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 gammarey

Joined: 5/10/2008
Msg: 551
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:56:30 AM
some men go their entire lives looking for that scenario. a know of a few who used to pay for that kind of thing.....
 gammarey

Joined: 5/10/2008
Msg: 552
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/16/2008 11:05:35 AM
...in this day of instantaneous exchanges and cyber living. who has the time to read the whole exchange. When the big 'M' word comes up..... All bets are off.
Wise to take in the whole diatribe first before offering up your level of IQ for the whole world to see. But as soon as that 'M' word is seen,..whoa....now that's what i'm talking about.
Too much to read. But understand your position completely....between you and I. Think we could get another one going? Now let's talk about the big O...i'm sure you pigs out there have a few comments for us Donkeys.

People!...slow down will ya? ..forget it. Not me.
 2BAFriend

Joined: 12/1/2008
Msg: 553
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 12/20/2008 6:17:38 AM
interesting question.
 ProcolHarem

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 554
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Posted: 12/20/2008 12:53:06 PM
cause the sex stopped completely 6 years ago.
 octaviarose

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 555
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Posted: 12/20/2008 10:42:58 PM
because they cant stand the sight of their wives and want to go blind.
 Blowfish1

Joined: 8/28/2007
Msg: 556
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 1/31/2009 7:52:21 PM
Na he's a Perv dump him....
 Judith51

Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 557
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Posted: 2/1/2009 7:52:25 AM
I think it is pretty sexy to watch my partner masturbate, I usually join in and help him, at least for the grandfinale. And if I found him at the computer, I would jump on the chair. As far as married men masturbating, I think that is very common. I agree, he probably did not want to do all the work of including somone. but if you woke up, why didnt you jump on him?
 zoltar865

Joined: 5/4/2007
Msg: 558
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Posted: 2/26/2009 5:18:36 PM
Maybe he wanted it to last longer so he was getting round one out of the way, before he woke you for round 2
 silentman73

Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 559
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Posted: 2/26/2009 7:02:53 PM
It could be he's addicted to porn, OP (if you're even still reading this; folks, this thread has been in existence since 2006...). If that's the case, there's a legitimate problem going on, and he should get some help.

It could be that he isn't currently satisfied with you. This requires communication, and willingness on both your parts to mix things up a little and be open to new things.

Finally: your profile states you're single, and your pictures are definitely not oriented towards "hanging out" as your profile states its purpose. Is this a recent update of yours? Are you no longer with your husband? If you are, then what are you doing on a dating website?

"I can use the forums!" Sure, but there are plenty of free relationship discussion forums available that don't require you to have an active profile on a dating website.

If you're not with your husband any longer, then a) enjoy the site, and b) this isn't an issue anymore, obviously.
 MamaDukes1962

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 560
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Posted: 2/27/2009 8:42:49 PM
I don't think masturbating is such a big deal. I wish my ex would have considered it, it might have made me feel like less of a machine lol.
 Noon75

Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 561
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Posted: 2/27/2009 9:06:33 PM
Why does the earth go around the sun? Why do the flowers bloom in spring? Why do Lions eat meat?.....It's just nature. I honestly would'nt be worried until you catch your man in bed with a live girl.
 DeagleNINja2

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 562
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 2/28/2009 6:17:10 AM

cause the sex stopped completely 6 years ago.

6 years?!?

I'm sorry, call me an insensitive boob, but there's no way I could go 1 year without sex let alone 6!

Edit: I see that you're 51 by your profile, so maybe she's older and just can't do it anymore but still...

Me thinks I'd have to find me a younger lady
 Pontoon guy

Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 563
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Posted: 3/6/2009 1:01:42 PM
Men do this,for the same reason women do...because they can.
 Yankee_Girl

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 564
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Posted: 3/6/2009 3:07:22 PM
I guess I don't see the problem...
 TheToefactor

Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 565
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Posted: 3/6/2009 3:29:11 PM

So, heres the problem.
I went to bed one evening and woke up to find my husband masturbating to porn on the computer. Now this really disturbs me and I'm not really sure why. All I know is I wish he would give me more attention cause I'm real...and I'm RIGHT HERE


I'm gonna look at this from a creativity point of view.

maybe what you could do is bust out the web cam and make him some home movies
he can yank his doodle dandy too while you are sleeping ???

maybe he didn't want to wake you up, just be cause a man is married doesn't mean he's not allowed to bop his baloney..
 SugarFreetea

Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 566
Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 3/6/2009 3:44:42 PM
This was in the news recently well in the uk that married couple rather sleep than have sex so no wonder men masturbate
 Mariaaaaaa

Joined: 3/31/2009
Msg: 567
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Posted: 4/12/2009 10:24:18 AM
i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years. we both lost our virginity to eachother and we are definately going somewhere. The only thing is i am always horny and he isnt. Yet he masturbates to porn and sayis its a habit. It drives me crazy because i give him anything he wants and he still choses to masturbate to porn
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 568
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Posted: 4/12/2009 10:41:07 AM
Mariaaaa......It has become the visual image and stimulation for him now, and he has not matured past that yet.

I would suggest that you give him the same type of visual stimulation that he is getting through movies, magazines and web sites. You should have quite the advantage by being there up close and personal, and if you create a visual, he will be more than willing to enjoy the show and not have to manually take care of himself, because he will have you taking care of both his visual and physical side.

This is the starting point for you, then you can teach him how to be a lover and not just a sexual encounter for satisfaction and visual pleasure. The time is ripe for you to show what love making is all about, and pleasing one another as you grow together.

He is a lucky boy to have such a young woman that is already yearning for more sexually, and not even be close to her prime, and he should take full advantage of this now, since he is in his prime and will never be able to keep up with you later on, unless he learns now.

Just my opinion........
 Puss~N~Boots

Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 569
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Posted: 4/12/2009 5:11:06 PM
Because it's sex with the one they love the most...... themselves!
 allInkedup

Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 570
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Posted: 4/12/2009 5:22:13 PM
^^^^^ HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA^^^^^^ we have a winner!
 Puss~N~Boots

Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 571
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Posted: 4/13/2009 4:11:44 AM
I can, want and enjoy sex anytime of the day or night. Wake me up during the night and or get me in the morning and you have most def hit the jackpot!
If you feel the need to masturbate, heck wake me up or come get me and I'll help you with that too.
 SharkSlayer101

Joined: 3/9/2009
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Posted: 4/22/2009 2:13:05 PM
Because sometimes we like to change our own oil...
 Cantobellus

Joined: 2/20/2009
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Posted: 4/22/2009 2:23:15 PM
I think it's healthy that everyone masturbates. Maybe you should try masturbating in front of each other and show each other what you like. And hey everyone needs a fantasy every now and again, why don't you try to watch porn together sometime and see if that spices things up.
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 574
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Posted: 4/22/2009 2:31:03 PM

Because it's sex with the one they love the most...... themselves!



~OT~ Does it really matter? It's sort of a "given" in my mind. Maybe I just expect the man in my life to be the same man I meet, not necessarily just the man I marry/live with/whatever. (Meaning? He probably did so before me, why would it change just because I exist??????) JMO
 Go Rin No Sho

Joined: 1/9/2009
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:56:26 PM
Why do dogs lick their privates?

Because they can.

Any other questions?

Perhaps the "porn" your husband was watching is more real to him than you are...just as your revealing of a highly personal sexual moment to the entire internet world is obviously moore "real" to you than asking him why he's doing it?

Did you ever think of just asking him, all innocent like,

"Need a hand?" or,

"I see you have your hands full. Can I change the channel for you?"

Buddha is laughing.....
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