| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/3/2006 11:14:20 AM | It's been proven "ponygrl" so you really can't argue with me.
Thus why they have the quote, "Nice guys finish last." Women respond 10-fold to profiles of guys who act arrogant and superior than they do to profiles of the "nice guys" they claim to like.
Some of the guys that write these books have been with hundreds of women based solely on their ability to act like an alpha-male. Almost all of them started off as "nice guys" but learned that women are simply not attracted to that.
So let's just skip the BS and help these guys understand that they're going to have a very hard time meeting a girl (especially here) unless they A) get very lucky, or B) learn to act like an alpha-male. I chose method A because honestly I can't act like an alpha-male. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/3/2006 12:32:00 PM | bullsh*t steve.........then why haven't you tried to contact me to see if i'd talk to you? oh, that's right, nice guys finish last............what about us girls? | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/3/2006 12:59:32 PM | | I'm half your age lol... why would I contact you? It's not BS... trust me I wish nice guys didn't finish last. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/3/2006 1:06:21 PM | | their not all looking for nice guys....some girls actually like mean guys so they can be dominated or something....that doesnt mean though that if your nice you should change yourself and be mean, just be yourself and someone might like you for that...or not but then at least you have some sense of idenity....just my opinion though.... | |
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Posted: 10/3/2006 2:45:31 PM | With a hammer and a chisel... | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/3/2006 2:57:23 PM | You know what pisses me off steve ???? Guys such as yourself that lump women into one catagory. I for one am not looking for a so-called bad guy. Leave that crap for those teenage girls that wants a mean ol **stard of guy that will beat this one up and beat that one up and while they're at it beat the girlfriend up to. I am not looking for a *butthole* of a man to make my life miserable....hell, if I wanted to miserable I can do that well enough by myself thank you. I think your issue is you're too damn busy reading pickupguides...get out in the real world and meet real women of substance !!
I also want you to please explain the comment on *a few replies from fat chicks*
It's these bullsh*t comments like this from guys that makes a woman want to go out there and look for a girlfriend and be done with men.
Again...I state....if you so-called men *not all of you* but the ones that make such asinine comments that women are so full of crap really feel women are this way...then by all means go out and find you a boyfriend.
I'm so blasted sick and tired of these gender bashing threads  How in the hell does anyone expect to find someone to date, hang-out with, be in a relationship etc. if all this gender bashing is going on ?? Can we not have one freakin thread on here without it turning into the ol *Blame Game*. We are all to blame for our misfortunes and it is up to us to see past them and move on with our lives. Take what's happened in the past as nothing lost but a lesson gained and stop trying to place the blame on the other sex.
For crying out loud already | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:21:16 PM | Chaos I am not gender bashing. I'm simply pointing out that women are not attracted to so called "nice guys". I'm well aware that there are exceptions out there to the rule but sooo soo few..
I couldn't even count how many times I've been blown off by a chick so that she could go f*** some tattoe laden guy with 20 piercings, no job, and some thug appeal. These days a pair of Timbs will get you further than gentlemanlike behavior. :) | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 8:41:11 PM | If I might give a piece of advice steve. You might wish to tone down the fulgarity. Instead of going off the deep end about what *you feel* these {chicks} want....devote that time and energy into proving to them that you are the better man. So what there are some women that wants the *bad boys*....let them live and learn. After those *bad boys* put them through the wringer and use and abuse them...they will learn to appreciate you and the good men alot more. If a woman doesn't appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer then they weren't worth your time or energy....move on and sooner or later on that trail...you'll find that one.
You still haven't explained the *few replies from fat chicks* that you commented on in a previous post. Sounds to me as though you're focusing your search on barbie doll replicas. Just remember a piece of that plastic can break off and cut you dude. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:04:56 PM |  chaotic......i wanna say something about nice guys or the so called nice guys........my 2nd ex husband doesn't have any tattoos or body piercings and he's a 100% pure a$$hole. he made himself out to be the good guy, the nice guy, the best guy for me.... that's too funny, because my ex b/f treated me with more respect in 2 years than my ex husband ever did in the 7 years that we were together living together and married. the only thing that my ex b/f did to me before we split up was he broke my nose. big deal it heals. my 2nd ex husband broke a gentleman's agreement with me totaling $10,000.00, blamed "his" manly sexual problems on me (like he did his 1st wife and doing the same thing to his new g/f). mental abuse is worse than physical abuse providing there is no loss of limb. so as for "nice guys" finishing last.......i'll give stev my number and he can call me and i can tell him everything i did for my so called "nice guy" ex husband from start to finish, then we can see where he stands. just because a man has tattoos and body piercings or an earring doesn't make him a bad guy. i also know of anyother guy with a lot of body piercings and he's a great guy and in love with a g/f of mine and she is with him too. i know of some guys that stev claim to be "ad boys" because of tattoos, body piercings, mean to the woman that he's with but what people seem to neglect to realize, these "bad boys" want another man to think that he's a "bad boy" to intimidate the guy.
now, getting back to what chaotic said, yes, step aside and let some of the women that are with the nasty, violent men learn. it may end up to be a lesson well learned. also regarding "fat chicks" did you ever think to yourself, "hey, i might be too skinny for them, they're not going to want me." maybe if you change your attitude you might be lucky enough to find one. also, no one wants a man that insists on using a lot of profanity. change up your pitches and you might be lucky to start receiving emails. it's also not nice acting like a "bada$$" and isn't very appealing either.
also women are not "chicks" they are women. you don't hear women refferring men as diks do you? | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:26:20 PM | Chaos I don't need any advice. Like I said before I'm simply pointing out some facts. Perhaps you should take your own advice and maybe do some work on your pics LOL because your only pic looks like a mug photo and I can only see half of your face. You're not even smiling... wtf.
Also, in reference to the "fat chicks" comment, I simply appreciate a woman's natural beauty (not barbie dolls lol..) and when I see a 300 pound chick I'm simply not turned on (are you? lol).. I'm just looking for a somewhat proportional girl with a good personality. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:30:26 PM | Steve...I just looked at your profile. Is it any wonder why you're not getting any responses. You painted a perfect picture of yourself as someone who is a potential stalker/harrasser. That comment about women who are not to your liking in the weight department is totally uncalled for.
*shakes head*
I don't need to do any work on my profile or my picture. I don't need to smile or put up any false fronts in order to have anyone contact me. You = immature attitude.....I = maturity
You my dear have now become a non-entity to me because you seem to get off making asinine comments for no reason. I have children older than you so I refuse to get into a verbal battle with a child. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 9:34:40 PM | Oh God pony don't call me and tell me about your ex-husband. I'm sure he's an asshat. But just because he happened to be a "nice guy" at the beginning doens't mean nice guys finish last. I'll give you guys a great example...
You ever watch The Mask? With Jim Carrey? He's this regular guy who just happens to be "Mr Nice Guy". That's pretty much my personality. Nonconfrontational, always polite to women (ok not in forums LOL), and generally the kind of guy that will always do a favor for a woman. Well the guy in the movie always has women walking all over him etc.. of course since it's a movie he manages to land a supermodel (yeah right!!) but in real life that guy is me.. Alone because he's just a nice guy.. doesn't have all the wonderful qualities that women are attract to like overbearing confidence, thug appeal, piercings, timbs,****-funny-smarts, etc. Ok I may have a few of those qualities when I'm on a caffeine high but you get the point. Being a nice guy never got me anywhere with women because they have only taken advantage of me. When I was younger I ended up driving girls around to their BFs house who was some scumbag dropout. Then I would find a prissy girl thinking she would like a nice guy but noooo... same deal there too.
You two women are obviously different but you don't represent the majority of single women out there, that's for sure. I can't even get THEM to respond. Also you're both older and I live in a different generation, the generation of a$$holes and people who are so shallow it makes you want to puke. If you don't believe me go to the mall... look at profiles of women here on POF.. I'll be happy to show you the 100 outgoing "polite messages" that have the status "Read-Deleted" because I wasn't cool enough for most of these girls.
Just don't look at my profile now because I've made radical changes LOL | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:36:57 PM | | Actually Chaos simply putting up a decent picture of yourself isn't a bad idea... Seriously just take a picture of you smiling and doing something fun. My pics aren't the best but you have 1 pic and it's like a mug photo... | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:37:04 PM | hey moron, atleast her pic makes her look more appealing unlike a geek holding his hand like a wanna be idiot.
sit there and just look at her pic, she looks as if she's romantic, she is a beautiful woman and no i'm not a lesbo either. to some real men, unlike yourself, she looks sexy. the pic looks as if it has a shield over it toning down any brightness which also gives a soft touch to the eye.
now as to you saying about a 300 pound chick (damn, there's that word again...are there any hens around here? ) i have to tell you something, i'm not a bbw but there are plenty of them out there that would beg to differ that there are quite a few men out there that love them and some men that want nothing but a bbw. they are just as beautiful as a woman of my shape and size, or chaotic's shape and size, or any other woman's shape and size and also with a great personality.
now, you can take that to the bank....
oh, btw, who would want an idiot with a personality as yours? | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:42:05 PM | Oh come on Ponygrl,
A heavy poster like you resorting to cheap insults this fast? I'm very disappointed. It's always easy to throw an insult. What I offered was constructive cricism of her photo..
Just go outside on a sunny day and get a nice few pics of more than just 3/4 your face while you're frowning. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:26:13 AM | i'm sorry but i still don't see anything wrong with her pic. like i said, atleast she doesn't look like a geek acting like he's cool. oh, by the way, where's your smile. you're not smiling in your pic either. so why don't you go outside and enjoy the weather before it starts to rain and take more pics?
i can't wait until we get snow, then i'm going to have some good pics. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/6/2006 4:27:19 PM | Ive gotta tell ya, I understand your frustration, but its not just the women who are full of crap! I have met in person two men from this site. The first one was a widow like me, who apparently didnt realize that his wife was still alive!!!! The second was an arrogent, uptight decietful man with a long record or arests and PFA's filed against him, who tried to make me out to be a liar and a bad person. Like he was looking for a reason not to like me. After a two weeks of getting to know him he bagan his crap and I found out his background and we were done. I say both men and women beware! Especially on this free site, as it is a superhighway for all sorts of deviants, liars and freaks (my apolagies to those of us who are not bad people, just lonley)
Ladies in the central Pa area, if you want to know the second man i mentioned, contact me and I will tell you so that you do not get hurt as this man is a woman beater. Dont worry, the first one-the widow- has closed his account after his wife called me and found him out.
Best wishes to everyone here. And remember, bad people in itself is not a gender issue. There are bad men and women.
Peace. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/6/2006 5:54:45 PM | I've soooo wanted to stay out of this thread, but well I'm bored so will jump in with a few observations. They're opinions so not worth .02.
Steve-1st move out of your moms basement. Ladies hate that in a man. I would hestitate to critique someones pictures with ones like yours. Are there women out there that are superficial and shallow sure is. Are there men like that sure for example there was guy in this thread who talked about "fat chicks" who could that of been??? Oh yeah you talking about shallow perhaps your name needs to be changed to kiddie pool?
Chaotic-ignore him, your picture is fine and so is your profile.
Pony is using the word chick that bad? j/k I'd ignore this guy..think post troll.
This thread is a prime example of blanket statements. Not every lady is shallow, not every guy is a Stevecoll. Are there prime examples of both throughout the forums and ad's? Sure are. Nice guys and Nice girls do well so long as they are honest, don't lower their standards and avoid drinking at the fountain of Bitter. Everyone here can give an example of a bad person of the opposite sex. The people who have the great examples aren't here, they're out with them. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/6/2006 11:28:56 PM | I think every guy could agree Chaotic would be better off with a few more pics showing more than 3/4 of her face.
As you may notice from my post above, I'm trying different strategies on getting women, one which includes some "funny pictures". The nice guy approach just doesn't work... but you all know that already, whether you admit it or rnot. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 8:12:01 AM | | hi---------listen i have got back to a lot of woman----------they say they want to get together--------and you never hear back--------they waste my time-------they shouldnt even post anything-------------i think they are full of CRAP. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 8:56:04 AM | pairish...........i know stev is such an a$$hole and should start growing up. if he wants to meet any women on this or any site he should stop making himself out to what he is not. as for me being a "chick", nah, mother hen is more like it since i'm trying to tell these guys (punks) to grow up.
as for chaotic's pic, i agree with you, she is a very beautiful woman (no i'm no lesbo) and her profile is well written. i'm straight out honest with mine and i was also told that some guys even think that it's a turn on with how honest and upfront i am in my profile and the posts. i dunno, you tell me.
airlinex........don't worry, i don't tell people that i would like to get together with them unless we talk e-mail, instant message, then on the phone. some of those whom have also posted in here, both male and female, i've talked on the phone with them as well as in yahoo. if and when i feel as if the gentleman and i are ready to meet in person (he feels the same of course) then we shall meet, but it's only as friends first.
now just because some of the women pretty much play you, don't take it out on all of us. we're not all full of crap. as a matter of fact, i've had my fair share of guys playing me also. sad to say, most of the guys that i've been talking to that seem interested in me and me with them as well are mostly from the other side of the state. they are the guys that give me no doubts that i would ever meet them since i already know that i wouldn't meet them. most of them feel as if i live too far from them. it doesn't hurt to meet as friends first. i would like for them to meet me for the 1st time in my neck of the woods. i am a very hospitable woman and a very good hostess at that. i would like for them to see how "i am" in person as a person, as a woman.....then i would like to meet them a 2nd time in their area to see how they are as a person, as a man, as a host.
how i am in my posts is pretty much backed up with how i am in my profile and in my testimonials said about me by some of my friends. i am me, i'm not full of crap, no where near it!!! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:05:49 AM | what im saying is -i even give my phone # to them tell them to call----my pic is posted.
im in the right age bracket
if there not interested they should get back and at least tell you i even give them my e-mail address.
thats why i think ther full of crap.
what else can i do? | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:27:57 AM | This argument is going NO WHERE...!
Agree to Disagree...?
By the way I take Fiber everyday, stevcoll sounds like u need some...! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:54:00 AM | on a percentage----------20percent of woman are for real----------80 are full of crap.
this is based on how many woman i have sent messages to.these are facts. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:54:38 AM | first of all airlinex, in your profile it states that you're 53 but in the "about me" section you say that you're 55. well, how old are you, 53 or 55? now you say that you give them your phone number and tell them to call you, why don't you call them. when you give them you're number, how do you put it. don't throw yourself onto any women take your time. rome wasn't built in a day and neither are relationships. did you ever think that maybe these women think that when you give them your number that you may be too pushy? did you ever think that maybe these women are also exploring what their options are? does the email that you send them say read/deleted or just read? did you ever come to think that some of these women have you on their favorites list? i read your profile, doesn't really say too much. it also says that you appear on 11 members favorites, that's a start wouldn't you think?
secondly, speaking about your profile, put more things in it...ie your likes and dislikes, favorites places, colors, etc. tell the women what you're about and what you're looking for. give it a try, it might work. | |
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