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| Not every one is the same man!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/27/2006 3:48:09 PM | Basically, either men or women look for their psychological equal. I believe that most people are attracted to people who they rescue or are something they are not. Freud had a saying .. look for someone you feel neutral towards. It is always is the best policy because most of the time when people fall for another, they usually think with the heart instead of the head. Men usually use the wrong head.
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| LOL @ Snookie 372 Posted: 6/29/2006 10:29:10 AM | That is soooooo true. Most men come on this sight looking for sex and most women (come on be honest) come on here looking for Mr. Right. In the back of our minds we are hoping against hope that somewhere in cyberspace Mr. Right exists and we'll find each other and sometimes we do, more often we don't but a word of advice to the men who are on here to search for the wrong reasons, most women are not on here for a sex buddy. So if you really are not interested in getting to know someone for who they are and what they want out of life , whether as a friend or for a long term relationship, you're more or less wasting your time.
The reason why most women don't respond to you its because there are "plenty of fish" out there and it is literally impossible for us to reply to all of the emails we get, or even read the profiles, I think the catch for most women IS the picture and the same is true for men. You have to have a picture, it has to at least look half way decent, and most people can tell by looking at someone whether or not they like them or not, and THEN that leads to them reading your profile and if they don't like what they read for whatever reason, then you can't blame them or get upset because they don't responsd. I myself hate when people don't respond to me, but hey, life goes on. Remember "plenty of fish"! Have a great one everyone! | |
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| Not every one is the same man!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/29/2006 10:47:02 AM | | dont be so freudion........reud and hhis out look and philosophy is really too old for modern days life...what you have said is not always true, but sometimes happen, once again if you look for your opossite how are you ever supossed to communite and understand each other.....maybe back in the days women were attracted to those who rescued them, but not now.....now even men tend to be attracted to women that rescue them more....today men have become more codependent on women and wonam have become more independednt....and modern day psychology says that really women are attracted to emn who resemble their fathers, especially ones who grew up with out one around all the time, but that being said is also bs....take it from someone who is a brilliant psychiatrist....well i cannot say more, for you might just not fully understand it and take it the wrong way, and by you i dont mean you only i mean everyone | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 10:56:45 AM | First of all your a great big creep.I can't even email you because of my age.You don't like older woman eather.If you want to get what your looking for sweetheart,change you picture.Woman don't want to look up your nose. hun, women dont need to be understood, women like men think alike, they think human, and isent a man human as well, just each and every human thinks their own way......but you cannot say woman think one way and men the other....because its simply not true.......if he dosent understand her or any woman, means he is probebly lost in himslef, and dosent know what he wants or needs.......an is in a big dilussion of what he thinks he understands, want or needs.......well in that case someone needs to wake him up, and present him with a reality check.....but not evenknowing this man, just going by his jugements i doubt the reality check will work.....well sleep on my sleeping beauty one day then you will wake up you'll be in a world wre it would have helped you to have some privious knowlege of the human mind......take this from a brilliant psychiatrist who is never wrong....... have fun k | |
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| Not every one is the same man!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/29/2006 10:59:28 AM | Don't you just hate when you find a "good man" only to find out that he just wants his mommy? I mean don't get me wrong, I respect men that have good relationships with their mothers and I would NEVER come between a man and his family, but there are some men out there that need a mommy, you know who you are, there comes a time when you have to man up and realise that it's time to LET GO. I'm not your mother and I'm not your babysitter!
I just need a man who is a MAN. If you have honorable goals, if we have things in common, if we appreciate and respect each other, if there is chemistry, if we have similar goals and dreams, if you love me unconditionally, if we give each other space to breathe, because there are some people out there that suffocate each other, and most of all if there is trust, because that is more important than anything then we're good to go, but I can't live my life thinking that everything is always going to be a bed of roses. Shit happens, life happens. You have to be willing (and not hold it over my head) to accept the good and the bad and if you do great, if you don't fine, like I said before, life goes on! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 11:06:51 AM | honey you need to take it easy, not all women , especially not most write the same things in their profile, i would say the men do that alot more, are you one of those kinds? and before you say women are full of crap check yourself and make sure you have yours all out of you cause it sounds to me like you are gravely upset cause some woman or women who you have writen too have not answered your mails......maybe your just full of it, and theyy see no point in letting their fingers fall of typing back too you, then they can enjoy a real conversation with someone else.......so check yourself before you wreck yourself......take this advice it will help you out throught life trust me.....oh wait you cant trust me i am a woman there for i am full of crap....right?
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 11:16:35 AM | hey i feel 4 the guy i was on this site 4 at least a year now n all the women i messaged did the same thing easylovr was talkin about, jus say sumin nice but then forget about ya. i mean i'm 2 the point where i'm suicidal now, n i dont care anymore n the only thing that could help me was 2 b in a relationship but i jus get cheated on, n used, n can only find a girl that doesn't want 2 b in serious relationship. i mean god dang m i a freak show or wut OK so i feel like all women r sluts now so wut think what u want 2... im out n i shall never return 2 these queer ass dating site again. p.s. im not serious
i know you are kidding, but ,well darling, maybe a woman has read what you wrte to her and out of politeness answered you back.....but politeness dosent have to happen everytime they same guy writes and you are not interested in him...by only answering back once, one shall bee glad he even got an answer, cause some ppl, women dont even have time for that and as far as another thing we women also have a life out o the cyber world on the internet, we dont stay on this site all day, waiting for just MR,Right to contatc us.....we have better things too do, and sometimes we meet other people too, outside the internet dating site, and your right some women are sluts, but you could just tell that right away from their profile,pic,and messege..altho i found out that its most men who consider all women on a dating site too be a slut, so they beggin their intoduction to some women in a very inapropriate way, which of course makes the woman not want to answer back or say something just to make thhis man go away. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 11:24:04 AM | Angel of stars
Joined: 5/27/2006 Msg: 17 view profile Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/18/2006 2 25 PM Might I say maybe it's just that they're not attracted to you?? Funny how guys get all bent out of shape when someone doesn't just think they're the hottest thing around....GET OVER IT!!
you just said it girl......i wish more men would pay attention to what you just wrote maybe it will lower their ego...wishful thinking tho, i hardly doubt that it will they all seem to think they are everywoman gift from god, and that if she dosent take the chnace with them now, she is missing out on something realy big in her life! well guess what for all you men who think we women are full of crap....keep dreaming that you are god, you'll get more replys that way and who are you anyhow to say that women are ful of crap then most men are just the same and they all have the same line "i am honest, i am the nicest guy you'll ever meet, i know how to treat a lady right, and so on" wow! cant you men be less full of that crap and more honest with who you really are, and just a tip repeating the same lines....in almost everymans profile shows that again the men are full of crap....be creative come up with something new, and you just might find that women will answer more to you. | |
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| This whole Posted: 6/29/2006 11:37:24 AM | ihavewineorbeer
Joined: 1/28/2006 Msg: 21 view profile This whole Posted: 6/18/2006 9 41 PM This whole world is going to shit, i dont think the girls even know what they want, I kind of agree with what your saying, they say they are deep and want a real realationship, but actually they want what they think is the best looking, with the most money, what happend to be real, they dont want a well educated on his way to the top, they want some loser who can no offense who has one brain cell who never reallly cared accept that he was getting laid, with a big stick who can **** all day and night. I mean what is the world coming to, i have a close friend we go to bars, and i am telling you he gets these fine white chicks every weekend. I know him well he can barely read but he gets more ass from high class woman tham an Ivy League all American to shame. What some of these woman believe is ridiculous, he doesn't care about your problems, he's trying to get into your pants, he's retarded can't you see that, in the first sentence he says. I know physics but i do not understand how can a retarded guy get a fine ass beautfiul woman like that, and its every weekend. He is bating a thousand, When the NBA all stars say they ****ed 40thousand woman in there life, I believe it, white guys get nothing. I am ashamed to say it but i think i want to be black. Shit i thought they had it hard, this kid lives a charmed life, He get more ass then my entire graduating class from highschool combined, and the best part is he doesnt' have to say or do anything, its ok to be retarded and illiterat, it's fine, but if you say one thing wrong she is calling cops. I wonder have white men really messed her up that bad is she so scard now she is racist against her own race. Can that happen can you hate your own color. No offense to anyone but if your going to do it at least see if he can read, I have no problem if the guy has something better. Holy shit i wil never figure it out.
do you just belive it is the girls who dont know what they want? but guys surelly do..right yes giys come on this site and they know exactly what they want they think we are all women here are sluts so they try to messege us and ask us to take our pants off...hee hee lol yes guys know what they want then they come to this site but did you ever stop and wonder is this what a girl wants is she here for that kind of treatment or is she here cause somewhere deep inside her she still believes there is a decnt man somewhere out there.. yes the whole world is going to shit but portraying women as sluts is not a way out of the worl shit the guy you describe sounds just like most men on here\ ohh he gets a piece of ass is this all about ****ing or about meeting someone right for yourself i guess your friend must have some kind of a magical charm or the rel truth is he is a slut and the women he picks up are sluts just as well i wouldnt even be surprised if he payed them in some way what is wrong with a woman who might want some ...so caalled loser...as you say o you he might be a loose to her not and as far as hating your own race i dont think its a racial issue here, i think its more of how you have treated this woman issue and thats why maybe she perfers a black guy over you maybe the black guy actually knows how to treat a woman right and you dont ever think of what? well i wish you the best of luck change something in yourself and you'll see what the whole world might be going to shit but girl just as guys know what they want!\ and once you realise that maybe you'll find out that living in a world that is going to shit , is not so bad as long as your not turning to shit with it. much love and goodluck | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 11:50:47 AM | Women have ALOT to hide! The trick to getting the truth is to either act very "liberal"...like you are 'open-minded' about everything, and/or, talk to their friends/family!! Their "past" is their resume...they are in severe denial about that. Good girls are near impossible to find these days, so..work hard at it!
well well well i see someone who is just like all the other men, women have to hide just as much as men do....so stop before you get ahead of your self.....and ruin your time here with all the woman......and act open minded...well should you just be open minded. most woman do not seem to like narrow minded men, if if you are having trouble getting the truth out of a woman it is because you are narrow minded and womean and men alike dont seem to take much interest in someone who isent open minded...no one really wants to be with a so called know it all narsassistic man, who thinks he is better then most and judjest upon everything, maybe thats why some woman have not told you the truth because they know you arent open minded and wont be able to handle it. and no womanis really in a severe denial of her past......men as like do the same....goo d girls are very possible to find..it is good truthfull, open minded men is what is hard to find these day...all you men want is a cook and a ****..well guess what women dont want to be i that kind of a life style...for that you hare a maid and buy a hoe women also know then you are so called acting....and to tell you the truth noone is going to be honest with someone what is playing games with them....and as for asking family and friend...well that way you might just screw up the right moment with the woman what you are actaly compatiblw with.....cause no one likes someone sneaking behind their backs, and doing a background check on them.....most of those times the family or friends may not have been around the woman everyday of her life..and rumours do fly the past is the past, someone has something in their pat, but its is not a resume, for it is not the present time, but THE PAST. well i wish with your tricks you the best of luck, but watch out stop listen and learn....before you screw up something good! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:08:37 PM | Consider this: A male friend of mine at work used to complain constantly about how women never paid any attention to him because he was heavy. Well, a young lady in my department had a crush on him and I suggested that he ask her out. His response was, "She's too fat."
Unfortunately, this is typical behaviour in young males of our species. Could that be part of the problem? Looking for flash instead of depth?
Fellas, remember this - big girls are the ones most likely to have an oral fetish...and we're pretty much all the same in the dark!
well honey you said it right, but dont forget most men think that a woman cannot do a single thing if it wasent for men to be around an a man who is so narrow minded, desperate for a date and here a girl that like him.....but wait, she's not goos enought she too fat.....he is better then that to go out with someone that might look fat too him, he deserves a super model....right, sure keep thinking that way....he then shouldnt complain about not being asked out well this just proves that gaian its men who are full of crap, all they see in a woman is a maid and a hoe....but tey are soooo desired, that no woman can resits, so she must rush...run run run reply to the messege right away before he stops writing to you, you are missing out on the chance of your life......yeak ok sure, keep thinking that guys you are more likely to get responses with that philosophy in mind....lol whatever just shows how ignorant men are and how little they know of how to treat a lady right but then it comes to them if they are so called not treated right..then all women are full of crp right?is that how it goes? well wake up you men out there who think like that who gives you the right to be so picky about how we look, but yet no matter hwo you look or act we should go out with you, because if not...oh no what will we do with out you. we cant survive on our own with out a man. so ladies grab the first one before he goes, or we'll all fall into a criis.....lol wake up men, this is not how a woman thinks or feels yes all men look is for a flask thats why they messge you on this site for cyber sex, and get extreamly angry and call you all sorts of things then you reject them not all women are here to cyber | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:13:19 PM | GoodGrief on 6/23/2006 2 02 AM Subject: Most women are so full of crap ! Message: I don't know if women are full of crap, but I'm pretty sure they're right up there with us men when it comes to superficiality. Having no digital camera and too little time, I haven't posted a picture on here. You'd think I had leprosy
well i have better reasons for not making my pichures public......i dont need someone to messege me by the way i look hoping to get something out of iit, that i wont give....and i have pichures but they are only for people that are special, and to be special to me, you first have to not jugge me byy whats in my profile, and want to be my friends...before anything else......and god do i know then some one is lyong and is doing what i just said so they can get a glimpse of a photo. ps especially then my photos are more then decent | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:15:57 PM | Posted By: radujski on 6/23/2006 4 37 AM Subject: Most women are so full of crap ! Message: dude, full of crap? SHIT is the word youre lookin for, get real.... many women on here, just your occaisional fat ****/job or some other skank, and THEN you have that one that you might connect with, you IM her and she automatically thinks youre a psyco... who would think.
this is exactly what i mean BY THEN I SAY MEN ARE EVN MORE FULL OF CRAP AND THAT ALL THEY WANT IS ONE THING A MAID AND A HOE\ NOT THE REAL WOMAN HERSELF. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:20:49 PM | well you sit here and judge women about being fat, thats not right,, since thats not right we all know you must not be right in the head then
Judging somebody as a person based on their picture is wrong. Judging somebody's physical attractiveness based on their picture is A-OK.
NEITHER CAN YOU REALLY JUDGE BY A PICHURE , BECAUSE PICHURES DONT EXACTLY PORTRAY EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU....ESPECIALLY IF ITS NOT SUCH A GOOD PICHURE....OR WAS PHOTOSHOPED TO BE THE BEST PICHURE YOU CANNOT JUDGE ONE BY THEIR LOOKS, CAUSE THE PRETTIER THE LOKS THE UGLIER THE PERSONALITY,OFCOURSE THATS NOT ALWAYS TRUE BUT IN MOST CASES IT IS..PEOPLE ARE TOO NARSASSISTIC AND HAVE WAY TOO MUCH EGO, THEN THEY KNOW THEY LOOK OK...MIND YOU I AM SAYIG OK, CAUSE THERE ARE SO FEW REALLY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE OUT THERE, AND ITS RARE THAT ONE MIGHT FIND ONE | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:26:04 PM | I have looked at hundreds of guys on this site, and the one thing I can never get over is how horrible most of the pictures are. Face it, most of us want someone that we're physically attracted to. What do many people say attracts them to someone first? Their SMILE. Their EYES. Why in the world would you pick a picture like the one on your profile when it makes you look angry and it's such a terrible angle? Don't you, or many of the other guys on here, realize how much more attractive a nice, smiling picture is? Get a web cam. Experiment with good light, and for god's sake, SMILE.
Things that make me pass over pictures are frowns, pained looks, no expression at all, big facial hair (*ugh*), sloppy looking clothes, and shirtless shots where the guy is obviously in love with himself.
Present yourself in a way that a woman would find attractive and you'd be surprised how many more responses you get.
HUN YOUR RIGHT ON....AND THEN THESE MEN ACTUALLY DARE TO JUDGE US BY OUR PICHURES? COME ON....GET OVER YOURSELFVES GUYS! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:30:38 PM | But... but... what happens when I put up that picture of bradd pitt and then she finds out I don't actually look like him?
THATS WHY YOU PUT PICHURES OF YOURSELF...1 THATS WHY YOU TRY TO TAKE GOOD PICHURES OF YOURSELF...2 THATS WHY PICHURES OF OU SHOULD BE CLEAR ENOUGHT TO TELL WHERE YOUR AERS ARE AND EYES..3 THATS WHY YOU USE YOUR OWN PICHURE AND HOPE YOU FIND THE WOMAN WHO LIKES YOU FOR YOU, NOT FOR LOOKS, CAUSE MAN, MOST WOMEN OUTWHERE COULD SEE TRUE BEAUTY IN A PERSON WHO MIGHT NOT THINK OF THEMSELVES LIKE THAT....UNLIKE MEN WHO TRY TO FIND SOME GOT GIRLS PICHURE HOPPING SHE'LL FALL INTO HIS ARMS AND BE HIS HOE..OR HE COULD GET SOME CYBER OUT OF HER ON A WEB CAM | |
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| Not every one is the same man!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:33:15 PM | Posted By: Kurl-Ann on 6/29/2006 1 28 PM Subject: Not every one is the same man!!!!!!!!!!!! Message: Don't you just hate when you find a "good man" only to find out that he just wants his mommy? I mean don't get me wrong, I respect men that have good relationships with their mothers and I would NEVER come between a man and his family, but there are some men out there that need a mommy, you know who you are, there comes a time when you have to man up and realise that it's time to LET GO. I'm not your mother and I'm not your babysitter!
I just need a man who is a MAN. If you have honorable goals, if we have things in common, if we appreciate and respect each other, if there is chemistry, if we have similar goals and dreams, if you love me unconditionally, if we give each other space to breathe, because there are some people out there that suffocate each other, and most of all if there is trust, because that is more important than anything then we're good to go, but I can't live my life thinking that everything is always going to be a bed of roses. Shit happens, life happens. You have to be willing (and not hold it over my head) to accept the good and the bad and if you do great, if you don't fine, like I said before, life goes on!
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 12:39:10 PM | YOUR ARE WELCOME GIRL...THANK YOU FOR YOUE EARLIER POST AN JUST TO ADD YOU MEN THINK WE WOMEN ARE FULL OF CRAP GO TO MY PROFILE AND READ IT, AND THAT PART IN THE PROFILE IS A BRIEF SUMMERY OF ONLY THE LAST FOUR YEARS AND THEN TELL ME HOW FULL OF CRAP I AM, CAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO ACTUALLY SMILE PR MAYBE EVEN LAUGHT TODAY, HAVENT DONE THAT IN A LONG TIME, BUT NOTHING AS THE PEFECTIC THINKING OF A MAN ABOUT A WOMAN COULD AMUZE ME AS MUCH OH YEAH DONT FORGET TO BE NARROW MINDED AND JUGEMENTAL OR AS ONE OF YOU GUYS SAID ON HERE PRETEND O BE OPEN MINDED!!!!!  | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 6/29/2006 3:47:46 PM | Dude I think you have a problem cause it goes both way's.. men can be full of crap and so can women... so get a lifeeeee | |
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| Most women are so full of crap ! Posted: 7/3/2006 11:46:43 PM | just wanted to say here...since apparently "just my blueeyes apparenly wont excempt mail from just anyone that....AHHH thats like ferrit or what ever it is..is the cutest little thing.
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