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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 4/23/2007 4:15:20 PM |
OH MAN!!!!! I'm FOOKED!!!!!!
Not all southern men feel like that Pretty Lady. You wouldn't have any trouble here.
what does "be a man" mean
Bro, if you have to ask, you wouldn't understand the answer anyway.
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 4/24/2007 1:08:20 AM | Oooh, you forgot very important things: * She wears butt-flosses * She's a slut in bed, great cook in the kitchen, a model on the walk way!
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| Better advice for the women Posted: 4/24/2007 1:47:16 AM | GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!
Here's why: (you'll understand after reading the entire thing)
Nice guys are B-O-R-I-N-G and P-R-E-D-I-C-T-A-B-L-E. Two things that turn a woman off. Jerks can sometimes even be nasty, but they seem to carry that nastiness with a touch of excitement, which is why most women will be attracted to a "jerk." This usually lasts until most of these women are in their late 20's or early 30's.
They are also attracted to the jerk because of the challenge to change them. Nice guys can initially give off an aura of being possessive and jealous which always turns women off.
Most women will later realize that nice guys are smart. Smart nice guys have good jobs. Smart nice guys with good jobs make good money. Smart nice guys with good money provide a life of security and comfort. Smart nice guys also make good fathers.
It takes a long time for most women to come full-circle on this principle. Nice guys are willing to provide security and comfort right from the beginning. Problem is, women in the beginning, aren't looking for that.
Women who don't wise-up until it is too late are the women with the drunk, battering, uneducated, unemployed husband. Now she has three kids and she herself is uneducated. She is uneducated because her abusive husband always "controlled" her against ever being smarter than he was. He was a jerk, and still is.
And now divorced with three kids, she says, "Why can't I meet a nice guy?"
Answer: They were there all the time years ago. Now with all your baggage, they are smart enough not to get involved with you! I see this story unfold on a weekly basis. My buddy works as a police officer and handles many, many domestics. Her kids will probably grow up to mimic the same negative experiences because domestic violence is a learned behavior. The son will smack his girlfriends and wife around because that was good enough for his mother. Dad did it all the time. The daughter will attract the same type of man her mother did. He will remind her of her father right up to the point of divorce. "
wow! that one sure hits home. Isn't it the truth though? Especially around here. I think this is a BIG REASON why I have always dated older women, or "proper" and "classy" women of the same age!! The younger ones often annoy me and fall into that "20's and early 30's" group mentioned in the beginning. BUT, there are a few exceptions.
Hopefully you get a thing or two out of this. I see it all the time here in Nevada (I'm originally from Honolulu) and it's kind of sad.. But they made their choice. If you're young it's not too late.
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 4/24/2007 4:11:40 AM | read my message above.
Answer:
Because you fell into the cycle most women do. You DID NOT choose a nice/smart guy.
I do hope you'll learn from your experience.
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 4/24/2007 4:55:22 AM | I see you didnt put loyal you could find a girl that is all of these but still not loyal. Loyalty is the most important thing to me.
top 10 for me if i was a guy 1 Loyal 2 respects you 3 independent 4 intelligent 5 great personality 6 love you and only you 7 enjoys sex 8 gets on with family and friends 9 makes you feel special 10 enjoys being with you
This is what i would want in a guy and if i was a guy this is what i would want in a girl | |
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 5/3/2007 11:57:11 AM | Let's see:
#10 - 3 ft tall #9 - flat head (for setting your beer down) #8 - pistol-grip ears #7 - rollback teeth #6 to #1 - who cares.... lol
Ok, ok ok... before I'm labeled a schmuck... it was just a joke I heard once and I was surprised no one had posted them yet
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 5/3/2007 11:59:20 AM | What about:
*Can reload for you.
Yes, I'm talking about his GUN....
Yes, I'm talking about a REAL GUN, not THAT...
OK, maybe I WAS talking about THAT......
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 5/3/2007 12:10:34 PM | larissan...but its kinda amusing to sit back and watch it...him charging after the high maintenence types...till he exhausts himself, discouraged, and comes to me for a whine session  | |
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 5/3/2007 12:36:14 PM | | Funny how the same list of qualities were written about two thousand years ago in Proverbs 31.......but I guess in order for anybody to READ these days, it has to have a catchy title to the book......... | |
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 5/3/2007 1:36:25 PM | LOL..... forplay is Get in the Truck OMG that was funny and how many guys we have dated that really thought that was the way!!so damned scarey is what it is This thread is nice tho IM ALL OF THE ABOVE AND SOOOO MUCH MORE..  | |
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 7/19/2007 6:38:10 AM | a looking at your profile ya'll have all the great girlfriend traits The New Southern Man likes an indepent thinking woman
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 7/19/2007 6:49:46 AM | ("not a southern site......... hince......... #10 she's independent #9 she's intelligent Southern men want a woman who does what she is told no questions asked. hahahahaha Indepent thought is not allowed. HAHAHAA")
This GA boy must strongly disagree cindylynnatl. Without those two traits you won't get past coffee with me. | |
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 7/19/2007 7:16:56 AM | Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I always thought relationships involved two people, not just a guy posting a list of required criteria and interviewing applicants.
Where in there is HIS obligations to his partner? It's fine to say that you want a woman with a high sex drive that's beautiful, won't nag you and will love you, but should she do that if
1.) You're lazy 2.) You can't hold a job 3.) You're verbally abusive 4.) You're physically abusive 5.) You're addicted to drugs or alcohol
It only works if two work at it.
I like the "beautiful" part. Will you convene a panel of your frinds and have them assign a value from 1 to 5 and add the scores? Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure that we've all seen what we would consider beautiful women with less than handsome men and vice versa. Is it possible that maybe the inner values contribute to the impression of "beautiful", as in "never judge a book by the cover"?
I'm just playing Devil's Advocate here because I rank Top 10 lists and horoscopes about the same. Interesting, but little impact on my life. They both tend to over simplify something very complex.
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| Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend Posted: 7/19/2007 8:07:41 AM | The actual list---
#10 - She's independent #9 - She's Intelligent #8 - She's Sexual #7 - She's Beautiful #6 - She respects you #5 - She lets you be a man #4 - She's nagless #3 - She gets along with friends & family #2 - She loves you #1 - She makes you want to be a better man
The REAL list---
#10 - She's bi-sexual and always wants another women in bed with you two #9 - She's dumb as a box of rocks #8 - She's a total fox #7 - She's got huge tits #6 - She does everything you say #5 - She dosent pull you around by your penis #4 - She's a nymphomanic #3 - She makes you forget your friends & family #2 - She waits on you hand and foot #1 - She is mute
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