| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/6/2006 9:47:58 PM | ahhhhhhh give me a break we all know what hes doing and anybody who does it is sure thinking about someone else bottom line your sexy plus u said your up to it most of the time.bottom line is dont fall for all these excuse. if that was the case .you try it one time on the comp to some sexy hulk and see how fast he comes unglue ahhhhh its normal yea when you single and can get any. but when its there in front of you give me a break.you have to be fool to use your hand why is it better?? save your excuse for someone who dont know any better talk to him yea right what you going to say oooo hon should i dress up for you how long will that last until he gets bore again. you need to tell him direct next time i catch you doing that ill bust a cap on you disrepectful son of .b....... to think im not enought for you | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/6/2006 10:59:19 PM | | THE MAN NEEDS HELP WHY USE PORN INSTEAD OF THE REAL THING PORN IN MARRIAGE CAN BE USEFUL FOR GETTING THINGS STARTED NOT INSTEAD OF SEX WOULD YOU NOT CONSIDER WATCHING PORN TOGETHER IT MIGHT LIGHT THE SPRK YOU NEED | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:17:46 AM | He is just getting acquainted with an old friend (right or left)
Sometimes men in general need a release and will masterbate rather than put pressure on their wives and girlfriends to perform at that particular time. Girls how would you feel if you were in the middle of work and your hubby would say "Hey babe, I want and need some now, this moment." Don't think it would go over very well with a lot of ladies. Girls you like to be romanced and have the situation set up to be special rather than just a biological function.
Now if he is actively seeking porn on the net or watching it on TV to get turned on, then something is really wrong with him and I would question his motives. Some men suffer from premature ejeculation and masturbating before hand will help him prolong the sex act with you. So I would just talk to him and see what his answer is then go from there. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 8:03:23 AM | Masturbation has pretty close to nothing to do with you... men, married, single, gay, straight, blah blah blah... they masturbate because it feels good. And they use porn because porn is a fantasy. It's a perfect image in their heads, it's being able to f*ck that other woman without actually f*cking her.
Hell, that's why I masturbate, anyway. Sometimes I think of my partner, sometimes I think of other men... and when he does it, he sometimes thinks of me, and sometimes other women. We both have sex dreams about other people... *shrug*
It's perfectly natural.
You said you were sleeping. Maybe he didn't want to wake you. Or maybe he just wanted a little 'me time'. If he NEVER has sex with you, because of his porn, then that's an issue... but if it's a once-in-a-while thing, then don't sweat it.
Christ, I look at more porn than my spouse does... it has nothing to do with not being fulfilled.. he's a very good lover, and I enjoy the hell out of him... but it's about me getting everything I want in a fantasy... and not all of my fantasies revolve around my partner. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 8:10:56 AM |
Lets face it... most womens idea of sex is to lay back and take it, maybe make some noise, but esentially it's pretty minimal movement. A man however, talk about a workout. You have to be constantly moving or else she is complaining.
Boy, do I pity your experience.
That's just sad. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 8:40:24 AM | Lets face it... most womens idea of sex is to lay back and take it, maybe make some noise, but esentially it's pretty minimal movement.
wow, does this not sound like a blast from the past -- i am picturing a medieval woman fully clothed, skirts raised, laying there with her arms out like she's being crucified, being "done" by her knight who's shining armor is still on except for a little door that opens and closes so that he can answer nature's call and...
sheesh!
optical noise, did you ever consider the question of what a man has to do to get a woman interested in having sex with him? if men start out with an idea @ women like you have expressed, how involved are they going to be in it themselves, with the woman?
but please don't consider that this is most women's idea of sex -- you are quite quite wrong about us, trust me.
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 9:04:17 AM | | Whats a guy to do, yeah, if the wife will "help" out masturbating ok, but if she doesnt, the guy has to take care of himself. He cant go on all day with a loaded gun, yikes!! Masturbation is normal.... | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 9:21:32 AM | So, did you join in with him... or get mad? If he didn't want to disturb you, then you could have indicated that it was no problem just then... but if he does this all the time, then it's a problem the two of you have to discuss and figure out. Generally speaking, married men masturbate because they can!
Some like to masturbate so as to deprive their mate of the pleasure (so they're not 'up for it', so to speak, when she wants some) because they're angry with her. Some like to do it because it's easier and no-strings-attached sex, so they don't have to 'perform'. Some do it because they don't actually enjoy physical intimacy very much. And some do it because, well, because it was 'there'! (Nothing preplanned... just spur-of-the-moment.) And some do it for all the above. JUST LIKE WOMEN!  | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 10:04:30 AM | verygreeneyez on 5/4/2006 8:18 AM
I think it would be unnatural for him not to masterbate. If men truly do think about sex every 17 seconds, I'm all for them taking matters into their own hands from time to time ~ (bad unintended pun...lololol) The porn on the net, unfortunately, that is today's Playboy. If you really are bothered, and still upset by what you witnessed, you probably should have a loving, civil conversation with him...and give him other options, like access to you 24/7 because his urges probably aren't going to coincide with yours, unfortunately!! Good luck.
verygreeneyez on 5/4/2006 9:12 AM
YIKES!! It's so hard to work, socialize and spell. Gezzz....if that is the worst thing we all do today, I'd say it's a good day. D'oh ~ guess I'm out of the spelling bee
Yeah very true…Back when I was married I did a lot of flying solo since my wife was not in the mood or had other more important things to do or was asleep (heaven forbid I should wake her)… It would be nice to have a woman who was available 24/7 but in real life when kids, work, and everything else comes first, got to do something to take care of things. Back when I was married I used Playboys…the Internet was just getting started back then.
LOL Hey Greeneyez… I can’t spell either…. I use cut and paste and Word or you would not be able to read my writings… My mind tends to go faster than my fingers and spelling suffers. Hang in there Lady…we still like you even if you can’t spell ROFL….
 
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/7/2006 10:31:25 AM | | Well, Masturbation is totally normal, if my future wife isn't in the mood or is too busy for lovemaking, i would just masturbate and i am sure she would do the same if the situation was reversed. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 3:58:39 PM | Okay...I got suspended for 3 days on the forums for replying to this thread..I have to watch what I say...I still say...it is 'mind cheating'...If I were doing this to computer porn and I was confronted by my husband..he would be hurt beyond belief. It would be disrespectful to his manhood, ego..and things would never be the same again between us..it has nothing to do with how 'secure' you are in your marriage...MARRIAGE...guys..not dating, not hangin' out...I would never have married him if I thought I would ever masturbate to another naked man on the computer. Guess times have changed.
Oh geesh..I see another suspension coming..dag..
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:09:37 PM | ...me too^^^^but of course I'm single If I were married...I wouldn't be on here...I would be dressed in that little French Maid's uniform..sitting on his lap..feeding him strawberry banana yogurt!!! Nothing like a woman in uniform!! lol Let him even LOOK at that daggone monitor!! lol
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:28:29 PM | lmao...how lame..we're talking about MARRIAGE here..grow up..how would YOU feel if the tables were turned?? Uh oh...I see suspension coming around for me again..crap...can't bare my teeth too much on this site..really, put the shoe on the other foot. Oh dag..sorry..didn't know you were female...wow..you would put up with this if it were your husband? Huh..times REALLY have changed as you can see by my age..sorry to bust you..just my opinion..women, in my opinion take too much disrespect from men these days..if they can't 'watch porn'..then they blame us for being "insecure''...what a crock...see what their reaction is when 'Playgirl' is sitting on the night stand and you pick it up to read 'just the articles'. lol
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:37:04 PM | Just off the top of my head:
It is because:
they do not like to have sex with their partners,
or because they do not get satisfied by their partners,
or because they do not get enough sex they want from their partners,
or sex is a big drama if they ask for it. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:47:51 PM | killerdog..then they shouldn't be married...(clattering my teeth until "The Moderater" rises from the fiery depths of POF lava with his 'red eye' glowering at me.. )..I am staying ON TOPIC...seriously..I really see this as a possible problem down the road..especially if kids are involved...sorry...this kind of stuff makes me sick inside my heart. Trust is so important..at the beginning..middle..and the end as you vowed to each other...not everyone feels as strongly as I do...I'm fully aware of this..to each his own..computer..he has his...she has her's..I have mine..lol
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 4:50:11 PM | Why are some women so threatened if their husbands or boyfriends masturbate? I don't get it. Men are going to do this, whether they're in a relationship or not. Deal with it and grow up!
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 5:01:41 PM | | id have to know both of you personally to understand why you arent getting sex at the same time he is masturbating. maybe you should both watch the porn together and you should give him head or something and then you both can act out the porno together | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 5:02:37 PM |
Trust is so important..at the beginning..middle..and the end as you vowed to each other...
I like and admire your ideals and morality Sanschele. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 5:05:10 PM | Men are going to do this, whether they're in a relationship or not.
I like your opinion Ninki ! but seek help if it becomes too often (since you are married). It could really hurt your spouse if she found out. | |
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| Why do married men masturbate?
Posted: 5/10/2006 5:06:46 PM | killerdog..thank you..I admire yours as well...I got suspended for 3 days on the forums for my 'morality.' You are a special guy..any woman would be lucky to have you..she could trust you. oh crap..I feel another suspension looming..dag..lol..e-mail me..
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