| | Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?Page 10 of 43 (3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43) | | Not 35 yet......but no thanks to marriage for me.I highly doubt I'll be looking for it after 35 either. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/31/2007 11:25:55 PM | | I would love to find someone I am atracted to and very special to get married to. My luck is that no one wants to even talk to me to get to know me much less have a relationship with me. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/1/2007 3:51:53 PM | | I'M 41 and I am actually looking for a long term relationship that hopefully will lead to marriage . I have never been married before and I have no children . I have a great career in aviation and I cant get one lady on this website to give me the time of day . I am no quitter so I will keep waiting someone must want a corporate pilot who earns a nice living and has lots to offer . | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:23:36 AM | We all date until we are ready to settle down... for me (at 37) I am ready to get married but I have dated women who were ready in the first week and that is just odd to me... but what the hell do I know?
I know enough to know that I know nothing at all! | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/1/2007 2:45:52 AM | | Do men want to get married when there over thirty five ,ive just reached forty ,do I want to get married? yes I think so, but the question is do women want to marry a bloke over thirty five? let me know | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/1/2007 6:24:45 AM | | I am 47, and I am seriously interested in a long term relationship and would not mind it leading to a marriage. As for sleeping with someone until something better comes along, I am a Christian and honestly do not believe in nor participate in premarital sex. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/1/2007 10:40:04 AM | OP
In my case I look at it this way. I have never been married, no kids etc. I've waited this long to find "the one" so at this point I'm not willing to settle. I do know the type of woman I want and I figure she is either out there or I will just stay single for life.
Do I really want someone in my life? Yes I do, I would love to have that soul mate that I know is the one, but if not then we all have to face that not everyone is meant to, nor will find that one person. We have to at least all accept that single life may just be what is meant to be for us if it comes to that.
Marriage: You have someone to love, to share to do things with. Someone to stand by you through thick and thin and be a support through the ups and downs. You also have the stress of compromise in a marriage, how will we do this and that to the house etc. Where will this money be spent and so on.
Single Life: Your alone, no one to stand by you as a mate. To love and hold you. You don't have to compromise anything, you can paint your house, do what you want went you want.
Each has it's good and bad points. In the end no matter if I'm single for life or find that one that I'm waiting for, I'm going to make the very best of my situation and just be as happy as I can. I won't stop making a effort, but the older I get the more I wonder, am I really meant to find someone? Or is single life what is meant to be. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/1/2007 3:43:45 PM | I just can speak for myself and i see not ONE reason for marriage in these days.
Its all about the women who want to be in the safe haven of marriage.
I guess 90% of the males wouldn't marry ...
And take a look around, you see divorces EVERYWHERE here, why can't you just wait at least a year or more (living together) and test if it works out in a daily test of live?
I think the most ladies want to get married because 'all of the other girlfriend are married already' PANIC!
So go and get the last good man ! ---  | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/1/2007 5:42:32 PM | Absolutely - Yes - would like to find a wife. But, I 'm not looking for someone to 'run' my life - I know how to do that.
Seeking a 'companion' - an equal - not a boss, not a director - not a list maker - rather a woman who wishes to be a trusted partner in an adventure.
I haven't found many women that meet that description on POF.
If you don't 'need' a man - then I don't need you.
JoeBob | |
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GEOSC
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Msg: 236 | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/3/2007 4:04:04 PM | Definitely. I would get married again to the right lady. I don't understand why people choose to be so bitter and jaded. That's no way to live your life.
Marriage is hard.
I don't know of a good thing that isn't.
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/4/2007 6:54:31 PM | | I am actually looking for a long term relationship that could possibly lead to marriage in the future. I want to get married and I know most guys on this site probably don't. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/5/2007 8:28:29 AM | absolutely, that's why I'm here. Just another way to hopefully find a woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I even want kids to, but if I hit 40 and haven't had any yet I'll get snipped. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/7/2007 6:48:22 PM |
msg 19
leafchick(d1450267) on 5/10/2006 11 54 PM
One question for you: Then why do I have so many female friends on online dating sites telling me a different story. Seems of the 8 of us... all met men that were looking for long term and yet all they wanted was "SEX".
THIS IS SO TRUE!!!!!!! VERY TRUE!!!! | |
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pickly
| | Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 245 | |
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pickly
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Msg: 246 | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/8/2007 6:52:18 AM | | I think you can't "generalize" because everyone's situation is different. For me I'm at a stage where it's more important to concentrate on my daughters interests and goals not to mention getting my business established. As priorities change, so does your outlook on where you are and where you want to be in your own personal life. | |
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capreo
| | Joined: 5/3/2007
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/8/2007 7:02:09 PM | | I'm sure that there a lot of us on here who would love to find the one that we could graciously call our wife. But of course the woman needs to be of wife material, what I mean is she can't be a lady who's free time consists of being on the computer 23 out of 24 hours a day, must have a job, must not have 4 baby's daddies and want more than something to do. By the way this is just my opinion. † G O D † bless | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/9/2007 12:48:50 PM | | I just turned forty last year. I had been married for eight years. I would be looking to get married again. The lessons learned from the first marriage will hopefully be enlightening in choosing the next relationship. I certainly have a better grasp of what to look for. I've never been one for the bar scene or chain dating. I would like to find someone special to settle down with and make a future together. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/9/2007 12:50:58 PM | Hey Leafchick
I run into exactly the same thing with women
Yes I am looking for the happily ever after
Yes I'd like someone to wake up next to every day, and see their smile
We are out there....Keep the faith
Alan | |
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