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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/19/2006 10:27:47 AM | | Do I think about sex......all the time! But it has to be after several dates and only with strong attraction. I read that for men sex is just an act, women associate it with love. What cha think? | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/19/2006 11:08:23 AM | | Ex workaholic who didn't take sex seriously within my 21 yr marriage. 2 years on from my split & I now understand where I went wrong & am enjoying learning how to put the wrong right but the desire to have a fulfilling compatible relationship is still more important than "simple" sex for me. Of course the desire to share quality intimacy is always there but it must be an enjoyable experience for both persons & to coin a phrase "Making Love tastes so much sweeter". | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/19/2006 11:17:59 AM |
I actually sat at my desk and fantasized myself into the unemployment office.
You're a funny man MULE.  | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/19/2006 7:42:08 PM | on the verge of 50 and the past 10 years I really got to know myself,sexually.Unfortunately my other half for 15 years decided to cheat on me with an X of his.SO the past year we've had sex 3 times and I can't get that feeling that I had just found with this man,one i never had before.Can it happen w/in me by seeing other men?i don't even know why we r still in the same house only that it works financially.what to do what to do   | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/19/2006 8:19:38 PM | | When I think about all the stuff I could have done in my 20's and 30's...I just didn't have the confidence in myself then that I do now...I can not believe how much my sex drive has gone into hyper drive in my 40's...I am still shy at first, but boy, once I get going, once a day is not enough! Thank god my ex-boyfriend thought it was of the utmost importance to please his partner...lol During my period I wanted to have sex 2-3 times a day, and thankfully, so did he! But unfortunately he wasn't around very much, so I"m starting all over...I hear ya on that squirming-in-your-seat stuff..glad I have a private office and can shut the door! | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/20/2006 12:20:58 AM | I work with men all day, like being in a chocolate shoppe and the chocolate is off limits, no samples allowed. Most of my customers are men, just bite my tongue and try not to drool. Want to squirm in my chair, can't, I'm up and down at my job too much, never sit for long.
I'm squirming by the time I get home. Must be a bad case of spring fever. | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/20/2006 6:28:16 AM | I like the comparison with chocolate shop ! 
I know this is a ladies topic (at least I guess so) but I was laughing aloud about have those squirming things...with my job (playing piano) can you imaging if I had the same ...feelings at work??  | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/20/2006 12:40:28 PM | | my subconscious mind is lookin after me....I've never dreampt like this before, such sensual, simple sweet little touches and things. Might be interesting to recreate...it is all in the mind, after all... | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/20/2006 8:38:01 PM | I am not sure if my lady thinks of it all the time but for years after the kids left home we had sex at least 2 times a day. As we get older it's down to about 5 times a week, she devolped diabities a few years ago and that has slowed her down a lot. I leaves me looking for the odd little bit extra at times. After the kids left home our sex did change a lot. She became very vocal while having sex and that really turns me on.
But yes I think many woman think of sex often, at least the sexy ones. | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/20/2006 8:50:03 PM | | I may be thinking of sex often....but it never crossed my mind to ever go outside the marriage for entertainment. | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/21/2006 9:06:32 AM | Nonsense.
Must have more than my share of estrogen/oestrogen then.
Wife is nice to me but has never once in 23 years made any romantic suggestions. When you get pushed away time and time again, or are made to feel 'dirty' or a 'pervert' you just become....dead in the middle. Anyone want a citalopram? | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/21/2006 9:09:45 AM | | If sex was a sin we wouldnt have a clitoris, and be able to orgasm alone. i love it and hope im having multiples till the day i die. We are told by our parents that boys will do anything and say anything to get it and if anyone ever touches you there you tell me staight away and police are involved its a huge scam and nice girls dont do it. It takes years to undo all the phsycillogical dammage and be really comfortable with our sexuallity so i guess it just takes longer for us women. The s l u t word is also a turn off invented by some jelous man i guess to keep women in line. | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/21/2006 10:20:25 AM | Sex is like pizza..when it's good, it's very good and when it's bad, it is still pretty good. LOL love that bumper sticker. | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/21/2006 11:48:58 AM | I"ve always had a high libido but after 40 it was even more so. I just haven't found the right guy to have that awesome sex with...
I believe many women have to have feelings to have sex but men just look at it as the act.
I'll just have to rely on my battery operated friend till I find "the one" | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/25/2006 4:28:26 PM |
I’ve always wondered is how a woman can just shut it off and go without sex for so long. I mean no toys, not long showers, no playing of any kind… how do you all do that??
I've never heard anything like that . . . Who the hell says we do that!!? | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:24:38 PM | | LADYS I GIVE UP ...WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU MADE THE FRIST MOVE ON A DATE.. I FAIL E.S.P. IN SCHOOL... | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:30:34 PM | | I think I have been reborn since my divorce. Experienced the best this year. But, I'm looking for what The Tactile Guy mentioned. A compatible relationship that will include quality intimacy and be an enjoyable experience for both of us. If we're compatible, it will surely be fireworks! | |
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| Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:58:10 PM | | I may be wrong but I think OP meant, if was on the MIND after 40 and not necessarily in a relationship. Heck yes! We are not dead lol | |
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