| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:52:50 AM | | read some of this thread...and well...i take complete affront to the title! MOST??? um what figures do you have to back that up? yeah that's basically all i have to say. i mean can you imaging if a WOMAN had said MOST MEN???? hmmmm | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/5/2006 7:31:33 AM | | ain't that the truth!......it's basically all a physad or however you spell it because all women as much as none of you like to admit it or own up to it ...you're all crazy in one way or another....2 things ive learned in life so far....#1 women HATE (if i could underline,bold and italicize that word i would) other women....I've seen women outright say "oh i dont like her" dont even know her NEVER even talked to them but YET they dont like them.....women view other women as a threat and have some of the worst jealousy ....not leaving men out we have our problems and faults too but women just take it overboard....#2 most women like this post says ..."are full of crap"....ive been with females that are "just looking for a nice guy" and theyve all****d me over too....reason being .....most females in their life at one point or another have been treated constantly like shit ....they try to get away from it and "look" for a nice guy ...yet when they find that "nice guy" they dont know how to handle how he treats her YES like a woman should be treated ...like a princess.....and then end up screwing all the nice guys over too...so case and point ...none of us win....we all suck at life | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/5/2006 9:39:30 AM | Mr Easy, It sounds like you are judgemental and are very restrictive about your locations and wants. Most people who are selfish will have a hard time getting and sustaining a relationship. I went out on a date with someone and after dinner and a nice talk basically said well do you want me or not. He had sex on the brain. My suggestion is to treat a woman like a lady with some respect and willingness to invest some time in a relationship. I tend to be old fashioned and like to be courted. I don't know if anyone remembers those days. When women were treated with respect and deference. So many people are in overdrive, they want to go on a first date and go into the bedroom. Needless to say, he went home after that date and not to my house. I want a companion,lover,and equal with some intelligence. Perhaps some kind of spiritual life would be nice too. If you treat people like meat and are just looking for the best cut, you usually get the cut. So many guys are just looking for a barbie doll with size 10 or something. Nothing else matters to them and when they strike out they get mean. Take a long hard look at your self and see what you are putting out.  | |
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DStarz
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Joined: 2/26/2006
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:05:19 AM | OK..Maybe its just me..But..Isnt this an OXYMORON...Beer and wine?
I kind of agree with what your saying, they say they are deep and want a real realationship, but actually they want what they think is the best looking, with the most money, what happend to be real, they dont want a well educated on his way to the top, they want some loser who can no offense who has one brain cell who never reallly cared accept that he was getting laid, with a big stick who can **** all day and night. I mean what is the world coming to, i have a close friend we go to bars, and i am telling you he gets these fine white chicks every weekend. I know him well he can barely read but he gets more ass from high class woman tham an Ivy League all American to shame.
And if what your saying is true..Im thinking your dating you butt off...NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now I know why some of you are having problems with women...CLUELESS | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:07:38 AM | Hi Pumkinspice2000, Thanks for what you said. I just get tired of men whining about women but then they don't put any effort at all inti a relationship or even a romance and expect everything handed to them on a platter.     | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 7/18/2006 11:19:35 PM | If you treat another person like crap, you will get crap in return... Does not matter if it is a man or a woman... Treat other's as you would want to treated... And understand the differences between males & females... After all, men are more stimulated with their eyes, while women are more stimulated with their brains...
Maybe if you had the opportunity to do it again, you might want to title this forum: Pointers to understanding women better... | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/1/2006 11:12:19 AM | i'm sorry but i agree with lonely..............most women are not so full of crap, same as most men. it's all how treat the other sex. there are some men along with women that are braggers (and i met my fair share) and there are some people both men and women that don't just get it.
oh, and lonely, shouldn't it be more like pointers in understanding the members of the opposite sex? | |
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Joined: 12/20/2005
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 2:15:11 PM | | Wow i must say people people i dont feel the love here.. But yo know what dont put someone down cause of there feelings. i have talked to many women on here and you know what ? Nothing im nit ugly im not mean im a great dude but i will not try to sell my self to a women. get to know me.. Its like we all know women get more hits then a man at anygiven time some get 50+ a day lol i wish i did... but when you have way to many fish and you think you might find the fish down the road a better catch. good luck. i made that mistake. so dont put the guy down cause his pic is pointing up at his nose. you dont have one!!!.. im sick of the i want this crap and must be stable crap please difine normal to me and then ill show you bullcrap... face it people your not going to find what your looking for on here. women all say i dont want a player lol get with it most men are some that are not .. if there like zoolander really really gooodlooking he will cheat cause your fighten to get with him and the next women will too... seen it all to much divorce and crap my wife cheated on me so oh well i have lived and moved on . girls get a grip on yourself please. dont be stuck on the really really gooodlooking men you know the ones that are the studs youll catch something and its not fish ..... lmfao later | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 2:17:35 PM | | you can pretty much assume that any statement titled "Most women....." or "most men....." Is pretty much wrong.......most of the time. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 3:06:48 PM | Hey Indy Baby.....how long were you waiting for my joyful triumphant return?
Great to see you.
I generally dislike genralizations........generally speaking. They tend to usually be wrong...and quite often mean spirited. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 3:39:40 PM | WOW!!! i saw the headline and came to see who was crying now, lol!
i didn't wine about it but, i had the same thingshappen to me. i did not pitch a b**ch over the hurt feelings i had. i learned from my mistakes. figured out i should write less about me and more about the great woman that i was writeing and, it has worked great! now i'm trying not to have so many irons in the fire because; it can get confusing at times trying to remember who said what... 
some people have diferent ways and different meenings with words so you have to be ballparking your answers or questions here. just because some one answers an email does not make them the one thats yours as destiny's gift! you may have several emails and still not make a conection. the whole internet dateing thing is great for narrowing down the posabilities but i read no guarantee that i would find the one right for me.
all i can realy give you for advice is a quote i have folowed for a long time... you'll catch more flies with honey than vinager. keep it sweet!
woman need to be told how special they are and this is not always done by telling them directly how special they are!! its a tough game with out a cleer set of rules because they change from game to game. | |
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Joined: 7/24/2006
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 7:12:45 PM | | Women are not obligated to take an interest in every man that messages them. Maybe the women that you want to talk to just don't find you attractive. Sure, we all want a "nice" guy. Kinda thought it was understood that there has to be some physical attraction. That really is the only difference between a nice guy I want to date and all the really nice 'guy friends' that I've already got. According to your profile, you don't want to hang out and you are looking for someone to date. As someone who dates in the hopes of finding someone for a long term relationship, I can tell you that I do not want to date someone that I am not attracted to...no matter how "nice" he is. I do, however, try to answer all the non-offensive messages that I get. It's just good manners. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/15/2006 8:55:36 PM | Wow, a lot of judgement there against women, Sir.
Sadly, everyone on here is seeking a connection of sorts, whether friendship, hanging out, long or short term, intimacy, etc.
Either your a man who at your age has had relationships that were crap or turned into crap, then you already have your ideas written in blood about how women are.
Well, we aren't crap, thats for sure.
I'm sorry you feel like we are.
Perhaps you should take one of those self identity tests to figure out why you have such low self esteem and find it more gratifying to blame Women for you're not being interesting or enlightened enough to find out why women don't write you back?
Have you looked in the mirror recently?
First off, take a better picture of yourself, actually doing something besides the one you posted. People will ask about the action in the picture, what were you doing that day? The background is just as important as the front.
Change your advert. You can be the nicest person out there, but it tells me nothing about you. Except that you are quick to blame a gender that did not respond to you in the way you demanded. In short, you didn't get 1000 replies to your "nicest guy ever speech".
To find someone interesting, you must be interesting. If you aren't, then you should stick to picking up women at the laundramat. That's the place for the nicest guy ever to hook up, at least you would find a woman who cleans and bleaches her undies.
As to the other replies, some make sense, and most are on target.
If you scope out the adverts for both men and women, you will find that there are all kinds of people out there, seeking to connect.
the only serious note I can pitch to you, is unless you are a all MALE TOTAL HOT DUDE, WITH MONEY, LOOKING FOR A HOT CHICK, BLONDE, BIG BOOBS, ETC. ETC., Then you better have the $$$ to plunk down on her, and treat her like a queen. Stop being a Bozo and act like a Man! Respect gets respect!
I have spoken
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/16/2006 3:46:49 AM | I read the first and last page of this thread and found it very interesting that the OP didn't even come back to his own thread to respond. If you continue to posses that sort of negativity, then you are never going to find someone that will make you happy. Everyone is different, unique etc. I honestly don't believe that ONE single person is going to have 100% of the qualities that people are looking for.
Flexibility with that comes into play. If someone has *Most* of the traits that you are looking for, then you have to decide if a relationship is worth it to either overlook the ones that they don't have. If you can get past the "small stuff" and focus on the bigger and more important attributes, like respect, trust, honesty then you can have a successful relationship.
I've been single for three years now. During that time, I've realized what it is about MYSELF that I'm willing to offer to someone. I don't think I'm full of crap. But I also don't want someone so negative that they start threads like this either. Being single for this long, I have put my baggage to rest and plan on leaving it behind me. The person I'm searching for should do the same before they are ready to move on.
Should a person have to posses the same exact interests as me? Not entirely, I like diverseness. Let me learn something about this world that interests you and vice versa. I don't know all and I don't claim to know all, but if someone has different interests I'd want to learn about them. If we happen to share commonalities, that's great too because then we do have some shared interests. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/16/2006 4:03:21 AM | oh well, the poor guy.....probably sent a lot of heart felt email and got no reply...that can be challenging.
Honestly, it really is easier in person...it just takes more courage. and a lot less time. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/16/2006 4:24:53 AM | | True, but if you're going to start a thread, at least come back to it and respond. I think he was just trolling the boards looking to start something. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/16/2006 7:37:06 AM | Let me take a minute to feel sorry for you ...make that 30 seconds ....
Ok times up.
Who have you been hooking up with? Some little social snob on the Main Line or one of those Wanna Be's in Chester County? Seek those on your own level. She doesn't have to be a knock out ..just good looking to you and good for you
Your profile is vague and needs some tuning
Change the photo . It looks like the person in the back seat of the car took the photo
BTW Have you read some of the profiles of the women that did respond to your thread ..FINE WOMEN all of them .. see you could have spoken to one of them but you wasted time TRYING to put down MOST women ...Think you have a chance now with any of them????....Think again
I wish I had more time for the pity party but my good black dress is in the cleaners | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 8/17/2006 5:18:43 PM | | I think part of the problem with the online dating thing is that some things are relative. A friend was telling me that she had drinks with someone she met online, and he had himself listed as average, and she was surprised at how heavy he was. In other words, we all have our own definitions of things, so it's hard to do this. What I think is average, others might not. | |
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