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 Buyer37
Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 776
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I'll bite,,, I was married too young, but I certainly would marry someone if she was a wonderful woman who was my partner, I learned alot from that experience. I mean guys, don't make a lady wait more than 2-3 years. If she is really good for you, that is the one you want in your corner.

Ladies, don't push us...I think the perfect balance is serious discussion about it after a year of solid foundation and if you are both serious about each other, its the next logical step. But remember, marriage is only a piece of paper, the truth is, if you are not each other's best friends and work at making each other happy then want is the point. A good relationship is a labour of love, but it must go both ways.

Cheers..
 snowman2
Joined: 6/16/2011
Msg: 777
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/10/2011 3:33:13 PM
i am a 36 year old man that means it when i say i'm looking for a longterm relationship leading to marriage, i think its really when in your twenties that its not that serious but is when you are in your mid thirties
 perdurabo76
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 778
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/11/2011 3:05:29 AM
Let's face it as we get older we are not so much desired any more so I think we are less in demand when we are in our 30's. I have noticed myself over the last few years.
 WynsHeart
Joined: 12/11/2010
Msg: 779
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/18/2011 1:45:32 PM
I'm not a guy...lol. However, I'm 39 & although marriage is nice it's not the be all & end all of my existence. Wanting someone to grow older with, share lifes sorrows, joys, & madness with.........Now that's the be all & end all. Mahahahahahaa!
My parents divorced when I was 2. My grandparents are still together after 64 yrs of marriage. That's what I'm looking for. Of course that will make me about 104 yrs old & I'm pretty sure I'm not gonna be living that long.
 mncxBlly
Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 780
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/18/2011 6:19:23 PM
I am 35. If I ever find a woman that the chemistry is perfect with I will definatly get married. I was marrried for 5 years when I was 20-25. I have learned what love is and It definatly takes a true commitment from both sides. If I do not feel spiritually connected to the "one for me" then I will never marry again.
 Diancarock1976
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 781
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/19/2011 1:59:53 AM
I'm not a man, and I'm really starting to wonder this myself. I think marriage is a beautiful thing when you're truly in love, but I also think that it's not everyone's picket fence dream. I want a man who makes me feel alive and beautiful again, one who is career motivated and pretty much where he should be, or at least knows where he's going at 35. I want to travel and live life, if marriage is the result of that, that's beautiful, if not, that's cool too. I'll take companionship that I crave over marriage at this stage in my life!!!!
 EMunchy2010
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 782
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/22/2011 5:32:30 PM
MArriage is something that could happen after a short-term relationship. You can't gauge the length of time with you partner but only the relationship you two have.
If your not ready... your just not ready or not with the right person.
 confident66
Joined: 8/5/2010
Msg: 783
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Posted: 7/22/2011 10:04:20 PM
I have to agree with sparticuss, I was with a woman who was everything to me only to have her jump into another relationship and end are marrige,the effects of this are very damaging , to my boys and me, now I would like a long term relationship, and thats what it would be,I am not going to judge my next partner from my past partner, but the risks for men are very high, because the legal system says that everyone is equal, but the truth is ,its not,and you will find that any good man that has had to endure this will want to take his time.
 flh83
Joined: 12/17/2010
Msg: 784
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/25/2011 6:02:36 PM
Well I am 42 and would like to find a special someone that I want to marry. However I find that women are so overly eager to get married they really don't give me enough time to get to know them. Most are just looking for a man to pay the bills. It seems to me that women are looking for Mr. right now and they don't put much thought past that. I don't wish to settle for just someone that I can live with, I want the one I can't live without. Also so many women say in their adds they don't want one night stands humm all they seem to want is a one night stand from me and that's not what I am after. However women use sex to get what they want .
 Easygoin68a
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 785
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/25/2011 7:08:51 PM
Yes, no, and maybe:)

At 42 - I am not planning or looking for a specific thing, or item - unless it is my truck keys (which i misplace often). I enjoyed being married, and would not be opposed to getting married again, when the right one comes along. However - I am not into sleeping around, or dating more than one person - my head would explode:)

 mikenftwtx
Joined: 1/2/2011
Msg: 786
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/29/2011 9:42:43 PM
Well i ve never been married. But one day i would.. But also im wanna make sure im marrying the right person for all the right reasons. So im not trying to rush into marriage.. Im sure one the few guys..
 allreadyythen69s
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 787
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/29/2011 11:47:08 PM
WELL ALL I CAN SAY IS DIIGY HAS TO SPEAK FOR HERSELF CAUSE THAT AINT ME BEEN BURNNED ECT JUST LIKE YOU ALL ANY WAYZ HIYAS IM TIM IN MISSOULA AND SOME TIMES YOU NEED TO BE FRIENDS FIRST HIT ME UP 880-2503 IM IN MISSOULA HAVE A GREAT NIGHT
 allreadyythen69s
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 788
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 7/29/2011 11:49:50 PM
WELL RIGHT OFF THE GET I CAN SAY YOU DONT LIVE N cA. CAUSE REALLY A WOMAN SCORNED GETS HALF THERE SHIT WELLL SO TO SPEAK NOT TRYIN TO BE VOULGER AT ALL PEACE I LOVE TO EVERYONE LETS LOVE NOT HATE!!
 tallkind
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 789
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/16/2011 9:41:08 AM
Yes I definatly am going to get married again. I just have to find her!
 11hellohello
Joined: 6/16/2011
Msg: 790
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/17/2011 9:28:20 AM
32 anda I'm ready to settle down.
 Tinfang
Joined: 8/7/2011
Msg: 791
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/17/2011 1:55:06 PM
^ OK that was pretty funny. "Brother Husband" rofl.
 sportsgirl7700
Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 792
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/17/2011 6:53:51 PM
It is always important to remember that there is no expiration date on life! With that being said, I think the 30's are a good time to seriously think about marriage and to get married. Men in their 30's start to realize that play time may be ending and that it is (depending on the person), time to get serious...not that marriage isn't any fun or anything ;)
 bravehart64
Joined: 6/3/2009
Msg: 793
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/21/2011 11:50:22 AM
Why ? I dont want kids so what would be the purpose ?

Inheritance ? Insurance then maybe sure ..
 120121
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 794
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/21/2011 3:14:48 PM
Absolutely. I am only look for a long lasting relationship and nothing else.
If I find a right girl, I will take care of her till my death.
Regards, Vlad.
 JWS1974
Joined: 5/17/2010
Msg: 795
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/24/2011 12:19:54 AM
I doubt I am alone in discovering in the 30's that life doesn't cease if we don't get married and have kids. The sky is just as bright, food tastes the same. Now what I think about is, "Do I really want to alter my lifestyle and marry someone?". If she improved my life, sure. It seems that my trend is to find the ones that want to change me.
 bamaslim22
Joined: 4/8/2011
Msg: 796
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/25/2011 12:50:19 PM
I know I'm different than alot of guys in that I'm not looking for someone to get in my bed. I'm around beautiful women all day, I'm a hairstylist,and finding someone to sleep with is not hard to do but I know that after you sleep with someone, things change, they just do. Sometimes for good , sometimes not. I liked being married and I'm not scared to do it again but I'm not in a hurry either but if the SHE came along. I wouldn't run. I'm not on this site to date alot of women rather to find that woman. She's out there......someplace. Just my 2 cents
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 797
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/28/2011 11:41:47 AM
I'm looking for a Serious Relationship...with the *Potential*
for marriage...
If the absolute Perfect Lady just happened to Fall-in-my-Lap...
I'd marry her In a Minute..!!
...and I _Have_ seen a few like that...B U T...
it's always the Same - old - Story . . . .
It's either 'You're Too Old!' . . or . . 'You're too far away!'
Jeeez! I hate that 'Distance' dodge..!!
 thesingingarc
Joined: 6/28/2011
Msg: 798
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 8/29/2011 1:46:38 AM
I would get married again, for the right woman. It would have to be HER asking ME though. I did the other way.. I got 2 gorgeous kids and a psychotic and OCD wife into the bargain.

I say bargain....
 Frankc3015
Joined: 9/4/2011
Msg: 799
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Posted: 9/8/2011 10:04:15 AM
Yes I would marry but first I would ask myself what does she got to offer, sex is no longer enough like when I was a horndog in my 20's I got married thinking I was going to have sex everyday .... boy was I wrong Most women over 30 either have kids, divorce with lots of issues.... why would I want that when I got lots to offer got a career, home to call my own my finacial situation is sound This is a no Brainer I think with the right Head now
 Contince
Joined: 11/1/2010
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Posted: 9/8/2011 10:42:32 AM
yess thear r quite a feww men looking for a long trem ///i happen to b one of them but so far i cant even get a first date let alone a long trem lady love im begaing to think that its going to be a long hard road in finding a sweetheart it seems every time i start chating with someone after a few days they say sorry your just not my type 100 percent of the time so whats a guy like me to do (giveUp and Move to a uncharted place ? i do have a job and a car abnd a place i call home but i guess its not enught to have that ontince
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