| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/4/2006 9:43:55 PM | | I have a lot of younger guy friends & many of them act very mature. One is only 28, but he acts so much older & has given me the best advice & just think he is great. On the other hand, I also have guy friends that are my age & some of them act as young as my son who is 16. I reckon, you just never know until you actually get to know the individual. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/5/2006 2:28:48 PM | | I'm not in that age bracket but I am 35 and I have lots of interest from young men wanting to "learn the ropes" from an older, experienced woman. Most of them have only been with girls their age and younger and have had rotten experiences and want to experience more and learn what long sessions of hot steamy sex with an experienced and enthusiastic partner is all about. I personally don't have a preference, younger, my age, older...it's all about the chemistry when it comes down to it. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/5/2006 4:30:04 PM | ^^^^^ not someone who says .. "go see some mudwrestling or a wet Tshirt contest, or just go to a strip club and then a cheap motel for cuddling" in their profile  | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/11/2006 4:29:32 PM | | I agree, and plus I don't know what the big hang up on age is anyway...though I do have a preference for women who are older than I am, I don't let someone restrict me to what soceity thinks is the "right thing to do". so I say do what makes you happy. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/12/2006 8:20:51 PM | Sandymac
>>>>I couldn't agree with you any better. I have older Men and Much More Younger Men attracted to Me. Some of the Older Men, ie(50"s 60"s act more like they are 16). I have more intresting topics to talk to the younger Guys.....And you know, they really like to listen. I mean when you get into certain topics, and that is just about LIFE!!!!!
Can't help it if the majority that I know are YOunger than Me. And I have been with someone who was 15 years younger than Me. And we had the best times together, laughing, crying, and just being their for each other. We are still best Friends.
So Age is just a Number, and it is how you feel, that makes who you are today!!!!!!! | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/22/2006 2:24:37 PM | Many comment about maturity levels of the various men, but there is little mention of the woman's (cougars) maturity level.
I notice that many people who date younger men/women, treat people their own age differently when in the company of the younger person. It usually involves treating his/her own age group poorly. | |
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arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 60 | |
| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/22/2006 2:53:08 PM | | Look at the cup half full ... not only that leaves 2/3 of the older women, but also 1/3 of the younger women for us older guys to date. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 10:51:27 AM |
I notice that many people who date younger men/women, treat people their own age differently when in the company of the younger person. It usually involves treating his/her own age group poorly.
I date younger men exclusively, and I don't treat anyone poorly. I think my contemporaries are great - I just don't want to date them, and, frankly, very few of them want to date me. I am sure they have their reasons, just as I have mine. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 11:24:39 AM | LMAO I hear you sister I hate being a teacher just wanna be a student lol yet men our age just can't seem to exude the same energy level. Whats the solution I'm still trying to figure it out I'll let you know if I find the answer. Lin | |
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KoiBoi
| Joined: 6/18/2006 Msg: 65 | |
| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 12:29:28 PM | A lot of women I know think dating a young guy keeps THEM young.
Plus guys over 50 are more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction. No woman wants that! | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 12:46:37 PM | | I usually date men my age (48) or older. Maybe I will try dating younger men, I have met some men in their late 30s who seemed to have it together. I know every man is different, but some of these mid life crisis men either act asexual or want to do it with every woman who walks by to prove they still can do it I guess. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 1:28:45 PM |
I know every man is different, but some of these mid life crisis men either act asexual or want to do it with every woman who walks by to prove they still can do it I guess ^^^^ Then stop choosing men who are in a mid life crisis.
Besides, isn't a cougar acting out her mid life crisis? | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 2:01:00 PM | Hey, just a suggestion! Why not respect other people's personal boundries, ie. dating the age that they want to, and spend more time searching for a mate who shares our compability. Besides, with any luck, they will figure out for themselves, why it just doesn't work most of the time. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 2:24:05 PM | well I myself enjoy an older man they are just much more wiser and nicer and caring plus they always have a limp weeniesoo they never ask for sex and spend all their retirment money on me...
soo old fat guys out there have any hot grandsons?? cuz actually i do prefer younger men...
they have nice hard weenies unlike u old farts i think...
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 2:34:42 PM | I never like to generalize and say older men are this or younger men are that. Everyone is different....I have known 45 yr olds that were like 70 yr olds and 50 yr old who were like 35 yr olds..... People age at different rates. Chronological age isn't the criteria...its biological age and emotional age that counts. I don't want to date a guy that makes me feel like I am dating my father or my son. Someone who is an equal mentally and emotionally would be just fine... no matter what his age. | |
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arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 71 | |
| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 2:36:19 PM | | Even proud cougars .. would date men their own age .. or older .. if he is boink worthy. Most of them realize that if they are just going to be F buddies, may as well F someone without a beer belly. It's that simple. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 8:10:02 PM | I will pass on my experiences about cougars. First off, you should know a little about me. I grew up in a very diverse neighbourhood. From my 'hood came accountants, Lawyers, truck drivers, motorcycle gangs and people who broke into cars just to have a place to sleep. I've seen a lot.
The most degrading of the group are cougars. They lack respect for those who do not serve their needs. What I mean is, if you can't serve their needs they turn their back on you and act as though you are below them, verbally and suggestively. This attitude is vastly displayed in many threads.
This is my take on a cougar (My_Island's dictionary, so to speak).
Cougar (koo-ger) N. 1. A woman who partakes in meaningless sex acts with men much younger than themselves as a replacement for mental and emotional shortcomings, yet still partakes in meaningless sex with affluent older men, as well, in order to gain gifts and be spoiled like a child. 2. An affluent/independant woman in a midlife crisis. 3. A woman who will not respect men her own age until it is too late. 4. An old shoe with a new sock and no laces. | |
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| One third of older women date younger men Posted: 6/23/2006 8:39:54 PM | that's right Craig and I, being one of that 2/3, like men who were at least born in the same decade as me or very close to it - I have done my babysitting duties when younger now I get to play with the growups | |
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