Joined: 9/27/2006
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Posted: 9/23/2008 6:53:26 PM
Married men masturbate the most.. hahahaha............ When they are single they can... f.u.c.k whom ever they want, when they are dating it is way more exciting.... don't take it too personal.
 Dynamic0003

Joined: 6/28/2008
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Posted: 9/25/2008 8:40:06 AM
To tango-shoes, you took the words out of my mouth, you are so right. Especially

a woman shouldn't take it personally. It can be a hint as well!
 sortin it out

Joined: 8/5/2008
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Posted: 9/25/2008 5:58:23 PM
I still don't get it! I know that these threads are for archival purposes but this is rediculous. Has anyone, else for the final time, noticed that this was posted over two years ago. Also the author has not been responding for two years. Every time I see a dear Dark kitten I want to throw up.

I made the same mistake before I realised it myself. Since then, the past couple entries of mine, have been trying to stress this point. I guess everyone is too fascinated by the subject matter to care. What does that say about us? Most of the people on here who have been commenting should just go to a porn site. It is no wonder the sex industry makes billions.

I am not a prude, I like sex too, but come on. It seems like that is all everyone on here thinks about. What ever happened to conversation about things that really matter. I wish everyone would let this die. It won't though because it is too inviting for everyone to vent their sexual frustrations. What ever floats your boats. I know I am done with this. It reminds me too much of what America has boiled down to.

I try to be a good person but this is too much. If you had been following this thread, like I have been, you would understand. I only followed it to see if my advice helped her until I realised she does not care. Hardly anyone else has either so God bless and good luck with all of your frustrations.
 tb1570

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 9/30/2008 5:44:48 AM
so firecracker 007 , are u suggesting that the husband should wake the wife up and make her have sex w/ him? or is a man supposed to just wait around and deny his natural impulses and live his life sexually frustrated until his wife or partner decide it's the right or proper time?? in reality, it's probably a choice between masturbation or cheating. the OP should be happy he was pulling it at home....
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