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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/10/2006 10:17:47 PM | ^^^^ That quote was taken from the OP off of a post that a guy wrote 
Men have been having their say, which was the whole point for this thread | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/10/2006 10:20:01 PM | | I'm not attracted to men my age either. Mainly because I find them boring. Most of them don't seem to have any energy or our likes aren't the same. But I definitely have to agree with eagles4fun. I think it all evens out. There are both men and women who tend to let themselves go array after a certain age. But there are also those that don't. Hair growing odd places??? OMG.....happens to both sexes | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:17:16 AM | | I am attracted to some men my age but primarily I am attracted to men younger than me because of the energy level difference. Men my age or older want to rent a DVD and sit home. I cannot sit still through a whole movie most of the time. I want to be out living life not sitting on a couch watching a movie. And.....I think the older they are the sooner viagra JUST MAY be needed. I prefer younger men full of life in "all" areas and MANY (not all) men my age and older seem to have a love for the recliner and staying home a lot more. I think about younger men and the energy level difference----in general----this does not include ALL younger or older men. I think about (generally speaking) the probability of more years of life viagra free when I think about dating long term. I know this depends upon the biology of different men------everyone is different. Generally speaking though, the probablity of younger men (like say 32 years old) needing help in "that area" will be longer in coming than if I get involved with a 50 year old. I think about this when looking for a mate. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 9:29:21 AM | | I think looks only get you so far. People do gain weight more when they get older. As long as that person is not mobidly obese, I don't think its a problem. Haveing a good attitude and out look on life, to me, are more important. I've seen people who are overweight, within reason, yet still popular with the girls. Because they have out going personality. I would not confuse boring with being responsible & mature. I tend to stay home more during the weekdays, unless doing errands or paying bills. Getting home, its fixing meals, getting ready for work the next day and stuff around the house. It gets expensive going out every night and with gas prices the way they are about $25.00 to fill up my vehicle. Save my money for the weekends when I don't have work. I'm usually out most weekends doing something, or haveing fun. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 9:59:19 AM | | Who the fox,Who are you?Your profile says you are 40 but you say you are 50 in this thread.What is it?And its true men are attracted to younger women ,I dont need to talk about sagging asses and underarms etc Just look at Michael Douglas,Tom Cruise and millions of other rich men with varieing degrees of jowel syndrome.And on the ladies side there are plenty of women walking around with boy toy's | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 10:37:48 AM | I can say for me it has to do with the mindset of the individual; not the age.
I generally find more compatible mindsets with men that are younger.
That being said; my last two boyfriends and my ex-husband were 7 years older than me. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 2:18:21 PM | Oh my...I feared that this thread would eventually show up. In this day and age, a lot of men are in better shape in their 40s then they were in their thirties.
"For most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it" 
I will hit 50 in a few years and I am seriously thinking of shooting myself.
God, some people are funny in here. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 2:55:35 PM | well i am attracted to men your age so maybe all the men i find i can send your waand anyone you find send my way  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 4:36:15 PM | you are absolutely right . Like anyone ,be it male or female , unless you take the time to take care of your body ,do not expect a flattering physique . It takes work and pride of self.
So yes Little Lady there are some very stunning looking people our age and the best thing is they are on the same playing field . | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:06:43 PM | Blastkist,
I agree, men do seem to look older at the same age. Perhaps, some have had a tough life and I wish noone ill, but some just didn't take care of themselves. It may be too late for some, but men are changing as they realize that they are getting judged on physical qualities as well. So, in the future, this might be different.
I hope that everyone can find someone else and be happy, but my preference is to date younger. Most men my age can't keep up with me. I admire your nana, it must have been more difficult then. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 9:27:00 PM | | Hey Foxy Lady. I do agree. I find younger men so darned attractive. They do seem to have a zest for living still going on as well. Their flexibility for taking risks and just enjoying things is higher. I like them. Not to say a few older guys aren't too bad, but I find those types are usually quite happily married. So off my radar scope. Interesting that you brought this subject up. Now hope it don't get me killed for participating. LOL! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 9:31:42 PM | lol....Ruby, what would life be without a little hate mail from the men over 40?
I find that the fit, vibrant and active men over 45 are either married or chasing the women under 30.....leaves me with the guys under 40. Oh well, I guess I'll have to make do | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/11/2006 9:45:27 PM | Holy Shit Fox. I just read this whole thread. You really got the folks going. I do get my own share of the 40 and up guys. Hard turning some of em down. I'm not the sex ed teacher and never was! Sides I kinda like an experienced partner. I think I need to pump some iron like you do. Geez you got good legs there girl! You go girl!  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 10:51:32 PM | Welp... I read this whole thread, and I'm not sure why I did, but since I did I feel I should post ..."something"
So now the Men and Women are equally bashed, and we can all be Buddies again?
Animosity can be so tiring, and it gives me gas... do Men under 35 get gas?
I'm not mad at anybody.. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2006 11:06:36 PM | This is my most major problem with dating.
I go to rock shows and have eclectic tastes, most of my peers are younger than me.
I have tried dating younger guys but they are missing life experience.
I need a cool older guy who has been where I have been, it aint easy. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/12/2006 2:55:57 PM |
I'm 50 and it's hard finding men my age who I find attractive. When I do a search on here most of the men just look overweight or don't seem to have any sense of style. It just seems like when alot of men get to my age they could care less what they come off as.
After a man hits 35 they seem to just give up on everything....gain weight, have hair growing odd places, develop jowls...just let themselves go completely. Now I am not saying there aren't decent looking men my age somewhere in the world, but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it.
Wow, who_the_fox,
High heels, Daisy Dukes, a tool belt, power-lifter muscles and attitude thick enough to cut with a knife. What more could a man want? I am younger than you. Too bad I'm overweight, hairy, jowly and have no sense of style. Otherwise I'll bet we would have really hit it off. Anyway, if you ever find a man that lives up to your high standards, do me a favor find out for me if he has a sister.
*thought it was time for the women to have a say...
knopper3...Resisting the urge to enumerate everything that is wrong with older women in general and who_the_fox in particular. | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/12/2006 3:01:48 PM | knopper...read the damn thread. You might have some clue then what point I was trying to make.
see posts 76 and 104 for a summary
As for my picture....it was Hallowe'en and it is a hell of a lot less offensive than boobs spilling all over. Thanks for the compliment about the muscles though!
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/12/2006 3:22:22 PM | who_the_fox_: for the record....LOL...You look good for a 20yr old
Ive noticed something about these posts though...Has anyone else noticed that the negative posts here are pretty much from those that arent "in shape" and they seem to be pointing blame towards those that are..Comon guys..relax | |
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| I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/12/2006 10:04:06 PM | read the damn thread. You might have some clue then what point I was trying to make.
see posts 76 and 104 for a summary
Guess there not listening over here either, fox.
Who for the record, I think your legs are awesome. (Not gay just sayin'...)
but hey maybe if I had just left it at that I would be getting more emails.
As guys are so blatantly thrilled with that idea.
To the Wizard...I think you seem fair, rational and you have nice muscles too. | |
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