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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:12:14 AM | elecbabe I knew you were about my age, glad you clariflied your point...
as for the "babe in toyland" (saftynet) all he has to do is put in the
ages that he wants to email him...I think he likes the "old chicks" emailing
him or he'd change his mail settings...or maybe he should have his mom
help him make out his profile....poor child | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:31:51 AM | You know what, I am immature. That is the whole freaking point of my posts. Double standards? Those women that started this post and support it are the queens of double standards. As far as reading all the posts you obviously didn’t read all of mine. Out of all of these posts I can safely say that not one of you can actually dispute what I have said other then to revert back to name calling and finger pointing, how immature is that? You know who you are I don’t need to point you out.
Now lets talk about sexual maturity. While I am sure that you older ladies have experienced all the cool moves and positions that make life wonderful, let me remind you that you have also come up with all this nasty junk nobody in there right mind needs to be doing. Let me further remind all of you “responsible adults” that all of this information is available either by men or women of your age in books or movies waiting for us young ones to see and be disposed by. One thing that is so cool about being young and being with another girl my age is that we can find out all of this cool stuff on our own. Having some old bitty on TV who is twice the age of my grandma explain the intricacies of butt plugs has got to be breaking some laws of morality and decency somewhere in the world. Not to mention it is really digesting to watch and totally takes away from the pleasure of it. All I would see if I attempted such things would be to see her wrinkled face and whiney voice explaining, insert here!!
Thank you to the ladies that support my position, you are wonderful responsible adults that should be praised for your ideas of morality and sense of right and wrong. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:42:27 AM |
Thank you to the ladies that support my position, you are wonderful responsible adults that should be praised for your ideas of morality and sense of right and wrong.
There is nothing irresponsible or immoral about adults having relationships, sexual or otherwise, with other adults. Preference is not a matter of right or wrong. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:43:42 AM | Nothin wrong with that. Me too. Your very pretty..why not! You're not dead YET..live it up. Im attracted to younger women. I mean it's only natural. When I was 15 I was having sex with women in their 30's and 40's . For fun and experience. I had more energy at the time and thought they were a tad bit on the mellower side, and at the time it would've been nice to have just a wee bit more passion and movement, fexibility and innocencs from them at to match mine..but it still was enjoyable. But I wasn't as experienced enough . Murphys Law
We're 10-20 pounds heavier from our 30-40's. Especailly if we like to drink. Even though we may look the same.
They're Younger, tighter, sexier, skin has way more elasticity and firmer, and is not as loose and flabby as we are our 40's and up. No Face jouls, baggy eyes, our livers and kidneys get loaded up with toxins over the years. Do we empty it like the laundry screen? NO! When was the last time we did. Do a cleanse?. All adds up over the years an shows on our bodies and faces. pot bellies, middle age spread. Wrinkles. Ofcourse we're not as attractive and vibrant. Life man. Yet the younger sexier may be stupider, not as Jaded and apprehensive as us older folk. More energy.
But you know there's always a trade off. Im still 21 in my tastes for looks in women. But Im an older guy now. Hard to except. What scares me is..I'll get older an i will still have the same tases and likes. Then what?? I'll be a dirty old man. But it's oK when we're younger. Why is that ?? Same soul, same mind, but ONE is socially exceptable and the other isnt. Age is a factor. So we'd have to "remove" or Let our desires from the soul die ?? That's hard. So go for it..and be willing to pay the price . That's all. I know Im not spring chicken that can get it up at the drop of a hat..and they'll get bored eventually. Same with you maybe who knows. You're still hot..im not bad myself for my age so im told..but there's chicks their age all around guys you'll date. be prepaired. It's always something. Plus if it's sex..it great..but dont forget there is the mentality that may come into play that will casue you to lecture of be Motherly/fatherly. That's if you can bite your tongue for a long period of time and let it slide because "They're younger..and most of what they're doing or being, you been there and done that. And if you tell anything on the advice side from your more experienced self..the sexual energy may change. Been there. Trust me
Anyway..that's my take. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:53:40 AM | One thing that is so cool about being young and being with another girl my age is that we can find out all of this cool stuff on our own.
hey go for it...no complaints here
Having some old bitty on TV who is twice the age of my grandma explain the intricacies of butt plugs has got to be breaking some laws of morality and decency somewhere in the world. Not to mention it is really digesting to watch and totally takes away from the pleasure of it. All I would see if I attempted such things would be to see her wrinkled face and whiney voice explaining, insert here!!
TURN OFF the TV program if it disgusts you. Is it like rubbernecking an accident for you or something?
Same goes for your profile..PUT the filters on for the ages you want to contact you and quit yer whining. We don't care. I am not interested in a guy who is the age of my children anyway and thats not what the thread was started for. Its a rebuttal of an all too common male trait....older men not being interested in women their own age.( post above me - case in point). Now pay attention...we will be asking questions later.
VVV edit: TOO Funny!! so Saftynet is your real name huh? | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:56:10 AM | | Okay, after those last two posts I would hope people can see what kind of sick people are here and now I don't wish to be associated with this anymore so I am deleating my account. In fact I think this whole thread should be removed, you are all some sick individuals here and I dont want my name associated with this. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 10/8/2006 2:21:10 PM | Contemplation...
I beg to differ.....I lfeel better now than I ever did before...I am still, if not thinner then the weight I was when I was 18...In fact my daughter who is 20 really keeps me looking younger...she would never allow me to look like a "GRANDMA"...I am the healthiest I have ever been....my last 2 boyfriends were late 30s and I really love that age for men...just something about them...
Saftynet sounds like he may have some unresolved issues with older women...I cant believe reading this thread how horribly threatened he was with it....I have never emailed any male on here young enough to be my son LMAO...besides everytime I do get the emails from these gorgeous younger men IM not only flattered, I tell them that I am sure they would like the experience, but they definitely would appreciate a woman thier own age... I have had 2 babies and AM WAY PROUD THE SHAPE MY BODY IS IN...
I love the age Im at right now.....I just want to experience everything and just LIVE and go wild and enjoy what it has to offer....Im divorced....had a heart break with my last man and am now just wanting to have fun....I really dont want to be married again and the freedom of being independant and can DO WHATEVER I WANT is satisfying to me.
It really is about attraction and preferences when it comes to being with whoever you want to be with...and as far as morals go WTF....OLD MEN have been with younger women forever....give me a break...MORALS....two consenting adults is just that consenting ....and morally wrong for an older woman to be with a younger man.....GET REAL...
Best of luck to you saftynet....really move on and meet those young women..they are out there just LOOK and why waste your time on this thread...quite honestly, I would feel sick to my stomache even going slightly near you and it has nothing to do with your age but everything to do with your attitude and personality and your self-judgements and self-righteousness. My daughter, your age read this thread and feels the same way...GROW UP....dont take anything personally and go with your heart and STOP judging!!!! If you need to talk to someone, go and seek it.....its the best way to lighten your loaded issues believe me. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 2:28:28 PM | I'm wondering if saftynet has some issues with childhood sexual abuse in his past. If so, my heart goes out to you kid and I hope you get some professional help.
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 10/8/2006 5:08:33 PM | awwww some male over 40 with a moustache didnt like what I had to say...boo hoo do you actually think Im under a 5 LMAO....anyways didnt I tell you that you shouldnt take other peoples opinions personally.....this is MY STUFF, I just happen to find men over 40 who dress modern and take care of themselves and dont wear that nasty moustache attractive....why did you get offended....thats my opinion and NOT ABOUT YOU!!!!! why do you care what I think and if you didnt you wouldnt have done what you did LOL....wow some of you sure give up all your power to a stranger on a thread....PLEASE READ THE FOUR AGREEMENTS by Don Miguel Ruiz....its powerful stuff and you will never have to take someones opinion personally... | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:11:10 PM | WHY? OH WHY? DO MEN OVER 40....and I am not saying ALL but some, (so dont get all upset)...keep that ridiculous looking moustache from way back in the 80s and so much out dates them and is very unattractive and makes them look way older then they are....Also like women dye their hair to look younger....why do men hang on to the half points of their heads and not just shave it off....its so modern to have a bald head and so very sexy!!! Also do they not notice that those jeans that they are still wearing since the 80s dates them as well... Hi agian ladybug, I don't need anybody to tell me how to define myself. I'm not trying to look younger or older, 80's 90's or any other year for that matter. I don't hold any faith in fashion. I'm only here to look like myself, not what other people say I should look like. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:27:06 PM | | Who said I took offence to it? You were the one asking the question.....WHY? OH WHY? DO MEN OVER 40.....lol I was just answering your question. Or is your opinion the only one that counts? I was just stateing my opinion. I know your statement was not directed at me specifically, but thats whats wonderful about forums, I get to post my own too. Chill out.....lol | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age
Posted: 10/8/2006 6:18:01 PM |
Once in a blue moon I come across an elderly woman who is not fat. Genetics obviously. Because most females over 40 do look like the OP described males to look like. Rarely have I seen old men appearing as the OP described. And when I do, they still look like men only not buffed. Like Peter Griffin have stated: Lois, fat men don't get fat only women get fat. As for the few thin old females, their skin is very thin, wrinkly and they have the appearance of needing blood. Like the life has been sucked out of them as a spider sucks the life out of it's prey. Menopausal women scare me. They are bitter and angry that no man loves them and angry at the younger females. Others pretend to be in their twenties and some act as if they are twenty, making the twenty year olds, laugh at them. Sad to see this. What's also sad is that at 30, a woman is in her freshman year of menopause. At 35, she's in her sophomore year. At 40, in her junior year. At 45, she's in her senior year of menopause and in her 50's, graduating from menopause and well beyond appearing like a male, with an appearing mustache. A rude reminder that, with age, everything does get bigger, hairier and closer to the ground
Why does everyone write about menopause as if it is a bad thing? When a woman goes through menopause it is like winning a trillion dollar lottery, Christmas, New Years and winning yet another trillion dollar lottery all at one time!!! Honestly from the time I was 13 and the dreaded monthly visitor made it's first visit, I looked forward to menopause.
If anything my skin is thicker than when I was younger, because as I have gotten older I have taken better care of my skin. Loads of new products to help that.
Nothing on me is getting bigger, hairer or closer to the ground. Ok my feet are really close to the ground. lol
I have no reason to be angry at younger women, and they aren't laughing at me. I enjoy talking to younger women as they have a fresh outlook on life, and they often look to us older women for advice on life.
At 30 a female is just truly becoming a woman. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 6:35:27 PM | I've read most of this thread and several have, in various ways, said it has taken on a life of it's own. So true.
Must admit I like the way the OP took a 'male dominant' thought process and reversed it in the parody format. Again, even though, a parody, soooo very true.
I guess I would have observations in general.... i.e.... why do posters ... using one of the more recent on the thread... manerider..(I'm not being derogatory, just stating my personal opinion) insist they look younger than they do. What is so wrong with looking 'age appropriate'. In my opinion, manerider looks at least his age. In my opinion, I look my age. No biggie.
But, like someone pointed out, the other thread, of which this thread was in response to, garnered only a page I think someone said...whereas this one is sitting at what...22 pages... makes me seriously consider that men seem to be more worried about 'looking younger' when they, in truth, do not.
Just in general, I think, women tend to look better after 40 than a lot of men who have reached mid 30s. Maybe all those 'attitudes' which made so many women take better care of ourselves in order to be attractive, have actually paid off. Even though it is a wrong attitude for women to feel they have to do more and take better care than men in order to not wind up single...maybe...just maybe....this is now the benefit of a 'stupid' attitude. Wouldn't that be the cat's meow.   It should be a matter of compatibility. Regardless of age. And, I feel, both men and women shouldn't worry about if others think they 'look younger'. Why not just be content with what we want for own self. If we want to look our age or younger..or whatever, that should be what matters....we just don't need to be 'fooling ourself'.
Eventually, most will probably find their suitable partner and that is a very good thing. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 6:40:10 PM | Hurray for you ladies that want to be all of the bad you see in men. If we can do it, you can do it better I always say. Just more things that men can add to the list of things that woman can do, one less argument to be had by me, I am all for it. Lol
The only problem I have with this thread is the personal attacks you have made on one another to make a point. The point is mute when you go there, personal attacks are something left more to the younger generation, so when you go there, it becomes obvious where you belong and why you are drawn there.
Me? well I guess I have to be the one to break the mold, I don’t care for going out with someone to much younger than myself, I don’t care for the problems it generates and mostly, I can’t relate to them. That is not to say I am not attracted to them, we are all attracted to beauty, that is a given. And as to if your doing the right thing, that is up to you to decide.
So is it time to flame on me now? Go ahead, I can take it. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... *
Posted: 10/8/2006 7:05:14 PM |
this is MY STUFF, I just happen to find men over 40 who dress modern and take care of themselves and dont wear that nasty moustache attractive
I don't find women in their 40s with a nasty moustache attractive either. I am also not a strong supporter of Bush, and I don't mean just George W. Bush
In any event. Attraction doesn't involve checking for ID first to see how old the other person is .. as long as he/she is boink worthy | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 7:28:40 PM | Midwestrebel
Your profile is a priceless work. Luv your sense of humor.
uh hum
Obnoxiousredhead,
while I understand your decision to orchestrate the tone here, let me not mince words by trying to be cute or dissuading.
I find it in keeping with your namesake that, for whatever reason, you chose to use me as your scapegoat. Maybe I should be flattered, but I think not. As it turns out, I sat quietly while "elecbabe" rambled on and on about how beautiful and young looking she said she was.
I thought it might be best to advertise another viewpoint to her. OBTW, it had nothing to do with you.
men seem to be more worried about 'looking younger' when they, in truth, do not(obnoxiousredhead)
Is this unqualified opinion or supposition? or both. Considering youve' never met me, wouldn't it be considered speculation, at best?
Even though it is a wrong attitude for women to feel they have to do more and take better care than men in order to not wind up single...maybe...just maybe....this is now the benefit of a 'stupid' attitude. Wouldn't that be the cat's meow. It should be a matter of compatibility. Regardless of age. And, I feel, both men and women shouldn't worry about if others think they 'look younger'. Why not just be content with what we want for own self. If we want to look our age or younger..or whatever, that should be what matters....we just don't need to be 'fooling ourself'((obnoxiousredhead)
Are you trying to say something, or has the wine taken effect already? . Just know one thing. I dont' work out, I work. I don't need compliments, nor do I fish for them. Nor was I seeking anything of the sort. I dont' watch my weight because my metabolism is off the charts already.
But as midwestresbel conveniently pointed out, the personal attacks here lend themselves to one observation, and that is
The point is mute when you go there, personal attacks are something left more to the younger generation, so when you go there, it becomes obvious where you belong and why you are drawn there.(midwestrebel)
Im just sayin` | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 7:37:18 PM | ManeRider,
It was just my opinion....nothing more or less. Which is why I included my opinion of myself...not looking younger than my age. I promise I meant what I said that it was not derogatory towards you personally. I grabbed an example. You were the most recent which stuck in my memory while writing my other post.
I'm blunt. Period. Some don't like it, some do, some could care less about my opinion. One thing for sure though, they get my honest opinion. Simple as that.
Do know what you mean about metabolic rates. Mine is the same. I eat any amount of meats/veggies/junk/chocolate/whatever I want and am blessed to not worry about weight or cholesterol. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age
Posted: 10/8/2006 7:41:17 PM |
Even though it is a wrong attitude for women to feel they have to do more and take better care than men in order to not wind up single
Well .. men know that driving a brand new BMW takes 10 year and 10 lbs off the appearance | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 7:44:48 PM | I promise I meant what I said that it was not derogatory towards you personally. I grabbed an example. You were the most recent which stuck in my memory while writing my other post.(obnoxiousredhead)
Oh Ok, I'm thoroughly convinced, now, that you weren't selective in your process. Like saftynet wasn't on the list......
Thanks for the clarification
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Posted: 10/8/2006 7:44:50 PM | squirrly said:
online, age is everything it seems
I have to agree..yet, another reason/argument to not be forced into indicating your age when you join a site like this. Let's face it, some 30 yr olds look 45, some 45 yr olds look 30. I really wish they would just have blocks for age you could check off like body style
I've never had a man in off line (aka the real world) that found me physically attractive walk away from getting to know me better because I wasn't a particular "number" regardless if he was older or younger than my age. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 8:20:51 PM | Wow, I didn’t get flamed, thanks ManeRider, a nice way to get into this with my first post. I am sure if I do it long enough I will have to call the fire department sooner or later.
Seems to me we are all just looking for ways to be younger. If I am not falling off of a treadmill or choking on my favorite vitamins then I don’t feel I am doing my part to live longer. With the ladies I have to respect the fact that they work much harder at it then we do. I always get into that discussion one way or another with them. They have to use all that makeup and they are always starving themselves while having to run a marathon and all that. Then when I go out to clubs and see these guys dressed in t-shirts and blue jeans trying to pick up girls in fancy dresses and glass slippers it does seem kind of awkward. But hey, who am I to ask why?
All I know is that trying to find and date someone who is half your age just seems to be the appropriate extension of all of this. What better way to feel younger than to be with someone who actually is, younger. But that’s just a feeling, it goes away. It happened to me a few years back, I have to admit, it does work, but it only puts off the inevitable. We are getting older, fact o life.
I had to buy my first pair of reading glasses the other day, I am sure its my fault somehow that I didn’t take care of my eyes well enough. At least thats what I think some women will tell me, If I had jut left those Playboys alone when I was a kid.... | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 8:22:27 PM | Gosh! you stole my line!!! I am not attracted to women my "age" for the same reasons!!!
Gosh!!! she did steal that line! Go back and see how many times it is mentioned (over and over) that this was taken from a man's post, and the genders reversed.
This thread is a PARODY of a thread by a man entitiled "I"m Not Attracted to Women My Age".
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts4126508.aspx | |
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