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 justcueit

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 76
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 4/22/2007 6:13:52 PM

not a southern site.........
hince.........
#10 she's independent
#9 she's intelligent
Southern men want a woman who does what she is told no questions asked.
hahahahaha
Indepent thought is not allowed.


OH MAN!!!!! I'm FOOKED!!!!!!
 dannyr0697

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 77
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Posted: 4/23/2007 4:15:20 PM

OH MAN!!!!! I'm FOOKED!!!!!!


Not all southern men feel like that Pretty Lady. You wouldn't have any trouble here.


what does "be a man" mean


Bro, if you have to ask, you wouldn't understand the answer anyway.


L8TR
 The Brat

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 78
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 4/24/2007 1:08:20 AM
Oooh, you forgot very important things:
* She wears butt-flosses
* She's a slut in bed, great cook in the kitchen, a model on the walk way!

 fitandhip

Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 79
Better advice for the women
Posted: 4/24/2007 1:47:16 AM
GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!

Here's why: (you'll understand after reading the entire thing)


Nice guys are B-O-R-I-N-G and P-R-E-D-I-C-T-A-B-L-E. Two things that turn a woman off. Jerks can sometimes even be nasty, but they seem to carry that nastiness with a touch of excitement, which is why most women will be attracted to a "jerk." This usually lasts until most of these women are in their late 20's or early 30's.

They are also attracted to the jerk because of the challenge to change them. Nice guys can initially give off an aura of being possessive and jealous which always turns women off.

Most women will later realize that nice guys are smart.
Smart nice guys have good jobs.
Smart nice guys with good jobs make good money.
Smart nice guys with good money provide a life of security and comfort.
Smart nice guys also make good fathers.

It takes a long time for most women to come full-circle on this principle. Nice guys are willing to provide security and comfort right from the beginning. Problem is, women in the beginning, aren't looking for that.

Women who don't wise-up until it is too late are the women with the drunk, battering, uneducated, unemployed husband. Now she has three kids and she herself is uneducated. She is uneducated because her abusive husband always "controlled" her against ever being smarter than he was. He was a jerk, and still is.


And now divorced with three kids, she says, "Why can't I meet a nice guy?"

Answer: They were there all the time years ago. Now with all your baggage, they are smart enough not to get involved with you! I see this story unfold on a weekly basis. My buddy works as a police officer and handles many, many domestics. Her kids will probably grow up to mimic the same negative experiences because domestic violence is a learned behavior. The son will smack his girlfriends and wife around because that was good enough for his mother. Dad did it all the time. The daughter will attract the same type of man her mother did. He will remind her of her father right up to the point of divorce. "


wow! that one sure hits home. Isn't it the truth though? Especially around here. I think this is a BIG REASON why I have always dated older women, or "proper" and "classy" women of the same age!!
The younger ones often annoy me and fall into that "20's and early 30's" group mentioned in the beginning. BUT, there are a few exceptions.

Hopefully you get a thing or two out of this. I see it all the time here in Nevada (I'm originally from Honolulu) and it's kind of sad.. But they made their choice. If you're young it's not too late.


seeya!
 SKORP11N

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 4/24/2007 2:10:15 AM
I DARE TO BELIEVE I HAVE ALL THOSE TRAITS,,,,,,AND THE MAN I AM LOOKING FOR DOES TOO!!!!
 pebbles_2006

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 4/24/2007 2:13:25 AM
I am all of the above.... But why did my BF Al of 3 months TREATED me like CRAP!!!
Why???
 fitandhip

Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 82
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 4/24/2007 4:11:40 AM
read my message above.

Answer:

Because you fell into the cycle most women do. You DID NOT choose a nice/smart guy.

I do hope you'll learn from your experience.

--Dave
 Essie_20

Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 4/24/2007 4:55:22 AM
I see you didnt put loyal you could find a girl that is all of these but still not loyal. Loyalty is the most important thing to me.

top 10 for me if i was a guy
1 Loyal
2 respects you
3 independent
4 intelligent
5 great personality
6 love you and only you
7 enjoys sex
8 gets on with family and friends
9 makes you feel special
10 enjoys being with you

This is what i would want in a guy and if i was a guy this is what i would want in a girl
 kaori33040

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 84
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 4/24/2007 5:06:42 AM
Wow! This totally describes me! LMAO!
 Essie_20

Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 85
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 4/24/2007 5:09:23 AM
I like nice guys and if they are willing to look after me and vice versa i would throw that away
 t_i_n_x

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 86
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:22:39 AM
Hey you just described me!!!
So why am I on here??
 justcueit

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 87
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:31:04 AM
<<<----disappointed that "She loves you" is #2 **pouts**
 Bluezzz

Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 88
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:57:11 AM
Let's see:

#10 - 3 ft tall
#9 - flat head (for setting your beer down)
#8 - pistol-grip ears
#7 - rollback teeth
#6 to #1 - who cares.... lol

Ok, ok ok... before I'm labeled a schmuck... it was just a joke I heard once and I was surprised no one had posted them yet


Bluezzz
 bullielover62

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 5/3/2007 11:59:20 AM
What about:

*Can reload for you.

Yes, I'm talking about his GUN....

Yes, I'm talking about a REAL GUN, not THAT...

OK, maybe I WAS talking about THAT......

bad Bullie
 capegardengirl

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 5/3/2007 12:10:34 PM
larissan...but its kinda amusing to sit back and watch it...him charging after the high maintenence types...till he exhausts himself, discouraged, and comes to me for a whine session
 Piano4te

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 91
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 5/3/2007 12:36:14 PM
Funny how the same list of qualities were written about two thousand years ago in Proverbs 31.......but I guess in order for anybody to READ these days, it has to have a catchy title to the book.........
 sam3

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 5/3/2007 12:45:57 PM
A southern woman just never lets him know how independent or strong she is, ya'll.
 bullielover62

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 5/3/2007 12:46:35 PM
Piano, Or maybe it has to be a book we're interested in READING..... huh......
 swtcarolinej

Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 5/3/2007 1:36:25 PM
LOL..... forplay is Get in the Truck OMG that was funny and how many guys we have dated that really thought that was the way!!so damned scarey is what it is This thread is nice tho IM ALL OF THE ABOVE AND SOOOO MUCH MORE..
 Longlake

Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 95
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 7/19/2007 6:38:10 AM
a looking at your profile ya'll have all the great girlfriend traits
The New Southern Man likes an indepent thinking woman
LongLake thinks so
 whatyouc

Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 96
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 7/19/2007 6:49:46 AM
("not a southern site.........
hince.........
#10 she's independent
#9 she's intelligent
Southern men want a woman who does what she is told no questions asked.
hahahahaha
Indepent thought is not allowed.
HAHAHAA")

This GA boy must strongly disagree cindylynnatl.
Without those two traits you won't get past coffee with me.
 lancelotfl

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 7/19/2007 7:16:56 AM
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I always thought relationships involved two people, not just a guy posting a list of required criteria and interviewing applicants.

Where in there is HIS obligations to his partner? It's fine to say that you want a woman with a high sex drive that's beautiful, won't nag you and will love you, but should she do that if

1.) You're lazy
2.) You can't hold a job
3.) You're verbally abusive
4.) You're physically abusive
5.) You're addicted to drugs or alcohol

It only works if two work at it.

I like the "beautiful" part. Will you convene a panel of your frinds and have them assign a value from 1 to 5 and add the scores? Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure that we've all seen what we would consider beautiful women with less than handsome men and vice versa. Is it possible that maybe the inner values contribute to the impression of "beautiful", as in "never judge a book by the cover"?

I'm just playing Devil's Advocate here because I rank Top 10 lists and horoscopes about the same. Interesting, but little impact on my life. They both tend to over simplify something very complex.

Best regards,
Michael
 EyeDye

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 98
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 7/19/2007 8:07:41 AM
The actual list---

#10 - She's independent
#9 - She's Intelligent
#8 - She's Sexual
#7 - She's Beautiful
#6 - She respects you
#5 - She lets you be a man
#4 - She's nagless
#3 - She gets along with friends & family
#2 - She loves you
#1 - She makes you want to be a better man

The REAL list---

#10 - She's bi-sexual and always wants another women in bed with you two
#9 - She's dumb as a box of rocks
#8 - She's a total fox
#7 - She's got huge tits
#6 - She does everything you say
#5 - She dosent pull you around by your penis
#4 - She's a nymphomanic
#3 - She makes you forget your friends & family
#2 - She waits on you hand and foot
#1 - She is mute

 whatyouc

Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 99
Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
Posted: 7/19/2007 9:28:27 AM
ROFLMAO!!! Eye Dye, your posts always crack me up!
But seriously, do you know a woman like that? Can I get her #?
 RainbowFaerie

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 100
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Posted: 9/28/2007 4:53:07 PM
that's a load of crap, cookiemel is none of these, and i know from experience.
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