lohki
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Joined: 7/22/2005
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| make up sex
Posted: 5/7/2006 3:26:01 PM | ^^^ gettin a rooooom!
lol
I have to say it- and yes that is the reason why we "go back"...
the pissier I am, the more likely I am to continue the downward spiral into the burning ring of fire!...
hello... I'm Johnny Cash.. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 5:41:58 PM | make up sex, morning sex, mid-day sex, walking funny the next day because of too much sex  . . isn't all sex healthy?  | |
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Posted: 5/7/2006 5:47:28 PM | | make up sex is awesome. theirs so much emotion involved | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 12:53:14 PM | Witch one of the ladies can I have an argument with  | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 12:55:26 PM | Either that or the pit of yes yes yes oh my god.   | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 2:29:29 PM | Why wait till you make up to have animalistic sex? Sometimes it's even hotter when you're still angry.
You can always make up at four in the morning just before you fall asleep. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 3:10:38 PM | | I believe make up sex is a great thing if you have truly cleared up the dilemma first, otherwise you may still be feeling kind of crappy after because it's still playing through your thoughts. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2006 3:22:19 PM | Actually, I've experienced great angry sex before, however politically incorrect that may seem.
As blastkist (welcome back, blast ) says, the testosterone flows when we're angry, so it's still at its peak during the arguement, not so much after.
Also, there's a subtle psychological danger that engaging in AFTER-make-up sex can be a way for either to dispense a mercy-fuck. Mercy-fucks are truly abominable: grudging for the giver; abasing for the receiver. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 12:31:32 PM | Im going to agree with buddy.
why wait for animalistic sex? why do you need to pick a fight to have that pin you to the bed and get er Done feeling?? hmmm beats me.
( if I had too I'm female believe me I could pick a fight over anything) ** winks ** | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 12:31:48 PM | Im going to agree with buddy.
why wait for animalistic sex? why do you need to pick a fight to have that pin you to the bed and get er Done feeling?? hmmm beats me.
( if I had too I'm female believe me I could pick a fight over anything) ** winks ** | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 12:44:10 PM | ^^^ She felt so strongly about that she needed to post it twice. Get a little excited, did we?
That said... I think all I've been having lately is "make up sex." I made up a nice little milkmaid meets the naughty stable boy fantasy before I went to bed last nite, this morning I made up a a little get-together between myself and Maggie Gyllenhaal...
Hmmmmm... Tonite I think I might make up something vintage. Throw-backy. Perhaps Lynda Carter... Wonder Woman years.That should do the trick. But yeah... TONS of make up sex. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 12:47:43 PM | Well after a fight with a guy.....make up sex is definately NOT on the agenda lol. Making sure he doesnt get back up is really the better way to go here lol.
As for make up sex with a girl. Well frankly, I only date Women with a capital W. With women, there would be no need for make up sex as there would be no fight in the first place. Just good open hearted, vulnerable, owned, nonjudgemental, nonblaming communication of how each of us feels about a particular relationship issue. There would be a desire to know how the other thinks, and to respect that point of view, rather than trying to win. Control dramas are for adult girls and boy who still need to do a little more maturing as far as Im concerned. If you don't agree and ya want to argue about it, I'll know all you want is make up sex from me, and Im not that easy :). | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 1:36:54 PM | | Make up sex is great, it's not saying lets have sex and whatever pissed you off in the first place is over. It means you talk about your problems, and then because you love each other... you make love, to bring back the love you already had before the fight. My fiance says it's horney agression. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 2:21:13 PM | From the standpoint of re-establishing fun and good times, I'm all for it - but there are some folks out there that are adrenaline junkies (fighting for the sake of make-up sex) and that's pretty creepy.
=/=  for me | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 2:29:28 PM | | If you are arguing all the time, maybe you should break up and go and have sex with sombody else? Arguing all the time is not healthy under any circumstances! | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 2:30:43 PM | | Make-up sex is only good IF you actually make up. I don't want it to take the PLACE of making up. I want the issue resolved first. Sex can't resolve whatever the problem is. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 2:32:58 PM | | Why go to bed angry? Yes.. Make up sex.. or sex during arguing.. .. Is there a bad time to have sex.. perhaps.. but it sure makes arguing more fun! | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 6:38:17 AM | We had make up sex for the first time last night It was hot, sweaty and passionate. We both agreed it was the best sex we had had.
I hope he pisses me off again tonight!  | |
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Posted: 9/7/2007 8:52:55 AM | | We almost never fight, so makeup sex to us is simply having more sex on weekends to make up for lost opportunities during a busy or tiring week! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 10:03:33 PM | Hot Buttered Soul...I so love your post!
AND I totally agree with ya! LOL
IMO...
I say if this is what will ensue from arguing... I'm donning on my boxing gloves immediately! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 10:26:10 PM | personally i think make up sex is unhealthy and just a big myth...the sex is always better when you are both happy and in sync with each other ...i would rather resolve the 'problem' first and when its all good then go have some 'happy' sex...
doing it when you are both still angry is just allowing the relationship to become dysfunctional and inviting a pattern of negativity so you can both unleash in the bedroom later...no thanks... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 11:16:39 PM | | First of all, I've never fought with a mate, not even my two ex's....and what in heck is make up sex? I guess I really do live under a rock!!! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2007 10:08:08 AM | | I never consider it. For me, having sex is not a way to make up after a fight. For me, the make up comes first, and the sex may come afterwards; to celebrate the making up. If we haven't yet made up, we don't have sex. If she starts a fight, and then wants to have sex with me, she has to apologize first and mean it. I don't reward people who abuse me. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2007 10:11:06 AM | | Sex without make up is always better. Make up tastes terrible. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2007 10:24:29 AM | | Never had make-up sex that I can recall. | |
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