| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 8/8/2006 2:07:57 PM | | I thought I would add my two-penneth to this thread, I apologize if it upsets you guys, when I was 17-18 (yes a long time ago) I used to be attracted to older men (in their mid-late 20's) My hubby was 10yrs older than me.....but now I'm in my late 50's I find I'm attracted to younger men (39-45) and them in me. As some of you have commented, a lot but not all men, think they don't have to bother how they look once pasted the 35 mark, men in general my age are mostly big beer gutted and want to sit around doing nothing, well wake up fellas if you take care of yourself we woman may be interested in you, a lot of woman try and stay in trim and take care of themselves to be attractive for you so why can't you do the same for us. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 8/8/2006 5:07:47 PM | [I'm 50 and it's hard finding men my age who I find attractive. When I do a search on here most of the men just look overweight or don't seem to have any sense of style. It just seems like when alot of men get to my age they could care less what they come off as.
After a man hits 35 they seem to just give up on everything....gain weight, have hair growing odd places, develop jowls...just let themselves go completely. Now I am not saying there aren't decent looking men my age somewhere in the world, but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it.] original post-by- who_the_fox
I think another factor you have to remember fox, is the good ones get taken faster!
For a woman to look as good as you & I do, at our age, is rare. And that probably goes for men, as well.
If you were to go to the site without logging in & did a search for women between 45-55, I suspect you'd find the percentages are probably fairly equal.
Also, some people have disabilities or health problems, that may keep them from attaining/ or staying in top shape. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 1:44:31 PM | The older guys just want sex and tell me on the first date. So rude. I have gone out with guys in their 40's and they seem like they are entitled to sex right away and I don't even know them. If you have to ask, you ain't getting it. The younger guys seem more respectful.
So like younger guys don't like sex...lol Remember a thread very similar to this one. She started a thread how nice & respectful younger guys were to her compared to older men. Yet in a diffrent topic she stated how many younger guys thought since she was much older, she would be desperate for sex and thats why they would contact her. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 1:53:47 PM | IF you had read the first few threads, you would understand that this thread was done tongue in cheek.
The initial post was a cut and paste from a man's thread with just the word woman changed to man.
It has NOTHING to do with my own opinions. It is SATIRICAL. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 2:05:10 PM | Hi fox,
If your refering to me, I know, I've read the whole post before. Just responding to feechee comment. I'm referencing, not your personal opinion, but the idea behind it.... | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 2:38:08 PM | I resent this post big time
I am nearly 37 -- and I am not past it
In fact I am physicaly in better shape now then when I was 20
and there are many many many men like me in the world --- but your out of luck because most are taken and married etc | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 2:59:47 PM | Nothing wrong with what the OP said, I agree with one slight difference....I like men of any age that take care of themselves. Obviously for both men and women, staying in shape becomes more of an issue after 30.
For me the men in better shape seem to be younger than me, and I am not 40 yet. That doesn't mean all men, but in my experience it just seems to be more younger than my age or older.
Bottom line is tho, if I am attracted to you, then I am attracted to you and within reason, age won't get in the way of that. Soooo if you are in great physical shape at any age you're good in my book.
That's my preference, not good or bad, just my thing. Carry on. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 6:09:18 PM | Wait a minute Blastkist, men look older because they don't use moisturizers on their face??  How about women look older because they spend their lives sitting in the sun getting burned to a crisp, then at 50 they have faces you could make a wallet out of. 
And as to that comment about mens eyes, well just check out mine. Not bad for an old washed up gunfighter. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:45:15 PM | I am going to get in a lot of trouble with a certain nations women here for saying this but damn if i will keep silent about it
Australian women over 40 in general have absolutely let themselves go to hell -- I mean its like they gave up totally
I have seen many women on these forums canadian and american in thier 40's and 50's that put 20 something year olds in Australia to shame and I congratulate you women for that
Now I know its up to the individuals -- but hey down here seems to be a social group mentality - I am married I have kids or I have been there done that in my younger days so there is no need for me to look hot/sexy/attractive anymore
let the mule bashing begin | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:02:14 PM | OK!! But now we gotta get some guys with big ol bellies to whine
because women won't go out with them!
any man over 35 is pretty well past it.
I won't argue with you.......but I would like to know what ecactly
it is that I'm past?
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:41:29 PM | I don't ask to see any one's drivers license before asking her out. Just follow sparky's lead.
Thought everyone else did the same thing. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:04:35 PM | Hey Giddy Up Guy...talk to me in 20 yrs...when I still look like this and you... well...you know what happens when you stop working out..I was married to a body builder who had an awesome body.....it's now turned to fat....
Ok...just kidding here you really look great...most guys in their 30's or early 40's look great...damn I dated some awesome looking guys that age...now guys my age...aarrrgghhhhh....no offense guys...some of you are hot hot hot  but you live too damn far....
Hell I live in a city that never sleeps...except the guys my age....9pm it's lights out...so that leaves me no alternative but to date younger guys....those young guys rock....
Ok the Princess is waking up from her fantasy dream ....the guy I date is 43 and awesome...I say 10yrs is my limit....younger then that we're not on the same page...it's just reality.....we've been together 3 yrs ....and he is hotter then hot and in total shape....hope he keeps up the good work...I know there are men in their 50's who do take care of themselves...not many tho....sorry guys...this might be the wake up call...get rid of the beer guts..there is so much technology out there men can use to get rid of that hair that grows everywhere...ewww
This would make woman my age very happy (big smile)....luv ya....NYP | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:14:15 PM | Its quite interesting to see how many women here say they aren't attracted to men their own age. As they say they "prefer younger men". Some of their profiles do indeed indicate they would only like to meet men 20 years younger.
Now there are a few things which would be interesting to know:
1. what percentage of men are interested in being involved with a woman 20 years older than they are,
2. why would a younger man be interested in such a 20+ years older woman (other than a fetish interest)..... and I am open to hearing solid reasons (I accept there are good reasons just as there are good reasons for older men/younger women relationships); and,
3. how many, percentage-wise, of these women are actually dating or involved with men 20 years younger? (Other than one-night-stands please..... which I don't think counts).
An interesting exercise for you to consider. Look, on this page, at the profiles of women who say they can't find attractive men.... who are in shape etc etc. There is one perfect repeat absolutely perfect example. Look at her profile and in particular the man she has finally chosen!
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:29:15 PM | | This thread is fukking absurd....arrogance in life will get you no where....get a grip...look in the damn mirror. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:32:00 PM |
The initial post was a cut and paste from a man's thread with just the word woman changed to man. It has NOTHING to do with my own opinions.
You're not kidding !
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:07:03 AM | Bwahahahaha!^^^^^^^^^^ Squirrly you are soooo right!
If the men only would realize that this is what they've been handing out for such a very long time-- about not being attracted to women their age.
Okay for the gander but not for the goose.
Think I'll go enjoy this beautiful weather and maybe when I come back this thread will be gone. So hilarious.
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/16/2006 7:16:29 AM | Men get women that they can get. Same as women.
If you are hot enough and interesting enough to get a hot younger man and keep him. All the more to you. Otherwise, you can get boinked a few time .. being the port in the storm ... or an experiment and that's about it. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/16/2006 7:20:55 AM | hey I resemble that remark! im 36 and im going to hell!
lol...feel for ya "fox"....your "arnold" awaits....somewhere over the rainbow...
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:09:10 AM | Though my response last night was impulsive and out of character I still think there are some responses by women on here that are absurd. As I combed through some of the responses and then looked at their profile I thought "You got to be kidding, have they looked in the mirror lately?". You don't start bashing men over 35 for being fat, lazy and boring when your own picture makes you appear out of shape and your profile reads about staying home and watching movies and when your activities do not list anything energetic. Sorry...saying you like to go partying tells me you live a life style that will shorten your lifespan and rob you quickly of your vitality.
You are right in that men have dished out moronic comments as well over the years. I think it is unethical to marry someone 20 years your younger knowing that you will leave her widowed and alone throughout her elder years. I can't believe that you can rationalize your own thinking because of another threads shallow thinking. In truth when I was 20 years old if some lady was 10 years plus my age I never dreamed of starting a relationship with them. Now if there was a chance of just sex at that age with an older woman then I would have.....But i guarantee an older woman would have been very disappointed because I wouldn't have lasted more than 5 minutes due to lack of trigger control. Today, the thoughts of me forming a relationship with someone 50 plus or in reverse of under 28 would not be considered and ideally I would want to be with someone close to my age with like interests. I would want someone energetic, athletic, independent, sound minded and who takes care of their health. Since when are those attributes age restricted? I guarantee if you are a woman running to the dance club every weekend, getting drunk, smoking like a chimney and sleeping with alot of younger men you will die young. No secure young man is going to trap himself into something longterm with you. And most men that do decide to date you are going to ride out the fling for 2 months, get bored with you and find the next fling or settle down with someone close to their age. You will be left feeling hurt, empty, discouraged and more older than you are now. Then we will see your next thread in here bashing all men for being PLAYERS. The old proverb...."You reap what you sow"
Or better yet....He is going to move out of momma's house and move in with you.....while you are at work trying to pay the bills he will be down in the basement with his bro's smoking on a doobie.....when you come home the house will be a mess, the toilet won't be flushed, and the grass will be two feet high....You will get in a big fight he will say "Fuk you...I am going to get drunk" He will roll in at 3 AM with lipstick on his neck and go to bed...In the morning he will greet you with a fart go downstairs and call his bro about getting together to smoke one. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:32:19 AM | Yeesh...11 pages!
Did anyone mention that REGARDLESS of age, if you take pride in your physical appearance & work to keep it that way you are probably going to percieve that the majority of people your age do NOT share the same viewpoint/fitness level. Face the facts, OP...modern society is about instant gratification & consumption on all levels.
Attracted to younger guys? Go for it, girl!
Just don't complain when the 51 yr. old male who has money, works out & maintains a healthy sex drive wants to date 32 yr. old women. | |
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