| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 10:05:36 AM | | i am 55-----------i do have to change the age--------i wont ask for there #because i respect there privacy.----------that is my e-mail address-----i dont think im to pushy---how do u start to talk to them.i said what i like and dislike-----i will tell them more when we speak. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 10:25:43 AM | ok, did u see my profile? i know it's not the best but i was told that i tell it like it is. i say what i like, i say who i talk to where some but not all of my friends are concerned. well you have to check it out.
now, here's how i start to talk to guys..........i read up on different profiles from the matches that pof sends me. i'd pick one out, read up on his profile and pick something out of it then talk about it. ie. the interests, if they say they like to ride around the country side and enjoy the sites..........i would say something like this: dear ________, i noticed that you enjoy rides around the countryside. now is the best time of the year to see what nature has to offer. the colors are just beautiful. i also enjoy taking walks in the park or around the countryside, take pictures of the scenery or just to relax.
now that's just an example of what i would say.........but you would have to put things in your own words. there is also a thread to help you write letters to others. you might want to check up on it.
as for your phone number, don't give it to them right away, that's where some women may think that you're being too pushy with things. me, i don't care, i call people and talk to them on the phone and they also call me too. but they are the people that i've been emailing back and forth with a few times or talk to under yahoo.
as for your likes and dislikes and favorite things, just list some of them, you don't have to list all. you want some eye candy there, something that's going to have the women say, "wow, he and i share some things in common, maybe i should talk to him". or they would say to themselves, "wow, he seems like a really nice man, he knows what he's looking for and he's also letting me know more about himself." don't always wait until you speak. give them something to read about, reading leads to discussion (e-mail).
likes: honest, down to earth woman. good hearted, knows what she would like to have in life as a friend, lover, and soulmate. enjoys being around people, having a laugh or some friendly conversation.
dislikes: women that lie, cheat, is rude or disrespectful to others feelings. not into those that play games.
give it a shot and let me know how you make out................... | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 10:43:09 AM | | just take your time..............maybe in a week or so i would hear about you thinking otherwise about women. you see, in my profile i say i'm a city girl turned country, down to earth..............wouldn't you think so? my testimonials also speak the truth about me, i enjoy making people smile and i would help anyone out as much as i possibly can (personal not sexual) | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 11:09:44 AM | hey, i hope you don't mind doing it this way but this is how i would change things.......
your profile states:
i am a man that wants to make a lady happy----i am 55 years old--------i want to make her laugh and smile.
i like sports, travel, movies, and tv. I worked for in the airline industry for 26 years--now retired , i also like to dine out, my favorie color is blue, i like clothes,like suites, sport coats, i think there classy, i do like the sun because i like a good tan. i also enjoy the beach---i love oldies-----thats the best.
so get back to me-lets start our journey.
i personally would say:
i'm a divorced man searching for the love of my life. i've been employed in the airline industry for 26 years. i've retired from my employment now to seek my soulmate.
i enjoy seeing women smile and hearing them laugh and would like for the woman that i find to do the same. i enjoy making women smile whether it be a soft, sensual smile with their beautiful lips or just a glistening smile with their eyes.
with me being retired from the airline industry i've taken a liken to the color blue. i enjoy getting dressed up in a suit but also like wearing my favorite sports jacket. i feel as if sports jackets tend to dress up any pair of jeans.
i also enjoy watching sports on the tv, sitting and relaxing to a good movie with the woman i'm with or travel, whether it be to the beach for a little fun in the sun or just a weekend get-away.
my favorite music........the oldies of course, just reminissing those good old days, the good times, the good music, the fun dances such as the twist and so forth.
my 1st date:
after emailing and talking to you on the phone i would like to just go out for a cup of coffee. we can sit and talk to get to know each other at a more personal level then we can take things from there. our second date would be more on the romantic level, nice dinner, fine wine, your favorite flowers and after dinner a moonlite stroll.
ok, how does that sound to you. that's what i would put in but then again, that's me. now you have a women's perspective on what she would like to read up about. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/7/2006 11:43:29 AM | ok, any women that read this, please disregard this post ok, i'm helping out a friend in need
now, airlinex, shhhhh. copy and paste it into your profile, i won't tell if you don't tell.
i'm just an in a pony's body sent here to help my friends. ooops, i'm in a woman's body not a pony , my bad
now all kidding aside, i'm glad that i was able to help you. good luck and remember to keep a  on your face at all times.......things will look for you and when it does and you're celebrating with your new love, remember the on your shoulder.
oh, btw, thank you for the compliment. :) | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/9/2006 2:55:32 PM | airlinex,
There are at least three times as many guys on these dating sites than women (on some.. closer to 10x as many.) For example I just did a search in my local area and came up with 200 guys who have logged in today as opposed to only 50 women..
So even if you believe that women like "nice guys" you still have to beat out 3-10 other guys just to win over the one girl you want to talk to. Women get hit on constantly in public, and it's the same on a dating site. I've experimented by making a woman profile and within 5 minutes of logging on I have 10+ messages and 5 guys trying to IM me. Just imagine how many choices you would have... So keep trying if you want but realize you gotta beat a lot of other guys to get anywhere with the few decent girls here that aren't 1) morbidly obese, 2) single mothers, 3) psychotic.
Enjoy! | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 7:15:07 AM | | yes i agree with what you say,but if there not interested why cant the ladies tell you that,that would be nice of them, are they that ignorant, to say keep looking if a lady ims me and im not interested i tell them. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 8:28:55 AM | | i hate to say this but yes some women are full of crap but truth be known so are most men. they want sex and once they get it they disappear or they make you promises and then never come through with them. now tht just plain rotton on the promises part and the other is men just doing what they do best. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 9:40:25 AM | Here is my issue with it all. The sexual revolution, feminism, and womans sufferage have place females equally with thier male counterparts in most facets of our American culture. Don't get me wrong, there is more to do to insure females keep these rights. The issuse I have is that with the great advances of females in American culture it still seems that they want thier cake and eat it too. After 32 years on this planet I have yet to find a woman at a bar that is willing to approach a man. Online personals are the same..females get to pick and choose and the guys remain on the sidelines like the geeks in a line up of dodgeball. Where are the aggressive females, the confident ones that are willing to take a man by the arm and let them know their interested?
Its the same games everywhere I go. If I pay to much attention to a woman then I'm labeled "desparate" or "an easy catch". If I play thier games and ignore them, tease them with my interest, then it ends up that I go home alone. This is becoming tiresome, its bad enough that I have some standards already in place for whom I consider "datable". This acting shy, coy, alof, unattainable female games are becoming a bore, don't you ladies think its time to show men exacually how "in charge" you finally are?
And as for the original poster, I don't think labeling females as "full of crap" is going to help your cause, but I can sympathize with your frustrations. Its not so much to ask for some type of response to our e-mails, because when you don't it makes us men feel like merchandise in a window that can be passed over like some cheap model toaster. Hell even an e-mail saying..you suck go away, would be some information that helps me determine your view of me. :)
goodluck folks....I'm beginning to think that online dating sites are just a useful as bars...which is to say not at all. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 12:11:41 PM | well said cris,
I feel like guys are always the ones having to take all the risks, make all the moves, and for what? The slim chances of a girl responding? It just gets stupid after a while trying to impress or get to know women and getting blown off because they have too many options.
I don't know where the problem comes from... there are supposed to be just as many women as guys out there. I don't know why on these dating sites there are three times as many guys.. Or why every decent girl out there seems to be taken. Maybe somebody can explain this phenomenom.
Here's your evidence
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 6:20:11 PM | | so steve, whats your problem with single mothers? And also, even if a woman isnt morbidly obease, if you are a few extra pounds, men shun you, they all are looking for "Barbie" and Barbie is usually a cheat and a **** and is only out for what they can get. Im sick of the guys that whine because they have been hurt and used, and when you look into who they have dated, its obvious as to why....I have no pity for them. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 8:29:01 PM | It is not most women or most men that are full of crap. What's full of crap is that people are so damn hooked on wanting barbie doll or ken replicas. What's full of crap is that others out there are judging women and men on the fact that they are single parents. What's full of crap is that people aren't looking at the real person...only the outer packaging. What's full of crap is that some are so full of themselves that they think they are god's gift and it's their given right to shun other's that don't fit their ideals of a perfect person. Guess what....there is no such thing as a perfect person...but there is never going to be a shortage of perfect *sses. What's full of crap is when a decent inner beautiful person tries to contact someone they quickly get ignored because they aren't *OMG drop dead gorgeous/handsome*. What is definetly full of crap is those that complain about not meeting anyone of substance...when they infact might have placed that person on ignore because they didn't meet their standards in the looks department. What's full of crap is to sit here and complain about not meeting anyone when you are making your own bed because of these unbelievable standards you have set forth. What's full of crap is to speak of those that are above the average weight and that has children as if they/we have leprosy and should be quickly ignored.
Fine...go out there and find that pretty packaging that's appealing to the eye. Go out there and find that attractive/handsome trophy to have stand next to you. Just remember...looks fade but the inner beauty remains.
I've had my final say on this within this particular thread. I'm sick to death of this one and even more so sick to death of complaints regarding the ratio of men to women on this site. I'm even sick to death of whinning about nobody responding to messages that are sent to them. Big deal if they don't respond....then move on. There are way too many people on this site to sit there and generalize all within a gender because a few/some have not responded back in kind. | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/10/2006 8:49:50 PM | | well id say there not full of crap just smarter........tell you what you want till get hold...then the trouble begins.....miss nice turns to miss **** lol.....if your wallet not full youre in trouble buddy....its nature..dont take it bad | |
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| Most women are so full of crap !
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:14:31 AM | wow!!! you guys don't know me then do you? when i go out with the girls to the woodlands it's a girls nite out. i'm not out there looking for a man to buy me drinks or take me home but i'm there to have fun. fun? wow!!! i'm a blast and some of my g/f's would vouch for me there. here's how i am so guys, i suggest you hold on to your seats cuz it's not all the time i go out, just when i do.................i'm at the club having a field day dancing with my friends and i see someone just standing there, i make eye contact with them. then i tell them to join us. if they don't walk over on their own then i feel as if they may be a little shy and need a push so i walk over to them and say to them, "c'mon, join my friends and i". i would say about 7 out of 10 would join my friends and i. now how many men can actually say that they pull the sh*t that i do. if we were to exchange phone numbers, yes, they do get a call. i would call them once and leave the option up to them on whether or not they wanna call me to meet up again to take things from there. sad to say, i made a few phone calls and they never called me back nor have i seen them at the woodlands after that. most of the guys at the clubs, any club are just out there for nothing but some booty. well, you have to earn that right and i'm sure a lot of women feel the same way. maybe that's why i'm still single (talking to someone special right now......as a matter of fact he may be my left hand man). i'm not an underpaid prostitute nor am i a prostitute at all. i have to have the mans love, trust, respect and everything that goes along with as well as him having mine. | |
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