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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:04:00 AM | | As you get older your stomach drags and you cant see your 1 *wink wink* You beg for sex and you get it once a year All the stuff to look forward to as you get old | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 10/6/2006 6:04:20 AM |
OMG that bears repeating! in fact I think that post should go into the hall of fame for great lines on the forums. Too too funny....thanks for the laugh this morning Manerider
Rite on , Squirrly, it does, and it is. Sometimes things ARE worth repeating.
Not that it's my job, but... I've been trying to school a young "studly" type who persist in seeing things only from one perspective, which appears difficult, at best, but...... I think of it this way;
"Water will eventually pass through concrete. It just takes a VERY long time".
SO, {I''m rebuting now}.... just curious... am I the pot, or the kettle? | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:16:18 AM | LOL manerider, I must admit that was funny. but all so true, what's the sense of going through all this anyways, everyone thinks what they want, and no one will have the same way of thinking, so its no use. And basically, it doesn't matter. That is the bottom line, everyone will see who they want, that they find appealing to them. That is that, right? lol No one is better than the next in my book.  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:21:41 AM | | This is a cool thread and interesting. To me age has nothing to do with anything I mean it is all about a person's maturity. I mean I talk to women who are around my age of 27 but all they want when I talk to them is friends but go out with other guys so I am happy for that. Most of the women who are attractive to me are between the ages of 30 to 39 and never really understand why older women are attractive to me. I told my friend all I have done is went to college and improve places where I live at and just mind my own business. It is like when a women older than me talks to me if is like we click and that is how it has been for me the last seven years. I am not judging women my age but lately it seems those my age will not date me because of my occupation which is I am a caretaker sitting in the home of adults who are mentally and physically challenge which is a state job. But the women who are between the ages of 30 to 39 just accept me for me just like I am part of the family. It has been a wierd journey for me on dating because it is like people who are older than me appreciate me for what I have done in my life. I mean when I tell the older women I have dated I have three college degrees and that I own a condo and own my own truck they are just not shock they can see it took me along time to get where I wanted to be. It is all about is a person mature. Granted there are mature women who are around my age but have found many on this site who would want to get to know me. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 6:26:16 AM |
As you get older your stomach drags and you cant see your 1 *wink wink* You beg for sex and you get it once a year All the stuff to look forward to as you get old
The technical term for that is: Dinky-do
Definition: When his belly sticks out further than his dinky do.
~OT~ I stick to my preferences and I do not deviate from them. No one has hurt feelings, no one is mislead, no one has to wonder WHY I am not interested or interested for that matter. Personally ~ I'd much rather deal with someone with stringent preferences than someone who has none. JMO  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 11:24:15 AM | nbmiramichigirl, humor is a great conduit of information, and thanks.
Just curious,
but all so true, what's the sense of going through all this anyways
Can't answer that. Maybe for a good laugh to get their day off to a good start. dont' know why POF is here, to begin with. Someone else conveniently came up with the idea. I just enjoy throwing my 2 cts worth in, like everybody else.
everyone thinks what they want, and no one will have the same way of thinking, so its no use. And basically, it doesn't matter. That is the bottom line, everyone will see who they want, that they find appealing to them. That is that, right?
No argument there. We all have our perspectives and opinions, and varying angles from which to view a subject. To each their own, I guess. But, hey, it isn't like I haven't eaten some crow in my time. AS I see it, I'm not even approaching changing anyones mind, I'm just stepping in and fluffin the pillows a bit. If there were no point, none of us would be here.
lol No one is better than the next in my book
No argument there, who said I (or anyone) was better than anyone else. Or is that taken out of context? I'm just adding to the debate like everyone else. Just another cog on the wheels of progress. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 2:58:11 PM | | yes that was taken out of context, i didn't say anyone was. simply everyone is giving their advice, but some people find it insulting cause they might not be to the others description. What i am saying doesn't matter how you look, who you are, everyone is equal. Now did i make my statement a little clearer manerider ...lol I never stated that you or anyone said they were better than anyone else. gees, relax will ya...lol | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 5:33:40 AM | WOW!
After a man hits 35 they seem to just give up on everything....gain weight, have hair growing odd places, develop jowls...just let themselves go completely. Now I am not saying there aren't decent looking men my age somewhere in the world, but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it.
Who would have thought such a dumb, meaningless, statement from an over the hill shemale would generate so many comments? I've found that most 50 yr old women chasing younger guys are really chasing their own youth and have an obsession boardering on psychosis about getting older.
Are there a lot of guys over the hill in their 40's and even 30's? Sure. So what? A lot of women are too. But the nature trails and bike paths are full of healthy middle age people. The odds of finding one are much better out there than looking at profiles of folks that live on a computer.
Give me a women comfortable with her age who knows how to be what she is. I've been 35 and I'll take what I am now, with almost 20 more years of experience, anytime. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 6:39:53 AM | hey us men may not be the best looking when we get to 50 but then neither are most women, sounds like your looking for a younger guy thinking you will feel younger with a toyboy under your arm. and yes I say it as it is. I look for honesty in people and not how they look when they reach a certain age your not a real looker yourself and neither am I so face the fact and enjoy life instead od griping about it.  | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 7:03:47 AM | This thread is a PARODY of a thread by a man entitiled "I"m Not Attracted to Women My Age".
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts4126508.aspx
I have no interest in men under 35, I was making a comment about men's attitudes towards women and how they would feel if the tables were reversed.
Boy, have you guys ever proved my point!!!
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Posted: 10/7/2006 7:14:30 AM | hahaha maybe you should post that on every page.
Interesting how the male one only went 3 pages and this one went 20. (so far) | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 7:21:56 AM | Older women are looking better every day, thanks to creative medical advances and a gym on every corner.
Women are more likely to come back on the dating market because of divorce and a longer expected life span.
Not as many women are looking for the picket fence and two cars. Now companionship, travel, and fun are coming to the forefront.
Women may also want a man with a less-developed career who could follow her or take care of children, if that is a factor.
For their part, younger men often find older women more interesting, experimental, fun to talk to, financially settled, and more adept sexually.
( cut and pasted article concerning the issue) | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 10/7/2006 8:04:10 AM | | For whatever reasons we are attracted to those we are attracted to and not to those that we are not. However, to find a mate your potential mate also must also be attracted to you and it stands to reason, the more attracted you are to someone the less likely it is they are attracted to you. Certainly, those much younger than you are less likely to find you attractive than those your own age and older. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 8:16:54 AM | smjle brings up a good point, but perhaps for another thread.
Why is this
it stands to reason, the more attracted you are to someone the less likely it is they are attracted to you
Iv'e noticed this often. Anyone got clues as to why this is? It's been true for me. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 8:24:28 AM |
Certainly, those much younger than you are less likely to find you attractive than those your own age and older.
Actually, the men my own age tend to be the ones who go on and on about how I am "masculine, old, hard, used up" etc etc. The men who admire the work I have put into my body tend to be the younger ones. Doesn't mean I date them, or want to date them...is just the way it works. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 8:38:23 AM | who the fox: People are selective readers. lol I know this is a parody, but the topic seems to have taken on a life of its own.
And, you are an attractive woman...which I'm sure you don't need anyone to tell you. Don't listen to the yahoos who feel a need to insult you. The effort you've put into body building is quite impressive and should be commended. I know what hard work weight training is, as I do it myself. I'm not interested in body building personally, but respect the artistry in it. Kudos to you.
The irony here is that people are constantly complaining in the forums that women let themselves go after a certain age. The OP has not let herself go yet she is criticised for working out and taking pride in her appearance. You're d@mned if you do and d@mned if you don't. lol Gah. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 11:33:40 AM | | To who the fox: I had to search through the long pages to find that you wrote this as a parody. Yes, I get it. But for the most part, men usually date women a few years younger than they are. A few years, not decades. But I think it comes down to what people look for in each other; men are more focused on how a woman looks (in general, we're more attracted to younger looking women) and women focus on 'stability', which usually means income, steady job, 'resources' (physical strength, house, money, car, education). Isn't fair to young men, or old women. From the looks of your profile, this wasn't a parody. The only men I know who find muscle bound women attractive are muscle bound men. And when you restrict your search to "Looking for late 30s-50 and VERY fit, tall and SMART", you're not going to find many of those looking for an older woman. Yes, there may be one out there, but you're going to have a tough time finding him. Maybe change the gym you go to every month and meet new men; the 'smart' ones will probably be career driven as well, so you're going to have to catch him outside of work hours, maybe very early a.m.. Let's see; VERY fit, perhaps 2%. Tall, maybe 10% (down to 0.2% of population). Smart, lets be generous, 20% (down to 0.04% of population of single men 39-50). And you want one who's interested in older women. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 11:53:03 AM | Obviously, you miss a great deal.
. The only men I know who find muscle bound women attractive are muscle bound men.
In the first place, I am not "muscle bound", not by a long shot. Secondly, I happen to LIKE "muscle bound men".
And when you restrict your search to "Looking for late 30s-50 and VERY fit, tall and SMART", you're not going to find many of those looking for an older woman.
The man I am interested in meeting is not looking for an "older woman", he is looking for a fit, smart, independent woman who shares his passion for fitness and for living. Period.
Maybe change the gym you go to every month and meet new men; the 'smart' ones will probably be career driven as well, so you're going to have to catch him outside of work hours, maybe very early a.m..
I am serious about bodybuilding and finding a man takes a backseat to achieving my fitness goals. I would certainly NOT consider changing my gym AT ALL, let alone every month.
Did you ever stop to consider that maybe my posted requirements are designed to keep the out of shape, stupid and short men from contacting me? I have no interest in dating from this site and I am quite happy with the number of men who send me email, thanks.
2% of the population of men 39-50 is enough of a selection, I only need ONE man.
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Posted: 10/7/2006 11:59:54 AM | I know Who_the_fox, I was here when that man started that thread, you got mad and started this one. It's amazing how it's reached these many pages.
But I doubt you telling them would stop them. They're not gonna understand your point behind this thread even then. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 2:02:35 PM | | If you were going to post I would of got straight to the point. Hideing your real intentions, then putting in a rebuttal later on, I'm not suprized you got the reaction you did. Most people would react that way whether or not it was a man OR a woman. Some people could of missed it as it takes me around half an hour to get through just 5 pages of dialog let alone all 21 pages. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 4:40:04 PM | | Fox, I KNOW its a parody. If you read post 229 & 231 you can see I surely did read this thread. This is the second time you told me I did'nt...sheesh....lol. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 7:16:12 PM |
Are you actually going to read what's being said here, or are you just going to be a seagull, and fly in every once in a while, squawk a lot, and fly out after sh*tting on the carpet?
That's what I do. I eat, squawk, sh*t, and repeat.  | |
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