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 steveracer

Joined: 12/21/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2008 6:40:33 PM
OK, I just gota ask, what's with all the Trolling lately? Is it Winter and the Cold?
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2008 6:43:12 PM

sex with older women is so much better. im always up for it witht he older ladies, they know what they want between sheets



...Yes we do, and if were not in the mood, it just stays in the nightstand.



...maeflowers
 outofthedesert

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 478
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Posted: 2/20/2008 7:14:34 PM

Sex in the woman mind after 40.


That is pretty much where it has been of late..........................
 rougetete

Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 479
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Posted: 2/20/2008 7:28:20 PM
I think about it more now than ever, throughout the day, everyday.
 maeflowers

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2008 9:06:45 PM

This blip about women thinking about sex 180 minutes a day compared to a man's 150 minutes makes total sense to me.

Women, traditionally, are the Keepers of the Relationship.

Sex is, traditionally, part of the Relationship.

It's also often at the root of relationship problems.

Therefore, it's not a surprise that women think about sex more than men do.




...I just read this on the net his moning.....which surprised me. I would have agreed that men thought about it more often.


...maeflowers
 justmenotbradpit

Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 481
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Posted: 2/20/2008 10:44:36 PM
ive read through this thread and i cant understand whats going on
if women are thinking about sex all the time and men thinking of sex all the time ,then why the hell do men moan there not getting enough sex and secondly the sell of bed spring hitting the roof
i also read a survey that in a long term relationship sex is once or twice a week
so is it just you single women thinking of sex 180 min a day or yet another one of you womens mind games , yep were thinking of sex and are horny as hell but guess what guy your still not getting any
 Desertbro

Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 482
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Posted: 2/20/2008 11:22:22 PM
When women focus on sex, it's like foreplay, they work out the whole relationship over the course of the day, it's all mixed together, so they say "I thought about it all day", meaning the build up, the romance, the sex, the cuddling, and beyond to things only a woman can dream up.

Men think about it more often, but for shorter periods, like a minute or two. Men think about how fast a skirt can go up, how fast panties can come down, how many seconds it takes for the boss to walk from his office to the copy room, so if they have a quickie with Ms. Jenkins how many good long strokes can they get in before having to zip up their pants.

Women think about emotions, the warmth of the moment, the smells of the room and the bodies, the emotional culmination of the event.

Men think of logistics---Will this shirt be visibly stained? Are the walls soundproof? Is the van seat roomy enough for cowboy style? Is the electric maintenance closet on the 3rd parking level unlocked and available for use if I proposition Ms Jenkins on the way into the office? Will a clean towel and bottle water be enough to make her feel less slutty?

Women don't think of these things until they've been propositioned, so men work out the details and how to overcome the objections ahead of time. Women get pissed if they don't, because a grand opportunity for sex is dashed if the guy doesn't plan well.
 kalico4384

Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 483
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Posted: 2/21/2008 7:55:38 AM
HECK .... I was in the basement watching TV while my wife had somekind of a ladies party upstairs.. OH it was a lingerie party.. "My basement door was closed no peaking" You should have hear the the conversations ... Would make a lumberjack blush
 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 9:35:32 AM
Hey Bro?
What you just posted is totally awesome and so very very true! I have often thought about why men and women simply can't just settle the issues and get what it is they both seek. Simply because we don't appear to see the issues the same way. Damn! Is there any possible way that that GAP can be overcome and finally, men and women can approach things the same way, with the same thoughts?

And Kal? I have to agree with what you said. Ladies in a group often let their guard down and the topics of discussion would surprise most men!
 MacKevinized

Joined: 2/15/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 11:14:55 AM

Ladies in a group often let their guard down and the topics of discussion would surprise most men!]/quote]

I've heard them conversations and women trying to justify them by pointing out how men talk when women are not around.

No surprise to me and women are much more degrading than men.
They banned chipendale performances where I live cause it required too much police protection.
 COUNTRY364

Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 486
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Posted: 2/21/2008 12:09:04 PM
to me there is nothing(absolutely)greater in this world than sex with a woman that you are totally into,,that has experience,,confidence,,,,and yes the conversations that can happen when some of the girls have a get 2-gether(omg).
 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 12:13:31 PM

I've heard them conversations and women trying to justify them by pointing out how men talk when women are not around.

No surprise to me and women are much more degrading than men.


Mack? I cannot speak for all ladies but I have never tried to justify what I say by saying that men are worse. And to degrade men? Not when me and my gal pals get together. We speak openly and honestly about our sex drives/wants/needs. Never degrade men though. What would our (female) world be without these handsome fellows to keep it interesting???
 1stsignofspring

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 488
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:17:33 PM
Desertbro.......I believe that is one of the best post's I have read on this subject!
 Phoebe48

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:42:49 PM
Desert Bro.................

I'm another fan of your post!
 ankkka

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 4:09:23 PM
What was that funny?
Crazy and without any feelings preparing to have sex??
A man can be romantic too!!
 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 7:53:52 PM
Ankka darlin? I think you didn't get the meaning of what Bro posted. By God, I was shocked when he posted that to be quite honest. So right on the money and so eloquently explained! Life should be just that simple between the sexes!
 huayidi

Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2008 1:34:52 AM
believe u know,for male,experience mean more than"pure".
 annuddermale

Joined: 2/26/2006
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Posted: 2/23/2008 2:26:39 AM
Shoot, 'bro...now you blew our "let's be spontaneous" cover...

Annudder
 hootiesplace

Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 2/23/2008 7:16:19 AM
You guys are reviving my faith. I do have to admit that I don't even consider dating anyone under 30 just for these reasons. Outstanding!
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 maya caya

Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 495
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Posted: 2/23/2008 2:59:50 PM
I agree with ya 100%...sex is a lot better after 40...I've had the bex sex of my life after 40 ...couldn't get enough...my then b/f thought I was a nymphomaniac....lol...couldn't get enough of it until I started menopausing...then the rollercoater ride goes downhill....lol
 onceagain65

Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 496
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Posted: 2/23/2008 4:34:06 PM
From a mans perspective...

Women who are over 40 make the BEST lovers...BAR NONE!!!

And whoever said a man reaches his sexual peak at 18 must have died at 19
 cdn*guy

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 497
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Posted: 2/23/2008 4:48:10 PM
Once I notice that there is sex in a woman's mind (at any age), I do everything in my power to not harm that.

Nope ... this boy didn't just fall off the turnip truck. No Sirree.

cdn guy
 smartazzjohn

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 2/23/2008 4:54:24 PM
"Sex in the woman mind after 40."


I have found that after 40 minutes both the woman and myself need beverage, we may even enjoy a smoke as well, I'm not sure about what else is on her mind though.
 tmvg76

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 499
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Posted: 2/24/2008 5:51:12 AM
UglyOldJohn....I would have to say ROUND 2....lol...and yes, I'm over 40....and yes....it's so true WE just can't seem to get enough....lol...but, I've always Been that way.....
 writ7tin

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Posted: 2/24/2008 8:45:46 AM
Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can't sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can't sleep with the window open.
George Bernard Shaw
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