| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:20:26 AM | "Sex, sex, sex. That's all they think about" ~ Monty Python, The life of Brian.
I was with a girl when I was in college that I still think about to this day. She was awesome. When we started dating, sex was the last thing on my mind as far as she was concerned. She was that incredible. Just being with her was... awe hell I can't describe it.
We went out for a month and I was a complete gentleman. No way I was going to screw that up. Then one night she jumped me. Later she explained that she waited because she wanted to make sure that I was with her because I wanted to be with her, and not because I was hoping to score.
We were a couple for the rest of the year (her freshman year, my senior). | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 5/13/2006 4:51:53 AM | >They don't like classical music is a deal breaker for you ? I'm beginning to see the problem here .
Perhaps you haven't noticed, but there are Classical music concerts at every major music hall in every major city in the world. I've gone to a few, just have not yet seen anyone looking for someone. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/2/2006 12:13:11 PM | I am ...23 and am still a virgin.I don't have a boyfriend,because am already scared how am gona tell him this.I had many options to go out,but i rejected all of them I am just scared,and another thing am religious,so its also the main reason,i want to have sex after marrige,but am not sure if any man would like to wait | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:35:39 PM | As another virgin I just have to say that at my age of twenty nine, it has become more of a hinderance thaan I would like. Almost lost my virginity Monday to a guy I absolutely adored. Told him I was a virgin, maybe at the wrong time, he kicked me out of bed and told me to screw a few guys and come back. Long story short, tired if being a virgin. Here to find a no strings way to lose my virginity. Have some great offers. No need to message me to tell me not to because I have already had that conversation.
I think it is a personal choice. To the virgins who can keep a hold of it good for you, but I am tired of looking for my prince. I'll settle for a frog. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:42:49 PM | sadvirgin....good luck sweety...I hope you find a guy that has the gentleness to give you a positive and pleasurable experience.
Wow! That is some tattoo you have on your back!! Must have taken a long time to do, and hurt like crazy! | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/3/2006 2:20:16 AM |
I am ...23 and am still a virgin.I don't have a boyfriend,because am already scared how am gona tell him this.I had many options to go out,but i rejected all of them I am just scared,and another thing am religious,so its also the main reason,i want to have sex after marrige,but am not sure if any man would like to wait
You'd be surprised!!! I'm 42 and still waiting!!! | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/3/2006 2:23:45 AM | being a virgin is cool , I'm not one but these days I might as well be!
whatever your reasons , when the time is right you'll know it and I hope the person is worthy! | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/3/2006 3:46:43 AM |
As another virgin I just have to say that at my age of twenty nine, it has become more of a hinderance thaan I would like. Almost lost my virginity Monday to a guy I absolutely adored. Told him I was a virgin, maybe at the wrong time, he kicked me out of bed and told me to screw a few guys and come back. Long story short, tired if being a virgin. Here to find a no strings way to lose my virginity. Have some great offers. No need to message me to tell me not to because I have already had that conversation.
I think it is a personal choice. To the virgins who can keep a hold of it good for you, but I am tired of looking for my prince. I'll settle for a frog.
Thats pretty sad you feel that way sadvirgin. I think it only shows how shallow and twisted our society has become and the peer pressure all around us. Im a virgin as well and I bear no shame for it. Like kissame and a few others, I was concentrated on my career in order to better myself and didn't wont to be bogged down with relationships and basically brushed off the women that approached me, which has not turned out as well as I had hoped, though Im continuing to work on that too. (And the cycle continues) I also had some childhood issues to deal with as well, but..as time grew, it became harder to get out and meet girls.
I've talked to a few other guys now online and thier like, dude!, go find a hooker! I don't won't an empty experience though. I'd like to find someone that shares my interests, aspirations and moral convictions. If there is one thing that is in short supply now these days, it is moral convictions. It seems we have become a fast food society where if it doesn't work, quit and go try something else. Or maybe my views are too old fashion. This will probably cut me out of the loop of many a womens eyes, but I'd like to find someone that doesn't look at how sexually experienced a guy is. I mean, it can be learned, and what better way than with someone you love wherein the foundation isn't based only on that along? | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/4/2006 8:41:04 AM | Yeah, I am a virign. I had a relationship, but it didn't work out. Now I find that people with less of everything (looks, personality, money, education, housing) have more relationships than I do. Strangely, I could tell someone I was a virgin and they wouldn't believe me.
i always thought I would have the other perosn tested before things got serious, but I realize it is not practical. Strangely, peopl are really scared of STDs and come close to blaming me for things (Down Low men, AIDs, STDs). I was even accused of being gay. WTF?
I trust certain people, but I have to look really far for them. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/4/2006 10:08:14 AM | Wow, see now I don't feel so weird....I was 25 when I have away my goodies and thank God it was to someone I loved and had been in a serious relationship with for years. But we waited and he never pressured me...I never anticipated the whole candles and flowers scenario. It happened in the most natural and normal circumstances....we went out, we had a good time, had a few drinks, came home ordered pizza and when it happened it just did.....LOL
Sadvirgin: I had some of the same responses from guys, they basically wanted me to whore myself out before they would think of going there with me.....I looked at them and thought to myself, geez what the hell did I ever see in you to begin with. The right person will come and when he does, he will not ask you to give yourself away to someone because he is not man enough to handle business......
Op: At 25 I had dated a lot of guys, went to school and worked four part-time jobs while finishing college....it's not that I didn't have the time to have sex or didn't have offers coming at me from every angle. I just chose to wait until I was someone who deserved to have that part of me. Trust is a very big thing and in order to give your body to someone you have to trust them love will come after. The right person will come...just take your time and get to know them and everything else will fall into place when the time is right.
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/9/2006 1:10:48 PM | | What amazes me is how if you're a virgin people immediatly label you as weird or abnormal yet people who have slept around are considered normal and well adjusted. I've known people who are very sexually active and I wouldnt exactly call them well adjusted. In fact some of them are the kind of people I'd want nothing to do with. I have alot of respect for people who still have morals because we live in a society filled with so much smut it's unbelievable and it takes a pretty strong person to be able to withstand all that and still maintain a sense or morality since everywhere you look sex is being shoved down your throat. I bet they're so many people out there who lost their virginity due to preasure whether it was from the media or their friends. Society preasure people to do stupid crap all the time. which is probably why we have things like STDs and unwanted pregnancies running rampant. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/9/2006 1:16:36 PM | Funny thing
go to
www.dontdatehimgirl.com
or
ww.womansavers.com
I looked in my area for cheaters under 23. And I found many High School Dropouts. the choices of women in my area are very suprising to me since I am in my junior year of college. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/9/2006 1:25:32 PM | I am a virgin and I'm proud to be one.It's not due to religious reasons and its not because I have not been asked.It's because I value myself too much just to give it to anybody that hits on me.If someone thinks I'm weird, then so be it.I'm not the type who cares about what people think anyway.
~*Flavia*~ | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/9/2006 1:30:47 PM | ^^^Oh Knox....have you not seen 14 year olds getting pregnant????Or those middle school kids thinking oral sex is fine...heck thinking even sex is fine at that age.They are not old enough to drink either.So you can quit attacking me with your sarcasm.Besides if you already do not know, people under 21 do drink, not everyone follows the law.
~*Flavia*~ | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/9/2006 2:11:40 PM | | I'm a college student as well On my way to getting a good career. It amazes me how the guys who are deemed as "ladies men" are total lowlifes my roomate had a new girl in his room everynight. this guy flunked out of 2 college courses and dropped out if school apparently he only went to college to party. I went to college to get a career. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:52:56 AM | What kind of work are you adicted to.
- Are you some lackey for a boss. A lackey who could be replaced tomaorrow if she walked under a bus. Or who could take a day off sick and it wouldn't be noticed untill the acccountant noticed that the sick forms didn't mactch the dovtors certificates.
Or are you a little more like Nobel Prize winner Babs McClintof who cracked the secret to jumping genes a little after Watson and Crick cracked the double helix code in the first place. She never regreted her choices and the extra time she put into her research. | |
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| Still a virgin or are you scared?
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:55:21 AM | I am just scared,and another thing am religious,so its also the main reason,i want to have sex after marrige,but am not sure if any man would like to wait
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I have a far more serious question Medelienia
After marriage you will be exected to have sex on a reasonably regular basis. Are you sure you will enjoy it????? | |
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