| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 11/1/2006 2:11:54 PM |
Can you blame her when hot young manhunks like yourself post those tantalizing shirtless photos and tempt her with the goods while not even truly exposing a nipple?
It's cruel!
Of course you are right. How thoughtless of me to be so inconsiderate.
yah really!! have pity on us poor older gals. Think about all the cold showers we are having to take! Just plain cruel. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 2:33:33 PM | | I find just the opposite to be true. Its easier for men to stay in great shape, well into thier 50's, than it is for women, we have less stuff to succomb to gravity, and dont have to have our bodies streatched out of shape by childbirth..So its ususally the other way around.Thats why more often than not, its men who are with a substantially younger woman, than women with a younger man... That said the op is obviously the exception to the rule. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 2:45:02 PM | LOL..... no you men just have your bodies stretched out of shape with those horrible beer guts and ummm your bodies succumb to gravity just like the rest...who ya kidding lol.... like I said before ahem... the saggy scrotum...lol etc etc. I have had 2 babies and have not been stretched lol, got right back into shape after each one of them.
You need to look after yourself in both sexes to stay physically fit..... and I have seen lots of men my age with deep ingrained wrinkles...
and what about the hair lose...I mean some men in their 30s look older because of that....get real LMAO
There is no rule.....there is hard work and a healthy life style which includes lots of excercise and plenty of water (less beer).....cheers!!! | |
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Smjle
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Joined: 9/19/2006
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 11/1/2006 2:51:56 PM |
yah really!! have pity on us poor older gals. Think about all the cold showers we are having to take! Just plain cruel.
You are funny in a lighthearted way. Somehow I doubt that you gave more than a passing glance at my photos, let alone that they caused you to take a cold shower. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 11/1/2006 2:58:39 PM | Molonel, msg 677
You crack me up. 
I think it's adorable all the young studs posting here who are opposed to older women seeking younger men. I can understand the angst one might feel if they thought they would have to settle for someone who looked more like their grandmother, but that's not the case. . If it ain't for you, maybe you're better off tucking your tail between your legs and making a hasty exit before getting mauled. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 2:59:20 PM |
I find just the opposite to be true. Its easier for men to stay in great shape, well into thier 50's, than it is for women, we have less stuff to succomb to gravity, and dont have to have our bodies streatched out of shape by childbirth..So its ususally the other way around.Thats why more often than not, its men who are with a substantially younger woman, than women with a younger man... That said the op is obviously the exception to the rule.
Really? I will be 50 next march and often have people ask me if I work out. Not likely. I have never worked out, and probably never will. As to our bodies are streatched out of shape by childbirth. Yes we get bigger when pregnant, but the female body is designed for this purpose and things do go back where they were.
Men on the other hand as they get older gain new things to be pulled down by gravity. At least in the south, there aren't really that many men over 40 without a big belly. Then there are the ones that look like they need a bra. Not just any bra, but one of those ultra support ones.
There are exceptions to everything but for the most part men get wrinkles, and get fat before a woman of the same age. | |
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Smjle
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Joined: 9/19/2006
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Posted: 11/1/2006 3:35:31 PM | | justmeinnc05, I doubt that your photo is recent. That said, women at any given age usually look better than men. Furthermore, women live longer which means, in effect, that women age less slowly. Except in logic and the ability to use good judgment in making decisions, women have most of the advantages. Therefore, comparing women to men is not a fair comparison. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 11/1/2006 3:43:09 PM | My guess is the OP is 55-58 and isn't exactly truthful about her age.
It's worth noting the what she says is true "about men on here". But we're talking about a free dating sight. Not exactly spilling over with beauty and buff at 50.
There are plenty of fit guys in the gym, golf coures, tennis courts etc....
I'm 38 and usually date late 20's to early 30's mostly because I work out. Fat really shows your age. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2006 4:31:22 PM | | This fact is surely a bonus for me! I seem to be strongly attracted to men between 45-50. There are quite a few men that I know in this age group that are nicely established, secure in their existance, and have a fantastic body. Perhaps its just where you meet these men? That being said - leave the older ones for me and I'll redirect the young studs to you. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 7:52:51 AM | I have been reading through this thread. I am 47 and attracted to men that take care of themselves. It just so happens that almost always the men are younger than me! It has always been exceptable for men to have relationships with younger women even though most men DO start to go down hill jin a BIG way after 35.
verygreeneyez - You Go Girl!! You speak the truth! Women who look younger and want younger men should do so!! | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 8:21:40 AM | I know exactly what you mean. Now, I'm 38 and have the same problem but not only because they let themselves go but also because I can't relate. I hate guys that are stuck in a rut, you know, are ok staying home all the tiime, watching tv and drinking beer. Don't have much romance to speak of left in them. I'm a go getter. I like to go out and socialize and not only to meet a guy either, but to have fun. Now, please men don't think I'm stereotyping. I don't think this is true of all men. And I'm sure we can say this of some women too. I don't look my age and therefor seem to have men 10 years younger trying to pick me up. No complaints there except sometimes there even younger and the fact that I have a 21 year old daughter makes the whole situation a little uncomfortable. So, more and more these days I find myself just looking at the younger ones, cuz let's face it, there not hard on the eyes at all. Not to mention what an ego boost it is to have some young hotty with his eyes on me. And you know what else?......The younger ones love us older ladies too. Ever been called a couger or a MILF???? At first it made me feel old but I take it a a total compliment. And OH MY GOD,,,,what we can teach them in the bedroom. | |
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| Not just guys .
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:02:35 AM | | I can really relate to what your saying , and it is not just guys that look like they stoped careing for then selves ten years ago at 50 .Two other things . One is what is age ? Is it how long you lived , or is it more where you are in mind and body ?The other is how critically are we really looking at our selves . Have we put the 50 years in better than most or can we just see it better in the oposite sex ? | |
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| Not just guys .
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:07:37 AM | I'm all for the 40-50 yr old women to be dating guys in their 20-30's!
Takes the boys out of the pool of competition for the ladies that age! | |
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| Not just guys .
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:10:52 AM | I like the young stud muffins, but I'll take on an older guy if he's well-endowed
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Posted: 11/2/2006 9:19:25 AM |
justmeinnc05, I doubt that your photo is recent. That said, women at any given age usually look better than men. Furthermore, women live longer which means, in effect, that women age less slowly. Except in logic and the ability to use good judgment in making decisions, women have most of the advantages. Therefore, comparing women to men is not a fair comparison
I really wish it wasn't but I do consider 8 months as fairly recent. Other than my hair being longer I haven't changed much in the whole 8 months since it was taken. I have had others say I look younger than my 49 years, but to me I look every second of it. I guess I will have to get off my lazy butt and add some new ones.
In real life I hardly ever think about this topic. I don't seek out men of any certain age, just try to meet one that I can get along with. Doesn't matter if he looks his age, looks younger or if he looks older.
I really think the whole age thing has been done to death. I still say if the two people involved are happy, then screw what other people think. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 9:24:38 AM | Smjle: I noticed that and it's not quite true we have our own special logic.
There once was a time when women were relegated to the closet at a certain age now thanks to Amercan pie we are coming into our own, the tables have turned and we rock.
If you have the energy that is and if you like to collect passing memories which goes for mature men also. Let's not kid ourselves. Anna Nichols hubby is a perfect example.
Ok he died happy but........... | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 10:10:53 AM | | Saggy scrotums huh, I never thought of that,kinda like breast sag huh ? as for the deep ingrained wrinkles, most men dont invest in the old lady anti- wrinkle cream , so yea our wrinkles show. just like yours at 5 am, before you spend an hour and a half putting your face on. Hair lose/loss, I dont think that makes you look old, just bald,lol . the reallity is that 50% of all men over 35 are either bald or going bald, 25 % of the remainder are married, 3% incarcerated, 10 % gay,so ya take out the old looking bald guys, your down to 12 %, half of them are obese,or mentally ill.. no wonder you ladies are having such a hard time finding a decent guy,lol...And by the way, if the women were to quit using hair dye, and allowed the gray to stay, they would be looking old in there 30's too. But most start useing the dye religously as soon as they see that first gray hair. My response was to a generalization of men , and in it I used a generalization myself, point taken. That said , it is harder for women than men, they do have to work harder to maintain than men do. Also every body has a different body type,structure ,and or metabolism. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 10:23:38 AM | | Lady you have got to get those glass' checked. i am 46 and ingreat condition, physically and mentaly, and I do not have hair growing in any places i don;t want it. Get your head out of the fog.. | |
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klnu
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Joined: 7/18/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2006 10:39:02 AM | Good for you chickie...I love it...and to add what is the range thing all about...in profiles...????for example...men say I like women 36 - 45 who sets the cutoff.... (women do it too)
But kudos to the men out there......LOLOL....I find age is but a number...and I have dated age 33 to 58 and find men very attractive at any age. But yes they do look after them selves.
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Posted: 11/2/2006 10:45:56 AM | Well thats all I was getting at strummer.....lol if men did take care of themselves better after 40 (I really should say after 45....I have met some really hot men under 45) well then......Maybe some of them should use some OLD lady face cream....or dye their hair or maybe even get rid of their nose hair etc etc. I too shouldnt put all the apples in one barrel...I mean I have a man in my life who is 47 and ****ing gorgeous....took a peak in his closet the other day....all nice modern clothes...etc etc. I tell him all the time he should open up a consulting business for men over 40.....I wish there were more of him out there lol.
Now I do like a bald head its very very sexy....especially on men in their early 30s.... but not all men will look sexy with it... especially if their big fat beer guts are hanging out (get my point) Also you are so right about every body has a different body type etc etc.....but I cant help noticing that the body type of most men over 45 is a nice established beer gut.
Everything sags when you get older....lifting weights and excercise really does help....as far as us "older" women spending so much time getting ready.....my beautiful and I mean beautiful daughter who is in her 20s has a longer beauty reguime that I do...I hardly wear any make up (it ages you LMAO)...
Oh by the way to Gerhardt....I checked out your profile...you look good....maybe you should open up a business and consult...see I call it like I see it.
Men need to really not assume or take things personally...I like you....am just generalizing...thats ok right? | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 10:54:31 AM | Not to ask the obvious but.....
Men in their 50s are usually at their most financially secure, have lived enough life to be confident in themselves and can still have children should they choose. There seems to be more a 50 year old man could offer a 30 year old woman than vice versa. What can an older woman offer a much younger guy (2 decades lets say)?? I can understand younger women being attracted to older men but the reverse seems....unnatural. (Not that I have not tried the sugar momma thing when younger) :) | |
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Posted: 11/2/2006 11:01:58 AM | Women are just as secure financially even in their early 40s lol....personally I dont want a relationship based on money and never have. I never said I wasnt attracted to men my age... if they are of the same mind-set as I am. I have tons to offer any man Im attracted to and am willing to work on a relationship with.... as long as they have tons to offer as well By the way..the only reason I put an age preference on POF (didnt really want to but found it necessary) because I have found that some POF men are notorious for scrapping off some years....I mean get real....when your 65 and your profile says 48 and then you email me and say I lied so I could chat with women like you is darn rude...my Mom is 68, please forgive me if I dont want to date her age group...thats 20 years older then me...and I would never want to date someone 20 years younger then myself...enuff said! | |
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