| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:06:03 AM | | no rules...but i can tell within 5 minutes if i would sleep with them ..and within a night if i would date them .... when your enjoying someones company you dont keep a record of how many times you have gone out ..you just want to go out again with them..or see them again ..i have never planned on getting sex and i dont go by the 3rd date rule at all.. | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:58:37 AM | i have been known to practice the 3-date rule, as a teenager!
now, at midlife, and happily divorced and dating once again, i feel that life experience has enabled me to gain some wisdom and to grow up, so, no longer a horney teenager, the idea of a number of dates before sex is adolescent and immature at best!
any boys who still follow this by mid-life, are sad and pathetic! Any Real Man, does not need any time limit, as he respects his lady, and he moves, with great respect and gentleness, at HER pace, NOT his!
Real Women, NOT girls, love this about a Real Man.
so, boys, don't U think it's about time ya'll GREW UP?
written on behalf of Real Gentlemen and Ladies everywhere, I remain, yours truly,
Adventurer56 | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 12:31:04 PM | Hmmm.....I was actually unaware of this rule......thanks for the incite
I dont get a first date never mind a 3rd date....No wonder I didnt know about the rule:)
I heard the monastery in Mission has room for a couple more peeps...lmfao
I think any guy that goes by the 3 date rule has either hang out,date or other relationship listed.....the long terms are usually interested in the person as a whole....not just a life support system for a kitty | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:17:38 PM | can't remember if i've posted to this thread or not as it's quite old ROFLMAO!
3 Date Rule....... ok I've been guilty of this one similar to the guys.
I give u 3 meetings to see if I like u or not.... see if we are compatible or pursue this meeting into something further...... U can be urself and if u piss me off then I say good bye and delete u off my favourites.
3 times a charm to get lucky ..... think NOT!
Takes a little longer in my books but then again that's just me........
If u busy groping me on the first date........ well......... then..... I'm not into u! | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:16:14 PM | an hour for woman
15mins for man | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:17:21 PM | an hour for woman
15mins for man
nvm you can't quote someone in this system but this was intended for hallokitty's post on the first page | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/29/2008 12:58:27 PM | Sweet-Sunshine - "is this three date rule........with the same person?" - that's so funny! I believe in what most have said, when it's right and you both agree, then why not? Rules are made to be broken anyway, soooooooo ..... Mutual safe sex is allowed, after all we are ADULTS now, or at least some of us are!  | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 1:06:20 PM | .......you people are crackin me up.............what a bunch of sex rebels.......ok, so I know in the first 5 min too........thats all Im sayin right now...hahahhahahaha...... | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 3:13:56 PM | I thought this said the 3 Second rule.
I prefer to have a woman string me out over 10 -20 expensive, no sex inducing dates to then say she is ready. Meanwhile I am banging the waitress on my bathroom breaks and returning in time to hear about how close we are to the "magical numbered" date. | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/29/2008 3:27:34 PM | ^^^you must have been waiting for that date since date this thread was started
IMHO rules like this are for people who can't take responsibility for their own conduct...at least if they stayed within the rules there is something to be blamed when expectations are not met. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 4:03:43 PM | I eat Skittles on the first Date. But the second I see her with Smarties. Its over. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 11:53:01 PM | | Of course Guido, what you could do is get creative and have more than one date in one day rather than taking so long. Let's see....date one, have lunch...date two, go for some sight seeing...date three, go for a walk....date four, have a drink together...date five, have dinner...date six, go to a movie together...date seven, go for another drink. You might at least be holding hands by then. The waitress would miss out...but maybe another time, you could treat her with the same respect. | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/31/2008 6:02:08 AM | Celticlass,
I was trying to point out the rediculousness of the subject matter and reveal a hidden gem for the ladies. Don't put rules (outside of common courtesy and respect) into the process of physical attraction. Two consenting adults can choose to have intercourse at any point in their encounters based on mutual agreement. 1 / 3 / 10 matter not when ADULTS are involved. Children may require a set number but if I had to choose one I guess it would be 69 | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 7:16:45 AM | Rules rules rules! Geez, I always figured rules were for GAMES and court rooms .. since I don't have a penchant for either, I snub these silly "human relations" rules too! Sheesh
I will sleep with a man - When I am ready, when 'it' feels Right - to Me. Period.
(Unless I can get him drunk sooner!!! haha) < HEY! I was just kidding! I can't afford to get anyone That drunk!!! lol
Rules schmools - same as that silly "so called rule" that a guy isn't sposed to call "too soon" if he's interested - B.S.! Call me now if you're interested! That rule that you have to book a date several days in advance? More Crap! If I'm into you and you're into me and you call me today about tonite - chances are pretty frikkin good that, barring other plans, I'm in!
My Rule: Be Yourself.
My Rule (for me): To Keep on Being Me.
That is a much better path to "security" whereas all these Games and b.s. rules are geared to create insecurities, uncertainty and anything but Fun. Dontcha think "Dating" oughta be Fun? < That should be a rule! lol
A.S.is
Rule Free - Just bein Me
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:58:05 AM | 1st date/tone check
2nd date/heat check
3rd date/gut check
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:03:30 PM | If a chick won't sleep with you on the third date .
[a] She doesn't find you attractive.
{b} She doesn't have enough sex drive to be worth keeping.
[c]She is already starting the head games.
Strike one! Strike two! Strike three !you're out Baby. | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 6/1/2008 1:46:51 AM | Nah, the only 3 date rule I use is that if I don't have any kind of connection, assuming it's not gone horribly horribly wrong and my kidney's are both still securely in my torso, then I call it off.
However I ain't so worried about whether I do or don't get layed before 3 dates. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 6:17:44 AM | If a chick won't sleep with you on the third date .
[a] She doesn't find you attractive.
{b} She doesn't have enough sex drive to be worth keeping.
[c]She is already starting the head games.
uh huh
a - she has self respect and is more interested in knowing that You are the type of person she wants to sleep with.
b - she may very well be "taking care of herself" before she gives it up to just anyone else!
c - she is aware that you are just biding your time to get laid on the 3rd date and she knows a Good Man will wait until she is both ready and willing.
Yes - most of us do know pretty soon whether or not we are Physically attracted to a guy - that doesn't mean we lose all sense of self and jump on your majic wand just because you make 'us' hot! We are also (most of us) astute enough to decipher whether or not 'you' are just putting in the 3 dates to get a little, most guys who are only looking for 'that' disappear soon after 'gettin some'. Speaking for myself (and likely a lot of other Ladies) I am looking for a man who wants to spend a whole lot more time with me than 3 dates. They guy who I believe is "all that" .. will get some .. and he Will be happy he isnt one of those rules/games players! So There!
Oh - no I didn't! I did Not say I've not "done it" by date 3 or even before! OMG - Slut! lol .. I am old enough and have been around enough to know that if all I want is a piece of azz - Too Easy! But I want more than yer majic wand! I'm looking for a heart, so I avoid those 3 date boys.
There isn't a thing wrong with bein all horned up over someone and being patient enough to wait for the desert! I just figure that men (or women) who are quick to jump in the sack are likely not so safe .. ya know? geez .. I hope ya know!!! lol
Happy fishin!
A.S.is
ps
i have been known to practice the 3-date rule, as a teenager!
now, at midlife, and happily divorced and dating once again, i feel that life experience has enabled me to gain some wisdom and to grow up, so, no longer a horney teenager, the idea of a number of dates before sex is adolescent and immature at best!
any boys who still follow this by mid-life, are sad and pathetic! Any Real Man, does not need any time limit, as he respects his lady, and he moves, with great respect and gentleness, at HER pace, NOT his!
Real Women, NOT girls, love this about a Real Man.
so, boys, don't U think it's about time ya'll GREW UP?
written on behalf of Real Gentlemen and Ladies everywhere, I remain, yours truly,
Adventurer56
^^ just made me smile .. :D | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:00:29 AM | Yes...of course Alien, you are right on about that one. "a - she has self respect and is more interested in knowing that you are the type of person she wants to sleep with."
Head games? What exactly do people mean when they use this term? Does this really mean that he can't figure out what she's talking about when she tries to have an intelligent conversation about something she's interested in or passionate about and he just wants to talk about sex? If all you're interested in is having sex by date three, I'm assuming that all you are interested in is talking about sex up to that point. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:54:22 AM | If I had to stick to the 3 date rule only then it'd be a heck of a waiting period before the third date since I don't believe that the clean bill of health check paperwork comes back that fast!
~ shakes head.... not for this chickita... I prefer all my parts healthy for the one I'll choose to share intimacy with and vice versa.
bioponi85
an hour for woman
15mins for man
nvm you can't quote someone in this system but this was intended for hallokitty's post on the first page
I am SO glad I read the second post immediately after your first to clear that up hahahaha. THIS is how you make quotes anyhow
[ quote]....[/ quote] no space between the [ and q in the first and / and q in the second quote. It'll save what can be really embarrassing posts! | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 12:43:22 PM | I think that varies from person to person and how fast a relationship progresses. I believe that 2 mature adults when they are ready for intamacy than that is fine.
BS | |
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| The 3 date rule
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:07:32 AM |
If a chick won't sleep with you on the third date .
[a] She doesn't find you attractive.
{b} She doesn't have enough sex drive to be worth keeping.
[c]She is already starting the head games.
Strike one! Strike two! Strike three !you're out Baby.
Gotta love an honest man!
You should put that on your profile!!  | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 7:50:24 AM | | Never heard of it but I believe it. The only rule I have for that is when it's right. When I was a "kid" getting laid was the most important part of dating, now I have no interest sleeping with a woman I don't know. Growing up sucks! I've dated women for months without sex, not a big deal if it's not time. Then again i'm looking for a relationship, not just to get laid. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 9:06:43 AM | I don't have a 3 date rule but I have a 3 dollar rule. If the date costs more than that, she's too high maintenance for me.
(p.s. I'm just kidding) | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 4:17:05 PM | I've never heard of this rule. But if a girl likes a guy and he leaves her after 3 dates because she doesn't put out, who wants that guy anyways.
I'm one that knows if this is a guy that I'm attracted to or not within 5 min. Then 6 mins after you meet them they say something wrong, lol. | |
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