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 Jaimes004
Joined: 8/18/2011
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 ssp1974
Joined: 8/22/2011
Msg: 802
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/8/2011 8:15:37 PM
Yeah,i would love to get married-have wanted to be married for years,been very close twice,but they both fell through,but i can still dream that one day mabe my luck will change................................
 Detectorman1976
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 803
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/12/2011 6:54:15 PM
Its an institution that is quickly fading in in society, therefore its becoming obsolete. Yes for some people it works and possibly serves it purpose whatever that is?..I don't believe in it any more...Any two people can get together and be in Love without Marriage... Its so easy for people to use it as an excuse to try to keep someone in a relationship, doing it just to feel more secure, or using it for approval of others.

Marriage these days is typically about the day it happens, not the years that it should be happening anyways..

Forget marriage, If I can just be in Love I am fine without it.

Nuff said

LRY
 donlw
Joined: 9/9/2010
Msg: 804
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/12/2011 8:43:13 PM
I think there are. i am one of them who think if i find the right woman i would do it again but i do believe men over 35 (me) have probably been burned or at very least they have more experiance and proceed more cautously , because we dont wanna repeat the mistakes of the past.
 u4me123
Joined: 8/23/2011
Msg: 805
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/13/2011 12:39:19 AM
ill marry ya leaf chick
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
Msg: 806
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Posted: 9/14/2011 7:05:21 AM
yes but looking for woman who when say them words mean it/important commitment.think relationships to day to much expectations.biggest cause divorce in women is boredom(uk).no body works/sticks with it relationships have become disposable/instant
 gym72
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 807
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/14/2011 7:38:07 PM
Well then they mislead you, I myself want a lady who I can experience life with last time I looked growing older you really start to see how much time is wasted........
 debeer
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 808
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/14/2011 11:33:17 PM
Guy know this answer clearly. Men and relationships happen when the man is ready. Is there an age, not really. A man will wake up one day and be ready. Yes many men are looking to get married at all ages. There are players on both sides of the field, but I think more than not lots of men are looking for the real deal especially over 35. It's unfair but women place upon them selves stress to get married at a young age, men don't really worry about it, so there are more men I think than women that have been waiting for the right one to meet for that life long commitment of marriage. I'd think the men that aren't dating are the ones that would want to be married, but relationships aren't their focus yet. You'd be surprised how many men focus on careers to find them selves in their 40s very single missing out on the dating world. The men that are and have been dating heavy for many many years, their probably not in my opinion seriously interested in marriage now or maybe ever. Fear not, there are many marriage seeking men out there, the problem is, their single because they don't know where or how to find their equal. And lots of people who are relationship committed go separate ways after years, happens, they are looking for commitment over again.
 lonelyjack51
Joined: 8/26/2011
Msg: 809
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Posted: 9/20/2011 9:39:57 PM
me i hope to meet someone to marry.lonelyjack51
 dutchozzie
Joined: 1/24/2010
Msg: 810
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Posted: 9/21/2011 9:11:31 PM
Easy, just tell them they have to make the first move or state it on your profile?
 benjaminbutton1
Joined: 9/15/2010
Msg: 811
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 9/23/2011 2:34:21 AM
its not about getting married anymore it is about how well you can stay around and be there for each other. so the answer to your question is NO big fat NO.
 Eryx_UK
Joined: 2/24/2007
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Posted: 9/23/2011 2:28:34 PM

MEN .... I'm just curious! Are any of you on here SERIOUSLY looking for a long term relationship with hopes of it leading to marriage?


Absolutely. I really want to meet a wonderful young lady and hopefully hit it off, settle down, have a family and do the happy every after bit.
 jkdjm
Joined: 9/4/2011
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Posted: 9/25/2011 4:18:56 PM
with the divorce rate so high in the U.S., it kind of worries me that i might be in that predicament down the line. so i don't see myself getting married anytime soon.
 Sam-ok
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 814
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Posted: 9/25/2011 6:36:09 PM
Sure, but offshore to the six Maylasian Brides I picked out in the catalog.
 mrboomboom2001
Joined: 9/21/2011
Msg: 815
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Posted: 9/26/2011 8:19:26 PM
We are out there, but most of us learned a very expensive lesson, and it starts with a D, so when you meet a man that is single , and act the way you says. thats caution. And the rest of the men , well you just met a player. keep a eye out for the uniform.
 gymbob70
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 816
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Posted: 10/7/2011 5:39:16 AM
i was seriosly looking to settle down when i was 36
but now after a few relatoinships having tried the family life
its not what i want it doesnt bother me being on my own at all
im not a player i just take each day as it comes really
 TheWonderingGuy
Joined: 4/30/2011
Msg: 817
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Posted: 10/8/2011 10:20:36 PM
If I met a girl who was willing to put in on the line and commit then I'd consider it. Most of the ones I've met have these really pie-in-the-sky ideas about marriage and children though. To be a teenager and think that way great, that's what being young is all about but to feel that way at age 28?
 60to70
Joined: 7/28/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2011 1:04:18 AM
Oh my goodness..marriage is the best thing for any man, anywhere. I am so up in the age game and I KNOW that marriage is good for me (female) and him (male) thirty six years later. What matters is what his father commented on....be prepared to commit. Otherwise, forget it. If you do not agree with monogamy...just forget the tribulations. If you agree...go for it....otherwise....prepare yourself with one or two or three or four, etc lifetime relationships. All of these relationships must add up to the same thing...boredom equals nothing. Just more of the same.
 R.Ayala
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 819
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Posted: 10/11/2011 2:30:19 AM
Man if its one thing i cant stand is a women trying to say what a man will do or thinks !!!! if you were so savy what are you doing here?????????????????? Its like a man trying to say what a woman would say!!! we are all different and there are some good and some not so good but to be happy you have to take a risk!!!!!!!!! you have everything to gain and the only loss is a new lesson in life ,i will take my chances!!!! Oh and by the way i am 37 and heck mutha freakin yes i want to get married and hopefully i will find her here,not her's but her (singular,just one girl)! and this is addressed to the female who posted right before me,sorry folks it just rattles my cage.good night all
 2203debbie
Joined: 9/8/2011
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Posted: 10/11/2011 3:52:26 AM
try nine years then they say ,, umm its hard work to be a dad and a full time father ,, what a joke
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 821
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Posted: 10/11/2011 5:53:23 AM
Not Instantaniously, for sure...but possible...
It's ~One Step at a Time~ for me...
I'm not big on a whole long string of dates...just to ~Play the Field~...
I'd be ecstatic to find a Terrific Lady on my very next date...
One who is capable of sharing and building the same as I will...
to a loving LTR !!
We can discuss marriage when it's appropriate !
 BenmH
Joined: 9/27/2011
Msg: 823
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Posted: 10/14/2011 3:02:37 PM
I've never been married and don't have any children.
I do seriously want to get married , but I have yet to meet her.
Maybe i'm too picky but I have never felt like any of the women I've been with would last, and they didn't. So my gut has been right.
I believe I will know if she's the ONE (if the time comes) without a doubt in my mind.




 Technopunk
Joined: 9/13/2011
Msg: 824
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 10/16/2011 12:56:48 AM
Hell no!! Why would i want to do something stupid like that? What is the big deal about getting married unless of course you're extremely religious? Does it change how you feel about each other? Does it make your relationship any more real or valid? People say its a sign of commitment, but shouldn't you have already commited to the relationship long before the marriage anyway? Its just social brain washing
 meowsaidthetigress
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 825
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Posted: 10/16/2011 5:47:02 AM
Its not for me either. I dont see the point now at my age more than ever.
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