| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 12/16/2008 10:56:30 AM | | some men go their entire lives looking for that scenario. a know of a few who used to pay for that kind of thing..... | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 12/16/2008 11:05:35 AM | ...in this day of instantaneous exchanges and cyber living. who has the time to read the whole exchange. When the big 'M' word comes up..... All bets are off. Wise to take in the whole diatribe first before offering up your level of IQ for the whole world to see. But as soon as that 'M' word is seen,..whoa....now that's what i'm talking about. Too much to read. But understand your position completely....between you and I. Think we could get another one going? Now let's talk about the big O...i'm sure you pigs out there have a few comments for us Donkeys.
People!...slow down will ya? ..forget it. Not me.  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/1/2009 7:52:25 AM | | I think it is pretty sexy to watch my partner masturbate, I usually join in and help him, at least for the grandfinale. And if I found him at the computer, I would jump on the chair. As far as married men masturbating, I think that is very common. I agree, he probably did not want to do all the work of including somone. but if you woke up, why didnt you jump on him? | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/26/2009 5:18:36 PM | Maybe he wanted it to last longer so he was getting round one out of the way, before he woke you for round 2 | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/26/2009 7:02:53 PM | It could be he's addicted to porn, OP (if you're even still reading this; folks, this thread has been in existence since 2006...). If that's the case, there's a legitimate problem going on, and he should get some help.
It could be that he isn't currently satisfied with you. This requires communication, and willingness on both your parts to mix things up a little and be open to new things.
Finally: your profile states you're single, and your pictures are definitely not oriented towards "hanging out" as your profile states its purpose. Is this a recent update of yours? Are you no longer with your husband? If you are, then what are you doing on a dating website?
"I can use the forums!" Sure, but there are plenty of free relationship discussion forums available that don't require you to have an active profile on a dating website.
If you're not with your husband any longer, then a) enjoy the site, and b) this isn't an issue anymore, obviously.  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/27/2009 8:42:49 PM | | I don't think masturbating is such a big deal. I wish my ex would have considered it, it might have made me feel like less of a machine lol. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/27/2009 9:06:33 PM | | Why does the earth go around the sun? Why do the flowers bloom in spring? Why do Lions eat meat?.....It's just nature. I honestly would'nt be worried until you catch your man in bed with a live girl. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 2/28/2009 6:17:10 AM |
cause the sex stopped completely 6 years ago. 6 years?!?
I'm sorry, call me an insensitive boob, but there's no way I could go 1 year without sex let alone 6!
Edit: I see that you're 51 by your profile, so maybe she's older and just can't do it anymore but still...
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 3/6/2009 3:29:11 PM |
So, heres the problem. I went to bed one evening and woke up to find my husband masturbating to porn on the computer. Now this really disturbs me and I'm not really sure why. All I know is I wish he would give me more attention cause I'm real...and I'm RIGHT HERE
I'm gonna look at this from a creativity point of view.
maybe what you could do is bust out the web cam and make him some home movies he can yank his doodle dandy too while you are sleeping ???
maybe he didn't want to wake you up, just be cause a man is married doesn't mean he's not allowed to bop his baloney..  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 3/6/2009 3:44:42 PM | This was in the news recently well in the uk that married couple rather sleep than have sex so no wonder men masturbate  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 4/12/2009 10:24:18 AM | | i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years. we both lost our virginity to eachother and we are definately going somewhere. The only thing is i am always horny and he isnt. Yet he masturbates to porn and sayis its a habit. It drives me crazy because i give him anything he wants and he still choses to masturbate to porn | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 4/12/2009 10:41:07 AM | Mariaaaa......It has become the visual image and stimulation for him now, and he has not matured past that yet.
I would suggest that you give him the same type of visual stimulation that he is getting through movies, magazines and web sites. You should have quite the advantage by being there up close and personal, and if you create a visual, he will be more than willing to enjoy the show and not have to manually take care of himself, because he will have you taking care of both his visual and physical side.
This is the starting point for you, then you can teach him how to be a lover and not just a sexual encounter for satisfaction and visual pleasure. The time is ripe for you to show what love making is all about, and pleasing one another as you grow together.
He is a lucky boy to have such a young woman that is already yearning for more sexually, and not even be close to her prime, and he should take full advantage of this now, since he is in his prime and will never be able to keep up with you later on, unless he learns now.
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 4/13/2009 4:11:44 AM | I can, want and enjoy sex anytime of the day or night. Wake me up during the night and or get me in the morning and you have most def hit the jackpot! If you feel the need to masturbate, heck wake me up or come get me and I'll help you with that too. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 4/22/2009 2:23:15 PM | | I think it's healthy that everyone masturbates. Maybe you should try masturbating in front of each other and show each other what you like. And hey everyone needs a fantasy every now and again, why don't you try to watch porn together sometime and see if that spices things up. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 4/22/2009 9:56:26 PM | Why do dogs lick their privates?
Because they can.
Any other questions?
Perhaps the "porn" your husband was watching is more real to him than you are...just as your revealing of a highly personal sexual moment to the entire internet world is obviously moore "real" to you than asking him why he's doing it?
Did you ever think of just asking him, all innocent like,
"Need a hand?" or,
"I see you have your hands full. Can I change the channel for you?"
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