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 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 176
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/15/2006 1:18:54 PM

I say the man who is attracted to the older woman is probably also gay, cuase if he gets with another guy, he can be dominated there too! Its the man's role to lead, if a woman tried to be the aggressor during sex, subconsciencially id be asking my self who was the man here, and ED would soon follow!


so missionary is it then eh? hehe....as for the rest...maybe a trip to a shrink who specializes in sexual dysfunction is in order.
 crabstuffing

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 177
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/15/2006 1:19:49 PM
Whoa, I didn't know all those young guys hitting on me were gay.
Do I look manly? I'm paranoid now.
 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 178
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/15/2006 1:46:46 PM
Sooo are you with the Lord on marriage???

“For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother,
and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.”

This means that both Christians and unbelievers are all accountable to God for the way they treat their spouses FAT or not. Marriage is not a man-made institution but a divine covenant.
I'm not attracted to IDIOTS of ANY age.

 eagles4fun

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 179
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/15/2006 4:34:16 PM

I'm not attracted to IDIOTS of ANY age.


Hooray....my sentiments exactly

Age is a number people....physical appearance is....just that...physical appearance...

You are attracted to what you are attracted to....plain and simple...no if's, and's, or but's

There seems to be a lot of bashing going on....why not take a step back and really think about some of the things you are saying...

For those women, that say that they look for younger men, because they take better care of themselves....I am curious if you actually look around...there are many young men...who do not take good care of themselves....in fact, there are many young women who don't either.

My hope for all people is for everyone to be in pretty good shape...but we all know that is just not possible. My views are that I intend to try and keep in pretty good shape, but my views are not shared by other men....or women for that matter....

Perhaps people are just comfortable with who they are....who are we to judge...we should not be judging anyone who wants to date someone younger....for whatever reason...and then again...we should not be judging someone because we may think they have let themselve go...we don't even know them....

We are all individuals....very special ones....why not treat each other how we ourselves would like to be treated....

....is that so difficult to do??
 Mountain_Art

Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 180
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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 1:10:33 AM
Hmmm.....I am 39. You tell me, Am I past my prime?
Have I let it all go?
Do you see any "Jowels"?

It goes both ways lady...

....I'm starting to think this site is a total waste of time.
 dorkfully geekalicious

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 181
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 1:31:11 AM

Those hotties of 30 with the rock hard abs appreciate the work that went into my body and they chase ME, I do not chase them



bwahahahahahahahhahahaha
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 182
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 6:18:20 AM
This is my final post on this subject. I can't believe how many men got their shorts in a knot because they DIDN'T READ the d*mn thread.

This thread was created in response to numerous "old lady" bashing threads. I didn't even write the first paragraph, I just COPIED it from a woman bashing thread and changed the word "women" to "men". Oddly, most of the men missed the point and instead of actually THINKING about what I was saying, they just vented their hatred and bitterness against women yet again.

I was trying to make a point....that we ALL age.... men AND women. No sex has the ability to get older without suffering the effects. If you want to stay attractive you have to work at it regardless if you are male or female. Old saggy men do NOT look any better than old saggy women....not ever.

 Cybury

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 183
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 6:31:11 AM

If you want to stay attractive you have to work at it regardless if you are male or female. Old saggy men do NOT look any better than old saggy women....



women that look like foot ball players aren't all that much attractive either

and don't blame the thread.... maybe its because some men here are tired of being personally bashed by certain members... hint, hint,
 Ochun36

Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 184
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 7:12:16 AM
I beg to differ on your 35 and over theory, I have hair,( which believe me dear, that is not a mans choice to lose that, just as woman dont want kangaroo pouches)

I'm in the best shape of my life at 40. I'm Wiser, smarter, richer,and more sophisticated than any 20 something......




Bingo. See how it pisses you off to be judged for something that you have no control over, well the same holds true for women as they age. We are constantly criticized by our counterparts for having (gasp) wrinkles, or cellulite or whatever else shows up on our bodies as we age, as if we are the only ones in the species that suffers these ills.

Just like it offends you, it offends us as well, this constant throwing up in our faces that we are no longer worthy of attention or desire because we aren't "young" or "thin" or "active" or whatever other attribute you want to fling around. I think that was the point that Fox was trying to make. It goes both ways.


For us to sit here and compare ourselves to twenty year olds is ridiculous. There is no comparison, those days are past us and they served their purpose. Enjoy all the things that you have now and look to the future. That is how one lives a prosperous life.
 Mountain_Art

Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 185
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Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 7:55:02 AM
[qoute] This is my final post on this subject. I can't believe how many men got their shorts in a knot because they DIDN'T READ the d*mn thread.

This thread was created in response to numerous "old lady" bashing threads. I didn't even write the first paragraph, I just COPIED it from a woman bashing thread and changed the word "women" to "men". Oddly, most of the men missed the point and instead of actually THINKING about what I was saying, they just vented their hatred and bitterness against women yet again.

I was trying to make a point....that we ALL age.... men AND women. No sex has the ability to get older without suffering the effects. If you want to stay attractive you have to work at it regardless if you are male or female. Old saggy men do NOT look any better than old saggy women....not ever.[/qoute]

Well, I hate to tell you this, but you failed at what were trying to accomplish, still nor sure what that was either. Anyone with some common deceny and common sence knows what age does. See the qoute marks up above?
How in the heck is anyone supposed to know that you did not write the first paragraph? It's not like I spend everyday on this forum and can read your mind.

Let me "qoute" you on the one thing that you said that is the main reason I am ranting, correct me if this was not directed at me:


"Oddly, most of the men missed the point and instead of actually THINKING about what I was saying, they just vented their hatred and bitterness against women yet again."

Good job, this was rude and uncalled for, who vented their "Hatred" for anything?

What a load of internet crap!
 Bull Rhino

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 186
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:23:09 AM
You can't say you didn't hear the truck beep as it backed up.
 Indigo Rose

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 187
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:35:46 AM
Frickin' women bashers!!!what would your mothers think????
 Wild Heart

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 188
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:44:10 AM

That and anyone I seem to gravitate towards is always minimum a day trip away or just to darn far away.


Could this be a sign that we are perhaps gravitating towards these people BECAUSE they live far away?

Just a thought that was running through my head....
 DoRod

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 189
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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:44:44 AM
Dear who the fox it depends on where you are looking I have to disagree with you. Some women expect to much when they are not a bag of chips them selves . It s a whole different world out there.Just because a man isn't dressed or presents his self to your expectations does'nt mean he's not a good man. I am 46 and look every bit of 30 except for the salt and pepper hair. and even on a bad day I still dress decent but i get passes over by women who think I'm not good enough. but I am a damn good man with a kind and loving heart. I bet you have not tried an afro american man we get better wuth age like fine wine and we know how to wine and dine at least I do. I am a certified sous Chef and will have you wanting more of my star treatment.
 DoRod

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 190
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Posted: 5/16/2006 8:48:03 AM
Change the type of man you usally go after Be adventurous and different women are just as bad as men.
 angelab

Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 191
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:48:43 AM
Toooo funny...

Any man makes a thread about how older women are unattractive and the younger ones are the only ones that do it for em and the same thing happens.
1. Other men chime in their agreement
2. Women chime in how they disagree, they still take care of themselves, and how men are shallow and should worry about what's on the inside

A woman makes a similar thread and what happened?
1. Other women chime in their agreement
2. Men chime in about how they disagree, they still take care of themselves, and how women are shallow and should worry about what's on the inside

This forum is so entertaining.
 Summer Teeth

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 192
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:52:21 AM
I don't know why people take preferences so personally. It makes no sense. "Oh my God! There's a woman who lives a 1,000 miles away who isn't attracted to me," he said while neurotically surfing a dating site.

It's amazing how fragile a person's ego can be.
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 193
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/16/2006 8:53:12 AM
@angelab....humans are so predictable LOL. I guess we should have known but like you said...it's good for a laugh.
 Ratero-park-man

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 194
Enough Already
Posted: 5/16/2006 10:20:58 PM

Bingo. See how it pisses you off to be judged for something that you have no control over, well the same holds true for women as they age. We are constantly criticized by our counterparts for having (gasp) wrinkles, or cellulite or whatever else shows up on our bodies as we age, as if we are the only ones in the species that suffers these ills.

Just like it offends you, it offends us as well, this constant throwing up in our faces that we are no longer worthy of attention or desire because we aren't "young" or "thin" or "active" or whatever other attribute you want to fling around. I think that was the point that Fox was trying to make. It goes both ways.


For us to sit here and compare ourselves to twenty year olds is ridiculous. There is no comparison, those days are past us and they served their purpose. Enjoy all the things that you have now and look to the future. That is how one lives a prosperous life.


The formula is simple just don't judge. Judge not lest you be judged. Not good to make premature judgments about someones character based on looks, it makes no sense you won't find it based on their looks.
 nofatgirlsplz

Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 195
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Posted: 5/17/2006 10:42:29 AM
I dont set an age limit on who I can date, the law does!
 Bull Rhino

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 196
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/17/2006 10:44:51 AM
Only in the one direction. You can still keep plenty busy if you're not afraid to "go gray".
 GT99

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 197
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/17/2006 3:12:34 PM
"nofatgirlsplz


Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 177
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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/15/2006 314 PM
men are attracted to older woman because she has more experience? NOT! Did you miss the part that MEN NEED VISUAL STIMULATION? While women, on the other hand, need to feel loved, and appreciated, two totally different needs, Men are ready to go when they see their female counterpart crawl across the floor in short shorts, while women need to be "romanced" thruout the day, or foreplay. I say the man who is attracted to the older woman is probably also gay, cuase if he gets with another guy, he can be dominated there too! Its the man's role to lead, if a woman tried to be the aggressor during sex, subconsciencially id be asking my self who was the man here, and ED would soon follow! "


OK..you have the same opinion as I had....I think I was about 12 or 13.

nothing wrong with older women...date one and find out, they do not play the games the younger ones do.

nothing about domination either, thats an individual thing, young girls can do the same. Who said its the mans role to lead? I say experiment and be open, try new things, keeps the sex life good years later even. I guess I should just bang bang get it done and kick her out right stud? lol

looks? well I dont know where you are from but I have seen some smoking hot 40 year olds you would never guess their age, but I bet you would drool just the same. would you kick demi moore out of bed? She is older, and I bet life experience has made her alot more knowledgable and experienced in a relationship, not just sex, life in general...if you want the young "party girl" go ahead enjoy (not all young girls are immature either, but alot are)

I couldnt help but laugh at that post, I mean come on...get real, dont knock it till you tried it
 cuddlekingg

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 5/17/2006 3:15:29 PM
I could say the same thing about women, if I wanted to generalize. I think you either need to get out more or expand your horizons.
 drhackncough

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 199
I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age....
Posted: 5/17/2006 4:08:53 PM
this just goes to prove the points in my other post...


shallow very very shallow
 Stardust2

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 200
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Posted: 6/13/2006 9:26:24 PM
Oh my...I feared that this thread would eventually show up. In this day and age, a lot of men are in better shape in their 40s then they were in their thirties.

"For most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it"

I will hit 50 in a few years and I am seriously thinking of shooting myself.

God, some people are funny in here.


OMG.....please don't shoot yourself. What a waste that would be. Your a whole lot to good lookin.
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