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 Ochun36

Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 720
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Posted: 11/6/2006 8:07:09 AM
At 46 Im bloody gorgeous, look and act like a sex God and would not comsider a woman over 35 coz the are GENERALLY as boring as shote and cant get out of their comfort zone to have fun.


And then you woke up....LOL
 Massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 721
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Posted: 11/8/2006 6:56:15 AM
Well i do admit you look great hmm I hate to say " For your age " who the fox, cause that makes you sound old. And your Not...
I wont knock you for who your attracted to, to each their own, and all the more power to you. The statements you made are all true for sure, but they are true to all ages . We all have a different fit, as to what we want and dont want...but hey...the statement you made on " but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it. " Awwwwww now that really hurt LOL Ok just teasing with ya, hey have, thanks for the thread, got a kick out of some of Post... have fun !!
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 722
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Posted: 11/8/2006 8:27:31 AM
Better a well preserved wrinkle than a nubile roll of fat.
 Redheadgidget

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 723
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Posted: 11/8/2006 9:39:23 AM
My entire post is in response to the following quote from this thread:



At 46 Im bloody gorgeous, look and act like a sex God and would not comsider a woman over 35 coz the are GENERALLY as boring as shote and cant get out of their comfort zone to have fun.



That was said 'tongue in cheek' I hope. Cuz, I am a very blunt person and hun, I promise, all joking aside, from your profile pics, you look somewhat older than your 46 yrs. Maybe in person it's different. It shouldn't matter really. Go after the ones 35 or younger, just be aware of reality...meaning that it is not your looks they're going for. It might be your financial status (only you know where that is...or whoever you share that knowledge with)... or simply the 'security' you provide.

Whether the woman be 35 and younger or 50 and older... for you to attract a physically/emotionally fit woman, it will more than likely not be based on your looks.

As an 'experiment', I put up a definitive shot of myself taken recently displaying my physically fit body... the wolves came out of the woodwork. I was going to leave it on my profile, then, after deleting myself off many a Favs list (leaving ONLY those who were there before and who I regard as friends/potential dates) I took the pic down.

It was a REAL eye opener as to the shallowness of soooooooo many men. Geez. Like they really thought I would respond to them.

Some of you guys who honestly believe you can get hot younger women based on anything other than your money or other 'material' stuff.... join REALITY. There are wayyyy too many quality guys in their 30s who want a woman based on personality/fitness no matter what age; therefore, limiting you guys - in your 40s/50s and older - options very very severly.

OR... remain in your 'fantasy land' and wake up a very lonely old man one day. Those are the facts Sir... based on the real world.
 justmeinnc05

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 724
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Posted: 11/8/2006 10:45:25 AM

OP I read your post and understood every word.. You are obviously lying about your age and you are misunderstanding the priority between facial beauty and body beauty. Men look at facial beauty first. Unless they just want sex then they go for the body, but then they are not interested in long term only some quickies or longies.. whatever. Stick to your age group 55-65 you'll do much better.


The OP's profile says that she is 51. The majority of people on here seem to think 10+/- is a good range to date. With those two things in mind, that would put her age group at 41-61 for dating.

Men look at facial beauty first? On what planet does that happen?
 Yahh ROO Giddy Up

Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 725
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:25:19 PM
Okay I came across a post by a female member somewhere in this thread that said men over 35 are "has been's" or something to that effect - feel free to correct me if i am wrong

I guess this 37 year old is well past his expiry date then

hmmpppffff
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 726
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:27:22 PM
^^^ Then, at 44 I must have one foot in the grave
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 727
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:38:45 PM
I'm not attracted to men my age either!

I'm just attracted to all kinds of men!!!!!
 Shangrilah

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 728
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:39:06 PM

Then, at 44 I must have one foot in the grave


That looks like a golf course, not a graveyard
 Yahh ROO Giddy Up

Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 729
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:41:14 PM
geeze Arri -- do you have a foot fetish -- foot pics/foot comments

bahhahahhaha - just kidding ya
 july16ladybug

Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 730
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Posted: 11/8/2006 1:49:41 PM
LOL@Arri....if you have one foot in the grave....then so do I.....
Who would say a man over 35 is done lol?.....This thread is getting weird...but still love following you around Arri.... I am not attracted to most men my age but that doesnt mean all of them....Arri for instance would be an attraction and why oh why is it that Im meeting men on here that live miles away.....pisses me off!!!! lol....now where are my NEW MATCHES lol...every week I get an email saying they are there and I never see them.....
 khrockproducer

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 731
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:07:05 PM
Hey, we all go downhill in some place on our body at a certain age. For me, it was my teeth and I had no idea why. Dry Mouth ! It was only the top teeth really. So, as usual I'm off to the dentist for the millionth time. It's not my hips, not a big belly, but my top teeth. That's fixable, albeit it costs a lot. But basically...oh yeah....forgot I have some stretchmarks on my boobs. Ohhhh, meanwhile Got a killer face and body....but oh...I have flaws, as do men my age. They creep up on you.....like your hairline moving back.....further and further.

Basically, this is a matter of preference. I do think it's important to look into a person and get to know them, and we don;t do a lot of that here....that's the problem with online dating.

The origional poster was making a valid point though....
 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 732
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:15:29 PM

Men look at facial beauty first? On what planet does that happen?


A recent survey showed that men say the first thing they notice about a woman is her eyes. In the same survey, women indicated that the first thing they noticed about men, is that they are a bunch of liars.
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Cindy O
 Mynx43

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 733
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:18:42 PM
I must be fishing in a different pond, because the men I've met over the age of 35 look just fine
 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 734
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:22:07 PM

10+/- is a good range to date

I seem to always land at one end or the other...last serious was 40,last fling was 40, interesting gentleman I met recently is 64, how come I keep missing the middle and landing on the edges( not that the edges are ALL bad LOL)
Cindy O
 justmeinnc05

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 735
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Posted: 11/10/2006 11:09:28 AM

justmeinnc05, I doubt that your photo is recent. That said, women at any given age usually look better than men. Furthermore, women live longer which means, in effect, that women age less slowly. Except in logic and the ability to use good judgment in making decisions, women have most of the advantages. Therefore, comparing women to men is not a fair comparison.

Ok, Smjle. Made a new main pic today. Is that recent enough? lol
 july16ladybug

Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 736
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Posted: 11/10/2006 11:18:23 AM
LOL at in logic and the ability to use good judgement...give it up Smjle....you do know that most men have two heads and their judgement usually comes not from the top one, but the one below. NOW gentlemen dont get all upset over that remark...you ,yourselves have used that excuse many a time LOL....

Also I adore the opposite sex so dont take what I say personally its just my personal experience and opinion...
 Chrisikins

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 737
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Posted: 11/10/2006 11:22:19 AM
You write: "I'm 50 and it's hard finding men my age who I find attractive. When I do a search on here most of the men just look overweight or don't seem to have any sense of style. It just seems like when alot of men get to my age they could care less what they come off as.

After a man hits 35 they seem to just give up on everything....gain weight, have hair growing odd places, develop jowls...just let themselves go completely. Now I am not saying there aren't decent looking men my age somewhere in the world, but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it."

Funny you should say that. That is precisely my opinion of most women of my age; however, I agree, men are worse, which may be why I'm not attracted to them either ... but then I wouldn't be even if I were.
 giustiniani

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 738
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Posted: 11/10/2006 12:49:18 PM
I think age is irrelavant nowdays,i think once your over 30 then you have a better idea of the kind of qualities your looking for in a partner.I seem to find it difficult finding a lady in my age group and i seem to be dating woman ages 45+ and i dont find it a problem it seems more common and acceptable nowdays.
These women are more like ladies,have good sense of humour,have looked after themselves and very confident about themselves .These qualities seem to be missing in women my age.
 litlemisscntbewrong

Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 739
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Posted: 11/10/2006 2:45:13 PM
OP: All I have to say is be careful on this topic I voiced that I prefer younger men on some of these forums and the bashing began. I love it though it seems that it is accepted when it is a older guy wanting to be with a young thing,but when it's a older woman with a young guy everyone has a smart ass comment!!!! Speaking for myself I prefer younger men because they are not dead in bed,,,,,LOL,,,,, and they dont feel as if they have to control a woman. I'm not saying that all older guys are a waste of time I just feel for so many years in our society younger guys with older women have been looked down upon versus older men with younger women. Let's get with it people it is 2006 women know what they want and they are no longer afraid to speak it!!!! I think alot of people get the wrong idea about younger men for all that think younger guys are less mature than older guys try some of the forums on this site and watch how older guys make an ass out of themselves compared to younger men.....Now for all that wish to bash let the fun begin,,,,,,LOL,,,,,,,GEORGIA GURL,,
 Nicemuppet

Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 740
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Posted: 11/10/2006 2:52:00 PM
no matter how old you are, or how good looking or ugly, not everyone has the same taste.
Personality also comes into it.

It dont matter how old someone is, if it feels right and they rock ur world,
thats all that matters...
 Serendipityone

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 741
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Posted: 11/10/2006 3:27:47 PM
Moondiva

I took a peek at your profile and you look fantastic for 56 years old! ..and men wonder why we women want younger men?? Um, dah!


After having met several men ranging in age from 31 to 58, 1st of all - most men lie about their age! by 5 to 7 years...saying they're younger!


Gosh, I didn't know this.

I wish I was out of the dating rat race.=((
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