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 SuperFunGuy
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 676
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Yes, point me in the right direction. I'm just tired of hearing all the bs and complaining.

Meeting women is simple, meeting to right one that is comptiable and with great chemistry, it's not as easy as it seems.. I know this, because this is what I'm dealing with at the moment.
 fisher459
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 677
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/10/2009 8:25:55 PM
Not over 35 just yet, but I am looking to settle down with someone. It's a long and occasionally frustrating process, but with the right person, totally worth it. :)
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 678
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/10/2009 11:10:00 PM
Um nope. Keep moving along. I didnt get to be single this long to have a marriage ruin a perfectly good record.
 tony02864
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 679
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/11/2009 1:51:35 PM
I'm really not... I've been married twice and can't imagine doing it again. I long-term relationship (even one that lastest "forever") would be great, but I think marriage itself isn't really beneficial to a relationship. Then again, if I fall head over heels for someone I just might change my mind...
 UncommonAnt
Joined: 11/28/2004
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/11/2009 4:24:17 PM
I am but no success so far. Still hopeful though. At least in my singleness I am not with somebody that I would rather not be.


Happy Holidays,
Anthony
 mp3_714
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 681
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/12/2009 9:43:47 PM
As far as I'm concerned marriage is overrated. I don't understand why so many women want to get married.
 Unfold
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 682
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/12/2009 10:36:54 PM
I am 36 years old and have never been married. Do I want to? Yes!

I do want to eventually find that special someone who is perfectly imperfect for me and build something everlasting together!

I think my waiting a lil later in life to marry will work to my advantage because I intend to honor my vows and my wife... something I would have probably failed at in my 20's.

Future Wife... if you are out there don’t wait too much longer honey... let’s get this eternal love affair started! ; )

 throughthefire
Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 683
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/12/2009 11:53:41 PM
After about 20 years of failed relationships, I'm inclined to say I am not seriously looking to get married. However, I might get married without seriously looking for it. The thing is that legal marriages scare me to hell, but a religious/spiritual ceremony might be the way to lock me in.
 twirpy
Joined: 5/3/2008
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/16/2009 7:57:56 PM
Its all I've ever wanted for as long as I can remember. Doesn't really matter anymore.
 lascondes
Joined: 5/9/2007
Msg: 685
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/17/2009 8:55:03 PM
dam right i,d love to get married again, meet a lovely woman start a new life, unfortunately financialy it would be really difficult as i havnt finished paying for the first time around but i live in hope
 lookingtofindsoulmate
Joined: 12/4/2009
Msg: 686
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/18/2009 3:44:09 AM
I am 38 and I am Looking for My Soul Mate.

When I find her or when She finds Me I would Get Married that Day.
Because once we find each other we will be like two magnets stuck together.
I wish I could find her kiss her, Love her and Never Leave her.
I was made by God to be a Great Husband and a Great Father. I am Lost without being a Husband....

Any Help finding My Soul Mate would be appreciated ....

Thanks

Jeffrey
 EmotionallyDetached
Joined: 10/28/2009
Msg: 687
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/24/2009 8:19:06 AM
Seeing this post from 2006 leads me to believe that the OP has found a man over 35 that was serious.

Anyhoo, that is a chance you take when you put all your eggs into one basket and jump into the fast lane towards the altar instead of a veeeerrrrryyyyy slow trip down the aisle. Because a man said it, doesn't necessarily mean that it is true.
 KennySmiles
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 688
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/25/2009 1:48:46 PM
I'm one, but ONLY to the right LADY.
 bsp71
Joined: 11/18/2009
Msg: 689
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/26/2009 9:49:08 AM
I always leave the possibility open to a long term relationship or marriage. However, I have zero expectations about it.
 Genuine24/7
Joined: 12/19/2009
Msg: 690
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/26/2009 11:03:12 AM
I've never been married, but would love to be married some day. I think the differece that you are seeing now in more mature men. Is that we take alot more into consideration. As young men. We were thinking "Oh she's hot, she's fun. I think I could live with her." Notice that "for the rest of my life" part was left out! Now we are thinking or maybe I'm speaking for myself here. I am only going to get married once. There is no ifs ands or buts about this. I will not leave and I will do every thing that is humanly possible to make sure that my wife knows that she is loved and wanted as my partner in life. So with that in mind. I look very carefully and take my time. I know that I am not perfect. I don't expect her to be perfect, but I do expect certain things to be there just like women have their list of things that guys have to have.
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/27/2009 3:31:50 PM
I'm not looking at the moment, but if the right girl came along, you just never know.


Actually, I would know.


 ProDreamer
Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 692
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/28/2009 9:14:34 AM
Heh! This thread should me merged with this one:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13557744.aspx

 johninsd
Joined: 3/2/2009
Msg: 693
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/28/2009 7:53:14 PM

MEN .... I'm just curious! Are any of you on here SERIOUSLY looking for a long term relationship with hopes of it leading to marriage?


I'll say yes.

Not that marriage is a specific goal, or a box to be checked off. It would be nice to meet someone that I'd want to spend the rest of my life with. But I am looking for long-term relationships. I don't do well with the dating game.
 dollparts1980
Joined: 12/22/2009
Msg: 694
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/29/2009 3:38:15 PM
Chicks might think that seven years is long term Men do not." OMG you can not be serious !
You know oneday your gonna get old and lil johnny aint gonna work no more


This site proves to me it is useless and so are the men that are on here with expectations like these...you want to get laid here are some great sites for you .... sex search adult friend finder im sure you can have plenty of meaning less sex to comfort you till well ya just cant get it up no more... why waste your time with a dating website this mesage is for all the dogs on craigslist !!!!!!!!!!!!
 ladyhuntress
Joined: 9/24/2009
Msg: 695
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/29/2009 3:45:09 PM

More accurrately they are NOT looking for a seven year marriage to some shallow chick who dumps them and takes them to the cleaners and leave them destitiute.

Chicks might think that seven years is long term Men do not.


I interpreted what Sparicuss said on the 5/10/2006 as
"Men want relationships that last longer than seven years."

Of course, I don't always dance to the right beat, either.....I wish Sparticuss was here to clarify......

I'd like to know if Leafchick found her man?
 blackcat25
Joined: 10/1/2009
Msg: 696
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 1/1/2010 4:30:07 PM
Why would you go on a date with someone you hardly know, thinking of marriage? You need to find that special someone before you can even dream of it...
 SexyKG74
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 1/1/2010 5:17:31 PM
SuperFunGuy said "Meeting women is simple, meeting to right one that is compatible and with great chemistry, it's not as easy as it seems.. I know this, because this is what I'm dealing with at the moment."

EXACTLY! Next week, I'm turning 36 ...never married/no children. I've probably had at least a dozen people ask me "don't you want to get married!?!" As if the reason why I'm not is because I don't want to...not true.

I'm looking forward to meeting my soulmate...someone I can laugh with, cry with, do A LOT of naughty things with...someone who I can't imagine experiencing ANYTHING, whether good or bad, without him...I want us to share common interests, goals, and be mutually attracted to each other.

When the time comes, I want to be "Mrs.(Fill in the blank)" forever...I'm fully aware we will go through both good times and bad...but I want to be in love with him so much that I'm willing to take that journey with him...and I want him to feel the same about me.
 rayt38
Joined: 12/23/2009
Msg: 698
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 1/2/2010 8:47:57 AM
I know I am waiting for the right one sure I meet a few here and there but none of them where right for me.

The chemistry has to right and the emotions with it.

I was married once and it fell through after ten years.

I still would like to have a child or children but the right thing has to happen.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 699
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 1/2/2010 8:57:31 AM
Yep, thats what I want, but in the meantime if I date someone, but it hasn't got to that point and we enjoy sex, its because we both want to, and don't feel we have to be married to enjoy that.

In fact I don't like the guys have to be the initiator role either, most have made the first move with me.

"Try to sleep with someone"? I prefer it be we both want that, in fact thats the only way I will have it.

lol, now women have been known to have a relationship, but be on the look for something better too you know...
 paul_spacecoast
Joined: 12/30/2009
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 1/3/2010 2:40:48 AM
The whole premise of this question strikes me as out of touch. As far as I can tell, single women in our age range are thrilled to death to be single (usually after a leaving a long relationship). They are generally jaded and mistrustful of men (with good reason, I suppose, since in most cases it was infidelity by their partner that led to the end of their relationship). They seem to have no interest in being in a serious relationship, much less getting married. I would have married my last gf, and I told her so, but she was recently divorced and unwilling to even entertain the idea of marrying again. Most single women that I know seem to feel the same way. I know several guys who would like to find a nice girl and get married, and I have been looking myself for a long time. But it seems like all the women that want to be in a relationship are already in one, and those that are not in a relationship are not in a relationship *by choice* and have an attitude of "never again." Very frustrating....
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