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Posted: 10/9/2006 10:36:49 AM | | Ooli Oop, Finally here's someone who gets it. I never concidered fox as anti-male. She can put me in a headlock any time...lol | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 10:49:45 AM | You've read all of my posts Wetcoast? All 6 or 7000 of them? Have you met me in person? Do you know any of my friends? I think not.
Until you do at LEAST one of the things above, your opinion of me doesn't mean squat.
Yes, there are MANY MANY threads where men over 40 bash women their own age. That was the motivation for doing a parody of one. Yes, there are a ton of threads where women bash men for being unfaithful and users. Big surprise. There are a lot of people in the world who are filled with hate and bitter about their position in life. Unfortunately, a lot of them seem to have access to a computer and time to type. Too bad they don't spend the time THINKING instead. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 11:24:39 AM | I didn't suspect that so few men would actually READ, let alone stop and THINK before they posted in this thread. It is not my fault that I assumed men would be thinking human beings!!
In these past couple of posts, your comments do nothing to alleviate the anger.
"People who are not part of the solution, are part of the problem."
Fox.... 6,000 -7,000 posts eh? LOL
Speaking of people who do not read and who do not think - - - -
I did not have an opinion of you Fox, but yes, I reflect on many of your postings. The conclusions are left to the readers, and they are not influenced by MY opinions. 500 postings to this thread might be an indication. LOL
It is not my fault that I assumed men ...
It is now assumed you blame a man.
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Posted: 10/9/2006 11:38:07 AM | I did not have an opinion of you Fox,
Oh really?
You come across as ANTI-MALE, among other things.
Yes, I post a lot....and I READ the threads I post to.....and I also remember my own posts.
There is a big difference between random rambling in a thread and intelligent, well thought out posts. Unfortunately, you seem to fall into the random rambling category. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 12:30:59 PM | My expectations are 100% reasonable. I am very fit and very bright. I prefer tall men. Big deal. No where in my profile did I ask for rich or handsome. Of course I am going to be looking for someone very fit. Why would I want to date someone who doesn't have the same interests as I do? I would love to date a man in my "age group", as long as he is as fit as I am and has things in common with me. So far, I have yet to meet one.You and your lady must have things in common. Why don't I get to look for the same in a man?
In 10 years, I will still be competing and likely even into my 70s. As for ending up in a nursing home in a diaper...well, it has a lot to do with genetics and since there has been no one in my family yet to end up like that, it is highly unlikely I will. The average lifespan for women in my family is 95...and they live active healthy lives up to that point.
The thing that fascinates me, is that a complete stranger has decided that it is his god given right to try and dictate who I should date. I am not going to "settle". Get over it.
edit: Thanks for the profile review, but I think you have the wrong Forum. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 12:38:41 PM | | Go fish for younger then. Dont bother about age.. I wont when im older, then I want a sexy hot 25 yr old when im around 40 or 60 | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 12:50:56 PM |
In 20 years, you might end up in a nursing home...
funme40...there are no guarantees that this won't happen at any age...
but you seriously overate yourself. No offense...
I'm sure this wasn't offensive
despite the fact that she wear a size 20!
OMG...very big of you to lower your standards for this woman, ha...what does telling us her dress size have to do with anything? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 1:15:52 PM | ManeRider,
I did use you as an example, because you stated you look younger, etc. Allow me to clarify, in my opinion, we all look our age. Some are in better shape. To me, and maybe this is the kid's mindeye still active, everyone over the approx. age of 30, start to blend together as far as 'looking one's age'. But, that's just my opinion.
To the Poster who put his girlfriend's dress size,
I too don't see what the need was to put her size. ONLY because you are not an athletic or average built guy...going by your pics. Are you classifying your girlfriend as large? If so, then, you would also classify yourself as large? Would make sense.
Again, I emphasis.... I LOOK my AGE - 55. I am small probably only due to my metabolic rate and energy level. Not because I put effort into maintaining a petite frame.
The OP, again stated started a parody thread; however, she or anyone (female or male) should have choices. Geeezzz. It isn't rocket science.  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 1:22:54 PM | I've read many of who_the_fox's posts on many different subjects, and she doesn't strike me as anti-male or bagging on men in general at all. She is strong, confident and smart. She's obviously done a lot to keep her body and mind in shape. The evidence for the body is clear in her pictures. The evidence for her mind is clear in her writing.
She'd like to find someone who is simply a peer, or an equal, and finds few in her age group equal to the task. For an extraordinary woman such as herself, that doesn't surprise me. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 2:17:34 PM | Hey "Fox",
I believe you're accurate in your observation, but as a very fit 51 year-old male, I have to say that you're an exception for the female gender...there are many, many women in their 50's who are not in very good shape. It would be REALLY nice to find a woman like yourself who takes of their physical shape!! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 2:24:46 PM |
I believe you're accurate in your observation, but as a very fit 51 year-old male, I have to say that you're an exception for the female gender...there are many, many women in their 50's who are not in very good shape. It would be REALLY nice to find a woman like yourself who takes of their physical shape!!
DrColinS you said this already today...one of our senior moments?? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 2:57:48 PM | Comments to message #588 Funme40
I think you may possibly have some underlined problem as to what you settled for. I think I was able to read between YOUR lines. First off this classy women who started this thread HAS EVERY RIGHT to go for what she deems worth it. I am asked constantly by emails galore not just on this site but on other sites as to WHY I am on a dating site at all and how come I havent been gobbled up by now and WHY is it?.... cause I have some harsh expectations as to what I want to find. First off if I told you straight out what I ABSOLUTELY ADORE IN A MAN...you wouldnt believe me. My last bf supposedly was a mismatch for me and thats not what I was thinking thats what everyone else was....his friend who introduced us couldnt believe I would have talked after with this man, let alone have something going with him afterwards....EVERYONE has a prefence to what they are ATTRACTED TO....its not always looks for me....although like I said before...thats initially the first but ITS WHAT YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE.....I wish that everything had gone right with this man, he was exactly what Im attracted to and want in my life.....and everyone thought not....which pissed me off. I would give anything to still be with him cause finidng him was hard and it gets harder as I get older and NO I DONT GO FOR YOUNG BRAD PITTS....I dont find Brad Pitt, what I would be attracted to in all senses.
I adore men with an edge...a little freaky and into enjoying life and what it offers. I adore men who are strong minded....have little patience for bull shit and are straight up with what they are looking for. I adore men of all ages who I AM ATTRACTED TO PHYSICALLY ( cause hell thats very important and dont let anyone bull shit you that it is not) and MENTALLY. I adore men who are like me, physically fit and want to live long and take care of themselves....SO LISTEN UP FUNME40 before you proceed to tell this gorgeous women (who looks hot and will continue to look hot for years) that she should settle....understand that all of us have our own prefences as to what makes us TICK!!!!!!!!
By the way it seems some men who are over 40 didnt like my last comments concerning the moustache and ummmm showed me by ummmm well you know what you did...and just to make sure you realize that your efforts are in vain....Im confident in how I feel concerning myself physically....and I dont take anything personally...but Im sure it made you feel a little bit better for the moment cause you sure took what I said personally and why...who am I...just another fish lost at sea looking for the right catch..... the right catch for ME!!! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 5:16:58 PM | OK first off I'm a BBW and 41 yrs old, I've dated some really hot sexy young men so its not all about physical appearance, they liked and dated me for me. I've dated a few men my age and had a wonderful time (on both parts) but it seems the younger men are more attracted to me. And yes most likely for the sexual experience but not all of them have been about that. Men of any age doesn't matter send them my way lol | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:21:23 PM | Some women over 40 get offended when I explain to them my reasons why I wear my mustache. Then cry out thats my preference, yet does not respect mens decision to wear one.
I adore men with an edge...a little freaky and into enjoying life and what it offers. I adore men who are strong minded....have little patience for bull shit and are straight up with what they are looking for. Come on, I know you want me....lol...sorry I could not resist. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:54:23 PM |
However, I'll never show any sympathy for them coming on here and complain....
I haven't seen any complaining/whining posts from the women you attack. Your profile says you are open minded...huh???? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:57:17 PM | Oh yes, men do have biological clocks, just in a different way. We can't have children, but they can't perform.
Men and women both have biological clocks were performance at some point fails.  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 7:05:58 PM | funme40, I also read the OP's profile and I don't think she is asking for much at all. What she is wanting to me is the bare minimum a person of any age should be asking.
I guess finding perfection is all about finding your idea of perfection. A man that would fit my idea of perfection, might be another women's idea of perfectly horrible. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 7:16:04 PM | Men and women both have biological clocks were performance at some point fails.
True. However, it is a fact that 'biological/physically', women are better equipped for continued sexual activities into a later age than men.
The above was a heated discussion when I was taking 'gross anatomy' classes at college. Strictly on a scientific/biological level, women are more prone to climax and able to perform sexually than most men after 35 yrs of age.
Now, for the reason. When a woman goes thru menopause, her estrogen levels decrease and testosterone increase (we - females and males - have both coursing thru our systems...it is the amount which determines our feminine and masculine levels) whereas a male's testosterone levels decrease. AND... we all know what higher levels of the testy hormone does.  This is why men, in general, peak sexually, approx. 30 years in age earlier than women. Remember, peaking only means the peak is reached, NOT that the drive is gone at all. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 7:34:04 PM |
True. However, it is a fact that 'biological/physically', women are better equipped for continued sexual activities into a later age than men.
The above was a heated discussion when I was taking 'gross anatomy' classes at college. Strictly on a scientific/biological level, women are more prone to climax and able to perform sexually than most men after 35 yrs of age.
Now, for the reason. When a woman goes thru menopause, her estrogen levels decrease and testosterone increase (we - females and males - have both coursing thru our systems...it is the amount which determines our feminine and masculine levels) whereas a male's testosterone levels decrease. AND... we all know what higher levels of the testy hormone does. This is why men, in general, peak sexually, approx. 30 years in age earlier than women. Remember, peaking only means the peak is reached, NOT that the drive is gone at all.
thats a very scary thought remind me to jump the bridge on my 30th birthday  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 8:05:50 PM | A woman who thinks going on the offensive is the smart way to avoid the real topic.
Speaking of rambling, Fox has done an admirable job to ignore the main comment in my original post on this recent topic.
In these past couple of posts, your comments do nothing to alleviate the anger.
Do you believe insulting people and their posts is an intelligent way to diffuse a situation?
But then again, you might be in Forums to build your self-esteem, selling your weight training as the method to prove you are worthwhile, capable and competent, and maybe you are. I never said you were or not, I just commented on the apparent hostility in your writing.
And you have written nothing since, to lead anyone to believe your writing is not hostile.
Let me save 'Fox' typing time:
"I don't have to prove anything to anyone!"
lmaoooo (I am not very good, so I am practicing my passive-aggressive techniques)
VVVVVVV LOL Still playing Fox ! LOL | |
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Posted: 10/9/2006 8:14:21 PM | Ever stop to consider WETCOAST that perhaps I merely am above responding to your inane comments about my personality and motivation etc?
You are beyond passive aggressive....I believe the correct term would be a bitter misogynistic.
You have Funme40 to keep you company in that club. Enjoy each other. | |
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