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 JoseMadre
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 901
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Yes. I loved being married and its end was not the choice of either of us so I don't have that bitter aftertaste that so many have. I look forward to being married again, but only to the right person (again).
 ElDudero
Joined: 8/19/2010
Msg: 902
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Posted: 2/26/2012 10:58:00 AM
In this and many cultures men have enjoyed power positions (generals, presidents, CEOs..ect.) for at least a century. Balance can only be off for so long before adjustments must be made. Recently the pendulum of sexual equality has swung to favor women and will continue to swing towards female empowerment for many years. A female can tell the judge or cop she is scared and have a male prosecuted. If a male tells the judge/cop he is scared, it won't carry the same weight. Chivalry, as a code of ethics, needs to be adopted and updated to apply to the modern females role in society. As our existence is limited to our physical atributes, men and women express their power differently. Physical limitations are rapidly changing with technology (transportation, communication), which levels the playing field. I pray for my sisters(and brothers) to figue it out and do the right thing.

Oh yeah.. Im not looking to marry. It is a dinosaur of an institution. A life partner would be nice, but I doubt mine is gona be from the USA.
Thanks- good luck
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 903
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Posted: 2/26/2012 7:22:30 PM
My sister is good looking and very fashionable met an average looking, average figure nice guy, she was not attrated to him at first, she did not feel the chemistry at first, then she decided to give him a chance to show him how to treat her good, they are happily married 3 years now. That should send a message to woman with high standards. If she can do it, all of you picky ladies can do it.
 dipstic
Joined: 2/10/2012
Msg: 904
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Posted: 2/27/2012 12:18:47 PM
In reply to leaf chick (a fellow canadian), Sure I want to find a SERIOUS relationship that will eventually lead to marriage but I realized a long time ago that's not going to happen in my hometown. So i'm looking for the right opportunity to get the heck out of here.
 ChadsFormerStandIn
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 905
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Posted: 2/29/2012 8:10:36 PM
Yes. I worked in the wedding industry for about 6 years. I have a good picture of all the things I'd like it to be, and I've definitely seen all the things you do NOT do. It will be a run wedding for sure. Now.......

Just need to find that person.
 Sugarshaner7
Joined: 1/31/2012
Msg: 906
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Posted: 2/29/2012 11:58:21 PM
ok. s o here is my take:

I am only speaking for myself, not the general population, because what makes the world great is that we are all our own selves.

I would definitely be willing to marry again and to commit to a long term relationship. But what my experience has taught me to this point in my life is that it will not be with just anyone. It will have to be someone who really floors me.

So part of understanding if that person is the right one is dating. And sometimes it looks good at the beginning only to display some descrepencies over time. And it is probably better for both parties if it ends there.

So bring on my dream bride lol
 jackfids
Joined: 9/18/2009
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Posted: 3/1/2012 3:43:02 AM
I'd remarry in a heartbeat IF I could find a Woman who was willing to spend more time with me, than she does looking in a mirror at herself or texting her"friends".
Ladies, your future is NOT in the Malls or on your cell phone AND if you want someone to love you completely you'll need to let go of your electronic pacifiers & SPEND SPEND SPEND mentality....you are NOT the clothes or make-up you put on, YOU are what you have learned & made of your life .
 DawnMarianne
Joined: 6/24/2010
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Posted: 3/1/2012 6:35:15 AM
so true what your saying it shouldn't be about the clothes the makeup the handbags ect......but then if you was to meet the right women it wouldn't be.
Be happy in who you are and you will attract the right man,be only interested in price tags which are nothing but a quick fix and that's the kind of man you will attract.
Unfortunately so many have met and been hurt by these kind of women that you come up against brick walls,this prob also goes for men looking for women........oh well time to shut up now hehehe x
 l021010
Joined: 4/19/2011
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Posted: 3/1/2012 4:56:37 PM
I would love to get married at this time, it just seems that it is hard to find someone on the same page as me when all I am looking for is someone to saved and acquire things together with. Most woman want men who are already established for the purpose of a security blanket. I am a single parent who's kids are now 21 and older and are ready to accept their own responsibilities. My financial responsibilities is beginning to get lighter and now in it is my time to settle down. I've done my job with my children now it's time to pour this love I Have on that special lady, any takers? Maybe ladies, your looking in the wrong places.
 blue-i-zzz
Joined: 1/14/2012
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Posted: 3/1/2012 5:32:53 PM
I have wondered the same thing.....every response i get, all they want is sex.... and my profile has nothing that would even indicate that is what i am here for...
 Howzil
Joined: 3/5/2011
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Posted: 3/2/2012 6:33:13 AM
Yes, I am looking to get married again.

As for the previous post about material gain. I disagree. It is about money and what you have. Try living without, then making the same statement. I don't mean the laughable rough times in College, I mean truly living without. If you cannot provide for the ones you love or are accepting into your world, then your not doing your part. Time to Cowboy up, and its never to late to do this. Never.

Romantically, yes, material wealth can go fly out the window.
Practically, no, we need it, want it, and I personally work my ass off to obtain what I want.

However, like you said, to each their own and back on topic.

I loved being married, I found though that I was better friends with me ex-wife than husband and wife. The team we had was awesome for awhile. I am a man that needs emotional stability in my life. Some support or an "adda boy" from time to time. I know the only way to get to their, is through marriage, so it scares me not.

I know there is someone out there in that will match me crazy for crazy, sanity for sanity and be the just opposite enough to attract, yet familiar enough for me to never want to let go.

If you read this today (you will know when you read this), please email. I have been waiting for you. If you do not read this today, that's ok, I can wait a bit longer. You are worth it.
 krimson_knyght
Joined: 11/24/2011
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Posted: 3/4/2012 10:13:00 AM


Isn't it ironic blue-i-zzz, women think men only want women for sex, and men think women only on want men for money and power!
 Scriv2012
Joined: 1/11/2012
Msg: 913
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Posted: 3/5/2012 9:52:25 PM
Absolutely! I loved being married and someday I hope I have the chance to do it again.
 ANTHETITIC
Joined: 3/1/2012
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Posted: 3/6/2012 2:19:30 PM
I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF WHICH INCLUDES THE ALOT OF WOMEN THAT I HAVE SPOKEN TO, DATED, AS WELL AS MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD THIS DISCUSSION WITH, IN MY OPINION MOST MEN OVER 35 WOULD LIKE TO GET MARRIED, ALTHOUGH MOST OF THEM ARE VERY SELECTIVE WHEN CHOOSING THE WOMAN TO MARRY AND KNOW THAT IT IS JUST AS MUCH A BUSINESS DECISION MORE SO THAN JUST A DECISION OUT OF LOVE. MOST GUYS I KNOW DO NOT HAVE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, BUT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THE TYPE OF WOMAN THAT IS FULLY COMMITTED AS OPPOSSED TO THE WOMAN THAT IS LONELY, FEELING TIME TICKING AGAINST HER AND JUST WANTS STABILITY. ALOT OF WOMEN THAT I HAVE ENCOUNTERED WANT TO GET MARRIED SO THEY CAN HAVE A WEDDING INSTEAD OF BEING FULLY COMMITTED TO A MARRIAGE AND COMPROMISING WHEN NEEDED, AND AS A RESULT OF THOSE WOMEN IN THE MID TO LATE THIRTIES AND OLDER THEY PUT UNREALISTIC TIME SCHEDULES & PRESSURE ON RELATIONSHIPS.
 JonJ9895
Joined: 11/26/2011
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Posted: 3/7/2012 5:56:44 AM
I THINK I WILL OPEN UP JENNY CRAIG ON THIS SITE. I WOULD MAKE A BILLION ON ALL THESE FAT WOMEN. A BETTER QUESTION IS IS THERE ANY WOMEN OVER 30 THAT WEIGH LESS THAN 200 LBS ON THIS SITE.
 KingofSnuggles
Joined: 5/17/2011
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Posted: 3/7/2012 2:21:10 PM
(since POF's stupid filters won't let you post a simple 1 words answer to a Yes or No question:


Yes
 loganjiang
Joined: 7/5/2011
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Posted: 3/7/2012 6:30:09 PM
I'm looking to get married. In my 20's all the girls I was interested in told me I'd make a great husband but they not looking for someone to marry. Now in my 30's where did all those girls go? Guess they went and got hitched without me. Oh well... I'd like to get married

Loneliness is the small death, I die at night without you.
Courage is the small voice that whispers in the dark, "Tomorrow I will search for you again."
Faith in this, is the strength of soul that will lead me to you.
 justice1974
Joined: 3/5/2012
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Posted: 3/10/2012 2:54:34 PM
I have recently come out of a very long relationship where the woman promised marriage and children and while it seems like I am going to blame her for all of it here I am not. I am taking some of this. I have never believed in sites like this before. However, I am willing to try this out. I do want to be married and want children as well. I am not in mood for whatever games I keep reading about. Maybe it is just me, but I think I have been out of the game for far too long to understand just what is actually going on.
 ToySoldier_Man
Joined: 2/3/2012
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Posted: 3/10/2012 11:15:15 PM
I suck as a Single Person... so I'm looking to get married with 2 years of meeting someone serious. I just started dating someone I think is a keeper... so we'll see.
 ScottBlack
Joined: 12/29/2010
Msg: 920
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Posted: 3/12/2012 5:51:20 PM
Never again. I'm all for long term relationships without government involvement.

I see marriage as simply a way to legally enslaved by a women with the penalty of losing half or more of my assets.
 michael10111
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 921
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Posted: 3/25/2012 9:27:13 AM
I have found your last statement to, be true with all the woman I have dated on here. Al they want to do is get laid until a better deal comes around. The last girl I met even introduced me to her kids .One being a little 3 year old girl who I was growing very attached to. Every time I came over the 3 year old would give me the biggest hugs. But the mother wanted a richer man so she dumped my ass. All she wanted was a better deal.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 922
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Posted: 3/26/2012 9:07:25 AM
Never been married. Would do it if I was 90, as long as its with the right person.
I wasnt aware that there was an age limit, or that at 35 you were considered un-marriagable.

Or is this another one of those weird strict Christian religious things? Because I'm warning you guys, I'm a Catholic, by definition the most evil of the Christian branches, so you can't "Bigot" me at all, I'm untouchable....lol.

Anyways, love is what matters. Girl I marry will think the same. I hope. If she's not dead. Or only in my imagination.
 TheBard101
Joined: 3/22/2011
Msg: 923
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Posted: 3/27/2012 1:34:28 AM
Yes. Though it seems women are expecting to find a long term relationship in the first half dozen text messages.

Never been married. Have no children. Can't seem to get any responses. Are women really looking for men to be with long term? Or are they looking for someone to "take care" of them long term?
 back at it again
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 924
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Posted: 3/28/2012 10:39:33 AM
I to enjoyed being married, I think I miss the being married part more then the person I was with. Now single and looking again I do want to find the one that I will love again and get married to. Im not afraid to do it I know im awesome as a single guy but no amount of Kryptonite can stop me when Im married! lol Now if I only didnt live where there was only 3 interesting women in 75 miles.......
 ToySoldier_Man
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 925
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Posted: 3/28/2012 11:49:28 AM

MEN .... I'm just curious! Are any of you on here SERIOUSLY looking for a long term relationship with hopes of it leading to marriage?


Not only was I looking at the age of 43 but the woman I'm currently seeing wants to have a baby to which I am more than happy to have.
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