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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 12/10/2011 9:31:19 PM | I think it goes both ways...
Most have been married and don't wish to make an other costly mistake.
I myself have never been married and would love to, I find living together without the paper just as good. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/11/2012 6:32:20 PM | " I like women, why wouldn't I want to be with one forever? Home cooked meals and constant sex? Hell yeah sign me up."
That's the bait to get you to sign up. Then the unfortunate switch happens along with 50 extra pounds.  | |
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Posted: 2/12/2012 5:43:48 PM | | Having reached my current age, I doubt I will ever marry. Women ruin marriages by changing as soon as they get what they want. You give them the house, the kids, and an easy life, they repay you by stopping the fun stuff. They can't help it, it's how they're programmed. Once they have created a successful family unit, nature tells them to settle for that and simply nurture their young. However, modern society, monogamy and social/religious pressures have created a situation where males are supposed to hang about after procreation, and women aren't programmed to deal with that. Sure, modern trapping like a mans additional income and having a slave are convenient for them, but to have to make some effort to appease his labours is beyond a lot of women. When (and that is a definite) my current relationship disintegrates, I'll only have casual affairs with women, and when I reach an age where I can't attract them any more, I'll buy a Thai or East European one to make me happy until they don't need me for their visa application any more. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/12/2012 6:53:51 PM | | A vialable option Mr. Itchybum, regarding the mail order bride. I've heard many good things about the program and non-Americanized foreign women in general. I say, why wait till you're old? | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/17/2012 12:05:04 PM | | I am trying to find a special lady. Right now, I am getting nowhere. I can not even get a date. There are times when I wonder if I will be looking at getting into my silver years alone. IMO, it seems that if you are not seriously rich, famous, or own a top notch in car then you are not good enough. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/18/2012 6:51:10 AM | Time enough for love is a book covers several periods from the life of Lazarus Long (birth name: Woodrow Wilson Smith), the oldest living human, now more than two thousand years old.
I always thought that would give me just enough time to know how to really live and love. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/18/2012 7:41:34 AM | This post is alive again! wow!
Well, I might have posted on here in the past (I did not look --there's too many to comb through).
But since time has passed, I have now grown comfy in the mode of not looking to get married.
It's not the be all and end all of my life.
If it comes, then well and good. I can probably be a joy to someone.
But I am no longer worried about it. If it happens, it happens.
I am determined to be happy and fulfilled either way.
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/19/2012 11:45:52 PM | | If a man is still single at the age of 35, never been engaged, divorced, or long term relationship I would suggest you look at him sideways because he is broken. Furthermore, you would have to determine whether you think he is worth fixing. Do you agree that it applies to women as well? | |
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Posted: 2/20/2012 3:11:08 AM | just my 2 cents... I think women have way too many options today. I have a lot of female friends on pof and other dating sites. They dont take the time to get to know any of the men. They do not have to read profiles, they just pick and choose from the best looking guys that email them. Every woman I know on pof gets 10 to 50 emails a day. And they pick and choose from the emails they get based on pictures. Where guys on the other hand have to put forth all the effort. We have to read profiles, look at pictures, and decide who is our best match even though if we only email those we are good match for, more often than not, our efforts are met with a "unread deleted" because we dont have pictures that make us look like hugh jackman. :(
Crappy as it is. I would like to meet ONE woman that doesnt multi-date and "keep her options open". Its gotten to a point that good guys like myself have just given up when it comes to online dating. We are flat out tired of having to compete with the other 5 or 10 guys you have on the line.
A lot of us "good guys" want to get married again and share our life with someone but women today are just too picky. They want a perfect body, a perfect mind, someone that will tell them exactly what they want to hear. They want a man with money, and a "career", status... bla bla bla...
To answer your question, yes, there are plenty of good guys out there that want to get married and settle down but I really doubt you would give any of those men a chance because they dont fit into what you find attractive. | |
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Posted: 2/20/2012 3:27:37 AM | face it guys, this is what we compete against..
Do you smoke? well if you do, you are screwed
Are you under 6' tall? if so you are screwed
Do you have kids? Double screwed
Make less that $100k a year? Triple screwed
Overweight? Definately screwed
Skinny? Totally screwed
Own an old car instead of a nice fancy sports car? Screwed
Ask a woman you just met to go dutch, ABSOLUTELY SCREWED!!!
simple point is for every decent looking woman online, there is like 50 decent looking horny guys with money, that dont have kids and go to the gym 5 days a week on pof. The average joe like myself has NO CHANCE what so ever finding a decent woman on an online dating site.... Us guys need to take our balls back and get out in the world and meet women at some adult cooking classes or something... Find someone we have something in common with versus wasting our time on these online dating sites... | |
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Posted: 2/21/2012 1:56:43 PM | I'm sorry you’re so jaded! I'm sure you will meet someone when you’re not looking! It will just happen. Some however not all of what you said is true. Personally for me I have so many men who are ten plus years older than myself or live a hundred miles away....I'm sorry but I'm not interested in a long distance relationship. I'm not interested also if you can't support yourself.....Yes, granted the gym rats are nice to look at but they spend most of their free time at the gym and not with their ladies!
I just ask for my man to be taller than myself, is that too much?
Anyways, I would like to just meet some normal men who live close to me........I don't think I'm asking too much am I? | |
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Posted: 2/21/2012 2:37:22 PM | Make less that $100k a year? Triple screwed
Own an old car instead of a nice fancy sports car? Screwed
A lot of us "good guys" want to get married again and share our life with someone but women today are just too picky. They want a perfect body, a perfect mind, someone that will tell them exactly what they want to hear. They want a man with money, and a "career", status... bla bla bla...
To answer your question, yes, there are plenty of good guys out there that want to get married and settle down but I really doubt you would give any of those men a chance because they dont fit into what you find attractive
AMEN!Everything you posted is backed up by expert oinion and researchers. Men are behind the 8 ball in the US, especially online! Men outnumber woman by 20% in most cities in the US, and online its triple that imbalance. MOST (like 75%)US woman's demands and expectations are out of control. They are never happy, they initiate divorce 70% of the time. DO the research.
Us guys need to take our balls back and get out in the world and meet women at some adult cooking classes or something... Find someone we have something in common with versus wasting our time on these online dating sites...
Or take your search abroad, its FAR EASIER than you guys think. Video Chat (for free with today's technologies)for 3-6 months, spend $1,000 to go visit for a week or two, (repeat one more time if necessary to get to know her a little more) file fiancé visa to bring her back = problem solved. USCIS and other sources report a 20% divorce rate when going this route – sure beats the 1000% divorce rate when marrying the entitlement queens in America. Regarding the 20% divorce rate stat - Facts speak louder than opinions. Foreign Woman’s expectations arnt unrealistic and they are happy with whatever you have and whatever you do for them. As long as you are a good man and work (doesn’t matter what you make) they are extremely satisfied and happy. And hell, anyone check out POF international section? Notice how many professional ladies with masters and technical degrees there are? I saw many University professors and a few ladies with law degrees!! All kinds.You’ll be surprised what you can find outside the anglosphere. Just my 2 cents worth for guys who are at a dead end or simply don’t like what they see here as options.
A vialable option Mr. Itchybum, regarding the mail order bride. I've heard many good things about the program and non-Americanized foreign women in general. I say, why wait till you're old?
Ill explain why. Men will not go for a variety of reasons: skepticism, the arrogant belief that American women are the best the world has to offer, fear of the unknown, lack of funds, inability to travel alone, brainwashed by feminists that FW are greencard seeking golddiggers, and the list goes on and on.
The bottom line is WEAKNESS prevents most men from venturing out of the US to find good women. The men who do travel are hunters who exhibit the qualities that serve men well universally.
Also, Americans are scared of the outside world. Main stream media. The media pounds this theme into them 24x 7. They think the rest of the world is a 3rd World Shithole and that you will be shot for your wallet before you make it to your hotel room.
I think men are also programmed into believing this consumerist culture is 'the ideal' of the world. They ignorantly feel they are in the best place right where they are, despite the fact that any marriage they walk into here has a 50%-60% chance of ending in divorce. You may as well play russian roulette, you actually would have better odds.
The idea that women could be sweet, warm, nurturing and kind by nature is so completely outside the reality of the average man in the Anglosphere, you might as well be telling him that the Easter Bunny or Santa Claus really exists.
I read some stats about how in the US, most people don't even have their passports let alone traveled outside the US. To see is to believe, you can tell someone until you're blue in the face but if they could see it, then they would believe it.
People are so ignorant and fearful that they would rather die before taking the smallest risk. They spend so many money on houses, cars, and crap. They are all so indebted into their ears that is ridiculous. Yet they couldnt spend a few dollars on a life changing experiment. They are too lazy to do anything and rather continue rotting away into nothingness.
And thus the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 2/22/2012 12:27:40 AM | I think its funny when American women throw out the "you are so jaded card"... Im not Jaded, I am a realist. And there is a huge difference. Men that are jaded have no clue what the real world is. They live in a fairy tale idea of what they want to be true where a realist like myself has put in the time and effort and bases his life on statistical facts.
I always try to say things like "women in MY area" act this way. I know for a fact I would be better off moving to the coast, Oregon for example I would have better luck finding a woman to date. But I base my "opinion" on research and 6 years of getting to know both female friends and dating experiences. When I post something it is because of research, not being jaded. I could care less if someone likes me or finds me attractive. When I post something it is simply because I think people need to step up, get an outsiders look on things and hopefully I can help them not be so hard on themselves when it comes to dating. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2012 5:40:48 AM | | Too be frank and honest.I do not wake up brush with fluoride.I have many many woman friends,Casanova syndrome?No,woman in general,somte of the one I know are materialistic,but they do love sex.The occupy what ever movement shows there is hope.I am just happy being happy.One day.I will share my happyness with someone that I find attractive.Divide the earths people has worked well.I am awake | |
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Posted: 2/22/2012 5:47:14 AM | In answer to the question, yes I'd like to be married!
Also I'm from the UK, and I totally empathise with the comments made by Creativetomorrows!
Many women ask for a genuine good guy in their profile, so after I compose a decent intelligent first email what do I hear.............................absolutely nothing.
This probably happens at least 9 times out of 10, then with perhaps the 1 in 10 that do reply, within 10 messages they have disappeared never to be heard from again, no doubt distracted by the 50 other guys that emailed them that day!
Internet dating is certainly not what I expected, and I would never recommend it to anyone except as a last resort to meet anyone at all! | |
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