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Posted: 10/1/2006 7:34:23 AM | | AMEN,,neither am I,,well it depends on the guy,,many men think they are old after 45 and act it,,hey men you are as old as you think,,start living it up | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 8:16:08 AM | well well now, isn't this the thread for me!
how old I am is a constant conversation is my daily routine. I don't look my age nor "act it". Honestly I don't "act" anything. This is me, and YES I'm generally attracted to younger women. Why wouldn't I be?
THAT is what would generally fit me, my style and personality. AGAIN, I never had a choice in what I'm attracted too, just the way it is! | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 9:32:54 AM | | Funny you should mention that. I have a friend who used to be a model, and even when she turned 40, she refused to date anyone over 28. She has lots of great pics to brag about, but she has turned into every young man's ragdoll. From what the young guys say to me, it's an absolute "field day" sleeping with woman in their 40's-50's, they're everywhere. I guess somehow they feel as though they are re-capturing their youth. She's now 44, and is either alone or getting treated like dirt. Good luck with that...buh bye! | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age
Posted: 10/1/2006 10:27:39 AM | | Well unless I am mistaken, the original post doesnt seem like a trap its more a statement that men of a certain age dont care what they come off like. Purely physical in the comment so, in any event, it wouldnt have made a very effective trap so to speak. It began with generalized statements and I see it continues on with the same. I care not what comes to pass after this for my part I will not help this thread sustain life. Even the one who started it doesnt revisit this subject. Enjoy if you must go on. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 10:29:46 AM | Reading all 17 pages of texts might take me into next week, already, so I'm posting with the astute possibility that Im repeating someones comments.
Nonetheless, I see age as indeterminant in gauging an attraction to another person.
I've dated within a wide range of ages. One was 17 yrs younger, and another 13 years my senior. Ironically, I thought the younger one was older than she actually was, and the older one was so young looking, I took 20 years off of her before I ever had opportuity to talk to her. (Not an exaggeration). Looks don't necessarily parallel with age. I see people of all ages who, based on their appearance, are surprisingly out of synch, so to speak. I know of women of 53 who look not a day over 33, and women of 40 who could pass for my grandmother. (The same applies to men, but... it's the women I'm studying)
I wouldn't go so far as to make the assertion that this trait, of letting oneself go after 35, is exclusive to men, and I'm sure you are not. I see a lot of guys who are 35, 45, even 65, who may have suffered the pitfalls of age, superficially speaking (grey hair, balding), but are doing their best to maintain a vigorously active and healthy lifestyle.
You look very good for your age. Keep doing what you're doing and the dividends will come soon enough.
Thats my 1.8 cts worth (what with inflation)
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 10/1/2006 10:45:20 AM | Clearly you're in much better physical shape than most men or women in your age group. I'd say you're probably in the 99th percentile.
There aren't many people around in that group. If you wanted to find "attractive" men your age, you would have to look in gyms, Hollywood, etc. Names that come to mind of older men that are in great physical shape which you would probably consider attractive:
- Arnold
- Chuck Norris
- Stallone
- Hulk Hogan
- etc...
Too bad for you they're celebrities. 
Most men your age are not in good shape like that. Most women your age aren't either.
Here's my question to you:
What younger guy is going to want to date an older woman (50+) that looks masculine? Especially considering almost every guy wants a woman that is YOUNGER or the same age and that looks feminine.
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Posted: 10/1/2006 11:05:25 AM | Manerider,very well said....and I think what the OP was going for when she started this thread.
and personal attacks on the OP...arent called for. So she likes to pump iron?....some guys like that. To each his own. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 11:16:10 AM | DOOD!!
What younger guy is going to want to date an older woman (50+) that looks masculine? Especially considering almost every guy wants a woman that is YOUNGER or the same age and that looks feminine.
Come back in 20 years and talk about what's masculine or feminine. haha
(@ OP) (shakes head...) Kids these days. 
Yo techguy.. you some kinda saint, my friend? You gotta lot of growin up to do, kid.
WhoTFRU to be trashin someone who takes such good care of her physical being, you moron?
We'll talk to you in 20, alright?  | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 1:39:25 PM | Dear friends,
I honestly think our current society and culture pushes the idea of "youth everlasting" is where the real beauty is at. Our society does that because it seeks to make money off of us in every way, cosmetics, botox, clothes, etc.,
However, for thousands of years, it was the elderly people who were celebrated, rather than the younger 'celebrities.' Its is true (at least from what I've seen) that many older women past 38 seem to be a bit more bitter about life, but I think it is mostly because they realize that they live in a society which promotes patriarchy, rather than a society that promotes women's equality...and that is compounded as a woman grows older. It is also true that although alot of men say they want a younger woman, some of those men are just looking to regain their lost youth which they spent toiling away in jobs and careers that they really didn't want to be in (this probably also helpes explains that a lot of men 'let themselves go' because they are rather depressed with the quality of their lives).
Just a thought,
Love for all,
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 10/1/2006 2:16:22 PM | | The last younger guy that showed interest in me was 32 and HOT..I asked him "Why me, I'm so much older than you and not that great." From that, he told me that I was really beautiful and sexy and that age was just a number. He taught me quickly to not put myself down in anyway...this turns men off quickly...to be confident in who I am...that he loves my wit, charm, and intelligence which completes the package. What a great guy! What a great Life! | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 2:21:23 PM | ...and then along came an older guy...much sexier...much hotter...and confirmed every word the younger guy said.
It is not the year you were born in or the sign you were born under....thank you God for all things beautiful | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 10/1/2006 2:41:53 PM | Single men take care of their looks at any age .
It's us, women, unintentionally spoiling them and lure them away from mirrors.
By the age of 35 they learn that making good money, using the blue pill to keep up with our sexual needs at least twice a week (not my preference, just general statistics), and pretending to be a good listener and understanding our concerns will make ANY woman happy, so they settle at that.
Many women become desperate at about 35+. so they take whoever comes their way and praise them above the true meaning.
May be, since you decided to speak upon this issue, on which I gladly agree with you, you should define WHAT you looking for in a man of your age. The rest is in your feminine power. It's never too late to "raise" your man. He will follow your style if he follows your opinion.
You are a woman. Take the lead. As you know women have always been "mothering" men in this world. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 2:42:10 PM | Wow. Thats awesome. Two positive experiences in a row!
Maybe its just that you're a positive person and that enables you to retian your youth.
Its been a long time since I've seen someone write two positive things in a row in conversations forums! *happy chuckles* 
Love for all,
-onyxblue | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:21:17 PM |
Come back in 20 years and talk about what's masculine or feminine. haha
(@ OP) (shakes head...) Kids these days.
Yo techguy.. you some kinda saint, my friend? You gotta lot of growin up to do, kid.
WhoTFRU to be trashin someone who takes such good care of her physical being, you moron?
We'll talk to you in 20, alright?
1.) I'm not "trashing" anybody. I'm just being brutally honest.
2.) I'm not a kid.
3.) I'm no saint, but I'm squeaky clean compared to most people on here.
4.) I'm not trashing anyone. Quit name calling.
5.) I'm never going to date a woman that old until I get to be that old.
The solution to her dating problem is simple: She needs to find a heavily muscled, aging male. Try the WWE. Try Hollywood.
The solution to my dating problem is also simple: I need to find the kind of woman that would never use online dating to meet people... because the ones that do only use it to fool around.
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:32:02 PM | "The solution to my dating problem is also simple: I need to find the kind of woman that would never use online dating to meet people... because the ones that do only use it to fool around."
Then go away....
Besides, you are just full of crap anyway...
And to discuss this thread...I like my men looking young, not necessary actually young... | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:44:03 PM | I'm not "trashing" anybody. I'm just being brutally honest. (techguy)
Your so-called brutual honesty has trash written all over it, not to mention screams of issues.
I'm not a kid (techguy)
You're 28, but unfortunately, age is but a number. You're a kid when you act like some 18 yr old who just graduated. At your age, you ought to have learned that someone who takes care of themselves, physically, deserves respect for doing so.
From a glimpse of your pictures, I'd bet you're not going to be one of those people.
I'm no saint, but I'm squeaky clean compared to most people on here. (techguy)
Ahh yes, the voice of reason speaks again.
I'm not trashing anyone. Quit name calling. (techguy)
You DID.... trash the OP, which we're probably willing to forgive, at this point,if you'll stop trying to reaffirm your convictions.
I'm never going to date a woman that old until I get to be that old.(techguy)
Good, kid, you're not as old , and I'm sure she is glad to hear she won't be meeting someone like you.
The solution to my dating problem is also simple;
to find the kind of woman that would never use online dating to meet people
How profound a statement, considering you're here now.
The dating problem you speak of is most likely not tied to where you might meet her, but what you might say to her when you DO finally meet her.
because the ones that do only use it to fool around
And the reason you're here now is........because ......... you have a dating problem, right?
Look, Techguy...... whatever message you're trying to convey, you're coming across bitter.... VERY bitter. Get off your cross and come down already. We've heard it before and it's getting BORING!!!! 
How about just showin a little more respect for people and I won't criticize you or call you a kid, OK? Deal
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Posted: 10/2/2006 8:13:32 PM | | You have to know that you are an exceptional woman. I saw your pix (your calves are almost as rockin' as mine...GOOD JOB!!!!) Most guys at any age are just not going to measure up. Baby you're going to have to either lower your standards or date guys in their early thirties till you use them up and move on to the next. Rest assured, there's an endless supply for a rockin' healthy gal like you. BTW, I'm not attracted to men your age either. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 8:33:33 PM |  I read enough of this thread to know that some guys just can't take the truth.
Their choices are dwindling down because the men 30ish and upwards are finding women in their 40ss/50sss quite attractive. Leaving less and less women for men to choose from since our choices have expanded greatly to include a large span of age parameters. So, why are we here? Inbetween relationships maybe, exploring a relatively new avenue for meeting people, etc. etc. the same reasons the 20somethings are here.
The age old acceptable role of older man/younger woman (even when they know they are only a sugar daddy) has just about run it's course.... in the sense that ... it's getting pretty much even steven. People are looking less to 'age' and more to 'compatibility'.
Isn't life grand!!!! 
Oh... and, something tells me that the OP, like a lot of us, have grown weary/disgusted with threads spouting the rewards of men preferring younger women when in actual fact, it's just men trying to bring attention to themselves by starting a thread.  | |
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Posted: 10/3/2006 9:41:29 AM | | People are offering up opinions on this thread, not truths. It amuses me when some 'hot-under-the-collar-type' presents his opinion as some definitive, universal truth. Hah! Wake up! It's not a truth just because you believe it to be true. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2006 10:25:56 AM | | Im with op on this one,and why shouldnt she go for younger guys,she looks better than most 30yr olds.There are many younger guys who are willing to date older women.Im not attracted to men my age either. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 10/3/2006 1:07:10 PM | As I have stated a few times here..its all about choice...and seriously..if an older woman can attract younger guys(and many that have posted in this thread can easily do that) and an older man has what it takes to attract younger women..all the power toy you..feeling young is 80% of the battle
PS: lol..ummmm Im a younger guy hahaha | |
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