kja71
| | Joined: 12/21/2011 Msg: 976 | |
| | Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?Page 40 of 43 (3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43) | | cd----I'm a woman and I feel exactly the same way. I have no desire to ever go down that road again...Doesn't mean I don't want to be with anyone, just means that I don't need to be married to be. It would be nice to love someone again, but I'm in no hurry for that either. | |
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Leezus
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/17/2012 6:54:06 PM | | Am I the only divorced person on earth that isn't filled with fear and anger??? Not saying I'm jumping at the 1st chance I get to re-marry, but the last one wasn't that bad. It just ran its coarse and had to end. I think I could still find the heart to start a family. To be honest I want a son to take my place when I'm gone. I have tons of stuff I could teach. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/17/2012 8:31:07 PM | Hello there, Yes there is and I am one of them! I want us to live together, work together, make money together and lots of it, enjoy our lives together and go through the ups and downs together. Is that too much to ask for??.. I would also like someone to berry me when I am dead! That is what I call a life long partner and that is what I want. If there is anyone serious enough out there to contact me AND speak to me on the phone to work out our lives, then do it! It is no use at all thinking about, that does not get you anyehere. DOING is one of the keys to success.
I am 52, educated, debt free, kind, active and straight to the point. I will be attending Uni; next year to do a four year course. If you would like to contact me.. go to my profile and leave a message. No Time wasters, No facial piercings, No tattoos, No idiots! Thank-you from.. dave | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/17/2012 8:32:03 PM | I can only speak for myself but this is why i chose "is looking for a relationship.".
out of the options given... i could either chose "dating but nothing serious" or "is looking for a relationship". (the rest are a mile off). The 1st can come across like your only after a one night stand to many and the latter is more appropriate but i would say im somewhere in the middle.... something like "dates...open to relationship posibility with right person"..... but as its not there i had to make do.
I think the options supplied are too black and white. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/20/2012 9:55:13 PM | | I have been looking for my wife as long as I can remember. I may be an odd ball but I have never understood why people, not just men mess around. So to answer your question, yes. I am a man looking for a relationship that leads to marriage. There are many of us. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/21/2012 12:24:17 PM | The message you are replying to: Posted By: oldfriend41 on 5/7/2012 7 52 PM Subject: Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Message: I'm just divorced....married again! I'd really need to think long and hard about that....Live together yes! stay true to each other yes! Marriage.....have to really think about that. Well have a cake a eat it to it doesn't work like that of a girl is gf enough to clean cook n sleep with u in same bed every night she should be good enough to marry | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/21/2012 12:51:10 PM | Why are we still talking about threads created in 2006 by users that don't even exist anymore?
Stale. Time for fresh new threads please...
Let's not delete every new thread that comes along. :) | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/2/2012 12:04:22 PM | The message you are replying to: Posted By: catheryn031980 on 5/7/2012 8 36 PM Subject: Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Message: Hell. I am trying to find one that is actually divorced. 2 people in the same day messaged me who are separated. Sorry guys if it ain't final I am not interested.
Yep happend to me. Profile said open/ undecided about having kids n he was " fixed" said divorced n I found it out in bedroom that they were just separated and had lot of toghether stuff thanks god before anything happend | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/2/2012 12:28:35 PM |
Well have a cake a eat it to it doesn't work like that of a girl is gf enough to clean cook n sleep with u in same bed every night she should be good enough to marry Actually it works quite nicely like that. I thought the days when women viewed themselves as chattels of varying degrees of worth (the highest being one who is married to a man) were long over. | |
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rdsxn8
| | Joined: 7/26/2010 Msg: 989 | |
| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/9/2012 9:54:22 AM | | I can say honestly I have never been like that I have always looked for a LTR. It seems that women I am with are looking for the other part (Till something better comes along). I guess some day someone will get the picture because women can have the same agenda. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/13/2012 8:37:33 AM | I'm 34 will be 35 later this year with that said i'm single ecause i choose to be but this is my first time on this site. Its my intention in making new friends as for any relationship to last it can't last if both parties can't survive as friends. Yes sex is on my mind but its not my focus when i meet a woman. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/17/2012 8:30:00 AM | | 100% serious. All I know are successful marriages. My parents have been married for over 40 years and still act like teenagers in love. I know relationships and marriages aren't perfect but if both want to make it work then it will work. I want what my parents, uncles, aunts, and cousins all have. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/17/2012 10:09:50 AM | | I find most people that actually label what they are looking for, do not know what they want their self s...I try to stray from restrictions and labels, as events can change quicker than some people may think... | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 6/20/2012 6:34:02 AM | | Wow, this is one LONG thread. Anyhow, yes, I am seriously seeking marriage. Finding a mate seems to get harder the older I get but yes, I am still waiting to meet my future bride, if she exists. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 7/6/2012 2:13:59 PM | I totaly agree with you! These days dating is just a high speed race.Go out , date , next day another one.The one who's cute the guy keeps her number and calls her everytime he wants to get some action or he's just bored alone at home. Why is it normal to have a lot of crushes on more women and change them every day? In the old days whenn a man found a woman that he like he started chasing her and only her , not 10 at a time. In my opinion and experience , men over 35 are mostly players, used to the big league game and they will never settle down with one even if they find her .It's like with savage animals : once they taste rough meat ...they never enjoy the coked one the same :( Even if they settle at first...after awhile they will start looking for the excitement and the lust of hunting. But that's my opinion boys and girls :) | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 7/7/2012 11:48:24 AM | | Sweetheart times have changed, its like karma. If you pay attention you'll find that it is the men that regret things of the past or simply see things from a better prospective. To answer your question, Yes! Their are men seriously looking to get married.... what women feel, men also feel especially when balance has been thrown off with same sexton relations. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 7/7/2012 12:04:51 PM | | Sorry I don't share the same opinion, it could just be that men or that specific guy is waiting for you to give him a reason to go all out ( so to speak) . Remember that feeling? As for me sure I have had crushes, at times I had to protect my heart and let it go ..... other times I have met several women and felt that I would be lucky or blessed to have just one of them, I truely would have a tough time being the bachelor on Tv. | |
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| Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 7/9/2012 2:23:42 PM |
Curious, so how long is long term to you.. 30, 40, 50 years? And here I was thinking long term was more than a year. I guess I don't understand men after all.
Although I highly doubt if Leafchick is still here...
Long term = Till the day one of us is dead. After a momentary lapse of reason and breaking it off with a great girl in 1994ish, I decided that never again would I break it off, unless she was batsh!t crazy. Unfortunately, finding "great" or even "OK" again has been a challenge. Becoming a husband was the happiest day of my life. Loosing my wife to an affair and getting divorced was the worst six months. Seven years is a blink of an eye. A temporary condition. | |
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