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Posted: 6/10/2006 6:04:08 AM |
RE # 5
to some men...communicating is nagging..
Only when it's repeated.
Oops.
OT - interesting list. I tend to agree with the items, but perhaps not the order.
And, Carrie, we all know Anderson would be more interested in me than you.
Which doesn't do a thing for me.
But that's just my wont.
And we all have our own wants.
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Posted: 6/10/2006 6:57:04 AM | Anymore I am from the school of thought that a nagless woman is just saving all her anoyances up for years, only to cash in on that Nag Swiss Account in one giant withdrawl.
If you listen closely...nagging is communicating....LISTEN UP! | |
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Posted: 6/10/2006 7:03:16 AM |
Are you saying Anderson is GAY???? 'Er, SimmahDahnNah~, don't get out much, huh?
Why do you think Carrie is always sad when someone mentions Anderson?
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Posted: 6/10/2006 7:19:46 AM | "to some men...communicating is nagging."
How very true! My ex never communicated so whenever i tried to express my needs, I was "nagging". Hoever, his needs had to be met on request and promptly. .. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2006 7:22:59 AM | "Only when it's repeated."
If men listened and paid attention the first time to what we have to say, we wouldn't have to repeat. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2006 8:14:04 AM | *Sigh* My comment was but a play on the unfortunate double-posting by almostfamous2.
But, since you brought it up - if some women would say what they mean the first time....
Oh, heck - it's a viscious cycle, isn't it?
Let's just remember that it takes two to communicate, and it's not always the man's fault.
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Posted: 6/10/2006 8:43:58 AM | MSG25
...or find a woman who is less of a control freak and/or doesn't demand constant attention /instant gratification--i.e., a screaming beeitch. Been there, done that, moved the Hell on.
David
P.S. Back on topic, pretty good list! I always admire couples who are there for each other no matter where they are, so a woman who contributes that would be a great partner.
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Posted: 6/10/2006 9:29:27 AM | the last guy i was dating - we were great when we were alone but in public he would put me down.
after the first time i waited until we were alone and i told him i didn't like that. he ignored me.
the next time, same thing.
our last conversation went like this. me; if you want to make me look like an idiot don't do it around my family, friends or the people i work with.
him yelling; i don';t believe this. you just can't shut up. stop nagging me.
me; i'm finished with you, don't call me again.
since then of course he keeps calling and e-mailing me asking me 'why' but he should know why; for me to remind him would be nagging again. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2006 9:40:06 AM |
If men listened and paid attention the first time to what we have to say, we wouldn't have to repeat
If women had anything interesting to say we'd listen.  | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 7:06:53 PM | #9 - She's Intelligent #7 - She's Beautiful #2 - She loves you thats all it takes[/quote What if a man was all these things and hit his woman? (Note 1: assuming "beautiful" refers to appearance only. Note 2: a reminder that some people DO hurt the ones they love) On second thought... to me beautiful is more than skin-deep. If that's how you interpret the wording, I would have to agree. If women had anything interesting to say we'd listen. HA. HA. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 7:15:37 PM |
#5 - She lets you be a man
Y'know, I'm all about the man being the dominant partner in the relationship, but what the hell does it mean to let a man "be man"? | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 9:50:56 PM | ya...iunno about the forth one. he claims i'm being "naggin" just because i beat him on our *intellectual conversations*. just because i can prove to him otherwise...doesn't mean i'm nagging! hehehehehe
and melodic...i think letting him be "the man" means ...kinna giving in. like...make them feel needed in one way or the other. be *weak* for just a day or something and let them open the damn jar!
i know i can open my own jar. i've opened jars other guys can't [it's really all about the technique]. but ya...everynow and then, boost them up a lil and let them have it every other millenium or something....*teeeheeee... or atleast that's what i think it meant. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 12:09:41 AM | hmmm, gotta say it.....
If she can suck a football through a garden hose...
 
seriously though, number 1 would have to be a best friend....
break everything down, and the friendship would be the most important at least in my opinion...  | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 12:38:37 AM | What do you think about these 10 traits of a great girlfriend?
If you expect all ten, you'll lose the whole woman. If askmen.com gave the right advice they would cease to exist. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 3:15:59 AM | #5 - She lets you be a man
what a load of bullshit -- written by a **** whipped wimp
I dont need any womans permission to be a man -- I am one ifyou dont like it - hit the road | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 3:41:02 AM | | I read a great article by Joel Olsteen - his basic theory is that if your wife/gf is NOT all of the above things, the responsibility is on the HUSBAND/BF to figure out what HE is doing WRONG that is not making his wife/gf feel loved and cherished enough to WANT to do those things, and be that sweet. It goes both ways.... | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:47:31 AM |
If she can suck a football through a garden hose...
Now, why didn't anyone mentioned THIS before... shouldn't this be #1?
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:50:19 AM | #11 - she doesn't come up with stupid lists all the time...
isn't this a rather captain obvious list about what anyone would want in a mate/partner?
oh *and* there is no such thing as a nagless woman ,or a nagless man for that matter - just varying degrees of naggyness!
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