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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 12/10/2006 7:34:11 AM | Emme515
Fellow bbw here and dam proud of it . . . . just a quick question for you . . . . your from Flordia . . . so do you find that alot of men there think and or use women for a fetish?? i guess i come from a small remote place and havent even thought that a bbw would be just a fetish for some men . . . . . . i have never been used as a fetish before . . . .and to answer your question, even though i'm not a man . . . . there are lots of men in here on POF that appriciate a bbw for who they are and not what kinda fantasy they can make happen for them . . . . .as for "WAYUPFORFUN" he wouldnt be lucky enough to land himself a big beautiful woman . . . .
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 12/10/2006 11:45:30 AM | | Oh most definitely. There are some local BBW Dances and there are some guys there for the right reasons, but then there are also alot that are just looking to get lucky. I think that they feel because we are BBW that we are desperate, and for some that may be the case, but that doesn't mean that they should take advantage of that vulnerability that some of us BBW have. I have had married men ask me to be a "friend with benefits", sorry but that's not for me....but I think they ask because again they think we are desperate. | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 4/1/2007 5:27:33 PM | | I have to say that I am glad that some one asked this question because I am a lady that at one time in my life was very large and I have lost over 100 lbs now and I am still a solid girl I always will be and the men that knew me before and know me now ... now they come around and oh,, ya.. now they would date but before I wasnt good enough for them.. I want nothing to do with them..I am the same person now that I was then inside...when I would be asked what did I do for a living and I would say I work in the hospital.. they would say.. oh.. kitchen or laundry.. nice... no.. I would say the laundry.. I really sont need to tell what I do but..I will say it is in the operation room, and it deals with hearts and I am not a nurse... so for all you shallow guys out there your loss.. I am still looking but I cant find a good man... they are so hard to find most are so...plastic and phoney.. thanks for listening good luck ladies dont settle for anything but the right one... nancy | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 4/3/2007 9:37:04 PM | | I think many women label themselves bbw and they really do not do themselves justice. Some women call themselves bbw when they are just a few pounds overweight, I have noticed. Another thing I have noticed about bbws is that they put up a facade. They try to portray that they are ok with their size but when push comes to shove they get agitated if someone jests about their weight. False bravado I suppose . I for one do not mind a lady that is a bit overweight but alot of overweight and I am not attracted. Everyone is different so I suppose there are those that like bbws | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 7/27/2007 4:38:11 PM | hoping you can forgive me for this, i know its an old thread but ive only been on here a few weeks! lol i have to say that i definitely prefer curvy women, or "bbw's" as some people call them, i call them women. women should look like women and not stick insects, curves are a beautiful thing for a woman and should be appreciated.
im sure there are quite a few guys who would agree with me on this, and im kind of hoping they will post if they do, but women who model themselves on the likes of kate moss etc. dont do anything for me im afraid. i know its all down to a matter of taste and preferance, but i know what i prefer and i know alot of guys agree.
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:40:44 PM | | unfortunately for you hun,Men are not interested in over weight obese women.Just like women are not interested in obese men.If it bothers you that men just want you for sex,then i suggest you put down the big mac,get off your lazy butt,and lose some weight.Fat is just a sign of weakness and laziness,no one respects either of them qualities,obese people in general are disgusting.hope that helps you in your time of need.:) | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:40:36 PM | brophy007 you should be grateful ignorance is bliss because you are definitely exuding your ignorance here.......who are you to say what men like or women like?....granted your opinion is your opinion thats fine but don't think you can speak for others...... wonder what your issues are that you feel a need to be so cruel and bitter?... nevermind no I don't........ to the OP...... there are different taste for everyone and there are plenty of good men into bbws .... I do agree with the earlier poster who stated that some people describe themselves in such ways that others don't perceive them too.......having said that... people do chase after fantasies too.... I can turn that question to do men really want older women for serious relationships or only for the "Mrs. Robinson" fantasy...lol  | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 9/7/2007 10:13:40 PM | I think that BBW or AKA Voluptious bombshells are some of the most underrated women on the planet. I have dated a lot of voluptious beauties and I can not remember one that I had a bad time with. I mean you like a bit of fun, you get a nice big beautiful women with beautiful curves. She is usually more daring and less worried about thier appearance and they take compliments so much better. In Part cause they are not used to being told how attractive they are. I think they seriously are beautiful women. I mean the last 3 girls I have gone out with were Voluptious but man I enjoyed thier company and I got to know who they were and had a blast. I like them because they dont hide behind thier boldness. Most voluptious woman have pretty eyes and they are wider and just hell of a sexyness. Then add in a beautiful massive set of boobs that slide like a soft pillow on your face. What else oh that ass. so do i really like BBW or i call beautiful voluptials.
also BBW are smart and well educated cause when they were in school they were not always being hit on cause they were often overlooked but now they are smart sexy and fun and who the hell wouldnt want that in thier lives ? ok now there is nothing at wrong with any other sized women but this question was specifially about BBW so see ya. my only concern with women like this is thier HEART condition the larger the woman the larger her risk for problems later down the line. The other reason I have concerns with BBW is I think if they find a good man they will lose the weight cause lot of women who get into good relationships lose a lot of weight just cause they are just happy. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2007 2:39:21 PM | Hey a quick note from a British BBW, Yes some men do have a fetish for us but I think most real men don't give a dam as long as you have a great personality and warm heart and yes most bbw's do ... Good luck in the hunting but remember plenty of fish in the sea but while your waiting to land the big one there are plenty of shrimps to have fun with xxxxx  | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 12/22/2007 3:57:56 PM | I got love for my big sista's just more recently there are lots of guys hitting on me and I'm totally oblivious. I didn't think it was cause of my size I thought it was cause I'm good people. I'm healthy and I try and stay active. I like a man that can hadle all this "big girls ride harder" lol naw not looking for those one night stands but there lots of guys actually.
I never refered to myself as a BBW but I've been called one and then got invited to be a BBW playmate!!!! So I joined them we don't take nude photos we just hang out and have discussions. I like a man that likes me as long as we have chemistry.
To each his own aye? Different people like different things as long as your ok with yourself you should be fine.
I had no clue it was a fetish or even a sex thing. New to this BBW thing it's alright, I'm a humble person with a this is how I am mentality. Take me as I am or move on. Takes a long time to come to terms with what it is but it is what it is. And believe it or not it is what you make it. lots of love to muh big sistas keep rockin worlds all over the place | |
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| Are there any POF male members that are truly Attracted to BBW and not just as a sexual fetish!
Posted: 2/13/2008 7:09:35 PM | I think many men simply may want whatever is hard to get in their time. Historically when masses worked the fields and peasant girls where thin from want of food, disease, and tan from exposure, men placed rotund, pale women on the proverbial "Pedestal" and painted and sculpted their rare "Ruben-esque" figures. Now, in times of abundance, it is just the opposite. Thin girls a few. It's a simple, human flaw. Most men want the trophy of their day. Really has nothing to do with aesthetics and true attractiveness. We know that in our hearts.
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Posted: 3/4/2008 11:06:38 PM | Jeez i read some of the posts on this thread and i am appalled by the hypocrisy and stupid assumptions ppl make. Things like "i enjoy the BBW personality". What the hell does that mean? I have met BB dubs that are complete A- holes but i have also met teeny tiny women that are like that as well. But just the same i have met BBW's and teeny little gals that are complete turn-ons. As my profile states i prefer women that are confident and secure in their own skin whatever your size. If you happen to be plus size so what?? Human sexuality is more based on perception than actuality and to that i say  | |
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Posted: 3/5/2008 11:57:42 AM | | I have to agree with the Professor. People are people and they can be jerks no matter what size. I try to reserve my judgments based on personalities, not looks. I'm not attracted to any certain "type" over any other. A nice smile and a gentlemanly attitude goes a lot further with me than a "Hey baby, do you have a big butt?" Just my two cents worth. | |
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